#buddydaddies — Public Fediverse posts

Forgot to post this earlier but just pretend it's still June ✌️

Happy Miri Monday :D

From 2024

Movie TV Tech Geeks #TV #Anime #Toradora #BuddyDaddies 10 Anime Shows That Are Perfect for the Holiday Season http://dlvr.it/TPfrCF

Suddenly remembered how when Buddy Daddies first came out a lot of ppl hated Misaki's guts and thought she was just as bad as Miri's bio dad, I think things have calmed down but back then it really rubbed me the wrong way.

I’ll be honest, I really liked her. Like yes, sending such a young child away on her own with absolutely no supervision was horribly irresponsible. But I just loved how flawed and realistically human she was and I honestly want to see more of this type of character in media. Especially in anime, maybe I just haven’t seen a lot but I feel like we often see either parents who are super loving and caring or awfully abusive, we don’t see a lot of parents that are just trapped in a life they don’t want and tired of holding a facade (it looks like Misaki never abused Miri or even showed her unhappiness around her even though she was on the verge of snapping any minute).

Idk maybe I just sympathised with her because I neither want nor like children and I know I’d hate my life and resent the kid if I was ever forced or coerced into the role of a caretaker, but apparently it was too much asking to have some nuance. It blows my mind that so many ppl thought a trapped, unhappy, desperate abuse victim was on the same level as a human trafficker. I’ve seen some ppl bring up abortion or adoption and I know they had good intentions but afaik the situation isn't as simple in Japan.

I’ve also seen a lot of ppl comment that they wanted Misaki to “work on her issues so that she and Miri could be together again” and all I ask is: why? Why is that necessary? Why is there such a pervasive idea that children are always better off with their mothers? I sincerely think a happy ending would've been for her to get help and get better but NOT get the kid back and I was rlly hoping the writers would go that route, it would've been very refreshing. I wanted the message to be “Not everyone is fit to be a parent and especially not every woman is fit to be a caretaker and there’s more than one type of family”.

And I'm sad that she was killed off but I see why they made the choices they made and they make a lot of sense given the context of the story. I personally don’t have any complaints about the writing but I think Misaki deserved better. I’m sad she died but I understand why it happened, I suppose with her arc going that route it wouldn’t have made sense for her to survive in a show where nobody’s safe from violent criminals who are willing to murder women and children to get them out of their way. Still, I don’t think she needed a big change of heart, I think she was already a great character as she was (it also rubbed me the wrong way that some people started viewing her as a good person only once she started making an effort to do things right but I digress).

I’ll be honest, I’m not a huge fan of the “unwilling parent learns to love their kid and learns to be a good parent so that they can finally be a happy family” narrative. It just doesn’t sit right with me, maybe I’m reading too much into it but the message I get from these kind of stories is that anyone can be a good parent/caretaker with enough help and resources and in the right place mentally and emotionally (ESPECIALLY because that’s an argument people use in real life for why they think everyone should have kids, or hell, even as an anti abortion argument; like that’s not an exaggeration, I’ve seen them saying pretty much the exact same thing), when the sad reality is that sometimes kids are just unwanted. I sincerely wish the show had acknowledged that some people just don’t want to be parents even when they already are, I know it’s not pretty but these things need to be talked about in fiction.

I also think it would’ve fit the story perfectly: we would’ve had an example of horrible abusive parents (Rei’s father), amazing loving parents (Rei and Kazuki themselves) and parents who do their best but would still rather be doing anything else (Misaki herself). Maybe I’m biased, I don’t know, but I’m really starved for this kind of content. As a friend of mine as well as a few other people have said, we need more situations like in Matilda, where the bio parents admit they aren’t fit for the role and happily sign away their parental rights.

(Granted that if Misaki hadn’t popped back into Miri’s life she wouldn’t have died like that, as she got targeted precisely because she was with Miri, that’s why I say I understand why the writers made the choices they made).

I also wish they hadn’t given her cancer if they were going to kill her off anyway, give the poor woman a break lol.

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Today's #AniAnimal is this fluffy Saint Bernard that Miri meets while following Kazuki in "Buddy Daddies".

今日の #アニアニマル は『バディダディ』でミリが一騎を後を追って出会ったふわふわのセントバーナードです。

More info and other AniAnimals at: https://www.anianimals.moe/scene/Xm0BBhsLFNHzlP_499Krdb/

#Anime #AnimeDog #BuddyDaddies #アニメ #アニメ犬 #バディダディ

Happy belated birthday to the best mom dad in the world! 🥳🥳🥳🥳

Story Pile: Buddy Daddies

There’s a lot to be said for mid anime, in quality and in scope. Not an epic sprawling story meant to spin off for multiple seasons. Not a mystery that promises a resolution that it may completely bottle. Not trying to change your life, just trying to get you to tune in and look at some ads and maybe buy a wall scroll or two. Or fill out the extensive entries […]

#Anime #BuddyDaddies

https://press.invincible.ink/story-pile-buddy-daddies/

A bromance between two mafia partners acting as a parent to an adorable yet rambunctious girl, #BuddyDaddies hits all the right feels...Read our Series Review for more 🥰❤
https://theblxpress.wordpress.com/2023/08/15/buddy-daddies-series-review-ep-1-to-12/#more-13351

#NowWatching #BuddyDaddies. Definitely *buddies* totally *gal pals* not dating at all - the household budget and raising a kid together definitely does not mean they're a couple - no no why would you think that... #anime

Today's #AniAnimal is this angry dog from the Ending Theme of "Buddy Daddies".

今日の #アニアニマル は『バディダディ』のエンディングテーマの怒っている犬です。

More info and other AniAnimals at: https://www.anianimals.moe/scene/3TCdXvJlysjB3_Bfll2-MCC/

#Anime #AnimeDog #BuddyDaddies #アニメ #アニメ犬 #バディダディ

Con is OVER so I have excess con stock up on my BigCartel! #Keychains are still available but promo for the new #stickers and #badges we had this time!

https://marinehaddock.bigcartel.com/

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I drew Rei and Miri playing video games together! Buddy Daddies was a really good anime! I loved it 😊

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#buddydaddies #reisuwa #miriunasaka #rei #miri #anime #manga #fanart #drawing #painting #illustration #digitalart #artist

This week's #AnimangaPictureChallenge asked for hats, so here's two in one :Kanna1: :Kanna2: :Kanna3:

#Anime #AnimangaFoundIt #BuddyDaddies

Peut-être l’anime qui m’aura le plus ému de la saison, une famille singulière attachante constituée par des personnes qui n’étaient pas prédestinées à être ensemble dont on suit les péripéties du meilleure comme du pire. Je suis passé par toutes les émotions possibles… Au revoir Miri, Kazuki-papa et Rei-papa !

J'ai complété l'Anime : Buddy Daddies
Je l'ai noté 9.5/10
#AmethystEverstone #AniList #バディダディ #buddydaddies https://anilist.co/anime/155907

J'ai vu le 7e épisode de l'Anime : Buddy Daddies
#AmethystEverstone #AniList #バディダディ #buddydaddies https://anilist.co/anime/155907

I like how the show uses their line of work as a metaphor for society's intolerance toward gay people and parents

#anime #buddydaddies #lgbtq #gay

I also like how they're already a couple even before adopting the kid xD I was worried it was gonna be like "forced to be with each other through circumstances of finding the child" but nope, they're already an adorable disaster gay couple before. >_>

(poor cat tho, I get the metaphor for what's to come when they adopt Miri but I hope the cat is okay)

#BuddyDaddies #anime #gay #lgbtq #yaoi

https://www.cbr.com/buddy-daddies-used-real-parenting-experience-write-anime/ the creators even explicitly say that it's meant to explore same-sex parents and reflect modern diversity. And I appreciated that they're both called her dad, and not just "uncle" or "dad's friend" or something. I like that while it's a little unusual to some of the other parents or daycare workers, they all take it in stride and are like "oh, Miri has 2 dads, that's cool!"

#BuddyDaddies #LGBTQ #gay #anime

"there's a story behind that" should be the standard reply from gay couples when asked about their relationship >_>

#anime #BuddyDaddies #LGBTQ #gay #yaoi

Rei holding Miri properly by the head is such a sweet little detail.

#BuddyDaddies #anime

What #anime are you guys watching this season? I haven't started that many yet, so I have room for more. Any that are particularly good that you would recommend?

This is what I'm already watching:

#VinlandSaga
#KuboWontLetMeBeInvisible
#BuddyDaddies
#TenseiOujoToTensaiReijouNoMahouKakumei

#Winter2023Anime