#lowersurgery — Public Fediverse posts

I had to meet with the shitty surgeon again for my 1 week post op assessment. God, I hate her. She came to work with the flu and was coughing. She asked me if she should wear a mask because she was coughing so much. I said yes and she puts on a loose surgeon mask. Then she literally coughed in my fucking open wound, like the one in my labia that had a wound separation issue. Thank god she wore the mask, but even her colleague who was observing winced because it was a productive cough and she caught second hand embarrassment.

She was also just rude. She cut off her colleague who tried to answer one of my questions twice and said she didn't have time to answer questions. I asked for how long my wound would take to heal given there was wound separation and she was like "I'm not a gynecologist so I don't know. Maybe 6 weeks?" And when her colleague who WAS A OBGYN tried to answer she cut her off and told her not to answer me.

This is the same surgeon who previously said she wouldn't have helped me have a simple meta 6 years ago but that now they have to help everyone. (She was not the surgeon who actually operated on me, thank god. My actual surgeon is just on night call right now so he couldn't see me).

My wound burns now. I flushed it as soon as I got home, but fuck her so much. If I get the flu, I will riot.

#trans #transmasc #lowersurgery

If you've had a simple metoidioplasty (no urethra extension), do you pee your pants by accident, due to the surgery?

#transmasc #trans #transman #ftm #afab #transmasculine #lowersurgery #bottomsurgery