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  1. A quotation from Simone de Beauvoir

    It’s frightening to think that you mark your children merely by being yourself.
     
    [C’est effrayant de penser qu’on marque ses enfants rien que par ce qu’on est.]

    Simone de Beauvoir (1908-1986) French author, existentialist philosopher, feminist theorist
    Les Belles Images, ch. 3 (1966) [tr. O’Brian (1968)]

    More about this quote: wist.info/beauvoir-simone-de/8…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #simonedebeauvoir #beyourself #candor #childrearing #children #honesty #impact #parenting

  2. A quotation from Marcus Aurelius

    A candor affected is a dagger concealed.
     
    [ἐπιτήδευσις δὲ ἁπλότητος σκάλμη ἐστίν.]

    Marcus Aurelius (AD 121-180) Roman emperor (161-180), Stoic philosopher
    Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book 11, ch. 15 (11.15) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/marcus-aureleus/2670…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #marcusaurelius #attack #authenticity #candor #dagger #deception #duplicity #falsehood #honesty #insincerity #knife #lying #pretense #stiletto #straightforwardness #threat

  3. A quotation from Marcus Aurelius

    A candor affected is a dagger concealed.
     
    [ἐπιτήδευσις δὲ ἁπλότητος σκάλμη ἐστίν.]

    Marcus Aurelius (AD 121-180) Roman emperor (161-180), Stoic philosopher
    Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book 11, ch. 15 (11.15) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/marcus-aureleus/2670…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #marcusaurelius #attack #authenticity #candor #dagger #deception #duplicity #falsehood #honesty #insincerity #knife #lying #pretense #stiletto #straightforwardness #threat

  4. A quotation from Marcus Aurelius

    A candor affected is a dagger concealed.
     
    [ἐπιτήδευσις δὲ ἁπλότητος σκάλμη ἐστίν.]

    Marcus Aurelius (AD 121-180) Roman emperor (161-180), Stoic philosopher
    Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book 11, ch. 15 (11.15) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/marcus-aureleus/2670…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #marcusaurelius #attack #authenticity #candor #dagger #deception #duplicity #falsehood #honesty #insincerity #knife #lying #pretense #stiletto #straightforwardness #threat

  5. A quotation from Marcus Aurelius

    A candor affected is a dagger concealed.
     
    [ἐπιτήδευσις δὲ ἁπλότητος σκάλμη ἐστίν.]

    Marcus Aurelius (AD 121-180) Roman emperor (161-180), Stoic philosopher
    Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book 11, ch. 15 (11.15) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/marcus-aureleus/2670…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #marcusaurelius #attack #authenticity #candor #dagger #deception #duplicity #falsehood #honesty #insincerity #knife #lying #pretense #stiletto #straightforwardness #threat

  6. A quotation from Wilde

    GWENDOLEN: On an occasion of this kind it becomes more than a moral duty to speak one’s mind. It becomes a pleasure.

    Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) Irish poet, wit, dramatist
    The Importance of Being Earnest, Act 2 (1895)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/wilde-oscar/79756/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #oscarwilde #wilde #earnestness #truthtopower #brutalhonesty #candor #duty #plainspeaking #speakout #speakup

  7. A quotation from Josh Billings

    To lie about a man never hurts him, but to tell the truth about him sumtimes duz.
     
    [To lie about a man never hurts him, but to tell the truth about him sometimes does.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1875-10 (1875 ed.)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/78857/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #candor #defamation #libel #lie #lying #revelation #secret #slander #truth #truthtelling

  8. A quotation from Ralph Waldo Emerson

    A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud.

    Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882) American essayist, lecturer, poet
    Essay (1841), “Friendship,” Essays: First Series, No. 6

    More info about this quote: wist.info/emerson-ralph-waldo/…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ralphwaldoemerson #candor #friend #friendship #honesty #sincerity #vulnerability

  9. A quotation from Judith Martin

    “Honesty” in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you’re talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (2011-08), “Q and A with Miss Manners,” by Arcynta Ali Childs, Smithsonian magazine

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/78439/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #candor #honesty #insult #offensiveness #rudeness #inconsideration

  10. A quotation from Judith Martin

    “Honesty” in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you’re talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (2011-08), “Q and A with Miss Manners,” by Arcynta Ali Childs, Smithsonian magazine

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/78439/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #candor #honesty #insult #offensiveness #rudeness #inconsideration

  11. A quotation from Judith Martin

    “Honesty” in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you’re talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (2011-08), “Q and A with Miss Manners,” by Arcynta Ali Childs, Smithsonian magazine

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/78439/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #candor #honesty #insult #offensiveness #rudeness #inconsideration

  12. A quotation from Judith Martin

    “Honesty” in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you’re talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (2011-08), “Q and A with Miss Manners,” by Arcynta Ali Childs, Smithsonian magazine

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/78439/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #candor #honesty #insult #offensiveness #rudeness #inconsideration

  13. A quotation from Judith Martin

    “Honesty” in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you’re talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (2011-08), “Q and A with Miss Manners,” by Arcynta Ali Childs, Smithsonian magazine

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/78439/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #candor #honesty #insult #offensiveness #rudeness #inconsideration

  14. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    If we were all given by magic the power to read each other’s thoughts I suppose the first effect would be that almost all friendships would be dissolved.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 8 “Persecution Mania” (1930)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/783…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #candor #discretion #frankness #friendship #mindreading #secrets #telepathy #whitelies

  15. A quotation from Nassim Nicholas Taleb

    If you see fraud and do not say fraud, you are a fraud.

    Nassim Nicholas Taleb (b. 1960) Lebanese-American essayist, statistician, risk analyst, aphorist
    Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder, Prologue (2012)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/taleb-nassim-nichola…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #candor #complicity #consent #ethics #fraud #honesty #responsibility #silence #speakingout

  16. A quotation from Lincoln

    Upon the subjects of which I have treated, I have spoken as I thought. I may be wrong in regard to any or all of them; but holding it a sound maxim, that it is better to be only sometimes right, than at all times wrong, so soon as I discover my opinions to be erroneous, I shall be ready to renounce them.

    Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) American lawyer, politician, US President (1861-65)
    Essay (1832-03-09), “Communication to the People of Sangamo County,” Sangamo Journal (1832-03-15)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/lincoln-abraham/7253…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #abelincoln #abrahamlincoln #belief #candor #changeofmind #fallibility #honesty #humility #opinion #selfdeprecation

  17. A quotation from William Allingham

    To think all you say, is but candour;
    To say all you think, would be slander.

    William Allingham (1824–1889) Irish poet, diarist
    Blackberries Picked Off Many Bushes (1884)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/allingham-william/20…


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #brutalhonesty #candor #courtesy #defamation #filter #honesty #integrity #libel #opinion #politeness #slander

  18. A quotation from Josh Billings

    Confess yure sorrows, yure fears, yure hopes, yure love, and even yure deviltrys tew men, but don’t let them git a smell ov yure poverty—poverty haz no friends, not even among paupers.
     
    [Confess your sorrows, your fears, your hopes, your love, and even your deviltries to men, but don’t let them get a smell of your poverty — poverty has no friends, not even among paupers.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 156 “Affurisms: Embers on the Harth” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/76728/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bias #candor #economicinjustice #honesty #impoverishment #poverty #prejudice #relationship #shame #transparency

  19. A quotation from Martin, Judith:

    «
    In its natural state, the child tells the literal truth because it is too naive to think of anything else. Blurting out the complete truth is considered adorable in the young, right smack up to the moment that the child says, “Mommy, is this the fat lady you can’t stand?” At this point, the parent rig…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/martin-judith/73872/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #children #honesty #kindness #naivete #politeness #truth

  20. A quotation from Martin, Judith:

    «
    In its natural state, the child tells the literal truth because it is too naive to think of anything else. Blurting out the complete truth is considered adorable in the young, right smack up to the moment that the child says, “Mommy, is this the fat lady you can’t stand?” At this point, the parent rig…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/martin-judith/73872/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #children #honesty #kindness #naivete #politeness #truth

  21. A quotation from Martin, Judith:

    «
    In its natural state, the child tells the literal truth because it is too naive to think of anything else. Blurting out the complete truth is considered adorable in the young, right smack up to the moment that the child says, “Mommy, is this the fat lady you can’t stand?” At this point, the parent rig…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/martin-judith/73872/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #children #honesty #kindness #naivete #politeness #truth

  22. "We will never sell or give your email address to anyone" is the biggest non-lie lie.

    They just share everything about users at demographic level. And for the right amount of money, even user-level information, only replace mail address with another unique ID. ☹️

    #business #techonology #privacy #candor

  23. A quotation from #Gaiman, Neil:

    «
    It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But the half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/gaiman-neil/9988/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #children #emperor #fool #monarch #naivete #observation #power #prerogative #shame #truth

  24. A quotation from #Gaiman, Neil:

    «
    It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But the half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/gaiman-neil/9988/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #children #emperor #fool #monarch #naivete #observation #power #prerogative #shame #truth

  25. A quotation from Holmes, Oliver Wendell, Sr.:

    «««««
    Don’t flatter yourselves that friendship authorizes you to say disagreeable things to your intimates. On the contrary, the nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become.
    »»»»»

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/holmes-sr-oliver-wen

    #quote #quotes #quotation #candor #courtesy #friend #friendship #tact