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  1. A quotation from The Bible

    To answer before listening —
    This is foolish and disgraceful.
     
    [מֵשִׁ֣יב דָּ֭בָר בְּטֶ֣רֶם יִשְׁמָ֑ע אִוֶּ֥לֶת הִיא־ל֝֗וֹ וּכְלִמָּֽה׃]


    The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
    Book 20. Proverbs 18:13 (Prov 18:13) [RJPS (2023 ed.)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/82765/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #proverbs #activelistening #answering #conversation #dialog #discussion #engagement #listening #reply #responding #response #retorting #selfabsorption #selfcentered #speaking

  2. A quotation from The Bible

    To answer before listening —
    This is foolish and disgraceful.
     
    [מֵשִׁ֣יב דָּ֭בָר בְּטֶ֣רֶם יִשְׁמָ֑ע אִוֶּ֥לֶת הִיא־ל֝֗וֹ וּכְלִמָּֽה׃]


    The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
    Book 20. Proverbs 18:13 (Prov 18:13) [RJPS (2023 ed.)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/82765/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #proverbs #activelistening #answering #conversation #dialog #discussion #engagement #listening #reply #responding #response #retorting #selfabsorption #selfcentered #speaking

  3. A quotation from The Bible

    To answer before listening —
    This is foolish and disgraceful.
     
    [מֵשִׁ֣יב דָּ֭בָר בְּטֶ֣רֶם יִשְׁמָ֑ע אִוֶּ֥לֶת הִיא־ל֝֗וֹ וּכְלִמָּֽה׃]


    The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
    Book 20. Proverbs 18:13 (Prov 18:13) [RJPS (2023 ed.)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/82765/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #proverbs #activelistening #answering #conversation #dialog #discussion #engagement #listening #reply #responding #response #retorting #selfabsorption #selfcentered #speaking

  4. A quotation from The Bible

    To answer before listening —
    This is foolish and disgraceful.
     
    [מֵשִׁ֣יב דָּ֭בָר בְּטֶ֣רֶם יִשְׁמָ֑ע אִוֶּ֥לֶת הִיא־ל֝֗וֹ וּכְלִמָּֽה׃]


    The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
    Book 20. Proverbs 18:13 (Prov 18:13) [RJPS (2023 ed.)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/82765/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #proverbs #activelistening #answering #conversation #dialog #discussion #engagement #listening #reply #responding #response #retorting #selfabsorption #selfcentered #speaking

  5. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    In fact the whole antithesis between self and the rest of the world, which is implied in the doctrine of self-denial, disappears as soon as we have any genuine interest in persons or things outside ourselves. Through such interests a man comes to feel himself part of the stream of life, not a hard separate entity like a billiard-ball, which can have no relation with other such entities except that of collision.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 2, ch. 17 “The Happy Man” (1930)

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/819…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #body #engagement #externalities #interest #life #living #meaningoflife #relationship #self #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selfdenial #selfsufficiency #separation #spirit #worldliness

  6. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    In fact the whole antithesis between self and the rest of the world, which is implied in the doctrine of self-denial, disappears as soon as we have any genuine interest in persons or things outside ourselves. Through such interests a man comes to feel himself part of the stream of life, not a hard separate entity like a billiard-ball, which can have no relation with other such entities except that of collision.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 2, ch. 17 “The Happy Man” (1930)

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/819…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #body #engagement #externalities #interest #life #living #meaningoflife #relationship #self #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selfdenial #selfsufficiency #separation #spirit #worldliness

  7. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    In fact the whole antithesis between self and the rest of the world, which is implied in the doctrine of self-denial, disappears as soon as we have any genuine interest in persons or things outside ourselves. Through such interests a man comes to feel himself part of the stream of life, not a hard separate entity like a billiard-ball, which can have no relation with other such entities except that of collision.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 2, ch. 17 “The Happy Man” (1930)

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/819…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #body #engagement #externalities #interest #life #living #meaningoflife #relationship #self #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selfdenial #selfsufficiency #separation #spirit #worldliness

  8. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    In fact the whole antithesis between self and the rest of the world, which is implied in the doctrine of self-denial, disappears as soon as we have any genuine interest in persons or things outside ourselves. Through such interests a man comes to feel himself part of the stream of life, not a hard separate entity like a billiard-ball, which can have no relation with other such entities except that of collision.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 2, ch. 17 “The Happy Man” (1930)

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/819…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #body #engagement #externalities #interest #life #living #meaningoflife #relationship #self #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selfdenial #selfsufficiency #separation #spirit #worldliness

  9. A quotation from Mignon McLaughlin

    Of course no one is so sensitive as you, but try to remember they think they are.

    Mignon McLaughlin (1913-1983) American journalist and author
    The Second Neurotic’s Notebook, ch. 4 (1966)

    More about this quote: wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/80…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #migonmclaughlin #others #perspective #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #sensitivity

  10. A quotation from Mignon McLaughlin

    Of course no one is so sensitive as you, but try to remember they think they are.

    Mignon McLaughlin (1913-1983) American journalist and author
    The Second Neurotic’s Notebook, ch. 4 (1966)

    More about this quote: wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/80…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #migonmclaughlin #others #perspective #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #sensitivity

  11. A quotation from Ambrose Bierce

    SELFISH, adj. Devoid of consideration for the selfishness of others.

    Ambrose Bierce (1842-1914?) American writer and journalist
    “Selfish,” The Devil’s Dictionary (1911)

    More about this quote: wist.info/bierce-ambrose/1057/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ambrosebierce #devilsdictionary #ego #inconsideration #selfabsorption #selfaggrandizement #selfcenteredness #selfishness

  12. A quotation from Ambrose Bierce

    SELFISH, adj. Devoid of consideration for the selfishness of others.

    Ambrose Bierce (1842-1914?) American writer and journalist
    “Selfish,” The Devil’s Dictionary (1911)

    More about this quote: wist.info/bierce-ambrose/1057/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ambrosebierce #devilsdictionary #ego #inconsideration #selfabsorption #selfaggrandizement #selfcenteredness #selfishness

  13. A quotation from Ambrose Bierce

    SELFISH, adj. Devoid of consideration for the selfishness of others.

    Ambrose Bierce (1842-1914?) American writer and journalist
    “Selfish,” The Devil’s Dictionary (1911)

    More about this quote: wist.info/bierce-ambrose/1057/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ambrosebierce #devilsdictionary #ego #inconsideration #selfabsorption #selfaggrandizement #selfcenteredness #selfishness

  14. A quotation from Hazlitt

    The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.

    William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
    Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7

    More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness

  15. A quotation from Hazlitt

    The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.

    William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
    Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7

    More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness

  16. A quotation from Hazlitt

    The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.

    William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
    Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7

    More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness

  17. A quotation from Hazlitt

    The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.

    William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
    Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7

    More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness

  18. A quotation from La Rochefoucauld

    One of the reasons why there are so few reasonable and pleasant conversationalists is that almost everyone concentrates on what he wishes to say, rather than attempting to give accurate and clear replies to what is said to him.
     
    [Une des choses qui fait que l’on trouve si peu de gens qui paroissent raisonnables et agréables dans la conversation, c’est qu’il n’y a presque personne qui ne pense plutôt à ce qu’il veut dire qu’à répondre précisément à ce qu’on lui dit.]

    François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble
    Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶139 (1665-1678) [tr. FitzGibbon (1957), ¶139]

    Sourcing, notes, other translations: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucauld #activelistening #chat #chitchat #conversation #discussion #listening #reply #response #selfabsorption #selfcentered #distraction

  19. A quotation from La Rochefoucauld

    One of the reasons why there are so few reasonable and pleasant conversationalists is that almost everyone concentrates on what he wishes to say, rather than attempting to give accurate and clear replies to what is said to him.
     
    [Une des choses qui fait que l’on trouve si peu de gens qui paroissent raisonnables et agréables dans la conversation, c’est qu’il n’y a presque personne qui ne pense plutôt à ce qu’il veut dire qu’à répondre précisément à ce qu’on lui dit.]

    François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble
    Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶139 (1665-1678) [tr. FitzGibbon (1957), ¶139]

    Sourcing, notes, other translations: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucauld #activelistening #chat #chitchat #conversation #discussion #listening #reply #response #selfabsorption #selfcentered #distraction

  20. A quotation from La Rochefoucauld

    One of the reasons why there are so few reasonable and pleasant conversationalists is that almost everyone concentrates on what he wishes to say, rather than attempting to give accurate and clear replies to what is said to him.
     
    [Une des choses qui fait que l’on trouve si peu de gens qui paroissent raisonnables et agréables dans la conversation, c’est qu’il n’y a presque personne qui ne pense plutôt à ce qu’il veut dire qu’à répondre précisément à ce qu’on lui dit.]

    François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble
    Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶139 (1665-1678) [tr. FitzGibbon (1957), ¶139]

    Sourcing, notes, other translations: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucauld #activelistening #chat #chitchat #conversation #discussion #listening #reply #response #selfabsorption #selfcentered #distraction

  21. A quotation from La Rochefoucauld

    One of the reasons why there are so few reasonable and pleasant conversationalists is that almost everyone concentrates on what he wishes to say, rather than attempting to give accurate and clear replies to what is said to him.
     
    [Une des choses qui fait que l’on trouve si peu de gens qui paroissent raisonnables et agréables dans la conversation, c’est qu’il n’y a presque personne qui ne pense plutôt à ce qu’il veut dire qu’à répondre précisément à ce qu’on lui dit.]

    François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble
    Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶139 (1665-1678) [tr. FitzGibbon (1957), ¶139]

    Sourcing, notes, other translations: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucauld #activelistening #chat #chitchat #conversation #discussion #listening #reply #response #selfabsorption #selfcentered #distraction

  22. A quotation from La Rochefoucauld

    One of the reasons why there are so few reasonable and pleasant conversationalists is that almost everyone concentrates on what he wishes to say, rather than attempting to give accurate and clear replies to what is said to him.
     
    [Une des choses qui fait que l’on trouve si peu de gens qui paroissent raisonnables et agréables dans la conversation, c’est qu’il n’y a presque personne qui ne pense plutôt à ce qu’il veut dire qu’à répondre précisément à ce qu’on lui dit.]

    François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble
    Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶139 (1665-1678) [tr. FitzGibbon (1957), ¶139]

    Sourcing, notes, other translations: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucauld #activelistening #chat #chitchat #conversation #discussion #listening #reply #response #selfabsorption #selfcentered #distraction

  23. Wajahat Ali reminds us how the corporate media are continuing to behave as the clown-show fascism (Michael Tomasky's term) rolls out:

    "At the pathetic and groveling White House Correspondents’ Dinner over the weekend, the mainstream media’s remoras assembled to engage in mutual verbal fellatio and enjoy the 'glam' during the ascent of fascism."

    #Trump #media #fascism #SelfAbsorption #MediaFail
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    thelefthook.substack.com/p/100

  24. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    When I speak of “the sinner”, I do not mean the man who commits sin: sins are committed by everyone or no one, according to our definition of the word. I mean the man who is absorbed in the consciousness of sin. This man is perpetually incurring his own disapproval, which, if he is religious, he interprets as the disapproval of God. He has an image of himself as he thinks he ought to be, which is in continual conflict with his knowledge of himself as he is.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 1 “What Makes People Unhappy?” (1930)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/758…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #BertrandRussell #divinejudgment #ideal #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfcriticism #selfimage #sin #sinner

  25. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    When I speak of “the sinner”, I do not mean the man who commits sin: sins are committed by everyone or no one, according to our definition of the word. I mean the man who is absorbed in the consciousness of sin. This man is perpetually incurring his own disapproval, which, if he is religious, he interprets as the disapproval of God. He has an image of himself as he thinks he ought to be, which is in continual conflict with his knowledge of himself as he is.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 1 “What Makes People Unhappy?” (1930)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/758…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #BertrandRussell #divinejudgment #ideal #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfcriticism #selfimage #sin #sinner

  26. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    When I speak of “the sinner”, I do not mean the man who commits sin: sins are committed by everyone or no one, according to our definition of the word. I mean the man who is absorbed in the consciousness of sin. This man is perpetually incurring his own disapproval, which, if he is religious, he interprets as the disapproval of God. He has an image of himself as he thinks he ought to be, which is in continual conflict with his knowledge of himself as he is.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 1 “What Makes People Unhappy?” (1930)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/758…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #BertrandRussell #divinejudgment #ideal #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfcriticism #selfimage #sin #sinner

  27. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    I enjoy life; I might almost say that with every year that passes I enjoy it more. This is due partly to having discovered what were the things that I most desired, and having gradually acquired many of these things. Partly it is due to having successfully dismissed certain objects of desire — such as the acquisition of indubitable knowledge about something or other — as essentially unattainable. But very largely it is due to a diminishing preoccupation with myself. Like others who had a Puritan education, I had the habit of meditating on my sins, follies, and shortcomings. I seemed to myself — no doubt justly — a miserable specimen. Gradually I learned to be indifferent to myself and my deficiencies; I came to centre my attention increasingly upon external objects: the state of the world, various branches of knowledge, individuals for whom I felt affection.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 1 “What Makes People Unhappy?” (1930)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/755…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #BertrandRussell #puritanism #acquisitions #attention #desire #enjoyment #externalities #focus #happiness #life #living #selfabsorption #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfloathing

  28. A quotation from Holmes, Oliver Wendell, Sr.:

    «
    A sick man that gets talking about himself, a woman that gets talking about her baby, and an author that begins reading out of his own book, never know when to stop.
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/holmes-sr-oliver-wen

    #quote #quotes #quotation #author #baby #chatter #illness #mother #parent #selfabsorption #talking #writer

  29. #suisen #水仙の花 #narcissus

    how do we contemplate the #myths of ourselves? when does #selfgaze lean into #selfabsorption? there is no myth of narcissus without the myth of #echo. when narcissus rejects her, she wastes away until only her voice remains. he turns to self contemplation.

    Often, we turn away from those who don't reflect to us the way we see ourselves. Self gaze rises in isolation.

    We are composites, of who we think we are and who people show us we are, each gaze correcting the other