#sabah — Public Fediverse posts

A grounded reflection on KDMR collectivism, the stark reminder that no one buries themselves, and moving past reactive individualism toward quiet adaptation and decent boundaries.

https://the.kalvin.click/carried-to-the-ground-navigating-kinship-solitude-and-the-middle-hearth/

#dating #relationship #relationships #marriage #courtship #science #socialscience #repost #culture #tradition #kdmr #sabah #borneo #familyties #collectivism #datingrealities #filialduty #culturalweight #livedexperience #authenticity #boundaries #reflections #malaysia #borneo #sabah

A grounded reflection on KDMR collectivism, the stark reminder that no one buries themselves, and moving past reactive individualism toward quiet adaptation and decent boundaries.

https://the.kalvin.click/carried-to-the-ground-navigating-kinship-solitude-and-the-middle-hearth/

#dating #relationship #relationships #marriage #courtship #science #socialscience #repost #culture #tradition #kdmr #sabah #borneo #familyties #collectivism #datingrealities #filialduty #culturalweight #livedexperience #authenticity #boundaries #reflections #malaysia #borneo #sabah

A grounded reflection on KDMR collectivism, the stark reminder that no one buries themselves, and moving past reactive individualism toward quiet adaptation and decent boundaries.

https://the.kalvin.click/carried-to-the-ground-navigating-kinship-solitude-and-the-middle-hearth/

#dating #relationship #relationships #marriage #courtship #science #socialscience #repost #culture #tradition #kdmr #sabah #borneo #familyties #collectivism #datingrealities #filialduty #culturalweight #livedexperience #authenticity #boundaries #reflections #malaysia #borneo #sabah

A grounded reflection on KDMR collectivism, the stark reminder that no one buries themselves, and moving past reactive individualism toward quiet adaptation and decent boundaries.

https://the.kalvin.click/carried-to-the-ground-navigating-kinship-solitude-and-the-middle-hearth/

#dating #relationship #relationships #marriage #courtship #science #socialscience #repost #culture #tradition #kdmr #sabah #borneo #familyties #collectivism #datingrealities #filialduty #culturalweight #livedexperience #authenticity #boundaries #reflections #malaysia #borneo #sabah

A grounded reflection on KDMR collectivism, the stark reminder that no one buries themselves, and moving past reactive individualism toward quiet adaptation and decent boundaries.

https://the.kalvin.click/carried-to-the-ground-navigating-kinship-solitude-and-the-middle-hearth/

#dating #relationship #relationships #marriage #courtship #science #socialscience #repost #culture #tradition #kdmr #sabah #borneo #familyties #collectivism #datingrealities #filialduty #culturalweight #livedexperience #authenticity #boundaries #reflections #malaysia #borneo #sabah

Dating is strict in the Kadazandusun Murut Rungus (KDMR) community in Sabah, Malaysia. The person I choose to be romantic and/or sexual with should also undergo a family assessment. Too much individuality or anything done solely by oneself is seen as betraying the family or leaving the family for someone new. The family has raised me for decades; only for me to be with a person I have met for a few months or years implies betrayal.

#kdmr #sabah #borneo #family #malaysia #dating #collectivism

Dating is strict in the Kadazandusun Murut Rungus (KDMR) community in Sabah, Malaysia. The person I choose to be romantic and/or sexual with should also undergo a family assessment. Too much individuality or anything done solely by oneself is seen as betraying the family or leaving the family for someone new. The family has raised me for decades; only for me to be with a person I have met for a few months or years implies betrayal.

#kdmr #sabah #borneo #family #malaysia #dating #collectivism

Some changes coming to the Downtown Burlington food scene https://www.diningandcooking.com/us/11813/ #Burlington #BurlingtonHead #Business #change #CherryStreet #ChurchStreet #DowntownBurlingtonFoodScene #JamaicanCuisine #MustafaKhudaier #new #people #RestaurantGeneralManager #restaurants #sabah #shawarma #T'yanaCheney #thing #Vermont #VermontDining #VermontFood #VermontGroceryStores #VermontRestaurants #yaad

Some changes coming to the Downtown Burlington food scene https://www.diningandcooking.com/us/11813/ #Burlington #BurlingtonHead #Business #change #CherryStreet #ChurchStreet #DowntownBurlingtonFoodScene #JamaicanCuisine #MustafaKhudaier #new #people #RestaurantGeneralManager #restaurants #sabah #shawarma #T'yanaCheney #thing #Vermont #VermontDining #VermontFood #VermontGroceryStores #VermontRestaurants #yaad

Some changes coming to the Downtown Burlington food scene https://www.diningandcooking.com/us/11813/ #Burlington #BurlingtonHead #Business #change #CherryStreet #ChurchStreet #DowntownBurlingtonFoodScene #JamaicanCuisine #MustafaKhudaier #new #people #RestaurantGeneralManager #restaurants #sabah #shawarma #T'yanaCheney #thing #Vermont #VermontDining #VermontFood #VermontGroceryStores #VermontRestaurants #yaad

Some changes coming to the Downtown Burlington food scene https://www.diningandcooking.com/us/11813/ #Burlington #BurlingtonHead #Business #change #CherryStreet #ChurchStreet #DowntownBurlingtonFoodScene #JamaicanCuisine #MustafaKhudaier #new #people #RestaurantGeneralManager #restaurants #sabah #shawarma #T'yanaCheney #thing #Vermont #VermontDining #VermontFood #VermontGroceryStores #VermontRestaurants #yaad

I am a native Malaysian person, specifically from the Sabah region. It seems that, although I am a native of this land, it feels like nothing belongs to me here. Capitalists and cronies own the land; our rights to electricity are being denied, and our voices are constantly suppressed or harassed.

#Sabah #Malaysia #IndigenousRights #LandRights #NativeVoices #CronyCapitalism #EnergyJustice #ClimateJustice #HumanRights #SocialJustice #Decolonise #AntiColonial #PowerToThePeople #CommunityRights #CulturalSurvival #VoiceForTheVoiceless #JusticeForSabah #NoToLandGrabbing #ProtectOurLand #ElectricityForAll #SystemicOppression #RiseUp #WeAreStillHere #Resist #LandBack #EnergyAccess #SabahStruggles #PeopleOverProfit #StandWithSabah #FightInjustice #NativeLand #OrangAsal #Borneo #MalaysianPolitics #Equity

I am a native Malaysian person, specifically from the Sabah region. It seems that, although I am a native of this land, it feels like nothing belongs to me here. Capitalists and cronies own the land; our rights to electricity are being denied, and our voices are constantly suppressed or harassed.

#Sabah #Malaysia #IndigenousRights #LandRights #NativeVoices #CronyCapitalism #EnergyJustice #ClimateJustice #HumanRights #SocialJustice #Decolonise #AntiColonial #PowerToThePeople #CommunityRights #CulturalSurvival #VoiceForTheVoiceless #JusticeForSabah #NoToLandGrabbing #ProtectOurLand #ElectricityForAll #SystemicOppression #RiseUp #WeAreStillHere #Resist #LandBack #EnergyAccess #SabahStruggles #PeopleOverProfit #StandWithSabah #FightInjustice #NativeLand #OrangAsal #Borneo #MalaysianPolitics #Equity

I am a native Malaysian person, specifically from the Sabah region. It seems that, although I am a native of this land, it feels like nothing belongs to me here. Capitalists and cronies own the land; our rights to electricity are being denied, and our voices are constantly suppressed or harassed.

#Sabah #Malaysia #IndigenousRights #LandRights #NativeVoices #CronyCapitalism #EnergyJustice #ClimateJustice #HumanRights #SocialJustice #Decolonise #AntiColonial #PowerToThePeople #CommunityRights #CulturalSurvival #VoiceForTheVoiceless #JusticeForSabah #NoToLandGrabbing #ProtectOurLand #ElectricityForAll #SystemicOppression #RiseUp #WeAreStillHere #Resist #LandBack #EnergyAccess #SabahStruggles #PeopleOverProfit #StandWithSabah #FightInjustice #NativeLand #OrangAsal #Borneo #MalaysianPolitics #Equity