#fetlife — Public Fediverse posts

It started with someone on Fetlife asking "what does everyone think about punishment?", and when I said I didn't do punishment dynamics they declared "then this thread isn't for you!".

It continued with posting a conversation prompt in the singles group I admin, asking "what's one lesson you wish you'd learned earlier?", and seeing person after person answer by simply saying "yes".

And it's ending with a headline that reads "Remigrate Illegal Visa Holders" (if someone has a visa, they're not illegal...)

I'm fucking DONE with the internet today. Burn it down.

#SocialMedia #Facebook #FacebookGroups #fetlife #journalism #MediaLiteracyCrisis

It started with someone on Fetlife asking "what does everyone think about punishment?", and when I said I didn't do punishment dynamics they declared "then this thread isn't for you!".

It continued with posting a conversation prompt in the singles group I admin, asking "what's one lesson you wish you'd learned earlier?", and seeing person after person answer by simply saying "yes".

And it's ending with a headline that reads "Remigrate Illegal Visa Holders" (if someone has a visa, they're not illegal...)

I'm fucking DONE with the internet today. Burn it down.

#SocialMedia #Facebook #FacebookGroups #fetlife #journalism #MediaLiteracyCrisis

It started with someone on Fetlife asking "what does everyone think about punishment?", and when I said I didn't do punishment dynamics they declared "then this thread isn't for you!".

It continued with posting a conversation prompt in the singles group I admin, asking "what's one lesson you wish you'd learned earlier?", and seeing person after person answer by simply saying "yes".

And it's ending with a headline that reads "Remigrate Illegal Visa Holders" (if someone has a visa, they're not illegal...)

I'm fucking DONE with the internet today. Burn it down.

#SocialMedia #Facebook #FacebookGroups #fetlife #journalism #MediaLiteracyCrisis

It started with someone on Fetlife asking "what does everyone think about punishment?", and when I said I didn't do punishment dynamics they declared "then this thread isn't for you!".

It continued with posting a conversation prompt in the singles group I admin, asking "what's one lesson you wish you'd learned earlier?", and seeing person after person answer by simply saying "yes".

And it's ending with a headline that reads "Remigrate Illegal Visa Holders" (if someone has a visa, they're not illegal...)

I'm fucking DONE with the internet today. Burn it down.

#SocialMedia #Facebook #FacebookGroups #fetlife #journalism #MediaLiteracyCrisis

It started with someone on Fetlife asking "what does everyone think about punishment?", and when I said I didn't do punishment dynamics they declared "then this thread isn't for you!".

It continued with posting a conversation prompt in the singles group I admin, asking "what's one lesson you wish you'd learned earlier?", and seeing person after person answer by simply saying "yes".

And it's ending with a headline that reads "Remigrate Illegal Visa Holders" (if someone has a visa, they're not illegal...)

I'm fucking DONE with the internet today. Burn it down.

#SocialMedia #Facebook #FacebookGroups #fetlife #journalism #MediaLiteracyCrisis

The number of men who ask Fetlife groups for advice on why they're not getting any interest in their profiles, who then throw a big old tanty when they get that advice.

#fetlife #Men #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

The number of men who ask Fetlife groups for advice on why they're not getting any interest in their profiles, who then throw a big old tanty when they get that advice.

#fetlife #Men #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

The number of men who ask Fetlife groups for advice on why they're not getting any interest in their profiles, who then throw a big old tanty when they get that advice.

#fetlife #Men #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

The number of men who ask Fetlife groups for advice on why they're not getting any interest in their profiles, who then throw a big old tanty when they get that advice.

#fetlife #Men #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

The number of men who ask Fetlife groups for advice on why they're not getting any interest in their profiles, who then throw a big old tanty when they get that advice.

#fetlife #Men #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive

Thank you to everyone who shares their thoughts, creativity, vulnerability, and experiences here. I'm working on being a better member of this community.

#fetlife #apology #kink #porn

I'm not posting this because I expect forgiveness or reassurance. I simply wanted to acknowledge it, take responsibility for it, and let people know that I'm changing how I engage here.

From now on, I want to be more deliberate. If I like something, it'll be because I've taken the time to appreciate it. I also want to spend more time reading, commenting thoughtfully, and engaging with people rather than simply consuming what appears in my feed.

#fetlife #apology #kink #porn

or considering what I actually appreciated about the post.

Looking back, I don't think that was a very intentional or respectful way to participate in a community built around real people sharing parts of themselves. A "like" should mean something, and mine had become almost automatic.

#fetlife #apology #kink #porn

Over the last little while, I've been doing some honest reflection about how I've been using FetLife, and I owe the people in my feed an apology.

I've realised that I slipped into treating FetLife more like a kink and porn dispenser than a community. I was automatically liking almost every post containing nudity or kink, often within moments of it being posted, without really slowing down to engage with the person behind it

#fetlife #apology #kink #porn

Not lonely enough.

#fetlife #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fat #fatness #FatTGNC

Not lonely enough.

#fetlife #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fat #fatness #FatTGNC

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

Exophilia: A Fetish for Extraterrestrials https://maramenoci.com/exophilia-a-fetish-for-extraterrestrials/

#exophilia #fetish #extraterrestrial #alienfetish #bdsm #findom #domination #fetlife #kink #spacekink #alienlover #fetcommunity #exokink #financialdom #extraterrestrials #fetishlife #fetishworld #bdsmcommunity #kinklife #exophiliakink #fetishfun #alienfantasy #domme #fetishplay #findomme #alienfantasies #bdsmfetish #extraterrestrialkink #fetishaddict #alienlove #kinkcommunity

https://iwantclips.com/store/1857333/GoddessEuphoria/6266061/LITTLE-DICK-ARENT-FOR-PUSSY-SPH-by-a-Goddess

#sph #littledick #content #creator #ebony #goddess #worship #temptress #twitter #x #nsfw #femdom #domme #fetlife

A guy from Fetlife has found my VANILLA insta.. which is fine. I don't feel any sort of way about it.

BUT.

He's commented on one of my (once again..) VANILLA pictures. It's just a picture of my face, but he's made sexual comments about wanting to see where "all" my piercings are. It's fucking creepy to make sexual comments on non-sexual pictures without consent.

He's then commented again, asking me if I'm going to be attending either of the munches being held at [pub name] on [date] or [other date]. He specifically mentions they're Fetlife events.

This is not only outing me on a public platform, but it also tells everyone where I might physically be on these two dates.

This is potentially putting me in very real danger. But I'm sure he'd insist that he's a nice guy.

It's not good enough, guys.

Fucking do better.

_____
* yes, I am personally "out", but he doesn't know that.

** I don't attend in person events, so I won't be going to either of these munches, but again.. he doesn't know that.

#Men #Sexism #mansplaining #ToxicMasculinity #safety #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

A guy from Fetlife has found my VANILLA insta.. which is fine. I don't feel any sort of way about it.

BUT.

He's commented on one of my (once again..) VANILLA pictures. It's just a picture of my face, but he's made sexual comments about wanting to see where "all" my piercings are. It's fucking creepy to make sexual comments on non-sexual pictures without consent.

He's then commented again, asking me if I'm going to be attending either of the munches being held at [pub name] on [date] or [other date]. He specifically mentions they're Fetlife events.

This is not only outing me on a public platform, but it also tells everyone where I might physically be on these two dates.

This is potentially putting me in very real danger. But I'm sure he'd insist that he's a nice guy.

It's not good enough, guys.

Fucking do better.

_____
* yes, I am personally "out", but he doesn't know that.

** I don't attend in person events, so I won't be going to either of these munches, but again.. he doesn't know that.

#Men #Sexism #mansplaining #ToxicMasculinity #safety #kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

#Fetlife has taught me that there is a community of centenarians living in Antarctica

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

Intimacy and love. Wishing you all the same. #happiness #swingers #lifestyle #fetlife #flswingers #realcouple #couple #couple #bicouple

I just saw the most wholesome post in a FemDom group on Fetlife!

A submissive in Sydney who is a qualified air conditioning technician, offering to fix or service air conditioning units so that people are more comfortable in this weather. He's offering it no-strings-attached because he just wants to be useful and doesn't want people to be uncomfortable.

Bless him!

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife #kindness

I just saw the most wholesome post in a FemDom group on Fetlife!

A submissive in Sydney who is a qualified air conditioning technician, offering to fix or service air conditioning units so that people are more comfortable in this weather. He's offering it no-strings-attached because he just wants to be useful and doesn't want people to be uncomfortable.

Bless him!

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife #kindness

What I didn't need this morning was to try and compassionately explain to someone why referring to their submissive as "my little autistic meltdown machine" is pretty fucking gross.

Especially when they're not autistic, and the people they're asking advice from are.

#audhd #autism #adhd #disability #neurodiverse #ableism #disabled #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

What I didn't need this morning was to try and compassionately explain to someone why referring to their submissive as "my little autistic meltdown machine" is pretty fucking gross.

Especially when they're not autistic, and the people they're asking advice from are.

#audhd #autism #adhd #disability #neurodiverse #ableism #disabled #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

The best sexting apps for discreet and NSFW chats

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://in.mashable.com/sex-dating-relationships/105829/the-best-sexting-apps-for-discreet-and-nsfw-chats

The best sexting apps for discreet and NSFW chats

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Also ich habe gerade meinen #fetlife Account wieder gelöscht. Das bringt mir nichts. Die paar lokale Profile dort, die noch aktiv sind (und ultraschwer aus der Masse an inaktiven Accounts herauszufiltern sind), sind nur im BDSM-Bereich aktiv und nicht interessant für mich. Und euch alle habe ich ja eh hier.

Naja, war ja mal einen Versuch wert wieder.

#fetlife #kink #bdsm #dating #Men

#fetlife #kink #bdsm #dating #Men

An Overview of Munches in the BDSM and Fetish Communities https://maramenoci.com/an-overview-of-munches-in-the-bdsm-and-fetish-communities/

#BDSM #fetish #munch #kinkcommunity #submissive #dominant #fetlife #bdsmcommunity #kink #financialdomination #findom #domme #slave #kinkeducation #bdsm101 #fetishlife #powerexchange #consent #kinkfriendly #bdsmfun #fetishculture #munchlife #kinkevents #bdsmplay #findomme #domination #subspace #fetishworld #bdsmfamily #kinksters #fetishparty

I just got called a groomer by someone on Fetlife because I said that deliberately misgendering me was transphobic.

He's 46 and in multiple "age gap" groups looking for an 18 year old.

#fetlife #hypocrisy #transphobia

I just got called a groomer by someone on Fetlife because I said that deliberately misgendering me was transphobic.

He's 46 and in multiple "age gap" groups looking for an 18 year old.

#fetlife #hypocrisy #transphobia

Hey, if you want to read some of the most intense Fetlife nonsense I've ever seen in godknows how long, take a look:

https://fetlife.com/groups/1789/posts/34570760?page=1#comment_246257937

#kink #bdsm #fetlife #drama #DramaLlama #ShowingYourWholeArse

Hey, if you want to read some of the most intense Fetlife nonsense I've ever seen in godknows how long, take a look:

https://fetlife.com/groups/1789/posts/34570760?page=1#comment_246257937

#kink #bdsm #fetlife #drama #DramaLlama #ShowingYourWholeArse

IT IS DONE

https://fetlife.com/ShowMeYourNoods

#fetlife #kink #bdsm #Food #ShitPost