#polyamorouseveryday — Public Fediverse posts

Thanks to a dear friend for a lovely evening of tea, doggo snuggles, talking about ALL the relationships, tantra events, BDSM-events and more 💝

I have a somewhat easy time understanding that I have partners and lovers. But that I have such a cool, kind, supportive and quite big circle of friends blows my mind and fills my heart 💖
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One thing that happened during the days I did not post here was that me and Lion officially ended our relationship. 💔 It reached 7 years.

We "broke up" basically a year after he asked me to move out last year. Last year was a surprise but this year we took a common decision. Personally I decided that was likely the way to go during Christmas. But despite being prepared for the decision I have been having so many weird feelings throughout January 😵‍💫 There has been an emptyness that I was not expecting; feeling more alone on solo days and nights, grief about what we have had, feeling less supported/more unstable, jealousy of people having easier access to their long distance relationships, instincts to go looking for a new relationship and so on...

Today I already had a troubled state of feelings/mind when me and Lion took the same bus from the dogs daycare (my week dropping dog of, he takes the bus there every day). We had a polite and practical talk for the trip. But my feelings got even more complicated, hearing about the long distance partner he has visiting and just generally being together. ❤️‍🩹
This is a tough and complicated transition to being "just" friends and doggoparents together...

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Have had a lovely weekend with Slow Lori 💝

It took me a while to get into being present with her. These last week's have been a lot of heavy thinking about several relationship that are in a state of flux/change. With a lover, my father and with Lion + some work changes. That made me arrive in a very broody mindset on Thursday.🤔

Friday I went to a friend that lives in a neighboring city to Slow Lori. It was lovely being able to vent some of my broodiness there too and not just to Slow Lori. 😝

Saturday and our half of the Sunday I could be much more present and enjoy Slow Lori as we went to an art exhibition, cooked food, talked a lot, kissed a lot, watched some TV and had some sex 💖

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The other day I realized that it is soon Slow Loris birthday. 🥳
And as recently I checked through new things from my favorite ecological clothing shop I came across some underwear I liked to see her in (because colors). But that raised some questions, like what size does she wear? 🤔
So today I have been chatting with my metamour D to see if they had more insight in what size, material and more Slow Lori like.
Turns out we have the same perception of what Slow Lori could like, so I got D's blessing. 😊 Apparently, worst case scenario, (not liking it) Slow Lori is likely to give the underwear to D. 🙃
So I am going ahead with the plan 💝
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#Underwear
#EcologicalClothes

Just got the most polyamrous book package ever 😍 The Feast and Greed polyamorous comic anthologies are here 🤩 And even better is that the shield stickers are sooo pretty. They got more shinyness than I imagined 💖 I got ten stickers but I want to put them on everything so it might not be enough 😜
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There is something special with how some relationships flows in and out of dynamics.

So like two years ago I responded to a dating ad in a poly group. It resulted in quite sexual and explorative dates for about half a year and then we stopped seeing each other.
We reconnected this summer during pride week and the trust/intemacy we had while dating remained so we have had really deep conversation about relationships and (heavy, complex) feelings. During my first Christmas I could spill my guts about all the complex family feelings I was having. Today they felt lonely and asked for support ❤️‍🩹
Since we have dated some flirtyness are available to play with. The other day they mentioned being a little interested in doing some of the more experimental parts of our relationship again. So there were hints about that in today's texting. 😉
I am both so intrigued exploring that again but also hesitate as I really like the confidant I have in them right now... 🤔
We got some talking about expectations to do I believe 😜
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#RelationshipFluidity
#Confidant

There is something special with how some relationships flows in and out of dynamics.

So like two years ago I responded to a dating ad in a poly group. It resulted in quite sexual and explorative dates for about half a year and then we stopped seeing each other.
We reconnected this summer during pride week and the trust/intemacy we had while dating remained so we have had really deep conversation about relationships and (heavy, complex) feelings. During my first Christmas I could spill my guts about all the complex family feelings I was having. Today they felt lonely and asked for support ❤️‍🩹
Since we have dated some flirtyness are available to play with. The other day they mentioned being a little interested in doing some of the more experimental parts of our relationship again. So there were hints about that in today's texting. 😉
I am both so intrigued exploring that again but also hesitate as I really like the confidant I have in them right now... 🤔
We got some talking about expectations to do I believe 😜
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#RelationshipFluidity
#Confidant

There is something special with how some relationships flows in and out of dynamics.

So like two years ago I responded to a dating ad in a poly group. It resulted in quite sexual and explorative dates for about half a year and then we stopped seeing each other.
We reconnected this summer during pride week and the trust/intemacy we had while dating remained so we have had really deep conversation about relationships and (heavy, complex) feelings. During my first Christmas I could spill my guts about all the complex family feelings I was having. Today they felt lonely and asked for support ❤️‍🩹
Since we have dated some flirtyness are available to play with. The other day they mentioned being a little interested in doing some of the more experimental parts of our relationship again. So there were hints about that in today's texting. 😉
I am both so intrigued exploring that again but also hesitate as I really like the confidant I have in them right now... 🤔
We got some talking about expectations to do I believe 😜
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#RelationshipFluidity
#Confidant

The thing with that my partners are mainly computer geeks means that I have several people I need to brag to when I do something computery 🙃
Like today when I did a bunch of software updates and cleansing the new laptop of unnecessary Microsoft apps 😊
Let's see who says I have been good first 😉
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