Guys.
It's on us.
If you have a buddy, a mate, a friend, who doesn't seem like he understands consent, take him to your best nearby big ol gaaaay nightclub, after midnight.....
Oh boy howdy he'll get really specific and enthusiastic about consent then.
These kind of straight men, who are afraid of gay men, are only afraid of gay men because these straight men assume gay men want to treat them, like these straight men want to treat women.
To wit, if you see a man, any man, about to sexually assault anyone, it is your responsibility to lay a high holy shit kicking on him, until he cannot get up under his own power and then deliver him to the police.
And never give him the time of day again.
Only men can stop misogyny.
