#nontoxicmasculinity — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #nontoxicmasculinity, aggregated by home.social.
-
From #WhiskeyLeaks via @SonsOfLibertyOfficial: “Texas, testosterone politics, and the fake masculinity of men who confuse lunch with leadership.”
A few quotes:
Barbecue is not a governing program. Testosterone is not a character reference. And calling another man weak because you think he eats the wrong food is not masculinity. It is schoolyard politics with a bigger donor list.
…
If your best argument against a man is what you imagine he had for lunch, you do not have an argument. You have a lunch fixation.
–
The fake-alpha crowd loves to talk about strength, but it keeps defining strength downward until it fits inside a bumper sticker. Eat meat. Talk loud. Insult women. Mock compassion. Worship dominance. Never apologize. Never reflect. Never admit fault. Never take responsibility unless the responsibility can be subcontracted to a staffer, lawyer, wife, intern, or enemy.
That is not strength. That is emotional credit card debt.
Real strength is steadier than that. It can handle disagreement without needing a nickname. It can take rejection without turning into a sewer pipe. It can lose an argument without inventing a conspiracy. It can stand next to women without treating them as props, prizes, servants, threats, or proof of masculine worth.
Read the whole article, here:
-
From #WhiskeyLeaks via @SonsOfLibertyOfficial: “Texas, testosterone politics, and the fake masculinity of men who confuse lunch with leadership.”
A few quotes:
Barbecue is not a governing program. Testosterone is not a character reference. And calling another man weak because you think he eats the wrong food is not masculinity. It is schoolyard politics with a bigger donor list.
…
If your best argument against a man is what you imagine he had for lunch, you do not have an argument. You have a lunch fixation.
–
The fake-alpha crowd loves to talk about strength, but it keeps defining strength downward until it fits inside a bumper sticker. Eat meat. Talk loud. Insult women. Mock compassion. Worship dominance. Never apologize. Never reflect. Never admit fault. Never take responsibility unless the responsibility can be subcontracted to a staffer, lawyer, wife, intern, or enemy.
That is not strength. That is emotional credit card debt.
Real strength is steadier than that. It can handle disagreement without needing a nickname. It can take rejection without turning into a sewer pipe. It can lose an argument without inventing a conspiracy. It can stand next to women without treating them as props, prizes, servants, threats, or proof of masculine worth.
Read the whole article, here:
-
An important article from #WhiskeyLeaks, via @SonsOfLibertyOfficial: “The Empty Garage: Young Men Are Waiting For A Better Deal”
A few excerpts:
The left does not need to imitate bro culture. It needs to stop abandoning masculinity to grifters. Trucks, beer, guns, work, family, and responsibility are not the problem. Cruelty is.
…
But here is the problem for Democrats and the broader left: being right about Trump failing is not the same thing as offering men somewhere to go.
The left does not need better bro cosplay. It needs a serious answer to male drift.
…
Start with honesty. A lot of young men feel useless.
That is not an excuse for cruelty. It is not an excuse for misogyny. It is not an excuse for treating women like vending machines for sex, comfort, status, or unpaid therapy. It is not an excuse for racism, authoritarian politics, or hiding inside some podcast guru's idea of strength.
But the wound is real.
A man who cannot see a path to stable work, a decent home, a family if he wants one, and some basic social respect is not going to be inspired by a policy memo written in conference-room English. He is also not going to be rescued by being told that his desire to provide, protect, build, compete, marry, father, lead, or be taken seriously is automatically suspect.
That is where the grifters enter.
Read the article here:
https://whiskeyleaks.org/the-empty-garage-young-men-are-waiting-for-a-better-deal/
-
An important article from #WhiskeyLeaks, via @SonsOfLibertyOfficial: “The Empty Garage: Young Men Are Waiting For A Better Deal”
A few excerpts:
The left does not need to imitate bro culture. It needs to stop abandoning masculinity to grifters. Trucks, beer, guns, work, family, and responsibility are not the problem. Cruelty is.
…
But here is the problem for Democrats and the broader left: being right about Trump failing is not the same thing as offering men somewhere to go.
The left does not need better bro cosplay. It needs a serious answer to male drift.
…
Start with honesty. A lot of young men feel useless.
That is not an excuse for cruelty. It is not an excuse for misogyny. It is not an excuse for treating women like vending machines for sex, comfort, status, or unpaid therapy. It is not an excuse for racism, authoritarian politics, or hiding inside some podcast guru's idea of strength.
But the wound is real.
A man who cannot see a path to stable work, a decent home, a family if he wants one, and some basic social respect is not going to be inspired by a policy memo written in conference-room English. He is also not going to be rescued by being told that his desire to provide, protect, build, compete, marry, father, lead, or be taken seriously is automatically suspect.
That is where the grifters enter.
Read the article here:
https://whiskeyleaks.org/the-empty-garage-young-men-are-waiting-for-a-better-deal/
-
Lovely Peeps, the newspaper link no longer works (which is a shame because it was a great article) but I still love the idea, so am moving over my original post without it - & now there is a website! 😊
. .. ...
🚨 Love this! 😃
#BlackMenFlowerProject, a nonprofit centering the health & well-being of #BlackMen since 2021, is asking #Black men to nominate others they know for flower delivery as a way to show appreciation & build community.
Already in a few cities, #florists in more are enquiring about joining, and there may soon be a nationwide network of Black men connecting with each other through nature. 💪
https://www.blackmenflowerproject.org/
#NonToxicMasculinity #Florespondence #Albuquerque #Chicago #Columbus #SantaFe #NYC #NewYorkCity #Florist #Flowers #Barbershop #Community
-
Lovely Peeps, the newspaper link no longer works (which is a shame because it was a great article) but I still love the idea, so am moving over my original post without it - & now there is a website! 😊
. .. ...
🚨 Love this! 😃
#BlackMenFlowerProject, a nonprofit centering the health & well-being of #BlackMen since 2021, is asking #Black men to nominate others they know for flower delivery as a way to show appreciation & build community.
Already in a few cities, #florists in more are enquiring about joining, and there may soon be a nationwide network of Black men connecting with each other through nature. 💪
https://www.blackmenflowerproject.org/
#NonToxicMasculinity #Florespondence #Albuquerque #Chicago #Columbus #SantaFe #NYC #NewYorkCity #Florist #Flowers #Barbershop #Community
-
Lovely Peeps, the newspaper link no longer works (which is a shame because it was a great article) but I still love the idea, so am moving over my original post without it - & now there is a website! 😊
. .. ...
🚨 Love this! 😃
#BlackMenFlowerProject, a nonprofit centering the health & well-being of #BlackMen since 2021, is asking #Black men to nominate others they know for flower delivery as a way to show appreciation & build community.
Already in a few cities, #florists in more are enquiring about joining, and there may soon be a nationwide network of Black men connecting with each other through nature. 💪
https://www.blackmenflowerproject.org/
#NonToxicMasculinity #Florespondence #Albuquerque #Chicago #Columbus #SantaFe #NYC #NewYorkCity #Florist #Flowers #Barbershop #Community
-
Lovely Peeps, the newspaper link no longer works (which is a shame because it was a great article) but I still love the idea, so am moving over my original post without it - & now there is a website! 😊
. .. ...
🚨 Love this! 😃
#BlackMenFlowerProject, a nonprofit centering the health & well-being of #BlackMen since 2021, is asking #Black men to nominate others they know for flower delivery as a way to show appreciation & build community.
Already in a few cities, #florists in more are enquiring about joining, and there may soon be a nationwide network of Black men connecting with each other through nature. 💪
https://www.blackmenflowerproject.org/
#NonToxicMasculinity #Florespondence #Albuquerque #Chicago #Columbus #SantaFe #NYC #NewYorkCity #Florist #Flowers #Barbershop #Community
-
#Indigenous #mermen all over #Manitoba, representing their #communities with great #humour and fine #fashion! 🧜♂️ 😃
#FirstNations #Canada #humor #NonToxicMasculinity
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/merman-trend-social-media-first-nations-1.6874696
-
#Indigenous #mermen all over #Manitoba, representing their #communities with great #humour and fine #fashion! 🧜♂️ 😃
#FirstNations #Canada #humor #NonToxicMasculinity
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/merman-trend-social-media-first-nations-1.6874696