#queerjoy — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #queerjoy, aggregated by home.social.
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63% of LGBTQ+ Christians left the church. They chose comfort over us. We build better where they refused to hold. https://twp.ai/9OWM7r #LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #QueerJoy #Pride#ClimateJustice #Disaster #Resistance #Hurricane
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63% of LGBTQ+ Christians left the church. They chose comfort over us. We build better where they refused to hold. https://twp.ai/9OWM7r #LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #QueerJoy #Pride#ClimateJustice #Disaster #Resistance #Hurricane
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63% of LGBTQ+ Christians left the church. They chose comfort over us. We build better where they refused to hold. https://twp.ai/9OWM7r #LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #QueerJoy #Pride#ClimateJustice #Disaster #Resistance #Hurricane
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63% of LGBTQ+ Christians left the church. They chose comfort over us. We build better where they refused to hold. https://twp.ai/9OWM7r #LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #QueerJoy #Pride#ClimateJustice #Disaster #Resistance #Hurricane
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63% of LGBTQ+ Christians left the church. They chose comfort over us. We build better where they refused to hold. https://twp.ai/9OWM7r #LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #QueerJoy #Pride#ClimateJustice #Disaster #Resistance #Hurricane
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He wore the blue shirt his mother ironed when the church voted him out. 63% of LGBTQ+ Christians have left — Williams Institute confirms what every empty pew already knew: institutions chose comfort over humanity. We build better where they refused to hold.
https://twp.ai/4hr7Kh
#LGBTQ #Queer #ExChristian #ChurchHurt #Faith #QueerJoy #Community #Pride #News #Exile -
https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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The funny thing is, I had this exact idea in my head for years - but never saw it brought to life.
Until I found this 6-year-old video by Browser Ballett.
They flip the script perfectly - straight people getting the exact same invasive, disgusting treatment that queer folks face every single day. It's brilliant, sharp, and painfully accurate.
If you're LGBTQ+: you are not broken. You are not a phase. You are not the problem. The people who can't handle love and authenticity are.
Watch it. It hits different. -
💝 Du verdienst Liebe - von anderen UND von dir selbst.
🏳🌈Queer Culture is beautiful: Unsere Kunst, unsere Sprache, unsere Liebe - wir bereichern die Welt.
☕ Samstag = Me-Time! Moin! ☕
📅 Welcome to Samstag, der 02. Mai 2026!
📊 Community-Check:
👥 337 Menschen
💬 45389 Tröts
📈 134.69 Tröts/Person💜 Du liest das von außerhalb? Wir sind auf https://lsbt.me zuhause - einer LGBTQ+ Instanz, wo du sein darfst, wer du bist. Komm gerne dazu! 🏳️🌈
🌡 Wetter: 10-15°C, Klarer Himmel. Perfekte Temperaturen! 😊
✨ Weisheit:
Ich mag verdammen, was du sagst, aber ich werde mein Leben dafür
einsetzen, daß du es sagen darfst.
-- François Marie VoltaireLet's make today count! 🚀
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While politicians ban books, drag queens in Bushwick raised $25k in one night for the ACLU Drag Defense Fund. They mocked the bans and funded the lawsuits.
#DragDefenseFund #Bushwick #LGBTQRights #Resistance #QueerJoy #trans #queer #writing #news
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💫 Sonntag = Batterien aufladen! 💫
🆘 Falls du Hilfe brauchst: Trans*-Beratung, Diskriminierungshilfe, psychologische Unterstützung - es gibt Menschen, die für dich da sind. Check unsere Pinned Posts für Ressourcen. 💜
💜 An alle Non-Binary Souls: Eure Identität ist nicht 'kompliziert' - die Gesellschaft ist es. Ihr seid perfekt.
🗓 Sonntag, der 26. April 2026 - ein neuer Tag!
🐘 Unsere lsbt.me-Family:
334 trötende Rüssel haben zusammen 45302 Tröts verfasst! (Ø 135.63 pro Person)🌡 Wetter: 6-9°C, Klarer Himmel. Ideales Spazier-Wetter! 🚶
📍 Berlin 6°C • Hamburg 6°C • Köln 6°C🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Eine Ehe ist wie eine Bestellung im Restaurant: man glaubt immer
die richtige Wahl getroffen zu haben, bis man sieht was der am
Nebentisch bekommt.Auf einen großartigen Sonntag! 🎉
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🌟 Dienstagmorgen-Check! Hey Community! 🌟
📅 Heute ist Dienstag, der 14. April 2026
📊 Community-Check:
👥 332 Menschen
💬 45046 Tröts
📈 135.68 Tröts/Person🌤 Heute: 5-10°C, Klarer Himmel - Angenehm kühl! 😊
🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Es gibt Augenblicke, in denen man nicht nur sehen, sondern ein Auge
zudrücken muß.
-- Benjamin Franklin💜 An alle Non-Binary Souls: Eure Identität ist nicht 'kompliziert' - die Gesellschaft ist es. Ihr seid perfekt.
🌍 Du suchst eine queere Mastodon-Heimat? https://lsbt.me ist ein aktiver, liebevoller Safe Space mit echtem Community-Gefühl. Wir freuen uns auf dich! 🤗
Macht was draus, ihr Lieben! ✨
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Boca Tuya dance company presented a gay pas de deux that left me buzzzzzing tonight. It was so good.
Here's a video of a performance from Jacob's Pillow last year. "Like Those Playground Kids At Midnight". That's the choreographer in the pink shirt.
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Dropping some queer joy right here for some resistance energy:
https://youtu.be/wMJEsP0ICXc?si=HaewYgj972AR-jdT
@lgbtq @LGBTQNation #queerjoy #transjoy #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqi #queer #queerArt #lgbtqartists #queerartists #resistance
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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🎉 Donnerstag läuft! Moin moin! 🎉
📅 Welcome to Donnerstag, der 02. April 2026!
📈 Community-Stats: 333 User, 47941 Tröts, 143.97 Ø pro Person 🐘
🌡 Wetter: -0-3°C, Klarer Himmel. Brrr, kalt! 🥶
📍 Berlin 3°C • Hamburg 3°C • Köln 3°C💭 Gedanke des Tages:
"Dem Verzweifelnden verzeiht man alles, dem Verarmten gibt man
jeden Erwerb zu.
-- Goethe, Maximen und Reflexionen, Nr. 659"🌈 Du gehörst hierher. Dieser Raum ist für dich, mit all deinen Facetten, Zweifeln und Stärken.
Auf einen großartigen Donnerstag! 🎉
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🌈 Mittwoch = Bergfest! Durchhalten! 🌈
📅 Welcome to Mittwoch, der 01. April 2026!
🐘 Unsere lsbt.me-Family:
333 trötende Rüssel haben zusammen 47886 Tröts verfasst! (Ø 143.80 pro Person)💫 Du bist nicht zu viel und nicht zu wenig. Du bist genau richtig.
📖 Inspiration:
"Die Bescheidenheit erhält sich von dem, das sie nicht hat.
-- Elfriede Hablé"Let's make today count! 🚀
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CW: Eye contact... and bare feet. Just being a polite nerd! 👣✨
Monday morning mood... but make it absolutely fabulous! ✨
It´s a little Snag heavy today .. lol.
Today is a very special Snag Tights Day at the office because... well... almost everything I am wearing is Snag! I am rocking their flowy black skirt paired with their super comfy 30 denier nylons. The best part? Since Snags are literally indestructible... I just cut the feet off to make them footless! No fraying... no ladders... just perfection for staying barefoot on the office carpet because comfort is a hill I will gladly die on 👣
And of course... the stars of the show: my purple Chub Rubs with that iconic rainbow hem peeking out underneath. Thick thighs save lives... and they look damn good doing it! 🌈✨
I have layered my Snag Tights cropped top over a purple long-sleeve to keep the color story going strong... it is the perfect way to bring some "The Moon" tarot magic into the workspace. A fitting card for this transjoy moment... representing intuition, the deep wisdom found within our own shadow, and the courage to follow our inner moon, even when it guides us through uncertain paths.
Taking up space... being seen... and spreading some serious transjoy.
Feeling proud and loud at work today... countering the gray Monday vibes with those unmistakable femby vibes. It is time to shine... no holding back... no hiding. Just me... my colorful Snag layers... and a whole lot of confidence... YEAH! 🤘😄
#SnagTights #TransJoy #Femby #Enby #OfficeOutfit #Barefoot #ThickThighsSaveLives #MondayMotivation #NonBinary #ProudAndLoud #NylonLove #TarotStyle #TheMoon #QueerJoy #BarefootLife #OOTD
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🎉 Donnerstag läuft! Moin moin! 🎉
📆 Es ist Donnerstag, der 12. März 2026
🐘 Unsere lsbt.me-Family:
327 trötende Rüssel haben zusammen 47258 Tröts verfasst! (Ø 144.52 pro Person)🏳⚧ An alle trans* Geschwister: Dein Deadname ist tot, deine echten Pronomen sind heilig, und dein Körper ist dein Tempel - egal wo du in deiner Transition stehst.
🌡 Wetter: 4-8°C, Klarer Himmel. Ideales Spazier-Wetter! 🚶
🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Werfen Sie leere Konservendosen nicht weg! Bewahren Sie sie auf! Nach
einigen Jahren haben Sie dann eine schöne Sammlung alter Konservendosen.Macht was draus, ihr Lieben! ✨
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🎉 TGIF! Guten Morgen, Community! 🎉
📅 Heute ist Freitag, der 06. März 2026
💜 Zahlen des Tages:
326 User • 46956 Tröts • 144.04 Tröts/Rüssel🌈 Du gehörst hierher. Dieser Raum ist für dich, mit all deinen Facetten, Zweifeln und Stärken.
☁ Wetter-Update: 3 bis 8°C, Klarer Himmel. Angenehm kühl! 😊
📖 Inspiration:
"Seitdem er verkalkt ist, hält er sich für ein Denkmal.
-- Stanislaw Jerzy Lec (eig. S. J. de Tusch-Letz)"Let's make today count! 🚀
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🌈 Du gehörst hierher. Dieser Raum ist für dich, mit all deinen Facetten, Zweifeln und Stärken.
💜 Schönen Dienstag, ihr Lieben! 💜
📆 Es ist Dienstag, der 03. März 2026
💜 Zahlen des Tages:
325 User • 46921 Tröts • 144.37 Tröts/Rüssel💬 Über uns: https://lsbt.me ist eine LGBTQ+ Instanz, die auf gegenseitiger Unterstützung, Respekt und Authentizität basiert. Hier bist du richtig! 🏳️🌈
🌡 Wetter: 1-6°C, Klarer Himmel. Ideales Spazier-Wetter! 🚶
✨ Weisheit:
Beharre, wo du stehst! - Maxime, notwendiger als je, indem
einerseits die Menschen in große Parteien gerissen werden, sodann
aber auch jeder einzelne nach individueller Einsicht und Vermögen
sich geltend machen will.
-- Goethe, Maximen und Reflexionen, Nr. 866Habt einen wundervollen Dienstag! 💜
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💫 Du bist nicht zu viel und nicht zu wenig. Du bist genau richtig.
💫 Wir sind Geschichte: Jede Generation queerer Menschen kämpft für die nächste. Du bist Teil dieser Legacy.
😴 Samstag-Chillen! Guten Morgen! 😴
📆 Es ist Samstag, der 28. Februar 2026
📊 Community-Check:
👥 325 Menschen
💬 46795 Tröts
📈 143.98 Tröts/Person🌤 Heute: 5-12°C, Klarer Himmel - Perfektes Herbst-Wetter! 🍂
📖 Inspiration:
"Es wird niemals so viel gelogen wie vor der Wahl, während des Krieges
und nach der Jagd.
-- Otto von Bismark"Auf einen großartigen Samstag! 🎉
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🎉 TGIF! Guten Morgen, Community! 🎉
📆 Es ist Freitag, der 27. Februar 2026
💜 Zahlen des Tages:
325 User • 46779 Tröts • 143.94 Tröts/Rüssel💝 Du verdienst Liebe - von anderen UND von dir selbst.
☁ Wetter-Update: 6 bis 10°C, Klarer Himmel. Ideales Spazier-Wetter! 🚶
📍 Berlin 7°C • Hamburg 10°C • Köln 10°C📖 Inspiration:
"In der Geschichte der Naturforschung bemerkt man durchaus, dass
die Beobachter von der Erscheinung zu schnell zur Theorie hineilen,
und dadurch unzulänglich, hypothetisch werden.
-- Goethe, Maximen und Reflexionen, Nr. 1091"Let's make today count! 🚀
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🌈 Mittwoch = Bergfest! Durchhalten! 🌈
🗓 Mittwoch, der 25. Februar 2026 - ein neuer Tag!
🐘 Unsere lsbt.me-Family:
323 trötende Rüssel haben zusammen 46694 Tröts verfasst! (Ø 144.56 pro Person)☁ Wetter-Update: 2 bis 10°C, Klarer Himmel. Perfektes Herbst-Wetter! 🍂
✨ Weisheit:
Letzte Worte eines Skatspielers:
"Ich glaube, ich habe mich vergeben."🏳⚧ Deine Identität braucht keine Rechtfertigung. Du weißt, wer du bist.
💙 An alle, die Intersektionalität leben: Als Bi-/Pan-/Ace-/Aro-Person, als QPoC, als disabled queer - ihr seid gesehen und wichtig.
Bleibt awesome! 💫
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💪 Montag ist, was du draus machst! Let's go! 💪
📅 Heute ist Montag, der 23. Februar 2026
🐘 Unsere lsbt.me-Family:
324 trötende Rüssel haben zusammen 46611 Tröts verfasst! (Ø 143.86 pro Person)💝 Du verdienst Liebe - von anderen UND von dir selbst.
💬 Community-Power: In dieser Bubble unterstützen wir uns gegenseitig. Keine Frage ist zu klein, kein Kampf zu unbedeutend.
🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Der Rabe RalfDer Rabe Ralf
will will hu hu
dem niemand half
still still du du
half sich allein
am Rabenstein
will will still still
hu hu
Die Nebelfrau
will will hu hu
nimmt's nicht genau
still still du du
sie sagt nimm nimm
's ist nicht so schlimm
will will still still
hu hu
Doch als ein Jahr
will will hu hu
vergangen war
still still du du
da lag im Rot
der Rabe tot,
will will still still
du du
-- Christian Morgenstern✨ Fun Fact: https://lsbt.me ist mehr als eine Instanz - wir sind eine Familie! Queer, bunt, unterstützend und immer mit offenen Armen. Neue Mitglieder willkommen! 💝
Hab einen fantastischen Tag! 💝
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🌟 Du darfst Raum einnehmen. Deine Stimme, deine Story, dein Sein - alles ist wichtig.
💜 Samstag-Grüße an alle! 💜
📅 Heute ist Samstag, der 07. Februar 2026
📊 Community-Check:
👥 265 Menschen
💬 46083 Tröts
📈 173.90 Tröts/Person🏳️⚧️ Wir sind https://lsbt.me - eine queere Mastodon-Instanz, wo Trans*, Nicht-Binäre, Schwule, Lesben, Bi, Pan, Ace und alle anderen einen sicheren Hafen finden. Du auch? 🌟
🌤 Heute: 1-6°C, Trüb - Perfektes Herbst-Wetter! 🍂
💭 Gedanke des Tages:
" Nach NordenPalmström ist nervös geworden;
darum schläft er jetzt nach Norden.Denn nach Osten, Westen, Süden
schlafen, heißt das Herz ermüden.(Wenn man nämlich in Europen
lebt, nicht südlich in den Tropen.)Solches steht bei zwei Gelehrten,
die auch Dickens schon bekehrten -und erklärt sich aus dem steten
Magnetismus des Planeten.Palmström also heilt sich örtlich,
nimmt sein Bett und stellt es nördlich.Und im Traum, in einigen Fällen,
hört er den Polarfuchs bellen.-- Christian Morgenstern"
Habt einen wundervollen Samstag! 💜
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💫 Du bist nicht zu viel und nicht zu wenig. Du bist genau richtig.
🎉 TGIF! Guten Morgen, Community! 🎉
📆 Es ist Freitag, der 06. Februar 2026
📈 Community-Stats: 264 User, 46074 Tröts, 174.52 Ø pro Person 🐘
☁ Wetter-Update: -1 bis 3°C, Bedeckt. Wintervibes! 🧊
📍 Berlin 0°C • Hamburg -1°C • Köln 3°C💭 Gedanke des Tages:
"Neu!!! Ehefrau 1.0 freigegebenLetztes Jahr hat mein Freund von "Freundin 6.0" auf Ehefrau 1.0
upgegradet und festgestellt, daß er seitdem weniger System-Ressourcen
für andere Anwendungen frei hat. Er hat auch jetzt erst festgestellt,
daß Ehefrau 1.0 auch Kind-Prozesse erzeugt, welche weitere wertvolle
Ressourcen verschlingen. Dieses Phänomen wurde mit keinem Wort in der
beigefügten Produktbroschüre oder in der Dokumentation erwähnt, aber
andere Benutzer informierten ihn, daß er wegen der Natur dieser
Anwendung damit rechnen mußte. Nicht nur, daß sich Ehefrau 1.0 so
installiert, daß es vor der System-Initialisierung gestartet wird und
danach die anderen System-Aktivitäten überwacht, andere Anwendungen
wie Poker-Night 10.3, Skat dreschen 2.5, und Kneipengang 7.0 sind
nicht mehr lauffähig oder stürzen ab (obwohl sie vorher immer
funktionierten). Die Installation Ehefrau 1.0 installiert automatisch
ungewollte Plug-Ins wie Schwiegermutter 55.8 und
Schwager-Beta-Release. Die Systemleistung scheint sich damit täglich
zu vermindern. Einige Merkmale welcher er gerne in der folgenden
Version von Ehefrau 2.0 sehen würde:
· Ein "Erinnere mich nicht mehr" Button
· Ein "minimieren" Button
· Ein Install-Shield-Merkmal, daß es erlaubt, Ehefrau 2.0 jederzeit
zu deinstallieren ohne den Verlust des Caches und andere
System-Ressourcen."Auf einen großartigen Freitag! 🎉
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Four years ago today I first admitted I was trans. It's hard to believe it's that recent. Already it feels like it's been forever, like I have always been the way I am today.
At some level, I knew this a long time before I ever admitted it to myself. I didn't have the words for it, I didn't know it was possible, and I never imagined I would be safe to follow through on it. But it was still there.
I remember looking at the other side of the clothing store with longing. I remember asking every girlfriend how things felt for them. I remember the bitter disappointment when I noticed differences in our experiences. I remember driving into the mountains because it was the only place I felt safe wearing a skirt. I remember trying on my Nonny's shoes as a small child, I must have been 3 or 4. I remember in high school telling my dad "I know there are a ton of reasons it wouldn't be, but I can't help but feel my life would be better if I'd been born a girl."
When I first admitted this to myself I was so scared. "I look at that potential future and see pain," I wrote. "I don't think I could take it[.]"
I was wrong. Oh, it wasn't painless. I have lost parts of my family. I lost a couple of bad friends. Deciding to transition derailed my PhD program. But I had never experienced such joy before. I had never known that you could wake up and feel hopeful, not about something, but in general.
It is wild to me how much of this has become mundane now. I wake up and I can wear the clothes I want. My hair is beautiful in a way I never imagined it would be, back in the days of constant buzz cuts. I get to hear a name that I chose instead of the one foisted on me. My hormones actually feel right now, like a fog lifted on the inside. I don't have to mask my behavior nearly as hard, because who cares if someone sees me act naturally—I don't have some bullshit facade to maintain. Or, at least, a much smaller one.
I never thought I would be here. I wasn't sure, then, that I would last four years. Hell, I don't think I ever imagined living this long in any real detail.
I'm so fucking happy I stuck with it. I am happy I get to continue down this path. And oddly, I almost look forward to the next challenges. They will be hard, and remembering the payoff is especially hard in the moment, but this has proven to me that I can do it. One step at a time. Journey before destination.
I am grateful to be here as the real me. Thank you for seeing it with me. Happy hatching day 💜
#trans #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #queerjoy #queer -
🌈 Mittwoch = Bergfest! Durchhalten! 🌈
📆 Es ist Mittwoch, der 28. Januar 2026
💜 Zahlen des Tages:
261 User • 45917 Tröts • 175.93 Tröts/Rüssel🌟 Du darfst Raum einnehmen. Deine Stimme, deine Story, dein Sein - alles ist wichtig.
🌈 An alle, die noch im Closet sind: Dein Coming-Out hat Zeit. Du entscheidest, wann und ob. Deine Sicherheit geht vor.
🌡 Wetter: -1-4°C, Bedeckt. Kuschel-Wetter! 🧣
📍 Berlin -1°C • Hamburg 0°C • Köln 4°C🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Wie man sein Kind nicht nennen sollte:
Roman TickerAuf einen großartigen Mittwoch! 🎉
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💙 An alle, die Intersektionalität leben: Als Bi-/Pan-/Ace-/Aro-Person, als QPoC, als disabled queer - ihr seid gesehen und wichtig.
🐘 Tröt tröt! Dienstag ist da! 🐘
🗓 Dienstag, der 27. Januar 2026 - ein neuer Tag!
📈 Community-Stats: 261 User, 45887 Tröts, 175.81 Ø pro Person 🐘
🏳️⚧️ Wir sind https://lsbt.me - eine queere Mastodon-Instanz, wo Trans*, Nicht-Binäre, Schwule, Lesben, Bi, Pan, Ace und alle anderen einen sicheren Hafen finden. Du auch? 🌟
🌡 Wetter: -3-2°C, Bedeckt. Wintervibes! 🧊
📍 Berlin -1°C • Hamburg -0°C • Köln 2°C🌟 Daily Wisdom:
Was war zuerst das Huhn oder das Ei?
Gott hat sicher das Huhn zuerst geschaffen, sonst hätte er drei
Wochen mit dem Ausbrüten verbringen müssen.Habt einen wundervollen Dienstag! 💜
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CW: CW: Financial distress, housing instability, recovery from abuse, emergency mutual aid
It’s been quiet because a lot has happened: I’ve completed four job interviews (including UPMC!) and have one more this Monday. I’m just waiting for the first official offer to land.
The silence was a matter of survival. Where I wound up staying last wasn't so great, and I had to escape an abusive living situation that drained my spoons. I’m out now, but I’ve landed in a hotel in Washington, PA—outside the Pittsburgh bus range and far from the city I need to work in.
I am currently out of food money and trying to scrape together enough to bridge the gap until I can start a job and pay rent. I tried boarding Riko to make things easier, but she's back with me now after an incident. It's just the two of us, too far from everything, trying to reach the finish line.
If you can help us survive these final weeks of the "waiting room," it would mean everything. I am so close to the life I've worked so hard for.
CashApp: https://cash.app/$CeruleanArc
https://venmo.com/joanburgos
Chime: $EllisArcwolf#MutualAid #TransJoy #Pittsburgh #WashingtonPA #LPC #JobHunt #SiberianHusky #EmergencyFund #QueerJoy #AbuseSurvivor
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Zerina und ich haben uns gestern einer No-Buy-Challenge gestellt. Die Regeln sind simpel: Bis zum 1. Juni wird nicht mehr geshoppt.⬇️
#Antikapitalismus #Consumerism #LebenMitAssistenz #SMA #Inkluencer #Disability #NoBuyChallenge #ShoppingHaul #FailVideo #RelatableContent #Ehrlichkeit #Humor #DailyStruggle #Vorsätze2026 #SelfCare #Shopping #NoBuyChallenge #QueerJoy #IntersektionalerFeminismus #WheelchairLife #München
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CW: CW: Trans Joy | Financial Need | Mutual Aid Ask | Systemic Frustration
This is weird.
It's weird because I'm feeling better, and that means that I have the spoons to ASK for something. And moreover, this is an ask that, despite my own unwillingness to validate my own needs, is WORTH asking.
THE PROBLEM
I have $15 in my bank account.
Tonight at midnight, my boyfriend performs as a DJ for the FIRST TIME EVER in front of a live audience. People tell me "don't worry; he'll DJ again," but as there is no objective moment in history where he will EVER perform again FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, my intellect is incapable of seeing "he'll DJ again" as anything other than a platitude. Akin to telling someone their loved one died "for a reason."
Cool. Fuck whoever came up with the reason then, you know? :P
I just know for a fact that I have performed alone when I believed that I had friends. And while when your self-esteem is fine these two things facts do not, in combination destroy you, I can't imagine anyone finds it a blast to not have anyone there at your back when it'd be coolest of all to have them there.
My boyfriend is performing in Erie, PA. It is two hours away from me, and so my only way to get there (both at this point or at any other point under present conditions) is to rent a vehicle via Zipcar, which permits me to borrow a vehicle for a reasonable amount of time for only $150.
Zipcar includes gas via a paycard in the driver's visor, so there would be no additional charges there. Furthermore, since it functions more like a subscription service than a car rental service, there are no fucking surprise "$600 we-picked-up-this-one-dog-hair-for-ya" fees as with Budget, who I continue to hate despite their having refunded me that fee.
I don't have a key to get back into the place where I am staying, though, so I'd have to rent the car until at least 7–8am for approx. $170, despite the fact that I won't be driving for the final few hours of that rental period. Effectively, I would require the car from 10pm tonight, when I use it to drive to Erie, until 8am tomorrow morning, when I can re-enter the space where I am able to stay.
THE ASK
$200 would be a fucking miracle to me tonight. I could literally make tonight a dream come true, and I could have an experience with an intimate and dearly beloved partner that no one, not even me, will EVER be able to share with them again.
$160 could potentially get me there and back, and it would be the absolute minimum I'd need in my bank account to OK the trip for myself. It would be a risk, but one potentially well-worth taking.
Anything less would not make this trip any less prohibitive to someone with my ability to have any control over my own fate. But it would make my life ever so slightly easier when--the day after tomorrow--I return to my doctor's office for new meds to replace the ones I've been without for weeks.
THANK YOU
I truly don't expect to go see my boyfriend tonight. For weeks now, I've accepted the fact that I do not get to do things like these that other people take for granted. I just, finally--and just for a little bit--maybe have the spoons to beg someone to make things different tonight.
This is tonight, so GFM is bad for this:
• https://venmo.com/joanburgos
• https://cash.app/$CeruleanArc
• Chime Sign: $EllisArcwolfThe "Chime Sign" is only usable internally by folks who have a Chime bank account, but it's the fastest and most direct transfer method to my primary account.
THE FUTURE
January 6th. The license. Dear gods, I resent the fact of having been made to wait and to suffer this long for it so much, and whether or not I get the license, I cannot imagine when I will ever see the PA State Board as anything but cruel and apathetic to the plight of any REAL human being. Which is a sad thing to think about the board in charge of THERAPISTS for a state, but I can't help what I think about a board that has ONLY EVER shown me that's exactly who they are.
When Pinocchio claims to be a real boy, and his nose only grows longer and more artificially cylindrical in response, I feel like I'd be a fool if I believed him anyway. And until not that recently, I absolutely would have despite all evidence to the contrary because I have never ONCE found that my ability to be kind to others has magically and generously extended to include me.
#MutualAid #TransJoy #Zipcar #EriePA #Pittsburgh #SupportArtists #FirstGig #Venmo #CashApp #Chime #QueerJoy #LPCReciprocity #EmergencyFund #ButlerPA
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CW: Personal journey: trauma, medical injustice, and poverty
I carry many traumas, religious conditioning, family abuse, and the weight of workplace injustice. For years, I feared my own queerness, trapped by a world that told me who to be.
It took a near fatal illness to break that shell. Facing death did not just change my health, it shifted my soul. It moved me from a world of self-concern to one of deep empathy. I went back to school, unlearned old patterns, and found my voice.
I have known the cruelty of a "wallet biopsy" and the sting of being judged by doctors who didn’t see my humanity. I have stood in line for expired food and felt the bone deep cold of poverty. I know that poverty is a trauma that kills, I have lived it.
But today, I am no longer afraid. I will shout in the face of the oppressors. I will continue to speak truth to power.
#Queer #Survivor #MutualAid #SocialJustice #PovertyAwareness #MedicalJustice #PovertyTrauma #SpeakTruthtoPower #ReligiousTrauma #QueerJoy #MedicalTrauma #PovertyTrauma #SocialJustice #Resilience #ClassWar #EatTheRich #EconomicJustice #LivedExperience #Deconstruction #Exvangelical #PostReligious #PoliticalEvolution #LateBloomerQueer #Pride #LGBT #LGBTQIA #UniversalHealthcare #HealthcareIaHumanRight
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#bookwyrm #30daybookchallenge Day 29 - Novella - Brighter than Scale, Swifter than Flame - Neon Yang #neonyang #sapphicromance #SFF #fantasynovella #dragons #queerfantasy #dragonromance #booksky #booktok #bookstagram #DutyVsDesire #QueerJoy #ttrpgpodcast #gamemastersbookclub https://www.k-squareproductions.com/gmbc
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“I’m possessed by love — but isn’t everybody?”
Freddie Mercury 🏳️🌈 -
Love in The Light
By Crissy Bliss AddamsThey kiss me like no one’s watching,
and adore me like everyone is.
Because
I am not a secret.
I am a celebration.Their hands know my history,
but they worship my body now.
I am chosen in daylight
Beloved in all seasons
not just desired in shadows.This is a love that lingers in doorways,
that memorizes my tea,
that speaks my name with reverence
with respect and pure tranquility.I am the perfect fit
I am their glorious sky.
And they look up in awe
every time.I am loved: fully, fiercely, without edit.
Not in silence.
Not in hiding.
But in the light
where I was always meant to be.#QueerJoy #OriginalPoem #LoveStory #LivedExperience #LoveOutLoud
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Another ✨️Fairy Casual✨️ look
#BlackMastodon #QueerMastodon #QueerJoy #BlackJoy #DrStarshine #Selfie #OotD
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Hi, fedi 💋
I’m Crissy (she/her): bi femme, romantic, cat whisperer, builder of ethical tech, & soft chaos based in Vancouver!This Halloween, am skipping the crowds & diving into a Planet of the Apes (2011) marathon (just finished Rise: bring on the film trilogy: Dawn 2014, War 2017, Kingdom 2024).
Horror films, gothic art, romanticism, & kawaii doodles are my cozy-season vibe. 🎀🖤✨ HBU?
I’m a naturist & nudity-positive cutie because health includes sunlight, skin, & softness. When not at Wreck Beach for the summer, there's no place like home! 🌞🌸
TLDR: Powered by caffeine, cuddles, & flirty sparkle.
If you vibe with grief-informed joy, haunted beauty, or tech that feels like a hug … come say hi 🐾🌈 as I'd like to make more #Fedifriends
Bonus points if you love cats or federated futures 😏
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Happy #NationalComingOutDay! I am non-binary (They/She), bisexual/ omnisexual, and demiromantic. If you want to know more about my identities, I encourage you to ask! I am happy to talk about what these identities mean to me, how they manifest, and how I came to each one.
Visibility matters, and I'm proud to be part of this amazing community. 🏳️🌈❤️
#BlackMastodon #QueerMastodon #QueerJoy #BlackJoy #DrStarshine #Selfie
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In love with this perfect tiny strawberry
#BlackMastodon #QueerMastodon #QueerJoy #BlackJoy #DrStarshine #Selfie
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Summer is my favorite season. I feel more fully myself during the summer. This morning I feel energized, motivated, and powerful.
I want to take a moment to acknowledge this feeling; I'll need to remember it during the dark, cold winter.
Thanks, summer. It's been fun.
#BlackMastodon #QueerMastodon #QueerJoy #BlackJoy #DrStarshine #Selfie
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Today was stressful, so we took a trip to the local forest 💜🩷
#BlackMastodon #QueerMastodon #QueerJoy #BlackJoy #DrStarshine #Selfie