#acearo — Public Fediverse posts

#OpenCall #Aromantik #Asexuell
#Asexualität #aromantisch #acearo #acespectrum #aro

Alle weiteren Details gibt es hier:
https://rubicon-koeln.de/open-call-fuer-die-kleine-hausapotheke-gegen-den-allo-und-amatonormativen-alltag/

Fragen bitte nicht an mich, ich bin nicht in der Orga, möchte nur gern auf dieses Projekt hinweisen.
Boosts sind gern gesehen.

#Schreiben #SchreibendenLeben #Schreibcommunity

#OpenCall #Aromantik #Asexuell
#Asexualität #aromantisch #acearo #acespectrum #aro

Alle weiteren Details gibt es hier:
https://rubicon-koeln.de/open-call-fuer-die-kleine-hausapotheke-gegen-den-allo-und-amatonormativen-alltag/

Fragen bitte nicht an mich, ich bin nicht in der Orga, möchte nur gern auf dieses Projekt hinweisen.
Boosts sind gern gesehen.

#Schreiben #SchreibendenLeben #Schreibcommunity

#OpenCall #Aromantik #Asexuell
#Asexualität #aromantisch #acearo #acespectrum #aro

Alle weiteren Details gibt es hier:
https://rubicon-koeln.de/open-call-fuer-die-kleine-hausapotheke-gegen-den-allo-und-amatonormativen-alltag/

Fragen bitte nicht an mich, ich bin nicht in der Orga, möchte nur gern auf dieses Projekt hinweisen.
Boosts sind gern gesehen.

#Schreiben #SchreibendenLeben #Schreibcommunity

#OpenCall #Aromantik #Asexuell
#Asexualität #aromantisch #acearo #acespectrum #aro

Alle weiteren Details gibt es hier:
https://rubicon-koeln.de/open-call-fuer-die-kleine-hausapotheke-gegen-den-allo-und-amatonormativen-alltag/

Fragen bitte nicht an mich, ich bin nicht in der Orga, möchte nur gern auf dieses Projekt hinweisen.
Boosts sind gern gesehen.

#Schreiben #SchreibendenLeben #Schreibcommunity

#OpenCall #Aromantik #Asexuell
#Asexualität #aromantisch #acearo #acespectrum #aro

Alle weiteren Details gibt es hier:
https://rubicon-koeln.de/open-call-fuer-die-kleine-hausapotheke-gegen-den-allo-und-amatonormativen-alltag/

Fragen bitte nicht an mich, ich bin nicht in der Orga, möchte nur gern auf dieses Projekt hinweisen.
Boosts sind gern gesehen.

#Schreiben #SchreibendenLeben #Schreibcommunity

是的，本人就要修改一下Sternberg的【爱情三角定律】（bushi）​:blobcatthinkOwO:​，belike我觉得将爱情定义为passion、intimacy、commitment这个、、这个定义就非常地不nd和asexual/aromantic友好——在“passion”这一点上来说。

可能对于很多ace aro还有nd光谱人来说，passion，和那种生理的性欲，就很难在自身认同上得到体现，或者说也没有那种想要sexual consummation的感受（亦或者说是secondary的，不是主要区分爱情和友情的判断决定因素）。

affection，我感觉可能更适合描述（至少本人是这样）“爱情”的三因构成。affection是一种带有fondness和emotional connection的联结，虽说友谊肯定也有一定的情感联结，但是不会有那种、“打从心底觉得对方adorable”、然后【i adore you】的那种感觉……？这种affection很类似一种“感觉自己的母爱泛滥得快要溢出来”的那种心情。​:BlobhajfBlobbyHug:​

虽然是朋友会有想要照顾对方的心情，但是绝对不是像恋人那种“I adore you to a extent that I wish to take care of you forever”的那种感觉。

↑这是比对什么人有什么性唤起还是sexual attraction更加显著的指标，因为我们需要理解的是，很多人，是没办法通过性唤起和有无性欲来判断是爱情还是友谊的。而强行拿主流社会的“你想上ta就是爱情，就是喜欢ta”这种有性恋allo价值观来套一切，实际上就导致了很多人感到非常疑惑不解又十分confused。

#神经病学人的心理学记录
#神经病学人的精神病日记
#无性恋的命也是命 #acearo #王牌芳香主义

是的，本人就要修改一下Sternberg的【爱情三角定律】（bushi）​:blobcatthinkOwO:​，belike我觉得将爱情定义为passion、intimacy、commitment这个、、这个定义就非常地不nd和asexual/aromantic友好——在“passion”这一点上来说。

可能对于很多ace aro还有nd光谱人来说，passion，和那种生理的性欲，就很难在自身认同上得到体现，或者说也没有那种想要sexual consummation的感受（亦或者说是secondary的，不是主要区分爱情和友情的判断决定因素）。

affection，我感觉可能更适合描述（至少本人是这样）“爱情”的三因构成。affection是一种带有fondness和emotional connection的联结，虽说友谊肯定也有一定的情感联结，但是不会有那种、“打从心底觉得对方adorable”、然后【i adore you】的那种感觉……？这种affection很类似一种“感觉自己的母爱泛滥得快要溢出来”的那种心情。​:BlobhajfBlobbyHug:​

虽然是朋友会有想要照顾对方的心情，但是绝对不是像恋人那种“I adore you to a extent that I wish to take care of you forever”的那种感觉。

↑这是比对什么人有什么性唤起还是sexual attraction更加显著的指标，因为我们需要理解的是，很多人，是没办法通过性唤起和有无性欲来判断是爱情还是友谊的。而强行拿主流社会的“你想上ta就是爱情，就是喜欢ta”这种有性恋allo价值观来套一切，实际上就导致了很多人感到非常疑惑不解又十分confused。

#神经病学人的心理学记录
#神经病学人的精神病日记
#无性恋的命也是命 #acearo #王牌芳香主义

Teil 3 der Vortragsreihe zu queeren Identitäten und Lebensrealitäten findet am 17.10.2024 ab 18:30 in der Aidshilfe Düsseldorf statt und beschäftigt sich mit der Frage, inwiefern queere Räume normative Erwartungen und Gewalt in Bezug zu Sexualität und Romantik reproduzieren.
Der Ort ist barrierearm. Maskentragen ist gerne gesehen, aber keine Pflicht.
Vortrag von ace_arovolution.

 Eintritt frei, Anmeldung erforderlich und auf queereszentrum.org möglich.
#acearorevolution #acearo #qzd

rt 我觉得自己的ace aro发展历程真的是一波三折，首先我可以明显知道自己的浪漫取向性取向真的不同，性取向应该是更早发现的，我对于异性真的毫无感觉，可以说我面对这个世界上的异性，就像是行走的无脸男，我完全记不住对方的脸，对我也没有丝毫的吸引力。

但是对于女性，我也很不一样，绝大部分的女性对我而言就只是“有脸有特征的人类”，我对绝大部分的女性也没有任何的兴趣（除了喜欢欣赏美女那当然是有的），但是真的没有浪漫倾向的感觉。

我不理解这种情况，一直都在勉强自己去模拟那种浪漫的情感。但是我能感知到对一些特定的同性有奇怪的性唤起和情感联结，attachment——但是我无法将这种依恋称之为我有浪漫情愫。

我感觉不到广义上的浪漫关系的心情，对于性，也是出于很微妙的灰色地带。

#acearo
#王牌芳香主义

rt 我觉得自己的ace aro发展历程真的是一波三折，首先我可以明显知道自己的浪漫取向性取向真的不同，性取向应该是更早发现的，我对于异性真的毫无感觉，可以说我面对这个世界上的异性，就像是行走的无脸男，我完全记不住对方的脸，对我也没有丝毫的吸引力。

但是对于女性，我也很不一样，绝大部分的女性对我而言就只是“有脸有特征的人类”，我对绝大部分的女性也没有任何的兴趣（除了喜欢欣赏美女那当然是有的），但是真的没有浪漫倾向的感觉。

我不理解这种情况，一直都在勉强自己去模拟那种浪漫的情感。但是我能感知到对一些特定的同性有奇怪的性唤起和情感联结，attachment——但是我无法将这种依恋称之为我有浪漫情愫。

我感觉不到广义上的浪漫关系的心情，对于性，也是出于很微妙的灰色地带。

#acearo
#王牌芳香主义

rt 我觉得自己的ace aro发展历程真的是一波三折，首先我可以明显知道自己的浪漫取向性取向真的不同，性取向应该是更早发现的，我对于异性真的毫无感觉，可以说我面对这个世界上的异性，就像是行走的无脸男，我完全记不住对方的脸，对我也没有丝毫的吸引力。

但是对于女性，我也很不一样，绝大部分的女性对我而言就只是“有脸有特征的人类”，我对绝大部分的女性也没有任何的兴趣（除了喜欢欣赏美女那当然是有的），但是真的没有浪漫倾向的感觉。

我不理解这种情况，一直都在勉强自己去模拟那种浪漫的情感。但是我能感知到对一些特定的同性有奇怪的性唤起和情感联结，attachment——但是我无法将这种依恋称之为我有浪漫情愫。

我感觉不到广义上的浪漫关系的心情，对于性，也是出于很微妙的灰色地带。

#acearo
#王牌芳香主义

“Learning about and claiming asexuality can be transformative, but the world won’t be a safe and positive place for aces—or for anyone—until compulsory sexuality itself is dismantled. We do not dismantle compulsory sexuality by waiting for each person to catch up and then starting over again. We do it by fighting for structural change.”
#asexuality #acearo #Sex #gender #queer #ace #aromantic #lgbtqia
Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

“Learning about and claiming asexuality can be transformative, but the world won’t be a safe and positive place for aces—or for anyone—until compulsory sexuality itself is dismantled. We do not dismantle compulsory sexuality by waiting for each person to catch up and then starting over again. We do it by fighting for structural change.”
#asexuality #acearo #Sex #gender #queer #ace #aromantic #lgbtqia
Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

“Learning about and claiming asexuality can be transformative, but the world won’t be a safe and positive place for aces—or for anyone—until compulsory sexuality itself is dismantled. We do not dismantle compulsory sexuality by waiting for each person to catch up and then starting over again. We do it by fighting for structural change.”
#asexuality #acearo #Sex #gender #queer #ace #aromantic #lgbtqia
Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

“Learning about and claiming asexuality can be transformative, but the world won’t be a safe and positive place for aces—or for anyone—until compulsory sexuality itself is dismantled. We do not dismantle compulsory sexuality by waiting for each person to catch up and then starting over again. We do it by fighting for structural change.”
#asexuality #acearo #Sex #gender #queer #ace #aromantic #lgbtqia
Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

“Learning about and claiming asexuality can be transformative, but the world won’t be a safe and positive place for aces—or for anyone—until compulsory sexuality itself is dismantled. We do not dismantle compulsory sexuality by waiting for each person to catch up and then starting over again. We do it by fighting for structural change.”
#asexuality #acearo #Sex #gender #queer #ace #aromantic #lgbtqia
Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"The question of who gets to be ace versus who is considered deluded or naive matters beyond the borders of each specific community. The details of why some groups find it harder than others to accept asexuality, or be accepted as ace, reveal the outlines of how sex and power and history have combined."

 – Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex von Angela Chen
Sehr gutes Buch bisher.
#acearo #asexuality #gender #sexuality #criticism #Feminism #oppression

"The question of who gets to be ace versus who is considered deluded or naive matters beyond the borders of each specific community. The details of why some groups find it harder than others to accept asexuality, or be accepted as ace, reveal the outlines of how sex and power and history have combined."

 – Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex von Angela Chen
Sehr gutes Buch bisher.
#acearo #asexuality #gender #sexuality #criticism #Feminism #oppression

"The question of who gets to be ace versus who is considered deluded or naive matters beyond the borders of each specific community. The details of why some groups find it harder than others to accept asexuality, or be accepted as ace, reveal the outlines of how sex and power and history have combined."

 – Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex von Angela Chen
Sehr gutes Buch bisher.
#acearo #asexuality #gender #sexuality #criticism #Feminism #oppression

"The question of who gets to be ace versus who is considered deluded or naive matters beyond the borders of each specific community. The details of why some groups find it harder than others to accept asexuality, or be accepted as ace, reveal the outlines of how sex and power and history have combined."

 – Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex von Angela Chen
Sehr gutes Buch bisher.
#acearo #asexuality #gender #sexuality #criticism #Feminism #oppression

"The question of who gets to be ace versus who is considered deluded or naive matters beyond the borders of each specific community. The details of why some groups find it harder than others to accept asexuality, or be accepted as ace, reveal the outlines of how sex and power and history have combined."

 – Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex von Angela Chen
Sehr gutes Buch bisher.
#acearo #asexuality #gender #sexuality #criticism #Feminism #oppression

I find their discussion on what precisely is the #horror in MR James’ #stories very illuminating (and fun). They’re really onto something when they discuss #MRJames and the all male, cloistered and academic context of the stories as having strong repressed homosexuality vibes, veering into #incel territory, but I think of James more in terms of a-sexuality, of someone on the #acearo #spectrum (esp. I don’t read his ghosts as highly gendered, he even uses the term “indeterminate personage”.

I find their discussion on what precisely is the #horror in MR James’ #stories very illuminating (and fun). They’re really onto something when they discuss #MRJames and the all male, cloistered and academic context of the stories as having strong repressed homosexuality vibes, veering into #incel territory, but I think of James more in terms of a-sexuality, of someone on the #acearo #spectrum (esp. I don’t read his ghosts as highly gendered, he even uses the term “indeterminate personage”.

I find their discussion on what precisely is the #horror in MR James’ #stories very illuminating (and fun). They’re really onto something when they discuss #MRJames and the all male, cloistered and academic context of the stories as having strong repressed homosexuality vibes, veering into #incel territory, but I think of James more in terms of a-sexuality, of someone on the #acearo #spectrum (esp. I don’t read his ghosts as highly gendered, he even uses the term “indeterminate personage”.

I find their discussion on what precisely is the #horror in MR James’ #stories very illuminating (and fun). They’re really onto something when they discuss #MRJames and the all male, cloistered and academic context of the stories as having strong repressed homosexuality vibes, veering into #incel territory, but I think of James more in terms of a-sexuality, of someone on the #acearo #spectrum (esp. I don’t read his ghosts as highly gendered, he even uses the term “indeterminate personage”.

I find their discussion on what precisely is the #horror in MR James’ #stories very illuminating (and fun). They’re really onto something when they discuss #MRJames and the all male, cloistered and academic context of the stories as having strong repressed homosexuality vibes, veering into #incel territory, but I think of James more in terms of a-sexuality, of someone on the #acearo #spectrum (esp. I don’t read his ghosts as highly gendered, he even uses the term “indeterminate personage”.

Redoing my #introduction, this time with hashtags. Expect posts on a wide variety of topics, especially ones that relate to the list below.

#Type1Diabetes #T1D #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #Autism #Disability

#LGBTQ #Ace #Asexual #Aromantic #AceAro

#Denver #Colorado

#Choir #Singer #Alto1

#Cats

#Writing #Freelance #Copywriting #Ghostwriter

#Hockey #NHL #GoAvsGo

#Crafting #Knitting #Crochet #FiberArt

Redoing my #introduction, this time with hashtags. Expect posts on a wide variety of topics, especially ones that relate to the list below.

#Type1Diabetes #T1D #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #Autism #Disability

#LGBTQ #Ace #Asexual #Aromantic #AceAro

#Denver #Colorado

#Choir #Singer #Alto1

#Cats

#Writing #Freelance #Copywriting #Ghostwriter

#Hockey #NHL #GoAvsGo

#Crafting #Knitting #Crochet #FiberArt

Redoing my #introduction, this time with hashtags. Expect posts on a wide variety of topics, especially ones that relate to the list below.

#Type1Diabetes #T1D #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #Autism #Disability

#LGBTQ #Ace #Asexual #Aromantic #AceAro

#Denver #Colorado

#Choir #Singer #Alto1

#Cats

#Writing #Freelance #Copywriting #Ghostwriter

#Hockey #NHL #GoAvsGo

#Crafting #Knitting #Crochet #FiberArt

Redoing my #introduction, this time with hashtags. Expect posts on a wide variety of topics, especially ones that relate to the list below.

#Type1Diabetes #T1D #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #Autism #Disability

#LGBTQ #Ace #Asexual #Aromantic #AceAro

#Denver #Colorado

#Choir #Singer #Alto1

#Cats

#Writing #Freelance #Copywriting #Ghostwriter

#Hockey #NHL #GoAvsGo

#Crafting #Knitting #Crochet #FiberArt

Redoing my #introduction, this time with hashtags. Expect posts on a wide variety of topics, especially ones that relate to the list below.

#Type1Diabetes #T1D #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #Autism #Disability

#LGBTQ #Ace #Asexual #Aromantic #AceAro

#Denver #Colorado

#Choir #Singer #Alto1

#Cats

#Writing #Freelance #Copywriting #Ghostwriter

#Hockey #NHL #GoAvsGo

#Crafting #Knitting #Crochet #FiberArt