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  1. Cleaning up a whole pile of clutter mostly related to K. Stuff that seemed like a good idea at the time but never caught his focus. A pile of old classwork that should have just gone into the recycling direct from his bag, because he has never been willing to discuss it. Books that he ‘bought’ with “Good Behavior Bucks” at school but which he has no patience to listen to or look at. Random toys that lost interest and got buried.
    A lot of stuff reminding me of my #BadDad status.

  2. Cleaning up a whole pile of clutter mostly related to K. Stuff that seemed like a good idea at the time but never caught his focus. A pile of old classwork that should have just gone into the recycling direct from his bag, because he has never been willing to discuss it. Books that he ‘bought’ with “Good Behavior Bucks” at school but which he has no patience to listen to or look at. Random toys that lost interest and got buried.
    A lot of stuff reminding me of my #BadDad status.

  3. Cleaning up a whole pile of clutter mostly related to K. Stuff that seemed like a good idea at the time but never caught his focus. A pile of old classwork that should have just gone into the recycling direct from his bag, because he has never been willing to discuss it. Books that he ‘bought’ with “Good Behavior Bucks” at school but which he has no patience to listen to or look at. Random toys that lost interest and got buried.
    A lot of stuff reminding me of my #BadDad status.

  4. Cleaning up a whole pile of clutter mostly related to K. Stuff that seemed like a good idea at the time but never caught his focus. A pile of old classwork that should have just gone into the recycling direct from his bag, because he has never been willing to discuss it. Books that he ‘bought’ with “Good Behavior Bucks” at school but which he has no patience to listen to or look at. Random toys that lost interest and got buried.
    A lot of stuff reminding me of my #BadDad status.

  5. I spend a substantial portion of my life calling across 2 rooms to K. to get him to a meal. This is not abuse of a disabled person; he prefers to be in control of his own moving around the house and it is important that he stays as active and mobile as he can be. He is not task-focused, however...

    It is hard to express how much I resent being in a position where I must "nag." It's a big piece of why I've run away from managing people.

    #BadDad

  6. I spend a substantial portion of my life calling across 2 rooms to K. to get him to a meal. This is not abuse of a disabled person; he prefers to be in control of his own moving around the house and it is important that he stays as active and mobile as he can be. He is not task-focused, however...

    It is hard to express how much I resent being in a position where I must "nag." It's a big piece of why I've run away from managing people.

    #BadDad

  7. I spend a substantial portion of my life calling across 2 rooms to K. to get him to a meal. This is not abuse of a disabled person; he prefers to be in control of his own moving around the house and it is important that he stays as active and mobile as he can be. He is not task-focused, however...

    It is hard to express how much I resent being in a position where I must "nag." It's a big piece of why I've run away from managing people.

    #BadDad

  8. I spend a substantial portion of my life calling across 2 rooms to K. to get him to a meal. This is not abuse of a disabled person; he prefers to be in control of his own moving around the house and it is important that he stays as active and mobile as he can be. He is not task-focused, however...

    It is hard to express how much I resent being in a position where I must "nag." It's a big piece of why I've run away from managing people.

    #BadDad

  9. "He hurts me because I am bad" really isn't a good look, is it?

    It is what it is.

    #BadDad

  10. "He hurts me because I am bad" really isn't a good look, is it?

    It is what it is.

    #BadDad

  11. "He hurts me because I am bad" really isn't a good look, is it?

    It is what it is.

    #BadDad

  12. "He hurts me because I am bad" really isn't a good look, is it?

    It is what it is.

    #BadDad

  13. I’m so tired of doing what I have to do and being so shoddy at it.
    #BadDad

  14. I’m so tired of doing what I have to do and being so shoddy at it.
    #BadDad

  15. I’m so tired of doing what I have to do and being so shoddy at it.
    #BadDad

  16. I’m so tired of doing what I have to do and being so shoddy at it.
    #BadDad

  17. The only reason I’m not looking to emigrate yet is my son. SWMBO and I could work from anywhere, he will never work an hour of economically productive labor anywhere in his life, no matter the accommodations. The profoundly #disabled are not a set of people sought for immigration by any country. The Fascists would rather they just be cleansed from the Race.
    Living in the home state of Betsy DeVos, I cannot doubt that they will do so.

    #BadDad

  18. The only reason I’m not looking to emigrate yet is my son. SWMBO and I could work from anywhere, he will never work an hour of economically productive labor anywhere in his life, no matter the accommodations. The profoundly #disabled are not a set of people sought for immigration by any country. The Fascists would rather they just be cleansed from the Race.
    Living in the home state of Betsy DeVos, I cannot doubt that they will do so.

    #BadDad

  19. The only reason I’m not looking to emigrate yet is my son. SWMBO and I could work from anywhere, he will never work an hour of economically productive labor anywhere in his life, no matter the accommodations. The profoundly #disabled are not a set of people sought for immigration by any country. The Fascists would rather they just be cleansed from the Race.
    Living in the home state of Betsy DeVos, I cannot doubt that they will do so.

    #BadDad

  20. The only reason I’m not looking to emigrate yet is my son. SWMBO and I could work from anywhere, he will never work an hour of economically productive labor anywhere in his life, no matter the accommodations. The profoundly #disabled are not a set of people sought for immigration by any country. The Fascists would rather they just be cleansed from the Race.
    Living in the home state of Betsy DeVos, I cannot doubt that they will do so.

    #BadDad

  21. Hahaha! Me trolling my daughter who is trying to study for a test with my picccolo trumpet… #BadDad #trumpet #FamilyLife

  22. Hahaha! Me trolling my daughter who is trying to study for a test with my picccolo trumpet… #BadDad #trumpet #FamilyLife

  23. Hahaha! Me trolling my daughter who is trying to study for a test with my picccolo trumpet… #BadDad #trumpet #FamilyLife

  24. Hahaha! Me trolling my daughter who is trying to study for a test with my picccolo trumpet… #BadDad #trumpet #FamilyLife

  25. CW: Lazy Parent’s Lament

    Really envying childless-by-choice folks today.
    I basically don’t say ‘no’ to Kyle about anything because the scope of his whims is pretty small and it’s not as if he can push his own wheelchair.
    An hour outside rolling him around the neighborhood reciting every house number and helping him proudly demo his knowledge of all the street names is amazingly exhausting.
    I am so grateful for the prediction of rain for tomorrow.
    #BadDad

  26. CW: Lazy Parent’s Lament

    Really envying childless-by-choice folks today.
    I basically don’t say ‘no’ to Kyle about anything because the scope of his whims is pretty small and it’s not as if he can push his own wheelchair.
    An hour outside rolling him around the neighborhood reciting every house number and helping him proudly demo his knowledge of all the street names is amazingly exhausting.
    I am so grateful for the prediction of rain for tomorrow.
    #BadDad

  27. CW: Lazy Parent’s Lament

    Really envying childless-by-choice folks today.
    I basically don’t say ‘no’ to Kyle about anything because the scope of his whims is pretty small and it’s not as if he can push his own wheelchair.
    An hour outside rolling him around the neighborhood reciting every house number and helping him proudly demo his knowledge of all the street names is amazingly exhausting.
    I am so grateful for the prediction of rain for tomorrow.
    #BadDad

  28. CW: Lazy Parent’s Lament

    Really envying childless-by-choice folks today.
    I basically don’t say ‘no’ to Kyle about anything because the scope of his whims is pretty small and it’s not as if he can push his own wheelchair.
    An hour outside rolling him around the neighborhood reciting every house number and helping him proudly demo his knowledge of all the street names is amazingly exhausting.
    I am so grateful for the prediction of rain for tomorrow.
    #BadDad

  29. Is it bad that following a lot of queer young people makes me feel a whole bunch better about ways I’ve avoided being #BadDad?

  30. Is it bad that following a lot of queer young people makes me feel a whole bunch better about ways I’ve avoided being #BadDad?

  31. Is it bad that following a lot of queer young people makes me feel a whole bunch better about ways I’ve avoided being #BadDad?

  32. Is it bad that following a lot of queer young people makes me feel a whole bunch better about ways I’ve avoided being #BadDad?

  33. Part of #BadDad praxis is minimal protection from consequences. That way I never have to engage in “punishment” or “discipline” which are both no fun. mstdn.social/@_L1vY_/110209456

  34. I ‘m not well.
    I need to file legal forms at the county court for a long-procrastinated bit of formality.
    Tried. Clerk says I had the wrong forms. I did the one for an “INCAPACITATED INDIVIDUAL” but there’s a DIFFERENT form for an “INDIVIDUAL WITH ALLEGED DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITY” Apparently got the wrong Dr. form too. I need the “PHYSICAL APPRAISAL FORM” not a “REPORT OF PHYSICIAN OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL”
    I am at “cry in car, step outside to howl in rage” levels of collapse.
    #BadDad

  35. I ‘m not well.
    I need to file legal forms at the county court for a long-procrastinated bit of formality.
    Tried. Clerk says I had the wrong forms. I did the one for an “INCAPACITATED INDIVIDUAL” but there’s a DIFFERENT form for an “INDIVIDUAL WITH ALLEGED DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITY” Apparently got the wrong Dr. form too. I need the “PHYSICAL APPRAISAL FORM” not a “REPORT OF PHYSICIAN OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL”
    I am at “cry in car, step outside to howl in rage” levels of collapse.
    #BadDad

  36. I ‘m not well.
    I need to file legal forms at the county court for a long-procrastinated bit of formality.
    Tried. Clerk says I had the wrong forms. I did the one for an “INCAPACITATED INDIVIDUAL” but there’s a DIFFERENT form for an “INDIVIDUAL WITH ALLEGED DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITY” Apparently got the wrong Dr. form too. I need the “PHYSICAL APPRAISAL FORM” not a “REPORT OF PHYSICIAN OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL”
    I am at “cry in car, step outside to howl in rage” levels of collapse.
    #BadDad

  37. I ‘m not well.
    I need to file legal forms at the county court for a long-procrastinated bit of formality.
    Tried. Clerk says I had the wrong forms. I did the one for an “INCAPACITATED INDIVIDUAL” but there’s a DIFFERENT form for an “INDIVIDUAL WITH ALLEGED DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITY” Apparently got the wrong Dr. form too. I need the “PHYSICAL APPRAISAL FORM” not a “REPORT OF PHYSICIAN OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL”
    I am at “cry in car, step outside to howl in rage” levels of collapse.
    #BadDad

  38. @kd9cpb @noipv6 No, I may regularly refer to myself as #BadDad but I'm not THAT abusive.

  39. @kd9cpb @noipv6 No, I may regularly refer to myself as #BadDad but I'm not THAT abusive.

  40. @kd9cpb @noipv6 No, I may regularly refer to myself as #BadDad but I'm not THAT abusive.

  41. @kd9cpb @noipv6 No, I may regularly refer to myself as #BadDad but I'm not THAT abusive.

  42. @kd9cpb @noipv6 No, I may regularly refer to myself as #BadDad but I'm not THAT abusive.

  43. I think it's fair to say that my children, like all children, are generally lovely but also kind of gross... 😂

    #baddad

  44. I think it's fair to say that my children, like all children, are generally lovely but also kind of gross... 😂

    #baddad

  45. I think it's fair to say that my children, like all children, are generally lovely but also kind of gross... 😂

    #baddad

  46. I think it's fair to say that my children, like all children, are generally lovely but also kind of gross... 😂

  47. I mean, he'll be fine this time, but only because the fine folks at Children's PM&R had a timeslot available before his meds run dry.

    It was a mistake to let me procreate.

    #BadDad

  48. I mean, he'll be fine this time, but only because the fine folks at Children's PM&R had a timeslot available before his meds run dry.

    It was a mistake to let me procreate.

    #BadDad

  49. I mean, he'll be fine this time, but only because the fine folks at Children's PM&R had a timeslot available before his meds run dry.

    It was a mistake to let me procreate.

    #BadDad

  50. I mean, he'll be fine this time, but only because the fine folks at Children's PM&R had a timeslot available before his meds run dry.

    It was a mistake to let me procreate.

    #BadDad