#demisexuality — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #demisexuality, aggregated by home.social.
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Here's my latest blog-post, which I have been working on for several months, on my personal experience of #SexualFantasies and how they relate to my #asexuality & #demisexuality.
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So a lot of people don't really seem to know much about what being Demisexual was. So I made a video talking about what it means and how it impacts my life a little bit. Come check it out if you'd like~ :demisexual_flag: :menhera_admire:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmPl75IIZF0
#demisexual #demisexuality #demi #ace #asexual #asexuality #youtube #vtuber -
So a lot of people don't really seem to know much about what being Demisexual was. So I made a video talking about what it means and how it impacts my life a little bit. Come check it out if you'd like~ :demisexual_flag: :menhera_admire:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmPl75IIZF0
#demisexual #demisexuality #demi #ace #asexual #asexuality #youtube #vtuber -
I've read this post, and I find myself able to articulate why I'm not demisexual:
https://zeroes.ca/@hannu_ikonen/114723162597239144
I *can* have sexual attraction before any emotional connection.
However, I do want emotional connection before we have sex. This connection can form quickly.
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Every time I reread this scene where Carolyn talks to her ex-boyfriend about her sexuality, it makes me cry. I hope it has as much impact for people reading as it had for me when I wrote it.
#queerfiction #queerauthors #asexuality #demisexuality #editing #writing
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Every time I reread this scene where Carolyn talks to her ex-boyfriend about her sexuality, it makes me cry. I hope it has as much impact for people reading as it had for me when I wrote it.
#queerfiction #queerauthors #asexuality #demisexuality #editing #writing
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Every time I reread this scene where Carolyn talks to her ex-boyfriend about her sexuality, it makes me cry. I hope it has as much impact for people reading as it had for me when I wrote it.
#queerfiction #queerauthors #asexuality #demisexuality #editing #writing
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Every time I reread this scene where Carolyn talks to her ex-boyfriend about her sexuality, it makes me cry. I hope it has as much impact for people reading as it had for me when I wrote it.
#queerfiction #queerauthors #asexuality #demisexuality #editing #writing
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Every time I reread this scene where Carolyn talks to her ex-boyfriend about her sexuality, it makes me cry. I hope it has as much impact for people reading as it had for me when I wrote it.
#queerfiction #queerauthors #asexuality #demisexuality #editing #writing
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Certain social encounters always knock me askew to some degree, a long-standing issue. It's not so much what-might-have-been, but what's always been precluded for me, sex drive notwithstanding. It affects me still, and too, I'm philosophical about it. The two are not mutually exclusive. (Thank God for (healthy) sublimation...)
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Certain social encounters always knock me askew to some degree, a long-standing issue. It's not so much what-might-have-been, but what's always been precluded for me, sex drive notwithstanding. It affects me still, and too, I'm philosophical about it. The two are not mutually exclusive. (Thank God for (healthy) sublimation...)
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Traded out the Paris Paralympics key fob (cute!) for my Ace of Hearts #demisexuality ring, having truly settled into that aspect of my #ActuallyAutistic identity. Heart Full of Soul by the Yardbirds comes to mind... The vibe...
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Traded out the Paris Paralympics key fob (cute!) for my Ace of Hearts #demisexuality ring, having truly settled into that aspect of my #ActuallyAutistic identity. Heart Full of Soul by the Yardbirds comes to mind... The vibe...
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My brother made a crack at the high-end family dinner that I was “the withered branch”; I pointed meaningfully at my ring.
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The Ring. If asked I'll just say that it's some #ActuallyAutistic symbolism, which is true as far as it goes. One of my better purchases. Feels like I've always had it.
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The Ring. If asked I'll just say that it's some #ActuallyAutistic symbolism, which is true as far as it goes. One of my better purchases. Feels like I've always had it.
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To be clear I'm wearing my new black beveled tungsten ring on my left ring finger. If anyone inquires about the symbolism I'll refer to my being autistic (my sexuality would be TMI –not to say somewhat irrelevant).
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To be clear I'm wearing my new black beveled tungsten ring on my left ring finger. If anyone inquires about the symbolism I'll refer to my being autistic (my sexuality would be TMI –not to say somewhat irrelevant).
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I am still working things out, but as each day passes, I am more secure and certain of being demisexual. The days of self-doubt have largely gone.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/the-more-i-think-about-attraction-the-more-of-a-spectrum-it-appears-d0b72825a154?sk=c3bf8bc88d7ca3dd106290ae048bc1b0#LGBTQ #Asexuality #Demisexuality #Identity #Gender #Attraction
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I am still working things out, but as each day passes, I am more secure and certain of being demisexual. The days of self-doubt have largely gone.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/the-more-i-think-about-attraction-the-more-of-a-spectrum-it-appears-d0b72825a154?sk=c3bf8bc88d7ca3dd106290ae048bc1b0#LGBTQ #Asexuality #Demisexuality #Identity #Gender #Attraction
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Swung by Re-Pop and bought a #demisexuality pin, a neat Alice In Wonderland & Dr. Who mash-up which includes not only butterflies but as the background a dictionary page beginning with "splinter bar" (don't ask me why), and a #teal faux hotel key fob touting Peltzer Inventions of Kingston Falls, NY. "Fantastic Ideas For A Fantastic World". I don't need or even want to know the franchise –that would ruin the magic.
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Swung by Re-Pop and bought a #demisexuality pin, a neat Alice In Wonderland & Dr. Who mash-up which includes not only butterflies but as the background a dictionary page beginning with "splinter bar" (don't ask me why), and a #teal faux hotel key fob touting Peltzer Inventions of Kingston Falls, NY. "Fantastic Ideas For A Fantastic World". I don't need or even want to know the franchise –that would ruin the magic.
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As much as I want to experience having sex with somebody other than a cis man, I’m not sure I ever will.
There are 4 main reasons for this: Covid, #autism, #demisexuality, and low self-esteem.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/i-havent-dated-or-slept-with-anyone-since-realizing-i-m-pansexual-5e4ee21c758c?sk=0acf9fb6f5524300f81b079b1d801d10 -
As much as I want to experience having sex with somebody other than a cis man, I’m not sure I ever will.
There are 4 main reasons for this: Covid, #autism, #demisexuality, and low self-esteem.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/i-havent-dated-or-slept-with-anyone-since-realizing-i-m-pansexual-5e4ee21c758c?sk=0acf9fb6f5524300f81b079b1d801d10 -
Most people ask about how #demisexuality works in good faith, and I completely understand that to a largely allosexual population, it can be a difficult concept to grasp.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/stereotypes-make-it-seem-demisexuals-have-a-choice-5f665a03da4b?sk=bd863585abd41da1c6ed6a2f936eaf72 -
Most people ask about how #demisexuality works in good faith, and I completely understand that to a largely allosexual population, it can be a difficult concept to grasp.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/stereotypes-make-it-seem-demisexuals-have-a-choice-5f665a03da4b?sk=bd863585abd41da1c6ed6a2f936eaf72 -
Penny dropped that the #aromantic #ActuallyAutistic could very well find "romance" unreadable. (I speak as a frustrated romantic). #demisexuality
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Penny dropped that the #aromantic #ActuallyAutistic could very well find "romance" unreadable. (I speak as a frustrated romantic). #demisexuality
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Hi everyone, today I'd like to announce a new community I'm hoping to get off the ground!
For some time now, I've struggled with relating to people regarding my sexuality. Being heteroromantic demisexual, I've felt that I don't quite fit in fully with others when it comes to discussions of sexuality. At times it feels like I'm "too straight" to relate with other friends in the LGBTQ sphere, "too queer" to relate with straight friends, and "too sexual" to relate with other friends who fall into the asexual spectrum.
That's why today I created Demi Discourse, a new Matrix Space that I hope can serve as a hub for demisexual folk to hang out, chat, have fun, and have a space in which they can relate with others. It's still really barebones, but I'm hoping that with a new members, it can grow into a community that everyone enjoys.
Feel free to join at matrix.to/#/#demi-discourse:tchncs.de. Looking forward to seeing new faces and making new friends!
#demisexual #demi #demisexuality #matrix #matrixchat -
Hi everyone, today I'd like to announce a new community I'm hoping to get off the ground!
For some time now, I've struggled with relating to people regarding my sexuality. Being heteroromantic demisexual, I've felt that I don't quite fit in fully with others when it comes to discussions of sexuality. At times it feels like I'm "too straight" to relate with other friends in the LGBTQ sphere, "too queer" to relate with straight friends, and "too sexual" to relate with other friends who fall into the asexual spectrum.
That's why today I created Demi Discourse, a new Matrix Space that I hope can serve as a hub for demisexual folk to hang out, chat, have fun, and have a space in which they can relate with others. It's still really barebones, but I'm hoping that with a new members, it can grow into a community that everyone enjoys.
Feel free to join at matrix.to/#/#demi-discourse:tchncs.de. Looking forward to seeing new faces and making new friends!
#demisexual #demi #demisexuality #matrix #matrixchat -
@nddev Furthermore attraction and desire are not necessarily the same thing.
#Demisexuality@wakame @punishmenthurts @pathfinder @PossiblyAutistic @actuallyautistic
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10 Ways You're Totally Wrong About #Demisexuality.
Let's address these #myths shall we?
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #SexualOrientation #Sexuality #Intimacy #Representation #Cult
https://www.pride.com/identities/ways-youre-wrong-about-demisexuality#rebelltitem5
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10 Ways You're Totally Wrong About #Demisexuality.
Let's address these #myths shall we?
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #SexualOrientation #Sexuality #Intimacy #Representation #Cult
https://www.pride.com/identities/ways-youre-wrong-about-demisexuality#rebelltitem5
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New lamp!
~Why #Jazz Happened by Marc Myers
~Space is the Place: The Lives and Times of Sun Ra by John Szwed
~Monk! Thelonious, Pannica, and the Friendship Behind a Musical Revolution by Youssef Dadudi
~The Oxford Companion to Jazz, Bill Kirchner, Ed. -
New lamp!
~Why #Jazz Happened by Marc Myers
~Space is the Place: The Lives and Times of Sun Ra by John Szwed
~Monk! Thelonious, Pannica, and the Friendship Behind a Musical Revolution by Youssef Dadudi
~The Oxford Companion to Jazz, Bill Kirchner, Ed. -
1992 is the year I discovered Elton John for myself rather than through being exposed to his older stuff. That was the year he released one of his most emotionally powerful songs.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/elton-john-is-the-unlikely-singer-of-my-demisexual-anthem-990a4fc608c3?sk=f35674dbc2b29651ca87d3723ae7c6af -
1992 is the year I discovered Elton John for myself rather than through being exposed to his older stuff. That was the year he released one of his most emotionally powerful songs.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/elton-john-is-the-unlikely-singer-of-my-demisexual-anthem-990a4fc608c3?sk=f35674dbc2b29651ca87d3723ae7c6af -
September 2012 was the month I hit rock bottom. I had been separated from my now ex-wife for a year at the time. We’d recently filed for divorce, and I’d spent the best part of that time seeking work pretty much all over Britain.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/september-almost-killed-me-ten-years-later-it-made-me-stronger-44823275227?sk=20365a392ce1da4598294ee83f647edb -
September 2012 was the month I hit rock bottom. I had been separated from my now ex-wife for a year at the time. We’d recently filed for divorce, and I’d spent the best part of that time seeking work pretty much all over Britain.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/september-almost-killed-me-ten-years-later-it-made-me-stronger-44823275227?sk=20365a392ce1da4598294ee83f647edb -
Why do you need all these labels? Why put yourself in a box? Life was so much easier before!
https://medium.com/prismnpen/yes-queer-microlabels-do-matter-ce903cc06318?sk=63c3d98edb4753fc4230a043d8a2c236#LGBTQ #Queer #Labels #Asexuality #Demisexuality #Microlabels
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Why do you need all these labels? Why put yourself in a box? Life was so much easier before!
https://medium.com/prismnpen/yes-queer-microlabels-do-matter-ce903cc06318?sk=63c3d98edb4753fc4230a043d8a2c236#LGBTQ #Queer #Labels #Asexuality #Demisexuality #Microlabels
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“Strong emotional bond” can and does mean romantic attachment, but there is far more to it.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/what-do-we-mean-when-we-say-demisexuals-need-a-strong-emotional-bond-9654fe4a6b08?sk=04cf2b1bbe1a523e8dd86fbf92f38eb2 -
“Strong emotional bond” can and does mean romantic attachment, but there is far more to it.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/what-do-we-mean-when-we-say-demisexuals-need-a-strong-emotional-bond-9654fe4a6b08?sk=04cf2b1bbe1a523e8dd86fbf92f38eb2 -
I am a heteroromantic #demisexual. To most, I am indistinguishable from any other straight guy. But I am not straight, and even being straight passing comes with obstacles.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/not-queer-enough-and-other-obstacles-of-a-hetero-attracted-demisexual-5edae7b85bd1?sk=d038c08253f6876066da107779935ec5 -
I am a heteroromantic #demisexual. To most, I am indistinguishable from any other straight guy. But I am not straight, and even being straight passing comes with obstacles.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/not-queer-enough-and-other-obstacles-of-a-hetero-attracted-demisexual-5edae7b85bd1?sk=d038c08253f6876066da107779935ec5 -
#ActuallyAutistic #Demisexuality respects other domains.
