#an4fnm — Public Fediverse posts

RE: https://chaos.social/@skalabyrinth/116386297638436184

#Datestodon #AN4A #AN4FNM #Kiel polyam genderqueer lesbian searching for a deep close long term relationship and/or friends close to where I live or with whom I can share lots of time in person.

I like hiking a lot. I like being creative and talk about my and other's main interests. I like talking about feelings that help us emotionally delevop, and society. I like cuddling. And I like having time together and relax.

I am neuroatypical (autist, plural) and left.

#FediDating #Dating

#Datestodon #AN4FNM #Seattle poly pan enby with two wonderful women as partners. Up for occasional dates or FWB (or even F without B 😋).

Most interested in masc folx, because I don't get much of that energy in my life, and I miss it. Disclosure: body hair is a sensory thing for me, which has historically made finding men to date difficult.

Say hi (but preferably more than that). I'd be down to grab a drink sometime 🩷

#FediDating #Dating

```
Datestodon — Fedi dating posts

Usage:
#Datestodon #[AGE][ME]4[YOU] #LOCATION DESCRIPTION

Age:
Y Younger (~18-30s)
A Adult (~30s–50s)
O Older (~50s+)

Gender:
F Femme
N Nonbinary/agender
M Masc

Examples:
#Datestodon #AN4FNM #Seattle
Poly pan enby tomboy open to dates with FWB possibilities.

#Datestodon #YF4M #Portland
20s femme mycologist seeking fun guy.

#Datestodon #OM4M #London
Gay 63yo - London area. Looking for partner.

#Datestodon #AFN4FN #Brazil
32yo femby ISO femme-leaning person for hikes, surfing, and furthering the gay agenda.

Notes:
- Hashtag codes are to get you into the right themepark, not a ticket to ride any specific rollercoaster.
- Use the description for sexuality, relationship style, preferences, boundaries, and anything else that matters to you.
- Orientation, cis/transness, "YOU" age, and other factors are intentionally not encoded.
- Multiple "ME" or "YOU" categories may be combined when useful, but this will make your tag less searchable.
- Age category applies to both "ME" and "YOU", and is intentionally broad and overlapping. The band is narrower at the low end and widens with each category. O isn't "old" it's just older than A.
- F, N, and M are about presentation and identity, and don't cover all the complexities of gender, but they do provide enough info for *most* folx to tell if you're in their *potential* dating pool.
- Keeping the hashtag code in the listed order and format will make it more searchable and easier for folx to read.
```

Update:
- reworded some notes to address questions
- removed (A)ny flag, as it overlapped with (A)dult, and just added complexity.

#FediDate #Dating