#sapiosexual — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #sapiosexual, aggregated by home.social.
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CW: Online dating reflections
It seems that there's a whole category of women (when it comes to online dating), who feel that the way to establish a love relationship is by proving to a man that they have breasts. Not necessarily NSFW, but they do tend to send photos which basically focus on that part of the body. And then they seem to expect a man to be utterly captivated and ecstatic.
Maybe that works for neurotypical men? I know some men that it would certainly affect strongly. But as a demisexual and sapiosexual male, that approach has always bewildered me.
I mean, I pretty much •assumed• you had breasts! I know not every woman does, but the vast majority do. And there's nothing wrong with that; I like them as much as any straight man. But shouldn't it matter who the breasts are ATTACHED to? What kind of person they are? What kind of connection there is between a man and a woman on an emotional and intellectual basis?
I honestly don't understand the idea of a relationship based purely on physical compatibility and nothing more. Okay, maybe I'm being a little too harsh. I know personality matters for everyone, not just demis. But...it's SO confusing! It's like living in a world where maybe 50 to 75% of potential mates are actually incredibly alien from a mental and emotional point of view. And they don't seem to be able to understand demisexuals, demisexual males in particular. I guess we pretty much violate the cliches of what a male is and wants.
Hope that wasn't too inappropriate.
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#NSFW NewsFlash Feeds are liiiive! Tonight's stories include discussions on...
- Badly aimed #floggers
- Bad boys
- #Boners on the stripper index
- Butter of Peanut war being won by Jif & Fluff: Go vote on my throne!#findom #femdom #wam #sapiosexual #camgirl #domme #adultcontent
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#NSFW NewsFlash Feeds are liiiive! Tonight's stories include discussions on...
- Badly aimed #floggers
- Bad boys
- #Boners on the stripper index
- Butter of Peanut war being won by Jif & Fluff: Go vote on my throne!#findom #femdom #wam #sapiosexual #camgirl #domme #adultcontent
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#NSFW NewsFlash Feeds are liiiive! Tonight's stories include discussions on...
- Badly aimed #floggers
- Bad boys
- #Boners on the stripper index
- Butter of Peanut war being won by Jif & Fluff: Go vote on my throne!#findom #femdom #wam #sapiosexual #camgirl #domme #adultcontent
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I have been really productive tonight - I worked on:
- Writing the article for 10 best & worst states for a #sexworker to live
- Fridays news topics - Prejac X engagement & the financial in #findom
- Updated #Money Mary's new coat for the #NSFW Newscast with Riley -
* Happy Pride, y’all 💖
And huge thanks to my lovely friend Tarabud for these gorgeous rainbow-colored earrings! 🙏 perfect for the occasion!
#pridemonth #happypride #pride #loveislove #demisexual #sapiosexual #omnisexual #twospirit #femalebodiedtwospirit #electronicmusic #synthwave #synthpop #newwave #retrowave #triphop #electronica #retroaesthetic #rainbowearrings #selfie #aesthetic
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Dentro del espectro #asexual #asexualidad #asexualite #asexualitat #AsexualPride , existen múltiples escalas de deseo sexual, muchas o diferentes orientaciones personales, personas externas, o situaciones relacionales que lo pueden motivar, despertar, o no.
Como el ser además perteneciente a cualquier orientación de las descritas en el colectivo #lgtbiaq , ser #sapiosexual, #demisexual , #litosexual #fraisexual, #acoisexual #egosexual etc.
Dentro de la enorme y ampliable clasificación actual del espectro existimos los #aceflux , #asexuales o #grisasexual , #alorromantic o #arromántico #arromantic .
Los #aceflux podemos sentir durante temporadas variables, o con personas o tipos de relación específicas, pulsiones sexuales similares a las de las personas #alosexuales, fluctuando por tanto entre las condiciones #alosexual y el espectro #grisasexual.
Y es complicado expresar éstos tipos de orientación sexual tanto fuera como dentro del colectivo #LGTBIAQ porque en una #sociedad tan hipersexualizada como la actual da igual lo que te folles, siempre y cuando te folles ALGO.
Toda situación diferente a la #sexual e #hipersexual en el escaparate #social actual es convertida en algo patológico.
Y, hay que tener en cuenta, que desde el punto de vista psiquiátrico se retiró de las patologías el espectro #grisasexual en el año 2013, separándolo de la condición "trastornos del deseo sexual hipoactivo" relacionado con enfermedades o efectos secundarios de medicamentos, y encuadrándose como orientación.
Y como la #Informacion es #poder dejo ésto aquí por si le pudiera servir de mensaje en una botella a alguien que por alguna razón siente que no encaja en el mundo que lo rodea, en ésto del #sexo.