#emotionalneglect — Public Fediverse posts

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

in anticipation of my weekly podcast, here's the article i published in 2020 i will read & discuss this week called #DefiningLove

it's about what the concept of love means after growing up in a dysfunctional family where none of the adults have experience of a healthy family dynamic to show children how it's done.

https://gifsartidote.life/2020/11/13/defining-love/

#press #socialscience #psychology #ClusterBpds #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #BondingSyndrome #InternationalAdoption #ChildAbuse

#music before bedtime tonight is my 'cool' playlist, starting with this excellent advice around how to deal with life's overwhelming problems by my wise siblings the #WhiteStripes #LittleAcorn..

#press #news #media #GenerationalTrauma #MENtalHealth #EmotionalNeglect #responsibility #accountability #DVsurvivor #NPD #BPD

https://tidal.com/browse/track/156600951?

#music before bedtime tonight is my 'cool' playlist, starting with this excellent advice around how to deal with life's overwhelming problems by my wise siblings the #WhiteStripes #LittleAcorn..

#press #news #media #GenerationalTrauma #MENtalHealth #EmotionalNeglect #responsibility #accountability #DVsurvivor #NPD #BPD

https://tidal.com/browse/track/156600951?

#music before bedtime: #theWhiteStripes with #BlueOrchid

#GifsArtiidote: so many memories are triggered by this song & others by the w.s.
i am grateful for meeting my ex who introduced me decades ago, not to mention to my amazing son.
i hope he finds the strength to overcome his problems, & finally be a father to our child. he's not waiting, neither am i.

#press #media #recovery #BPD #DysthymicDisorder #AbsentFathers #EmotionalNeglect #DomesticAbuseSurvivors

https://open.spotify.com/track/6vluCORdF8bV6zhXfKyKBp?

#music before bedtime: #theWhiteStripes with #BlueOrchid

#GifsArtiidote: so many memories are triggered by this song & others by the w.s.
i am grateful for meeting my ex who introduced me decades ago, not to mention to my amazing son.
i hope he finds the strength to overcome his problems, & finally be a father to our child. he's not waiting, neither am i.

#press #media #recovery #BPD #DysthymicDisorder #AbsentFathers #EmotionalNeglect #DomesticAbuseSurvivors

https://open.spotify.com/track/6vluCORdF8bV6zhXfKyKBp?

#GifsArtidote:
PERSONAL NEWS ALERT:

from last fri 19 september until fri 26th of september i am on a #NewsStrike as prescribed by my witch #PandoraDarkmoon to aid my #recovery of #burnout as a result of a lifetime of #EmotionalNeglect - by #TheStateWeAreIn, #TheSystemWeAreIn, #TheFamilyIamIn, #MySelf, #MyChoices, #MyJourneyOfLearning&development..

#MentalHealth #press #BPD #CPTSD

#GifsArtidote:
PERSONAL NEWS ALERT:

from last fri 19 september until fri 26th of september i am on a #NewsStrike as prescribed by my witch #PandoraDarkmoon to aid my recovery of #burnout as a result of a lifetime of #EmotionalNeglect - by #TheStateWeAreIn, #TheSystemWeAreIn, #TheFamilyIamIn, #MySelf, #MyChoices, #MyJourneyOfLearning&development.

it doesn't mean i don't share any news in that time, but it will only be occasional & i won't create crossposts with commentary & analysis, unless it's urgent, in need of a call to action for a community's sake regarding safety &/or threat to life etc.
i will continue posting about positive news/info/knowledge & personal (learning) experiences, developments & ideas.

HEALTH UPDATE:

after months of exhaustion without doing much, i broke my toe a few weeks ago, as a result of falling suddenly unconscious without clear reason. i took it as a physical signal that i needed to listen to my body & stop any activity until further notice.
over the last few weeks i have since:
☆ taken rest when needed
☆ committed to a #BedtimeRoutine as i developed #insomnia
☆ started practising #meditation
☆ limiting #YT & socials usage
☆ aiming to go outside every day ☆ practise to be aware of my senses
☆ practise to live in the moment as much as i can
☆ smoke less baccy & limit smoking my prescribed #MedicalCannabis to 2 joints daily before/during my bedtime routine
☆ be consciously kind to myself
☆ taken time to make any decision, & regarding important ones got an outside opinion from a trusted & wise friend #impulsiveBPD
☆ i aim to #SeekDiscomfort whenever i feel anxious or insecure & then do it anyway
☆ enjoy anything giving me #PositiveEnergy as intense as i can
☆ steer my self away from negative energy/thoughts
☆ #BeMySelf to #BeReal & as open as i can
☆ learn to use #NaturalRemedies from global ancient indigenous wisdom
☆ #educate myself on my own personal, cultural, spiritual, historical & ideological identity.

this is what i can think of so far, i'll try to add & update this list as i progress.

to aid my recovery i am transforming my flat to truly reflect my self, encourage my development & reach my true potential. i do this to my own ability at the time, in small steps, on my terms, for my self ONLY

Literally all men in my family, including my non-binary self:
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=s7zdKb7k8tAEobDG
#workaholic #psychology #SocialHarm #CollectiveTrauma #BPD #ClusterBPDs #Capitalism #ChildhoodTrauma #DysfunctionalFamily #EmotionalNeglect #NPD #ASPD
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=Y4RcqaRtl3Ond8jn

Literally all men in my family, including my non-binary self:
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=s7zdKb7k8tAEobDG
#workaholic #psychology #SocialHarm #CollectiveTrauma #BPD #ClusterBPDs #Capitalism #ChildhoodTrauma #DysfunctionalFamily #EmotionalNeglect #NPD #ASPD
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=Y4RcqaRtl3Ond8jn

Literally all men in my family, including my non-binary self:
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=s7zdKb7k8tAEobDG
#workaholic #psychology #SocialHarm #CollectiveTrauma #BPD #ClusterBPDs #Capitalism #ChildhoodTrauma #DysfunctionalFamily #EmotionalNeglect #NPD #ASPD
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=Y4RcqaRtl3Ond8jn

Literally all men in my family, including my non-binary self:
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=s7zdKb7k8tAEobDG
#workaholic #psychology #SocialHarm #CollectiveTrauma #BPD #ClusterBPDs #Capitalism #ChildhoodTrauma #DysfunctionalFamily #EmotionalNeglect #NPD #ASPD
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=Y4RcqaRtl3Ond8jn

Literally all men in my family, including my non-binary self:
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=s7zdKb7k8tAEobDG
#workaholic #psychology #SocialHarm #CollectiveTrauma #BPD #ClusterBPDs #Capitalism #ChildhoodTrauma #DysfunctionalFamily #EmotionalNeglect #NPD #ASPD
https://youtu.be/V64QIbw3sH8?si=Y4RcqaRtl3Ond8jn

Do you recognise this in yourself?
Read how you can start to feel more and have deeper connections with others in the article.

▪︎Many men value their individuality as a sign of strength while it's actually a sign of emotional neglect.

Having their emotions discouraged as children teaches men to hide and devalue feelings in general.

Most emotionally neglected men are stand-up guys, but they lack the ability to properly connect emotionally.

#Psychology #EmotionalNeglect #men
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202408/5-things-you-should-know-about-emotionally-neglected-men

Locked Up Living Michael Davitt; (video) Overcoming Emotional Neglect: A Story of Resilience: Michael Davitt, an author focused on mental health issues, shares his experience with complex PTSD stemming from emotional neglect in childhood. He chose a pseudonym, Luke Pemberton, to write about his parents and childhood to protect their identity. Michael discusses his struggle with attachment… https://lockedupliving.podbean.com/e/michael-davitt-overcoming-emotional-neglect-a-story-of-resilience-1717541249/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon @lockedupliving #MentalHealth #EmotionalNeglect #PTSD #Resilience #ChildhoodTrauma

Locked Up Living Michael Davitt; Overcoming Emotional Neglect: A Story of Resilience: Michael Davitt, an author focused on mental health issues, shares his experience with complex PTSD stemming from emotional neglect in childhood. He chose a pseudonym, Luke Pemberton, to write about his parents and childhood to protect their identity. Michael discusses his struggle with attachment… https://lockedupliving.podbean.com/e/michael-davitt-overcoming-emotional-neglect-a-story-of-resilience/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon @lockedupliving #MentalHealth #EmotionalNeglect #ComplexPTSD #TraumaRecovery #Resilience

LOOP

https://disintegrated.fedipress.au/2023/09/19/loop/

Holy shit.

> Growing up emotionally neglected is like nearly dying of thirst just outside the fenced off fountain of a parent’s kindness and interest. Emotional neglect makes children feel worthless, unlovable and excruciatingly empty, with a hunger that gnaws deeply at the center of their being, leaving them starving for human warmth and comfort - a hunger that often morphs over time into an insatiable appetite for substances and/or addictive processes.

That's terrible.

#emotionalNeglect