#agenderjoy — Public Fediverse posts

I am having a painful day.

Would you kind folks, in the next 24 hours or so, tag me on a post you make about the last moment (or much longer?) you had or saw some #TransJoy ? Or #NBJoy ? Or #AgenderJoy ? Now you see why I'm asking? Too many possible sources. #BlackJoy or #DisabledJoy or #DeafJoy or so many others.

If you've a marginalised identity and found joy recently, tell me what it was. Don't be afraid to say it was about discomfiting your oppressor. Speak your joy. Doesn't matter if I share an identity with your oppressor, I don't do defensive. If I've done what you say, I'll apologise and/or accept responsibility for my failures and misdeeds and privilege. If I haven't, then I will share your victory joy, bc any oppressor is too many.

I just want to hear what's bringing you joy in an identity important to you?

Thread RULE: if it isn't about you, don't make it about you. You need to defend yourself for some reason? This is neither time nor place. Joy only. You wanna hurt someone? Not here. This is a braver space than that.

What's your joy, if you want to share?

I did another step towards greater self delight on my agender journey.

I can't afford electrolysis or laser hair treatment, so I did the next best thing; full body shaving. Got rid of that typical identifier of my sex assigned at birth.

(And wow, my skin actually feels softer! I thought that was only achieved with HRT.)

I may actually wear shorts one day without being self-conscious and being read as a "guy".

#Agender #AgenderJoy #HairRemoval

I did another step towards greater self delight on my agender journey.

I can't afford electrolysis or laser hair treatment, so I did the next best thing; full body shaving. Got rid of that typical identifier of my sex assigned at birth.

(And wow, my skin actually feels softer! I thought that was only achieved with HRT.)

I may actually wear shorts one day without being self-conscious and being read as a "guy".

#Agender #AgenderJoy #HairRemoval

I did another step towards greater self delight on my agender journey.

I can't afford electrolysis or laser hair treatment, so I did the next best thing; full body shaving. Got rid of that typical identifier of my sex assigned at birth.

(And wow, my skin actually feels softer! I thought that was only achieved with HRT.)

I may actually wear shorts one day without being self-conscious and being read as a "guy".

#Agender #AgenderJoy #HairRemoval

I did another step towards greater self delight on my agender journey.

I can't afford electrolysis or laser hair treatment, so I did the next best thing; full body shaving. Got rid of that typical identifier of my sex assigned at birth.

(And wow, my skin actually feels softer! I thought that was only achieved with HRT.)

I may actually wear shorts one day without being self-conscious and being read as a "guy".

#Agender #AgenderJoy #HairRemoval

I did another step towards greater self delight on my agender journey.

I can't afford electrolysis or laser hair treatment, so I did the next best thing; full body shaving. Got rid of that typical identifier of my sex assigned at birth.

(And wow, my skin actually feels softer! I thought that was only achieved with HRT.)

I may actually wear shorts one day without being self-conscious and being read as a "guy".

#Agender #AgenderJoy #HairRemoval