#selfleadership — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #selfleadership, aggregated by home.social.
-
The leaders I've watched plateau aren't the ones who lacked talent. They're the ones who kept waiting for someone else to guide their growth. The ones who keep moving treat their development like a line item they control. You don't need your organization's permission to read, reflect, or ask hard questions. That part is yours.
https://www.congruentchange.com/first-lead-yourself/
#Leadership #ContinuousLearning #SelfLeadership #ProfessionalDevelopment
-
Nobody is coming to own your professional development. Not your manager. Not HR. Not the next reorg. Not the leadership program that keeps getting cut when budgets get tight.
#ItIsYourCareer #SelfLeadership
.cc Don Gray
-
The real power isn’t out there it’s in how you manage what’s in here.
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/THIRDEYE852FREE/Stuartn/
#InnerMastery #PowerWithin #MindsetMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #ConsciousLiving #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Meditation -
The real power isn’t out there it’s in how you manage what’s in here.
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/THIRDEYE852FREE/Stuartn/
#InnerMastery #PowerWithin #MindsetMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #ConsciousLiving #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Meditation -
The real power isn’t out there it’s in how you manage what’s in here.
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/THIRDEYE852FREE/Stuartn/
#InnerMastery #PowerWithin #MindsetMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #ConsciousLiving #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Meditation -
The real power isn’t out there it’s in how you manage what’s in here.
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/THIRDEYE852FREE/Stuartn/
#InnerMastery #PowerWithin #MindsetMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #ConsciousLiving #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Meditation -
The real power isn’t out there it’s in how you manage what’s in here.
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/THIRDEYE852FREE/Stuartn/
#InnerMastery #PowerWithin #MindsetMatters #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #ConsciousLiving #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Meditation -
When people feel seen, they open up. The negotiation that was stalled starts moving. The team member who was withdrawn starts engaging. The conversation that stuck starts moving. Empathy isn't about agreement. It's about acknowledgment. It costs nothing, and it changes everything. Empathy is one of the nine self-leadership topics we explore in our self-pace online course, First Lead Yourself.
-
Most people think empathy is about being nice. It's not. It's about understanding how other people see and feel things — well enough that you can actually work with them, not just around them. And here's what surprises people: empathy is a skill. Which means it can be developed. The leaders who develop and practice empathy are consistently more effective than the ones who don't.
-
The hardest decisions I've made weren't hard because I didn't know the options. They were hard because two things I cared about were pulling in opposite directions. Growth vs. stability.. Speed vs. quality. Not getting fired vs doing the right thing.
#CoveValues #LeadYourself #SelfLeadership
.cc Don Gray
-
Do you protect time for deep thinking? What does that look like in practice — or what keeps getting in the way?
cc @donaldegray
-
When I was a corporate employee, my calendar was always packed. Yours probably is too. Meeting after meeting. Follow-ups, a never ending task list. By the end of the day, I felt like I’d been going 100 miles an hour, and gotten further behind. The organization I worked for rewarded people who were always slammed…”busy people get more done,” was the mantra. But busy and productive are not the same thing.
cc @donaldegray
-
When did your first instinct turn out to be wrong? And how did you catch it before it did damage?
-
The leaders I've respected most have a gap between stimulus and response. They pause. They ask a question. They get curious before they get decisive.
"What happened here?" lands differently than "Who dropped the ball?" "Help me understand your thinking" opens more than "That won't work." Curiosity isn't idle. It's a discipline.
-
When something goes wrong, our brains are quick to assign blame. It’s a survival mechanism. Humans process negative events as threats. The gut response to defend and protect ego.
Unless there really is a tiger (real or metaphorical), the temptation to react immediately is almost always suboptimal.
-
RecruitTheBest Daily Digest- Why Do Great Leaders Lead With Love?
‘Leading people is a lot like creating work family. There are joy and tears, fun and fears.’
‘Love matters. It matters because with all that we have learned with respect to phenomenal leadership approaches, models, and philosophies, we still fail.’
‘When we fail to recognize the human need and capacity to love, we fail as leaders.’
‘Love is the crucial component in our lives, and our very survival depends upon its presence.’
‘Leaders who love create environments of compassion and caring.’
‘When people in the workplace are bonded by love, they forged solid bonds with one another that keep them together.’
‘Love enhances the feeling of ‘us’ along with a sense of purpose.’
‘When love is present, when care for one another rules, and when there’s an abundance of empathy, organizations take on the very human qualities toward which we should all strive.’
‘Love knows no titles. And hanging our importance or stature on the title in front of our name serve no purpose other than to inflate our ego.’
‘We depend on one another.’
‘We need one another.’
Source:
Zina Sutch and Patrick Malone (2021). Leading with Love and Laughter: Letting Go and Getting Real at work
#Change #Compassion #Family #Growth #HealthAndWellBeing #LeadershipPhilosophy #LeadingOthers #Life #PersonalDevelopment #Philosophy #SelfLeadership #Success #Workplace #WorkplaceCreativity -
9. When I try to put my phone down, it feels like an inner double-pull:
A vacuum‑cleaner vortex dragging me into the screen – and the moment I ask “Why am I doing this?”, a tiny angry Rumpelstilzchen in me yells: “Absolutely not! We’re not looking at that! That’s what the phone is for!”
I just watch. So much in me says: anything but the feeling — straight into the phone.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfReflection
-
9. When I try to put my phone down, it feels like an inner double-pull:
A vacuum‑cleaner vortex dragging me into the screen – and the moment I ask “Why am I doing this?”, a tiny angry Rumpelstilzchen in me yells: “Absolutely not! We’re not looking at that! That’s what the phone is for!”
I just watch. So much in me says: anything but the feeling — straight into the phone.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfReflection
-
8. Next step: Bought an old-school alarm clock. My phone can charge in the living room at night. What happens instead? 😂
My inner Monty Python sketch: “Leave the phone in the living room? Sure, I’ll do it. … Soon. Or tomorrow. … Or… well? …never?”
Making deals with myself is like political negotiations—lots of talk, little action.
At least humor helps, even when the phone is still right next to me.#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfReflection #SelfTalk
-
8. Next step: Bought an old-school alarm clock. My phone can charge in the living room at night. What happens instead? 😂
My inner Monty Python sketch: “Leave the phone in the living room? Sure, I’ll do it. … Soon. Or tomorrow. … Or… well? …never?”
Making deals with myself is like political negotiations—lots of talk, little action.
At least humor helps, even when the phone is still right next to me.#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfReflection #SelfTalk
-
Early mornings are not about time. They are about identity. #MorningMotivation #Discipline #SuccessMindset #Productivity #SelfLeadership
https://stayingalive.in/thought-of-the-day/rise-before-the-birds.html -
6. Self-care as a friendly invitation to consider myself important? My inner slacker is already rolling its eyes.
But maybe that’s the trick for less smartphone time: not being stricter, but kinder to myself. Charging my batteries instead of running on autopilot.
Time to get off the “ego trip” that others are always more important than me.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfCare
-
6. Self-care as a friendly invitation to consider myself important? My inner slacker is already rolling its eyes.
But maybe that’s the trick for less smartphone time: not being stricter, but kinder to myself. Charging my batteries instead of running on autopilot.
Time to get off the “ego trip” that others are always more important than me.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SelfCare
-
5. The Kantian question: What is a human?
Today, I was more dog than human. Instead of chasing dopamine clicks on my phone, I had sun on my face and grass under my feet. My dog just rolls in the moment—while I? I’m learning from her that real life doesn’t happen on a screen.
To the question “What is a human?” I definitely don’t want to answer: a digitally living junkie.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #DigitalWellbeing
-
5. The Kantian question: What is a human?
Today, I was more dog than human. Instead of chasing dopamine clicks on my phone, I had sun on my face and grass under my feet. My dog just rolls in the moment—while I? I’m learning from her that real life doesn’t happen on a screen.
To the question “What is a human?” I definitely don’t want to answer: a digitally living junkie.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #DigitalWellbeing
-
5. The Kantian question: What is a human?
Today, I was more dog than human. Instead of chasing dopamine clicks on my phone, I had sun on my face and grass under my feet. My dog just rolls in the moment—while I? I’m learning from her that real life doesn’t happen on a screen.
To the question “What is a human?” I definitely don’t want to answer: a digitally living junkie.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #DigitalWellbeing
-
Sometimes I wonder when I turned from the kid staring at slot machine junkies in smoky bars into my own smartphone zombie.
My minimalism device is now my endless jackpot—and I’m the player who can’t stop.
My analog fingers lead me into digital addiction. We think we live digitally, but dopamine is still released the analog way.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SmartphoneZombies
-
Sometimes I wonder when I turned from the kid staring at slot machine junkies in smoky bars into my own smartphone zombie.
My minimalism device is now my endless jackpot—and I’m the player who can’t stop.
My analog fingers lead me into digital addiction. We think we live digitally, but dopamine is still released the analog way.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SmartphoneZombies
-
Sometimes I wonder when I turned from the kid staring at slot machine junkies in smoky bars into my own smartphone zombie.
My minimalism device is now my endless jackpot—and I’m the player who can’t stop.
My analog fingers lead me into digital addiction. We think we live digitally, but dopamine is still released the analog way.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SmartphoneZombies
-
Sometimes I wonder when I turned from the kid staring at slot machine junkies in smoky bars into my own smartphone zombie.
My minimalism device is now my endless jackpot—and I’m the player who can’t stop.
My analog fingers lead me into digital addiction. We think we live digitally, but dopamine is still released the analog way.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SmartphoneZombies
-
Sometimes I wonder when I turned from the kid staring at slot machine junkies in smoky bars into my own smartphone zombie.
My minimalism device is now my endless jackpot—and I’m the player who can’t stop.
My analog fingers lead me into digital addiction. We think we live digitally, but dopamine is still released the analog way.
#DigitalDetox #Minimalism #Mindfulness #SelfLeadership #PhoneAddiction #SmartphoneZombies
-
I never wanted power, but now I understand its value.
#Boundaries
#PersonalGrowth
#Healing
#EmotionalMaturity
#SelfLeadership
#InnerWork
#Adulthood
#Authority -
Awkward or repetitive conversations aren’t the real problem. How we respond is.
Active Constructive Responding turns everyday moments into connection — at family tables and in leadership conversations alike.
📚 https://www.emberhart.com/active-constructive-responding-turning-awkward-christmas-moments-into-connection/
What would change if curiosity replaced irritation?
#CommunicationMindset #PositivePsychology #HumanSkills #ConnectionOverComfort #SelfLeadership #Emberhart #SparkingChange -
Try this before your next meeting: Stand tall. Open your chest. Hold for 2 minutes.
Sounds simple. Feels awkward. Works more than you expect. https://www.tiktok.com/@emberhartco/video/7594039073833078038
#DailyHabits #ConfidenceBoost #MindsetShift #PerformanceTips #SelfLeadership #Emberhart #SelfPerception #Superwoman -
Sensitivity grows with awareness. Strength grows when we accept it. #awareness #mentalhealth #emotionalstrength #selfleadership #innerwork
https://stayingalive.in/thought-of-the-day/the-hidden-cost-of-a-sharp.html -
Sensitivity grows with awareness. Strength grows when we accept it. #awareness #mentalhealth #emotionalstrength #selfleadership #innerwork
https://stayingalive.in/thought-of-the-day/the-hidden-cost-of-a-sharp.html -
Unleash Smile 4/10 The real challenge isn’t knowing the formula — it’s living it. We often start strong, then drift back, convincing ourselves the past equals the future. It doesn’t. Unless we decide it does. 🔥
#ChangeMindset #SelfLeadership #ProgressNotPerfection #EmberhartPodcast -
Growth isn’t about speed. It’s about care, patience, and staying rooted. What are you nurturing right now? 🌱 #Purpose #Growth #Inspiration #SelfLeadership #Mindset #LifeLessons #Motivation #NatureWisdom #Resilience #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #SanjayKMohindroo
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/the-seed-that-never-dies-092a1ca071b7 -
Growth isn’t about speed. It’s about care, patience, and staying rooted. What are you nurturing right now? 🌱 #Purpose #Growth #Inspiration #SelfLeadership #Mindset #LifeLessons #Motivation #NatureWisdom #Resilience #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #SanjayKMohindroo
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/the-seed-that-never-dies-092a1ca071b7 -
Are you living in theory or learning from life? #lifeexperience #careerwisdom #executivethoughts #mindsetshift #entrepreneurship #successhabits #emotionalintelligence #goethe #goldentreeoflife #SanjayKMohindroo #inspiration #selfleadership #startnow #linkedinpost
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/all-theory-dear-friend-is-gray-but-the-golden-tree-of-life-springs-ever-green-977058bdd025 -
Are you living in theory or learning from life? #lifeexperience #careerwisdom #executivethoughts #mindsetshift #entrepreneurship #successhabits #emotionalintelligence #goethe #goldentreeoflife #SanjayKMohindroo #inspiration #selfleadership #startnow #linkedinpost
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/all-theory-dear-friend-is-gray-but-the-golden-tree-of-life-springs-ever-green-977058bdd025 -
Most people don’t lack ability—they lack belief. What would change if you stopped playing small? #HighPerformance #SelfLeadership #BelieveInYourself #NoMoreLimits #LiveFully #SanjayKMohindroo https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/what-would-happen-if-you-finally-backed-yourself-c6af1e9c5d9d
-
Most people don’t lack ability—they lack belief. What would change if you stopped playing small? #HighPerformance #SelfLeadership #BelieveInYourself #NoMoreLimits #LiveFully #SanjayKMohindroo https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/what-would-happen-if-you-finally-backed-yourself-c6af1e9c5d9d
-
Excuses sound smart—until they cost you growth. Which one are you letting win? #MindsetShift #NoMoreExcuses #CourageOverComfort #KeepPushing #Discipline #GrowthMindset #Execution #GetItDone #NoPlanB #SanjayKMohindroo #ProfessionalGrowth #MotivationForProfessionals #SayNoToExcuses #SelfLeadership #FearlessExecution #ModernDiscipline
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/be-stronger-than-your-strongest-excuse-inky-johnson-53f9a5a0a2f4 -
Excuses sound smart—until they cost you growth. Which one are you letting win? #MindsetShift #NoMoreExcuses #CourageOverComfort #KeepPushing #Discipline #GrowthMindset #Execution #GetItDone #NoPlanB #SanjayKMohindroo #ProfessionalGrowth #MotivationForProfessionals #SayNoToExcuses #SelfLeadership #FearlessExecution #ModernDiscipline
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/be-stronger-than-your-strongest-excuse-inky-johnson-53f9a5a0a2f4 -
Your story didn’t begin with you, but it can start becoming yours today. What’s your next chapter? #RewriteTheNarrative #LiveIntentionally #PowerOfChoice #Leadership #Healing #HistoryAndIdentity #Legacy #MindsetMatters #SanjayKMohindroo #SymbolismArt #InspirationalQuotes #RewriteTheStory #EmotionalGrowth #SelfLeadership
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/people-are-trapped-in-history-and-history-is-trapped-in-them-james-baldwin-ec7067e24ee7 -
Your story didn’t begin with you, but it can start becoming yours today. What’s your next chapter? #RewriteTheNarrative #LiveIntentionally #PowerOfChoice #Leadership #Healing #HistoryAndIdentity #Legacy #MindsetMatters #SanjayKMohindroo #SymbolismArt #InspirationalQuotes #RewriteTheStory #EmotionalGrowth #SelfLeadership
https://medium.com/@mohindroo.sanjay66/people-are-trapped-in-history-and-history-is-trapped-in-them-james-baldwin-ec7067e24ee7 -
Am I truly present –
or just defending something old?This urge to be right
is often not truth,
but self-protection.Much of what we call reaction
is really memory.When I notice that,
a quiet space opens.
No need to fight.
Only the freedom to choose.#SelfLeadership #Healing #InnerWork #Awareness #MentalHealth
-
// Unstoppable You - Masterclass
Norma Jensen, entrepreneur, mental coach, and board chair, empowers clarity, courage, and sovereign leadership. ✨
In her Masterclass, you'll learn to make clear decisions under pressure, set boundaries, and lead with confidence. 💡
With 35+ years of experience, she shares tools for self-leadership, decision-making, and effectiveness. 🚀
🔗 https://www.waterkant.sh/festival?utm_source=mastodon&utm_id=WK25