#whyaremen — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #whyaremen, aggregated by home.social.
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Incels and tradwives are so annoying. This is how it really was.
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#Today I sat in a meeting where the ONLY man in the room (and also the only non-recruiter) spent 90 minutes lecturing a room of 10+ year recruiting veteran #women on how to write a job description and read a resume.
Is it Fall of the #Patriarchy season yet?
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I just got a message on Fetlife telling me "you have a very tidy looking pussy"..
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Thanks, I get a guy in to do repairs and the cleaners come once a week..?
#Men #WhyAreMen #WhatEven #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #Fetlife
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You're in her DMs?
Well, I *am* her DM - roll for initiative.
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Men who message me every month "still with the boyfriend?" and don't say anything in between:
1. yes
2. im non-monogamous
3. you still have no chance -
Oh. My. God. The AUDACITY
I have no idea who this person is, other than the clue in their contact name
I don't even know how to respond!
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I'm so glad that you, a man, has come to my posts to explain to me, a criminal justice student with 30 years experience in prison and police abolition, how the US death penalty works.
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A common thread in the way men discuss things here is levelling the charge of "misunderstanding" at someone (who, from what I've seen is invariably not a man). There's this assumption that their ability to comprehend something is inherently correct and if they don't easily understand a point being made they won't struggle to think it through, they just decide its a problem with the writer.
Babe, that struggle is where the learning and discovery lie.
Me:
I think you're wrong because [evidence]
Him:
You misunderstand.. [repeats same thing ad nauseum without evidence]..or..
Me:
[posts]
Him:
WHAT YOU HAVE POSTED IS CONFUSED
Me:
You mean it's confused YOU?
Him:
NO, IT IS A CONFUSED POST
Me:
You mean YOU find it confusing?
Him:
NO IT IS CONFUSED AND ILLOGICAL WITH YOUR SILLY GIRL WORDS -
I'm seriously considering adding "no cis men comments" to all of my posts because I'm fucking DONE with the mansplaining here.
It's worse than anywhere else I've ever encountered.
I wish you could make posts so that they could be responded to by people who aren't men.
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I don't understand cis men.
I clearly state on my Fetlife profile that I'm not interested in talking with people who work in policing, military, security, etc.
But they message me anyway so when I ask them if they work in those sectors and they say yes, I tell them that I'm not interested.
They get all offended - "you're shallow for judging someone based on their work! " (as though they don't judge someone based on their body size and defend it as "just a preference"..
And when I insist that I'm not interested, they keep messaging me.
Like dude, my guy, I said I'm not interested.
I'm so uninterested that I specify my disinterest on my profile.
Do you think that haranguing me for the next 3 hours is going to reify my disinterest or make me decide I definitely AM interested after all and beg you to fuck me?
Because I know which it will do...
#Men #WhyAreMen #Dating #Fetlife #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive
