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  1. CW: transition timeline

    12 months GAHT, 8 years since my egg cracked, and 1 regret: not starting sooner.

    There is still time.

    Happy Pride, fedi. Look out for each other πŸ’–βœ¨

    (This feels cheeky with the censored face. An uncensored version is next, but it won't stay up for long.)

    #PrideMonth #TransJoy #NBJoy

  2. CW: transition timeline

    12 months GAHT, 8 years since my egg cracked, and 1 regret: not starting sooner.

    There is still time.

    Happy Pride, fedi. Look out for each other πŸ’–βœ¨

    (This feels cheeky with the censored face. An uncensored version is next, but it won't stay up for long.)

    #PrideMonth #TransJoy #NBJoy

  3. CW: transition timeline

    12 months GAHT, 8 years since my egg cracked, and 1 regret: not starting sooner.

    There is still time.

    Happy Pride, fedi. Look out for each other πŸ’–βœ¨

    (This feels cheeky with the censored face. An uncensored version is next, but it won't stay up for long.)

    #PrideMonth #TransJoy #NBJoy

  4. @oldladyplays I got home after my first day outside in a dress, a lovely night watching the Survivor finale with friends. I caught my reflection in a building mirror, sweaty, flushed, and windswept but it looked femme and I liked it πŸ₯°

    Sometimes my anxiety fixates on the ways my expression of feminity conflicts with the compromises of bike life, and it felt like a refutation of those feelings.

    I'm sorry for your pain, and I admire the way you use it to inspire joy.

    #TransJoy #NBJoy #BikeJoy

  5. @oldladyplays I got home after my first day outside in a dress, a lovely night watching the Survivor finale with friends. I caught my reflection in a building mirror, sweaty, flushed, and windswept but it looked femme and I liked it πŸ₯°

    Sometimes my anxiety fixates on the ways my expression of feminity conflicts with the compromises of bike life, and it felt like a refutation of those feelings.

    I'm sorry for your pain, and I admire the way you use it to inspire joy.

    #TransJoy #NBJoy #BikeJoy

  6. @oldladyplays I got home after my first day outside in a dress, a lovely night watching the Survivor finale with friends. I caught my reflection in a building mirror, sweaty, flushed, and windswept but it looked femme and I liked it πŸ₯°

    Sometimes my anxiety fixates on the ways my expression of feminity conflicts with the compromises of bike life, and it felt like a refutation of those feelings.

    I'm sorry for your pain, and I admire the way you use it to inspire joy.

    #TransJoy #NBJoy #BikeJoy

  7. @oldladyplays just today I had the occasion to wear my suit again, and speak in said suit in front of several hundred, most of them do not know my gender identity, but still I felt really great #NBJoy

  8. @oldladyplays just today I had the occasion to wear my suit again, and speak in said suit in front of several hundred, most of them do not know my gender identity, but still I felt really great #NBJoy

  9. @oldladyplays just today I had the occasion to wear my suit again, and speak in said suit in front of several hundred, most of them do not know my gender identity, but still I felt really great #NBJoy

  10. I am having a painful day.

    Would you kind folks, in the next 24 hours or so, tag me on a post you make about the last moment (or much longer?) you had or saw some #TransJoy ? Or #NBJoy ? Or #AgenderJoy ? Now you see why I'm asking? Too many possible sources. #BlackJoy or #DisabledJoy or #DeafJoy or so many others.

    If you've a marginalised identity and found joy recently, tell me what it was. Don't be afraid to say it was about discomfiting your oppressor. Speak your joy. Doesn't matter if I share an identity with your oppressor, I don't do defensive. If I've done what you say, I'll apologise and/or accept responsibility for my failures and misdeeds and privilege. If I haven't, then I will share your victory joy, bc any oppressor is too many.

    I just want to hear what's bringing you joy in an identity important to you?

    Thread RULE: if it isn't about you, don't make it about you. You need to defend yourself for some reason? This is neither time nor place. Joy only. You wanna hurt someone? Not here. This is a braver space than that.

    What's your joy, if you want to share?

  11. I am having a painful day.

    Would you kind folks, in the next 24 hours or so, tag me on a post you make about the last moment (or much longer?) you had or saw some #TransJoy ? Or #NBJoy ? Or #AgenderJoy ? Now you see why I'm asking? Too many possible sources. #BlackJoy or #DisabledJoy or #DeafJoy or so many others.

    If you've a marginalised identity and found joy recently, tell me what it was. Don't be afraid to say it was about discomfiting your oppressor. Speak your joy. Doesn't matter if I share an identity with your oppressor, I don't do defensive. If I've done what you say, I'll apologise and/or accept responsibility for my failures and misdeeds and privilege. If I haven't, then I will share your victory joy, bc any oppressor is too many.

    I just want to hear what's bringing you joy in an identity important to you?

    Thread RULE: if it isn't about you, don't make it about you. You need to defend yourself for some reason? This is neither time nor place. Joy only. You wanna hurt someone? Not here. This is a braver space than that.

    What's your joy, if you want to share?

  12. I am having a painful day.

    Would you kind folks, in the next 24 hours or so, tag me on a post you make about the last moment (or much longer?) you had or saw some #TransJoy ? Or #NBJoy ? Or #AgenderJoy ? Now you see why I'm asking? Too many possible sources. #BlackJoy or #DisabledJoy or #DeafJoy or so many others.

    If you've a marginalised identity and found joy recently, tell me what it was. Don't be afraid to say it was about discomfiting your oppressor. Speak your joy. Doesn't matter if I share an identity with your oppressor, I don't do defensive. If I've done what you say, I'll apologise and/or accept responsibility for my failures and misdeeds and privilege. If I haven't, then I will share your victory joy, bc any oppressor is too many.

    I just want to hear what's bringing you joy in an identity important to you?

    Thread RULE: if it isn't about you, don't make it about you. You need to defend yourself for some reason? This is neither time nor place. Joy only. You wanna hurt someone? Not here. This is a braver space than that.

    What's your joy, if you want to share?