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  1. Why I Stopped Chasing Perfect Meditation

    For years, I thought a good meditation meant a quiet mind, a perfectly straight posture, and leaving the cushion feeling peaceful.

    Some days all three happened. Most days they didnโ€™t.

    My meditation practice began decades ago. I learned to meditate through reading books such as Thich Nhat Hanhโ€™s โ€œThe Miracle of Mindfulness.โ€ This wasnโ€™t the worst way to begin; however, I was missing something important.

    Learning to sit.

    The early days of my practice relied heavily on guided meditation to help me keep focus, but the desire arose to sit quietly. This is where I felt the most frustration, as I, like so many others, think our minds need to shut down completely.

    That is not the nature of mind.

    I learned that sitting quietly for ten minutes, allowing my attention to move from thought to breath, and back to thought again, was where the real practice lived.

    The moment I stopped judging a wandering mind as bad meditation was when I stopped chasing perfect meditation.

    What if a successful meditation is simply the one you showed up for?

    What if the distracted days teach us more than the peaceful ones?

    What if meditation isnโ€™t about becoming perfect but about becoming present?

    If youโ€™re new to meditation, you might enjoy beginning with my Awareness Meditation, where we practice noticing breath and body without judgement.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5H7I0Uvg4RUS4DnxvrhDkd?si=1HQrOMO0T6iIVQ145Fy6qA

    If these reflections resonate with you, Iโ€™d love to have you continue the journey with Dandelion Doorways. New essays and guided meditations are shared as they are created.

    I am grateful to have met you on the path.

    #intentionalLife #meditation #mindfulness #noticing #perfectMeditation #slowLiving
  2. Why I Stopped Chasing Perfect Meditation

    For years, I thought a good meditation meant a quiet mind, a perfectly straight posture, and leaving the cushion feeling peaceful.

    Some days all three happened. Most days they didnโ€™t.

    My meditation practice began decades ago. I learned to meditate through reading books such as Thich Nhat Hanhโ€™s โ€œThe Miracle of Mindfulness.โ€ This wasnโ€™t the worst way to begin; however, I was missing something important.

    Learning to sit.

    The early days of my practice relied heavily on guided meditation to help me keep focus, but the desire arose to sit quietly. This is where I felt the most frustration, as I, like so many others, think our minds need to shut down completely.

    That is not the nature of mind.

    I learned that sitting quietly for ten minutes, allowing my attention to move from thought to breath, and back to thought again, was where the real practice lived.

    The moment I stopped judging a wandering mind as bad meditation was when I stopped chasing perfect meditation.

    What if a successful meditation is simply the one you showed up for?

    What if the distracted days teach us more than the peaceful ones?

    What if meditation isnโ€™t about becoming perfect but about becoming present?

    If youโ€™re new to meditation, you might enjoy beginning with my Awareness Meditation, where we practice noticing breath and body without judgement.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5H7I0Uvg4RUS4DnxvrhDkd?si=1HQrOMO0T6iIVQ145Fy6qA

    If these reflections resonate with you, Iโ€™d love to have you continue the journey with Dandelion Doorways. New essays and guided meditations are shared as they are created.

    I am grateful to have met you on the path.

    #intentionalLife #meditation #mindfulness #noticing #perfectMeditation #slowLiving
  3. Why I Stopped Chasing Perfect Meditation

    For years, I thought a good meditation meant a quiet mind, a perfectly straight posture, and leaving the cushion feeling peaceful.

    Some days all three happened. Most days they didnโ€™t.

    My meditation practice began decades ago. I learned to meditate through reading books such as Thich Nhat Hanhโ€™s โ€œThe Miracle of Mindfulness.โ€ This wasnโ€™t the worst way to begin; however, I was missing something important.

    Learning to sit.

    The early days of my practice relied heavily on guided meditation to help me keep focus, but the desire arose to sit quietly. This is where I felt the most frustration, as I, like so many others, think our minds need to shut down completely.

    That is not the nature of mind.

    I learned that sitting quietly for ten minutes, allowing my attention to move from thought to breath, and back to thought again, was where the real practice lived.

    The moment I stopped judging a wandering mind as bad meditation was when I stopped chasing perfect meditation.

    What if a successful meditation is simply the one you showed up for?

    What if the distracted days teach us more than the peaceful ones?

    What if meditation isnโ€™t about becoming perfect but about becoming present?

    If youโ€™re new to meditation, you might enjoy beginning with my Awareness Meditation, where we practice noticing breath and body without judgement.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5H7I0Uvg4RUS4DnxvrhDkd?si=1HQrOMO0T6iIVQ145Fy6qA

    If these reflections resonate with you, Iโ€™d love to have you continue the journey with Dandelion Doorways. New essays and guided meditations are shared as they are created.

    I am grateful to have met you on the path.

    #intentionalLife #meditation #mindfulness #noticing #perfectMeditation #slowLiving
  4. Why I Stopped Chasing Perfect Meditation

    For years, I thought a good meditation meant a quiet mind, a perfectly straight posture, and leaving the cushion feeling peaceful.

    Some days all three happened. Most days they didnโ€™t.

    My meditation practice began decades ago. I learned to meditate through reading books such as Thich Nhat Hanhโ€™s โ€œThe Miracle of Mindfulness.โ€ This wasnโ€™t the worst way to begin; however, I was missing something important.

    Learning to sit.

    The early days of my practice relied heavily on guided meditation to help me keep focus, but the desire arose to sit quietly. This is where I felt the most frustration, as I, like so many others, think our minds need to shut down completely.

    That is not the nature of mind.

    I learned that sitting quietly for ten minutes, allowing my attention to move from thought to breath, and back to thought again, was where the real practice lived.

    The moment I stopped judging a wandering mind as bad meditation was when I stopped chasing perfect meditation.

    What if a successful meditation is simply the one you showed up for?

    What if the distracted days teach us more than the peaceful ones?

    What if meditation isnโ€™t about becoming perfect but about becoming present?

    If youโ€™re new to meditation, you might enjoy beginning with my Awareness Meditation, where we practice noticing breath and body without judgement.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5H7I0Uvg4RUS4DnxvrhDkd?si=1HQrOMO0T6iIVQ145Fy6qA

    If these reflections resonate with you, Iโ€™d love to have you continue the journey with Dandelion Doorways. New essays and guided meditations are shared as they are created.

    I am grateful to have met you on the path.

    #intentionalLife #meditation #mindfulness #noticing #perfectMeditation #slowLiving
  5. THE SECOND MOUNTAIN 6/10โ€จOur moral environment shapes us. ๐ŸŒฑ Communities influence values, behavior, and what we admire. Choosing wisely is key. #MoralEcology #CommunityValues #IntentionalLife

  6. ๐ŸŒฟ Why Minimalism Matters?

    Have you ever felt tiredโ€ฆ not in your body, but deep inside?
    Tired of chasing more. Tired of holding on. Tired of feeling overwhelmed by things that donโ€™t truly matter.

    This blog is a gentle reminder that MINIMALISM is not about emptiness. Itโ€™s about space.

    drchetandhongade.com/lifestyle

    #Minimalism
    #SimpleLiving
    #IntentionalLife
    #EmotionalWellbeing
    #LessIsMore
    #MindfulLiving
    #DeclutterYourMind
    #InnerPeace
    #SlowDown
    #SelfHealing
    #JoyInSimplicity
    #LifeWithPurpose

  7. ๐ŸŒฟ Why Minimalism Matters?

    Have you ever felt tiredโ€ฆ not in your body, but deep inside?
    Tired of chasing more. Tired of holding on. Tired of feeling overwhelmed by things that donโ€™t truly matter.

    This blog is a gentle reminder that MINIMALISM is not about emptiness. Itโ€™s about space.

    drchetandhongade.com/lifestyle

    #Minimalism
    #SimpleLiving
    #IntentionalLife
    #EmotionalWellbeing
    #LessIsMore
    #MindfulLiving
    #DeclutterYourMind
    #InnerPeace
    #SlowDown
    #SelfHealing
    #JoyInSimplicity
    #LifeWithPurpose

  8. If last year felt rushed, this one doesnโ€™t have to.
    Creating a calm foundation starts with small, intentional habits that support your energyโ€”not drain it. Iโ€™ve written a practical guide to help you plan the year ahead with clarity, balance, and ease. ๐Ÿค

    #IntentionalLife #CalmMind #MindfulPlanning #StressLessLiveMore #Wellbeing #LifestyleBalance #SimpleLiving #MentalClarity

    glowafterthestorm.blog/2026/01

  9. If last year felt rushed, this one doesnโ€™t have to.
    Creating a calm foundation starts with small, intentional habits that support your energyโ€”not drain it. Iโ€™ve written a practical guide to help you plan the year ahead with clarity, balance, and ease. ๐Ÿค

    #IntentionalLife #CalmMind #MindfulPlanning #StressLessLiveMore #Wellbeing #LifestyleBalance #SimpleLiving #MentalClarity

    glowafterthestorm.blog/2026/01

  10. If last year felt rushed, this one doesnโ€™t have to.
    Creating a calm foundation starts with small, intentional habits that support your energyโ€”not drain it. Iโ€™ve written a practical guide to help you plan the year ahead with clarity, balance, and ease. ๐Ÿค

    #IntentionalLife #CalmMind #MindfulPlanning #StressLessLiveMore #Wellbeing #LifestyleBalance #SimpleLiving #MentalClarity

    glowafterthestorm.blog/2026/01

  11. If last year felt rushed, this one doesnโ€™t have to.
    Creating a calm foundation starts with small, intentional habits that support your energyโ€”not drain it. Iโ€™ve written a practical guide to help you plan the year ahead with clarity, balance, and ease. ๐Ÿค

    #IntentionalLife #CalmMind #MindfulPlanning #StressLessLiveMore #Wellbeing #LifestyleBalance #SimpleLiving #MentalClarity

    glowafterthestorm.blog/2026/01

  12. If last year felt rushed, this one doesnโ€™t have to.
    Creating a calm foundation starts with small, intentional habits that support your energyโ€”not drain it. Iโ€™ve written a practical guide to help you plan the year ahead with clarity, balance, and ease. ๐Ÿค

    #IntentionalLife #CalmMind #MindfulPlanning #StressLessLiveMore #Wellbeing #LifestyleBalance #SimpleLiving #MentalClarity

    glowafterthestorm.blog/2026/01

  13. ๐ŸŒฟ In a world rushing to be loud and fast, I choose quiet strength and steady progress.

    Success isnโ€™t just about big moves โ€” itโ€™s about the small, consistent steps we take every day.

    Keep your focus sharp, your intentions clear, and your actions deliberate.

    Remember: True power lies in patience and persistence.

    #QuietStrength #SteadyProgress #IntentionalLife #Minimalism #StayFocused #Mastodon

  14. Can making pancakes really teach you about leadership? ๐Ÿค”

    Absolutely!
    In my latest episode, we explore how to delegate effectively and build trust with your team.

    Learn how to provide guidance, celebrate growth, and create a safe environment for experimentation.

    Plus, we'll introduce the 'DELEGATE' framework:

    โžค ๐——emonstrate,
    โžค ๐—˜mpower,
    โžค ๐—Ÿaunch small,
    โžค ๐—˜valuate,
    โžค ๐—šuide,
    โžค ๐—”cknowledge,
    โžค ๐—งransfer, and
    โžค ๐—˜xplode with celebration!

    It's time to stop doing everything yourself and start empowering others. Let's get flipping!

    ๐ŸŽง Listen here: apple.co/41xeTP2
    ๐Ÿ“‘ Episode show-notes: coffeejourneys.blog/45

  15. โ€œItโ€™s okay to be sad or angry. Itโ€™s not okay to stay sad or angry.โ€

    And the best way to resolve it is over homemade scones ๐Ÿ”ฅ

    Have a blessed Sunday folks โ˜• ๐Ÿ‘‹

    --

  16. As we kicked off the New Year, it's time to refocus on what truly matters.
    In today's episode we dive into the art of prioritization, guided by insights from David Allen's renowned "๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜… ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด" framework.

    David Allen is the author of the productivity bible ๐˜Ž๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜‹๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ. But GTD is not just only about tasks and checklists.

    We usually start our planning with a never ending to-do list driven from New Year's resolution.

    And โ€ฆ we sets ourselves for a failure.

    In this episode you will learn how to align your ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐˜€ with your ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด-๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, clarify your goals, and create a system that helps you decide what deserves your attention most.

    From identifying your life's purpose to managing the nitty-gritty details of your to-do list, this episode is packed with actionable advice to set you up for success.

    --
    Listen here: apple.co/4hlVhnd
    Show-notes: coffeejourneys.blog/38/

    --

  17. Life is not always easy, but it's the little rituals that can truly make a difference. Whether itโ€™s a morning coffee, a favorite music, or a nightly walk, these small moments ground us and bring joy.

    #Mindfulness #Rituals #IntentionalLife

  18. Life is not always easy, but it's the little rituals that can truly make a difference. Whether itโ€™s a morning coffee, a favorite music, or a nightly walk, these small moments ground us and bring joy.

  19. Don't be overwhelmed. Break it down. Destil the essentials and apply of of 4Ds:
    - do it
    - defer it
    - delete it
    - delegate it

  20. Having family time and enjoying Snowman โ˜ƒ๏ธ

  21. How are you doing today?

    Even the strongest individuals can face tough moments, and even the most resilient among us may encounter internal struggles.

    Remember to be kind, stay aware, and act with intention.

    #IntentionalLife #MentalHealth

    Check out more about the burnout here: coffeejourneys.blog/recognisin

  22. How are you doing today?

    Even the strongest individuals can face tough moments, and even the most resilient among us may encounter internal struggles.

    Remember to be kind, stay aware, and act with intention.

    Check out more about the burnout here: coffeejourneys.blog/recognisin

  23. Slow weekend vibes! Managed to escape the hustle with some quality family time, diving into a good book, and watching how my podcast is taking up ๐Ÿ”ฅ

    Anyone else turning their weekend into a chill fest?

  24. ## ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:

    - The initiative has been well-received, with many praising O2's creative use of AI for consumer protection.

    - It's seen as a clever tactic to "give scammers a taste of their own medicine" by wasting their time.

    - There's a general sentiment of amusement and support for this approach to scam prevention, with some expressing a desire for similar implementations in other regions.

    ## ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€:

    - Part of O2's broader "Swerve the Scammers" campaign, aimed at educating consumers about scam tactics.

    - The campaign includes videos featuring Daisy interacting with scammers, showcasing her effectiveness.

    ## ๐—™๐˜‚๐—ป ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜€:

    - O2 collaborated with scambaiter Jim Browning to ensure Daisy's interactions are effective and realistic.

    - Influencer Amy Hart, who was once a scam victim, has teamed up with Daisy in promotional materials to raise awareness.

    I think it's finally something worth the mighty AI ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    What do you think?

    #Technology #IntentionalLife

  25. ## ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:

    - The initiative has been well-received, with many praising O2's creative use of AI for consumer protection.

    - It's seen as a clever tactic to "give scammers a taste of their own medicine" by wasting their time.

    - There's a general sentiment of amusement and support for this approach to scam prevention, with some expressing a desire for similar implementations in other regions.

    ## ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€:

    - Part of O2's broader "Swerve the Scammers" campaign, aimed at educating consumers about scam tactics.

    - The campaign includes videos featuring Daisy interacting with scammers, showcasing her effectiveness.

    ## ๐—™๐˜‚๐—ป ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜€:

    - O2 collaborated with scambaiter Jim Browning to ensure Daisy's interactions are effective and realistic.

    - Influencer Amy Hart, who was once a scam victim, has teamed up with Daisy in promotional materials to raise awareness.

    I think it's finally something worth the mighty AI ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    What do you think?

  26. Fortune favours the boldโ€”and perhaps, happiness does too.

    We often think of happiness as something that just happensโ€”a fleeting feeling when the right mix of circumstances magically aligns. But what if happiness wasnโ€™t just a matter of chance? What if there were bold steps you could take to actively invite more joy into your life?

    In the latest episode of The Coffee Journeys Show, we explore the fascinating concept of the four types of happiness (or chance) as outlined by neuroscientist Dr. James H. Austin in his book ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ, ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜Š๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ: ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜“๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ฌ๐˜บ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ต๐˜บ.

    Dr. Austinโ€™s framework suggests that while some happiness comes purely from luck, much of it is shaped by our own actions, preparation, and individuality.

    Curious? Tune in for a full breakdown of the four types of happiness and actionable tips to help you take charge of your joy and create a life filled with purpose and contentment.

    ๐ŸŽง apple.co/3UOVGpF
    ๐Ÿ“‘ coffeejourneys.blog/30

  27. โ€ข ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜†: As we journey through life, we collect a treasure trove of experiences that become part of our personal narrative. These memories provide comfort, inspiration, and a sense of connection to our past.

    ๐Ÿ’ก How can we shift our focus from possessions to experiences?

    โ€ข ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€: Instead of buying another gadget, consider planning a weekend getaway, taking a cooking class, or attending a concert.

    โ€ข ๐—š๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€: Give loved ones gifts that create shared memories, such as tickets to a show or a day trip to a nearby town.

    โ€ข ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜: Put down your phone and truly engage in the experiences youโ€™re having. Savour the beauty of your surroundings, connect with the people around you, and allow yourself to be fully present.

    By choosing experiences over possessions, we invest in something far more valuable โ€“ our own happiness and the richness of our lives.

  28. Engage in intellectual sparring to improve your teamโ€™s strategic thinking! ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ก

    While in Toastmasters club, I came across a captivating form of debate known as the Oxford Debate.

    Imagine this: youโ€™re given a topic in advance, for instance: โ€œOur current architecture model is good for the future.โ€

    Two teams are formed one supporting the statement and the other opposing it.

    But hereโ€™s the twist: ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ!

    This setup presents interesting challenges and incredible opportunities. The objective? Help your team โ€œwin.โ€
    Itโ€™s easier if you agree with the topic, but what if you disagree?

    Thatโ€™s when the real magic happens. Youโ€™ll need to find compelling arguments against the statement, all while aiming for victory.

    PS. Photo from a historic place where we use to meet for our Toastmasters debates :)

    But wait, thereโ€™s more! ๐Ÿ‘‡

  29. This is so true on many levels today. From politics, throughout the leadership, even to...parenting!

    Blaming big tech companies for devices that turn kids to zombies.

    Blaming kids they are glued to their iPhones.

    Itโ€™s easy to point fingers, but the real challenge lies in fostering genuine connections and teaching balance.

    We need to create environments where technology enhances rather than detracts from our lives. Letโ€™s prioritize open communication, mindfulness, and shared experiences over screens.

    Change starts with us, so letโ€™s lead by example and guide the next generation toward a more intentional and engaged life.

  30. This is one of those truisms that you have to confront on a very practical level when you are a parent.

    It also overlaps heavily with the realm of leadership.

    And, when you try to balance being a leader and a parent, you truly push the boundaries of what is possible. ๐Ÿ˜„

  31. "Do what you love, and you'll never feel like you're working."
    I'm not entirely convinced that's accurate.

    However, I do believe that when you are passionate about something, it becomes significantly easier to dedicate time to learning, refining your skills, and ultimately achieving remarkable results.

    coffeejourneys.blog/books/

  32. Interesting perspective on the imposter syndrome, and a bit of a spotlight effect.
    Itโ€™s fascinating how we often feel like weโ€™re under constant scrutiny, when in reality, most people are too busy with their own lives to notice our every move.

  33. โ€A calendar speaks more truth than a to-do list.

    Your to-do list is the ideal Sunday evening theory.

    Your calendar is the brutal Monday to Friday practice.

    Operate accordingly: you must block time in your calendar for deep work.โ€

    ~Shreyas Doshi

    I've been a big fan of all sorts of ToDo (and NotToDo) lists. I've created and iterated on several systems to keep track of stuff and Get Things Done.

    Some time ago, however, I integrated my favourite app with a calendar, and I am now more realistic about what I can do during a day, week, month etc.

    Let's keep it in mind. Time is not made of rubber :)

    What is your way of staying realistic about what you plan to do?

    PS. On that topic - check out this audio notebook:

    notebooklm.google.com/notebook

  34. Work smart not hard, right?

    ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป: ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—”๐—ก๐—— ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.

    My favourite question is on this topic is:
    "๐˜๐˜ด ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ?"

    We can efficiency doing unnecessary thinks and be "busy" all the time.

    I love DEAL framework from Tim Ferriss.

    ๐Ÿ“Œ Definition (smart)

    ๐Ÿ“Œ Elimination (hard)

    ๐Ÿ“Œ Automation (hard)

    ๐Ÿ“Œ Liberation (smart)

    But we still need to work hard to get the right results. This, however, need to be laser-focus work on the target tasks that will take us to the results fast.

    What do you think?

    coffeejourneys.blog/newsletter

  35. ๐Ÿ” Are you asking the right questions? ๐Ÿค”

    Children are experts at throwing questions around, and sometimes it can be frustrating to answer them repeatedly.
    But there's a method to this madness. ๐ŸŽ“

    Instead of complaining or avoiding the questions, let's learn from our kids. We should listen more, improve our patience, and develop better responses. Asking the right questions is an art, especially in our interactions with others. ๐Ÿ’ก

    Being curious and asking questions is essential for personal growth and cognitive development. We should never dismiss someone based on the quantity or quality of their questions. This applies to children and adults alike. ๐Ÿค

    Leadership requires the skill of asking the right questions. Mentors and coaches excel in this area, and great leaders make it a part of their everyday routine. ๐Ÿ”ฅ

    So, are you asking the right questions?

    Let's embrace curiosity and strive for intentional living and leadership.

  36. Efficient versus effective ๐Ÿค”
    I thought it's mostly for corpo, but it's true everywhere: start-up, scale-up, for-profit, none-profit, or, even hobbies.

    We just like to be busy..

    Here are two truisms to keep in mind:
    1. Doing something unimportant well does not make it important.
    2. Requiring a lot of time does not make a task important.

    More on this topic ๐Ÿ‘‡

    coffeejourneys.blog/newsletter

  37. Part of my job is to take all sorts of notes from meetings, interviews, tasks that I have to do etc. I have several electronic systems, but I still like and use the most ordinary notebook. My daughter has seen me using it and she copied my style ๐Ÿ˜‚

    The charms of working from home ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ—’๏ธโœ๏ธ

    Do you have any favourite note taking methods?

    How do you keep track on things if you use both - digital and physical notebook?

    #Technology #IntentionalLife

  38. Part of my job is to take all sorts of notes from meetings, interviews, tasks that I have to do etc. I have several electronic systems, but I still like and use the most ordinary notebook. My daughter has seen me using it and she copied my style ๐Ÿ˜‚

    The charms of working from home ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ—’๏ธโœ๏ธ

    Do you have any favourite note taking methods?

    How do you keep track on things if you use both - digital and physical notebook?

  39. Do you know the difference between a good leader and a great leader?

    Itโ€™s the foundation they build upon.

    That foundation is the strengths of their team members. ๐Ÿงต๐Ÿ‘‡

    Here are three reasons why great leaders invest in the strengths of their team:

    1โƒฃ Strengths accelerate growth: People learn faster when they focus on areas where they naturally excel.

    2โƒฃ Strengths fuel creativity: People are more innovative, collaborative, and insightful when they work within their strengths.

    3โƒฃ Strengths build resilience: People recover more quickly from setbacks when they lean into their strengths and talents.

  40. Such an important and underrated topic ๐Ÿ‘‡

  41. Have you heard this little self-criticism voice in your head today?

    It is normal. We cannot avoid it. It helped our ancestors survive. Humans are wired this way, and we can't change it.

    What we can change is how we react to it.

    Setting realistic expectations is crucial for avoiding disappointment. We often tend to set unrealistic expectations for ourselves, leading to constant dissatisfaction and negative self-talk.

    But what if we shifted our focus to setting realistic goals and celebrating small victories?

    A growth mindset and openness to learning from failures are also essential. Instead of getting discouraged by setbacks, we should embrace them as opportunities to grow and improve.

    So, let's start setting realistic expectations for ourselves and celebrating our progress.

    Remember, progress is progress, no matter how small it may seem.

    #IntentionalLife #mentalhealth

  42. Have you heard this little self-criticism voice in your head today?

    It is normal. We cannot avoid it. It helped our ancestors survive. Humans are wired this way, and we can't change it.

    What we can change is how we react to it.

    Setting realistic expectations is crucial for avoiding disappointment. We often tend to set unrealistic expectations for ourselves, leading to constant dissatisfaction and negative self-talk.

    But what if we shifted our focus to setting realistic goals and celebrating small victories?

    A growth mindset and openness to learning from failures are also essential. Instead of getting discouraged by setbacks, we should embrace them as opportunities to grow and improve.

    So, let's start setting realistic expectations for ourselves and celebrating our progress.

    Remember, progress is progress, no matter how small it may seem.

  43. I'm revisiting my old notes with the help of @readwise ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    Software Architecture versus Software Design

    Since sharing is caring, here they are.
    Enjoy!

  44. Today I am sharing one of the most profound conversations I have ever had in my life.
    The holiday season helps us to slow down and contemplate deeper topics.
    I hope that my story and the exercise I am sharing will also help you.
    Be intentional!

    Available on your favourite platform ๐ŸŽง

    podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/

    #podcast #IntentionalLife

  45. I am reviewing my notes from the past thanks to @readwise ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    Sharing is caring, so here they are.
    Enjoy!

  46. I am reviewing my notes from the past thanks to @readwise ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    Sharing is caring, so here they are.
    Enjoy!

  47. Part of my job is to take all sorts of notes from meetings, interviews, tasks that I have to do etc. I have several electronic systems, but I still like and use the most ordinary notebook. My daughter has seen me using it and she copied my style ๐Ÿ˜‚

    The charms of working from home ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ—’๏ธโœ๏ธ

    Do you have any favourite note taking methods?

    How do you keep track on things if you use both - digital and physical notebook?

    #Technology #IntentionalLife