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Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

A guy from Fetlife has found my VANILLA insta.. which is fine. I don't feel any sort of way about it.

BUT.

He's commented on one of my (once again..) VANILLA pictures. It's just a picture of my face, but he's made sexual comments about wanting to see where "all" my piercings are. It's fucking creepy to make sexual comments on non-sexual pictures without consent.

He's then commented again, asking me if I'm going to be attending either of the munches being held at [pub name] on [date] or [other date]. He specifically mentions they're Fetlife events.

This is not only outing me on a public platform, but it also tells everyone where I might physically be on these two dates.

This is potentially putting me in very real danger. But I'm sure he'd insist that he's a nice guy.

It's not good enough, guys.

Fucking do better.

_____
* yes, I am personally "out", but he doesn't know that.

** I don't attend in person events, so I won't be going to either of these munches, but again.. he doesn't know that.

#Men #Sexism #mansplaining #ToxicMasculinity #safety #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

I just saw the most wholesome post in a FemDom group on Fetlife!

A submissive in Sydney who is a qualified air conditioning technician, offering to fix or service air conditioning units so that people are more comfortable in this weather. He's offering it no-strings-attached because he just wants to be useful and doesn't want people to be uncomfortable.

Bless him!

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife #kindness

What I didn't need this morning was to try and compassionately explain to someone why referring to their submissive as "my little autistic meltdown machine" is pretty fucking gross.

Especially when they're not autistic, and the people they're asking advice from are.

#audhd #autism #adhd #disability #neurodiverse #ableism #disabled #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

An Overview of Munches in the BDSM and Fetish Communities https://maramenoci.com/an-overview-of-munches-in-the-bdsm-and-fetish-communities/

#BDSM #fetish #munch #kinkcommunity #submissive #dominant #fetlife #bdsmcommunity #kink #financialdomination #findom #domme #slave #kinkeducation #bdsm101 #fetishlife #powerexchange #consent #kinkfriendly #bdsmfun #fetishculture #munchlife #kinkevents #bdsmplay #findomme #domination #subspace #fetishworld #bdsmfamily #kinksters #fetishparty

Super (souper) tempted to make a Fetlife profile that's just pictures of ramen and hand-made noodle dishes, etc.

ShowMeYourNoods

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

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Honestly, as far as kinksters go.. Swingers have to be some of the most whingey little babies I've ever met.

I'm constantly getting messages from swingers complaining that there are no events for them to attend, and when I point out that there are monthly munches they are welcome to attend they complain that it's a kink munch.

Dude, it's Bathurst - the selection pool is small.

Firstly, swinging is a kink. Secondly, if you're not interested in going to the event and you're not bothered to start your own, don't message a complete stranger and about something not being tailor made for you and your dick.

This is exactly why I stopped organising.

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife #dating #swinging

I'm leaving #OkCupid today, most likely forever. I've had multiple matches on this platform, but only two of them became intimate.

This is abysmal.

I'm much more successful on #Feeld and #FetLife, and I have the same success rate on OkCupid as I do on #KinkD.

(KinkD is abysmal, but I don't pay for it, and do not feel the need to pay for it. Not paying for OkCupid is unthinkable. It would ignore my dealbreakers, and I'd get inundated by meaningless likes.)

#dating #DatingApps

I just got a message on Fetlife telling me "you have a very tidy looking pussy"..

...

...

Thanks, I get a guy in to do repairs and the cleaners come once a week..?

#Men #WhyAreMen #WhatEven #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #Fetlife

Kinky thought of the Day 🤔

To get way more attention, I'm changing my name to "Leather - Tailor Swift"

#TaylorSwift #KinkyThoughtOfTheDay #wearefetish #BLUF #Gay #gayporn #leather #fetlife #pupboner #bluf2663

Who else is HELLBENT for leather?

⬛🟦⬛🟦❤️🟦⬛🟦⬛

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2c-6UVs83u/?igsh=MWNjb3VrcTAxcnZwMA==

#gaymastodon #woofgroup #fetlife #BLUF #Gear365 #WeAreFetish #TF #reconfetish #gay #gayleather #leathercop #gayporn #gayfetish #jff #of #ootd

@blufclub @leatherarchives @fetlife @GearBlastUK

🌹CAL Rider aka Charles Abel Lear🏍️ 🌟
(March 16 1980 - November 6 2019)

Hard to believe it's 4 years ago since you left, Gone but never ever ever forgotten.
Leather filled hugs n tugs forever.

https://youtu.be/71lWMM55VbU

#NoFearInGear #Gear365 #CALRider #RIP #BLUF #GayLeather #Gay #Fetlife #RECONfetish

I don't understand cis men.

I clearly state on my Fetlife profile that I'm not interested in talking with people who work in policing, military, security, etc.

But they message me anyway so when I ask them if they work in those sectors and they say yes, I tell them that I'm not interested.

They get all offended - "you're shallow for judging someone based on their work! " (as though they don't judge someone based on their body size and defend it as "just a preference"..

And when I insist that I'm not interested, they keep messaging me.

Like dude, my guy, I said I'm not interested.

I'm so uninterested that I specify my disinterest on my profile.

Do you think that haranguing me for the next 3 hours is going to reify my disinterest or make me decide I definitely AM interested after all and beg you to fuck me?

Because I know which it will do...

#Men #WhyAreMen #Dating #Fetlife #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

I'll never understand men.

Some guy on Fetlife posted about a week ago, looking for someone to meet up for a NSA play date. He specified that he was looking for something "discreet".

I asked what he meant by discreet, and some other guy popped up in response and defined the word "discreet" for me.

I explained that I know what the word means, but some people use it to mean "I'm married and cheating", whereas others use it to mean "I'm an early childhood teacher in a small town and I don't want people knowing that I like being pegged".. and I'm wondering which way the OP is using it here.

Well, that comment has sat in the thread for weeks, and suddenly today the guy decided he had to respond by screaming at me because it's none of my business if the OP is married because I have no interest meeting people and I just want to chastise the OP for his choices.

I'm like... what..?

Like, not only have I met people from Fetlife in person before, it's something I have done a lot. I've also run munches and events in my area for 15+ years. I regularly have other organisers reach out to me to "vet" people before being allowed to go to their events too.

I was literally asking because I have room on my dance card for a play mate, but I don't help men cheat.

I don't even know this guy who was yelling about me (again, it wasn't the OP who was yelling).. he's been on my friends list for a while and has "loved" some of my pictures, but that doesn't mean anything because I add anyone who requests on Fetlife.

I've never actually interacted with him in DM or in threads.

Men are so weird.

#DatingSites #Fetlife #BDSM #DS #kink

Are you 19 to 35 and interested in #kink ?

Come join us for a #potluck #picnic on 9/30, https://fetlife.com/events/1335582

#kinky #freaky #RSVP #FetLife #BDSM #bondage #adult #rope #Leather #millennials #Columbus #Ohio #cbus #CentralOhio #ColumbusOH #FemDom #GenZ #Friday #FridayVibes

That moment you invite a submissive rubber drone to kneel before you, opens its mouth to take your throbbing cock with the steel 00ga PA, skull fuck him till you load him up on your manjuice, then you just walk away satisfied.

Who's next?🙋🏻‍♂️

#WetDreams #fetlife #RubberGimp #gay #gaymastodon #hornyAF

"We are born naked and the rest is drag." RuPaul🦄
⭐https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMYdUQvWJ/⭐

#TeamVers #nsfw #superman #TomOfFinland #LeatherSling #Humanpup #pupBoner #BLUF #gear365 #recon #scruff #growlr #gaymastodon #gaybdsm #gayrubber #fetlife #OnlyFans #jff #LeatherGayMan #MuirCap #GayPorn #Batman #GayBDSM #CumSlut #GayIrish #GayChastity #Gay #NoFearInGear #WeAreFetish #RuPaul

Dominance isn't shouts and demands, it's a hand at the small of your back and whispered words that make your head spin.

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Being a submissive has never been about being powerless.
It is about the conscious decision to gift that power to the person you deem most worthy of it.

#TeamVers #nsfw #superman #TomOfFinland #LeatherSling #Humanpup #pupBoner #BLUF #gear365 #recon #scruff #growlr #gaymastodon #gaybdsm #gayrubber #fetlife #OnlyFans #jff #LeatherGayMan #MuirCap #GayPorn #Batman #GayBDSM #CumSlut #GayIrish #HumpOfTheWeek #HumpDay #GayChastity #Gay #NoFearInGear #WeAreFetish #GaySwitch #Submissive #GayPorn

I'm a mod/admin in a bunch of #Fetlife #kink groups, and dear lord it's like breaking up a fight in a creche at times.

And it's always the fucking #dominants.

I just want send them all to the naughty corner for a time out.

I'm a mod/admin in a bunch of #Fetlife #kink groups, and dear lord it's like breaking up a fight in a creche at times.

And it's always the fucking #dominants.

I just want send them all to the naughty corner for a time out.

I'm a mod/admin in a bunch of #Fetlife #kink groups, and dear lord it's like breaking up a fight in a creche at times.

And it's always the fucking #dominants.

I just want send them all to the naughty corner for a time out.

I'm a mod/admin in a bunch of #Fetlife #kink groups, and dear lord it's like breaking up a fight in a creche at times.

And it's always the fucking #dominants.

I just want send them all to the naughty corner for a time out.

I'm a mod/admin in a bunch of #Fetlife #kink groups, and dear lord it's like breaking up a fight in a creche at times.

And it's always the fucking #dominants.

I just want send them all to the naughty corner for a time out.

Certainly, when incased in full rubber coverage either shiny or matt, that kink pulse that courses through you.

Transforms you into the rubber gimp you deserve to be, add to it a rubber gas mask, rubber waders and I spontaneously explode with hornyness. 🌚😈

I once wore a full blue rubber #BLUF outfit in #Manchester that I borrowed from a friend #GayRubber #RubberMen #RubberGimp #GayLatex #Fetlife #RubberSocial

My New Years resolution is to be the slutiest kinkiest gay every day of 2023 that I can be.

#newyearsresolution #Gear365 #promise #GayMastodon #pupBoner #FetishPride #Fetlife #Recon #BLUF #jff #OnlyFans #Gay #GayPorn #selfie

I do hope your Friday is going as well as mine is.

#bluf25 #Fetlife #kink #gay

Showing you my big fat erect COCK & my really hungry ASS. 🤔

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Men, What is it you truly desire?

#GayFetish #GayKink #GearFetish #Recon #Scruff #Fetlife #Gear365 #GaySwitch #MasterDom #Gay #ngl #tf #BLUF