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  1. l heard you're supposed to avoid "I love you" to strangers online because it can foster a sense of false intimacy;
    it encourages parasocial relationships (which can be exploited for money or grooming of various kinds).
    I don't mean it like that, for anyone wondering.
    I mean: tbc, because char limit.
    bsky.app/profile/mxverda.bsky.

    Cont'd: "avoid parasocial feelings")
    I say "I love you" to mean:
    You, a being who interprets sensory input, generally finds discomfort unpleasant.
    I want you to exist as sustainably comfortable as possible.
    Your experience matters etc BUT you don't know my name or intentions. Exercise due caution!

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