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#sabah — Public Fediverse posts

Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #sabah, aggregated by home.social.

  1. Dating is strict in the Kadazandusun Murut Rungus (KDMR) community in Sabah, Malaysia. The person I choose to be romantic and/or sexual with should also undergo a family assessment. Too much individuality or anything done solely by oneself is seen as betraying the family or leaving the family for someone new. The family has raised me for decades; only for me to be with a person I have met for a few months or years implies betrayal.

    #kdmr #sabah #borneo #family #malaysia #dating #collectivism

  2. Dating is strict in the Kadazandusun Murut Rungus (KDMR) community in Sabah, Malaysia. The person I choose to be romantic and/or sexual with should also undergo a family assessment. Too much individuality or anything done solely by oneself is seen as betraying the family or leaving the family for someone new. The family has raised me for decades; only for me to be with a person I have met for a few months or years implies betrayal.

    #kdmr #sabah #borneo #family #malaysia #dating #collectivism