#oldestsibling — Public Fediverse posts on home.social

[people don't like it when i drink alcohol because that's the only time I have the courage to verbalize my pain or call out how I've been harmed,]

[and so any display of backbone or "self respect" is treated as "drunkenness" EVERYONE IS TELLING ME I just need to have "more self confidence" and I wouldn't get - abused so much??] Sure.

But PLEASE YES let's continue to blame ME as a failure for manifesting generational neuroses because I chose to shave my head and INTENTIONALLY NOT have children.

I am the oldest child AND the oldest daughter. I am fucked.

#Oldest-sibling #oldest-daughter #parentification #emotional-neglect #religious-abuse #religious-trauma #emotionally-unstable-mother