#positivemasculinity — Public Fediverse posts

who are cis people? What is a cis man? What makes a man cis? What makes a man trans?

(in case anyone wants to misrepresent any of this video or my posting of it -- no one is or should be disposable. Even if you don't like them.
I might say otherwise in my own personal experiences with a handful of people who have behaved unconscionably towrd me, but that's neither my ideal nor what I think would bring a better world.
Even less so on demographic grounds. Like, I understand if Person A abuses you, yeah you will be experiencing a range of emotions -- or shutdown, or cycle through them. But that's individual, not systemic. anyway.)

Obvious one we should all be able to agree on tho: posturing based on attacking others is not "real" gender. It's just insecurity getting defensive at other people.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_k8aMvIV0Q

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Adding some hashtags since my interests are all over the place. I'll add more when I think of them. #PositiveMasculinity, #Ethnomusicology, #Afrofuturism, #OldPeopleOfMastodon, #AlanWatts, #AlanLomax, #nonduality, #nondualism, #esoteric, #DarkAmbient, #SpiralDynamics, #metamodernism, #Neoplatonism, #IFS, #InternalFamilySystems