#transmasculine — Public Fediverse posts

#introduction #intro

Hi, It's Erosdiscordia/Mystery Babylon/Val. This is my new main account. I've been on the Fediverse since late 2018. Feel free to follow-request, especially if you actually have a bio and some posts.

I currently live in Southwestern #Virginia, though I plan on moving to #Baltimore, MD around the beginning of 2027. I'm #transmasculine and #bisexual, white, leftist, and in my late 40s.

I'm into a ton of things, many of which I post about here -- #trans and #lgbtq thoughts, #writing and the #scifi novel series I'm working on, my #cats and #aquariums, and very occasionally some Linux or tech question. Also, my overload of hobbies: #indieweb, #ttrpgs (I'm currently in a Daggerheart campaign), #reading, #BloodBowl, #miniatures and #miniPainting, #Sims4 (🏴‍☠️, fuck EA), #artCards, #zines, #music and #tattoos. I'm not active in fandom, but I'll always be a #MDZS / #TheUntamed stan. Trigun made me gay.

Things will mostly be R-rated or below, and I use CWs. I don't tend to shitpost, but I might boost some.
Everything I post is human-created, and always will be.
:boost_requested:

#introduction #intro

Hi, It's Erosdiscordia/Mystery Babylon/Val. This is my new main account. I've been on the Fediverse since late 2018. Feel free to follow-request, especially if you actually have a bio and some posts.

I currently live in Southwestern #Virginia, though I plan on moving to #Baltimore, MD around the beginning of 2027. I'm #transmasculine and #bisexual, white, leftist, and in my late 40s.

I'm into a ton of things, many of which I post about here -- #trans and #lgbtq thoughts, #writing and the #scifi novel series I'm working on, my #cats and #aquariums, and very occasionally some Linux or tech question. Also, my overload of hobbies: #indieweb, #ttrpgs (I'm currently in a Daggerheart campaign), #reading, #BloodBowl, #miniatures and #miniPainting, #Sims4, #artCards, #zines, #music and #tattoos. I'm not active in fandom, but I'll always be a #MDZS / #TheUntamed stan. Trigun made me gay.

Things will mostly be R-rated or below, and I use CWs. I don't tend to shitpost, but I might boost some.
Everything I post is human-created, and always will be.
:boost_requested:

#introduction #intro

Hi, It's Erosdiscordia/Mystery Babylon/Val. This is my new main account. I've been on the Fediverse since late 2018. Feel free to follow-request, especially if you actually have a bio and some posts.

I currently live in Southwestern #Virginia, though I plan on moving to #Baltimore, MD around the beginning of 2027. I'm #transmasculine and #bisexual, white, leftist, and in my late 40s.

I'm into a ton of things, many of which I post about here -- #trans and #lgbtq thoughts, #writing and the #scifi novel series I'm working on, my #cats and #aquariums, and very occasionally some Linux or tech question. Also, my overload of hobbies: #indieweb, #ttrpgs (I'm currently in a Daggerheart campaign), #reading, #BloodBowl, #miniatures and #miniPainting, #Sims4, #artCards, #zines, #music and #tattoos. I'm not active in fandom, but I'll always be a #MDZS / #TheUntamed stan. Trigun made me gay.

Things will mostly be R-rated or below, and I use CWs. I don't tend to shitpost, but I might boost some.
Everything I post is human-created, and always will be.
:boost_requested:

#introduction #intro

Hi, It's Erosdiscordia/Mystery Babylon/Val. This is my new main account. I've been on the Fediverse since late 2018. Feel free to follow-request, especially if you actually have a bio and some posts.

I currently live in Southwestern #Virginia, though I plan on moving to #Baltimore, MD around the beginning of 2027. I'm #transmasculine and #bisexual, white, leftist, and in my late 40s.

I'm into a ton of things, many of which I post about here -- #trans and #lgbtq thoughts, #writing and the #scifi novel series I'm working on, my #cats and #aquariums, and very occasionally some Linux or tech question. Also, my overload of hobbies: #indieweb, #ttrpgs (I'm currently in a Daggerheart campaign), #reading, #BloodBowl, #miniatures and #miniPainting, #Sims4 (🏴‍☠️, fuck EA), #artCards, #zines, #music and #tattoos. I'm not active in fandom, but I'll always be a #MDZS / #TheUntamed stan. Trigun made me gay.

Things will mostly be R-rated or below, and I use CWs. I don't tend to shitpost, but I might boost some.
Everything I post is human-created, and always will be.
:boost_requested:

This is bound to be a fun and playful session centering transmasculine folks who have or want bottom growth. This session discusses method, toys, safety, and hygiene. Join this euphoric session at KBtL VII. Registration opens 1-September.

#kinksky #conference #bipoc #trans #transmasculine

This is bound to be a fun and playful session centering transmasculine folks who have or want bottom growth. This session discusses method, toys, safety, and hygiene. Join this euphoric session at KBtL VII. Registration opens 1-September.

#kinksky #conference #bipoc #trans #transmasculine

This is bound to be a fun and playful session centering transmasculine folks who have or want bottom growth. This session discusses method, toys, safety, and hygiene. Join this euphoric session at KBtL VII. Registration opens 1-September.

#kinksky #conference #bipoc #trans #transmasculine

This is bound to be a fun and playful session centering transmasculine folks who have or want bottom growth. This session discusses method, toys, safety, and hygiene. Join this euphoric session at KBtL VII. Registration opens 1-September.

#kinksky #conference #bipoc #trans #transmasculine

PSA: https://transmasc.social is now up and running, if anyone wants an invite ping me at @[email protected] :D :BoostOK:
#transmasc #transmasculine #transmen @ftm

PSA: https://transmasc.social is now up and running, if anyone wants an invite ping me at @[email protected] :D :BoostOK:
#transmasc #transmasculine #transmen @ftm

PSA: https://transmasc.social is now up and running, if anyone wants an invite ping me at @[email protected] :D :BoostOK:
#transmasc #transmasculine #transmen @ftm

11 transmasc docs, dramas, and comedies you shouldn’t overlook

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/film/transmasc-trans-man-ftm-movies-2677278014

11 transmasc docs, dramas, and comedies you shouldn’t overlook

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/film/transmasc-trans-man-ftm-movies-2677278014

11 transmasc docs, dramas, and comedies you shouldn’t overlook

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/film/transmasc-trans-man-ftm-movies-2677278014

11 transmasc docs, dramas, and comedies you shouldn’t overlook

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/film/transmasc-trans-man-ftm-movies-2677278014

I wrote an article about the rare pride flags at the 2024 Kansas City Pride Festival.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2024/07/rare-pride-flags-at-kc-pride-2024.html

87/x

#LGBTQ #LGBT #Queer #Asexual #AroAce #Transmasc #Transmasculine #Intersex #Gay #Leather #Drag #Ally #America #Mexico #Palestine

I wrote an article about the rare pride flags at the 2024 Kansas City Pride Festival.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2024/07/rare-pride-flags-at-kc-pride-2024.html

87/x

#LGBTQ #LGBT #Queer #Asexual #AroAce #Transmasc #Transmasculine #Intersex #Gay #Leather #Drag #Ally #America #Mexico #Palestine

I wrote an article about the rare pride flags at the 2024 Kansas City Pride Festival.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2024/07/rare-pride-flags-at-kc-pride-2024.html

87/x

#LGBTQ #LGBT #Queer #Asexual #AroAce #Transmasc #Transmasculine #Intersex #Gay #Leather #Drag #Ally #America #Mexico #Palestine

I wrote an article about the rare pride flags at the 2024 Kansas City Pride Festival.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2024/07/rare-pride-flags-at-kc-pride-2024.html

87/x

#LGBTQ #LGBT #Queer #Asexual #AroAce #Transmasc #Transmasculine #Intersex #Gay #Leather #Drag #Ally #America #Mexico #Palestine

I discussed the terms transmasculine and transfeminine and examined how they have performed in the Gender Census from 2015 to 2024.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2025/04/transmasculine-and-transfeminine.html

52/x

#Trans #Transgender #Transmasc #Transfem #Transmasculine #Transfeminine #Nonbinary #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer

I discussed the terms transmasculine and transfeminine and examined how they have performed in the Gender Census from 2015 to 2024.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2025/04/transmasculine-and-transfeminine.html

52/x

#Trans #Transgender #Transmasc #Transfem #Transmasculine #Transfeminine #Nonbinary #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer

I discussed the terms transmasculine and transfeminine and examined how they have performed in the Gender Census from 2015 to 2024.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2025/04/transmasculine-and-transfeminine.html

52/x

#Trans #Transgender #Transmasc #Transfem #Transmasculine #Transfeminine #Nonbinary #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer

I discussed the terms transmasculine and transfeminine and examined how they have performed in the Gender Census from 2015 to 2024.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2025/04/transmasculine-and-transfeminine.html

52/x

#Trans #Transgender #Transmasc #Transfem #Transmasculine #Transfeminine #Nonbinary #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer

Trans salutatorian’s powerful graduation speech puts Mississippi school’s mistreatment on display

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/news/jonas-hole-mississippi-graduation-speech

Trans salutatorian’s powerful graduation speech puts Mississippi school’s mistreatment on display

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/news/jonas-hole-mississippi-graduation-speech

Trans salutatorian’s powerful graduation speech puts Mississippi school’s mistreatment on display

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/news/jonas-hole-mississippi-graduation-speech

Trans salutatorian’s powerful graduation speech puts Mississippi school’s mistreatment on display

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.advocate.com/news/jonas-hole-mississippi-graduation-speech

#QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary ..

#QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary ..

#QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary ..

#QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary ..

QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary #queer #IndependentMedia

#QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary #queer #IndependentMedia

QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary #queer #IndependentMedia

QueerAF:

Early Access: Transmasc apologies for #malePrivilege: do we need them?

There are limited studies on how #transmasculine people experience the harms of #sexist and #patriarchal views, but speak to any transmasc person, and they’ll be able to tell you how common those harms are. Anxiety or trauma from these experiences may be why some transmascs believe they can’t transition without becoming an oppressor.

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/email/dae1f27f-dd95-4921-92f5-f7654f7ad6f1/?

#lgbtq+ #press #news #transmasc #f2m #nonBinary #queer #IndependentMedia

So I don't want to seem like I am just turning around and being with someone else, as if he wasn't good enough already. Plus, he is a real sweetie too, and we are still friends, so I don't want to ruin that. Might seem like a betrayal, you know? But, then again, maybe I am overthinking this, as always.

4/4

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

So, IDK what to do? I will always at least be her friend, but I don't want to throw away my shot, to see someone else get her first. Also, I would additionally feel bad about getting with someone else after I broke up with my boyfriend last year cuz I felt I couldn't handle a relationship at the time.

3/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

I want to ask her out or tell her she's oh so pretty and sweet, but with my current mental state + being somewhere on the aromantic spectrum, I don't know that I could do a relationship justice right now. And I also don't want to risk losing our still blossoming friendship for nothing.

2/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And one more side note before I go to bed... I have a serious crush on a woman I know. Only problems are, she doesn't know I'm trans, and I don't know what her sexuality is. So... I don't know if I have a chance there, or if I shouldn't get my hopes up.

1/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And one more side note before I go to bed... I have a serious crush on a woman I know. Only problems are, she doesn't know I'm trans, and I don't know what her sexuality is. So... I don't know if I have a chance there, or if I shouldn't get my hopes up.

1/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And one more side note before I go to bed... I have a serious crush on a woman I know. Only problems are, she doesn't know I'm trans, and I don't know what her sexuality is. So... I don't know if I have a chance there, or if I shouldn't get my hopes up.

1/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And one more side note before I go to bed... I have a serious crush on a woman I know. Only problems are, she doesn't know I'm trans, and I don't know what her sexuality is. So... I don't know if I have a chance there, or if I shouldn't get my hopes up.

1/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Side note, I just can't stand when people use feminine terms for me anymore. I don't like knowing they see me as a woman. It hurts. But why?? I guess I know why. I'm a trans dude of some sort. Or so I think. But the fact that I don't know for sure if I am trans, or, if so, what flavor of trans per say, leaves me so confused and hanging in the balance. I can't solve this.

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Side note, I just can't stand when people use feminine terms for me anymore. I don't like knowing they see me as a woman. It hurts. But why?? I guess I know why. I'm a trans dude of some sort. Or so I think. But the fact that I don't know for sure if I am trans, or, if so, what flavor of trans per say, leaves me so confused and hanging in the balance. I can't solve this.

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Side note, I just can't stand when people use feminine terms for me anymore. I don't like knowing they see me as a woman. It hurts. But why?? I guess I know why. I'm a trans dude of some sort. Or so I think. But the fact that I don't know for sure if I am trans, or, if so, what flavor of trans per say, leaves me so confused and hanging in the balance. I can't solve this.

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Side note, I just can't stand when people use feminine terms for me anymore. I don't like knowing they see me as a woman. It hurts. But why?? I guess I know why. I'm a trans dude of some sort. Or so I think. But the fact that I don't know for sure if I am trans, or, if so, what flavor of trans per say, leaves me so confused and hanging in the balance. I can't solve this.

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And is my apathy/amotivation/what have you, due to my being closeted trans/in denial? Or maybe because of my meds? Idk. Just felt like I needed to vent. As usual, if anyone has any advice for me, I'd be happy to hear it, but whatever is cool.

12/12?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And is my apathy/amotivation/what have you, due to my being closeted trans/in denial? Or maybe because of my meds? Idk. Just felt like I needed to vent. As usual, if anyone has any advice for me, I'd be happy to hear it, but whatever is cool.

12/12?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

And is my apathy/amotivation/what have you, due to my being closeted trans/in denial? Or maybe because of my meds? Idk. Just felt like I needed to vent. As usual, if anyone has any advice for me, I'd be happy to hear it, but whatever is cool.

12/12?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

The more I wait on this, the more stuck I get. My life force, as in motivation and drive to do anything, to be inspired, to be productive, feels like it is sapping and ebbing away. My good feelings come back a bit from time to time, but it always gets weaker, and not as long or frequent as before. I can't move forward with my life until I know who I am, who I'm putting out there.

11/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

The more I wait on this, the more stuck I get. My life force, as in motivation and drive to do anything, to be inspired, to be productive, feels like it is sapping and ebbing away. My good feelings come back a bit from time to time, but it always gets weaker, and not as long or frequent as before. I can't move forward with my life until I know who I am, who I'm putting out there.

11/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

The more I wait on this, the more stuck I get. My life force, as in motivation and drive to do anything, to be inspired, to be productive, feels like it is sapping and ebbing away. My good feelings come back a bit from time to time, but it always gets weaker, and not as long or frequent as before. I can't move forward with my life until I know who I am, who I'm putting out there.

11/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

It's just weird. I feel like I am coming to a proverbial fork in the road here. Like, there is a reckoning with myself on the horizon. Something has to happen, has to change. Some sort of gender transition, be it social or medical or both, just looks better and better by the day. But I feel so much shame, guilt, and fear over it + like I am betraying people who know me a certain way.

10/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

It's just weird. I feel like I am coming to a proverbial fork in the road here. Like, there is a reckoning with myself on the horizon. Something has to happen, has to change. Some sort of gender transition, be it social or medical or both, just looks better and better by the day. But I feel so much shame, guilt, and fear over it + like I am betraying people who know me a certain way.

10/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

It's just weird. I feel like I am coming to a proverbial fork in the road here. Like, there is a reckoning with myself on the horizon. Something has to happen, has to change. Some sort of gender transition, be it social or medical or both, just looks better and better by the day. But I feel so much shame, guilt, and fear over it + like I am betraying people who know me a certain way.

10/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

I don't even know if I could explain why I want to be a man, or feel like I am a man. Shouldn't there be reasons why I think/feel this way? Shouldn't there have been a bunch of clear signs all throughout my life thus far? Or have there been, and I just haven't noticed them? Maybe I am just more stupid and unobservant than I thought I was, and just hadn't seen it for what it was.

9/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

I don't even know if I could explain why I want to be a man, or feel like I am a man. Shouldn't there be reasons why I think/feel this way? Shouldn't there have been a bunch of clear signs all throughout my life thus far? Or have there been, and I just haven't noticed them? Maybe I am just more stupid and unobservant than I thought I was, and just hadn't seen it for what it was.

9/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

I don't even know if I could explain why I want to be a man, or feel like I am a man. Shouldn't there be reasons why I think/feel this way? Shouldn't there have been a bunch of clear signs all throughout my life thus far? Or have there been, and I just haven't noticed them? Maybe I am just more stupid and unobservant than I thought I was, and just hadn't seen it for what it was.

9/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Am I a misogynist if I think it's cool to be a man? Or that I would feel better/cooler if I personally was a man? And if people of any gender can act, talk, dress, express, and do things that any other gender can, what do I have to base this off of? How would I ever know whatever the hell I am?

8/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc

Am I a misogynist if I think it's cool to be a man? Or that I would feel better/cooler if I personally was a man? And if people of any gender can act, talk, dress, express, and do things that any other gender can, what do I have to base this off of? How would I ever know whatever the hell I am?

8/?

#lgbtq #transman #transgenderman #ftm #ftmquestioning #transgender #lgbt #transmasc #transmasculine #masc