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  1. From the front lines of a much-splintered #feminist movement, #RobinMorgan gave voice to #women as a #poet, #journalist, #novelist, #memoirist, #agitator & #iconoclast. She came of age in the civil rights & anti-Vietnam War movements, but along with other young women of the new left, she found those movements dominated by men, &, in particular, men who wanted to keep women as second-class citizens.

    “We were tired of making coffee & not policy,” she told The Guardian in 2006.

  2. "I don't think I could..."

    In 2015 I took a trip to France, England and Scotland. I could barely parse Scottish and I found French opaque. I convinced myself I could never speak another language. Now in 2026 I have been told my German is "Praktisch Muttersprachig" (Practically mothertongue) and "Umgangssprachlich" (Colloquial). Well on my path to citizenship.

    I was divorced in 2016 and was convinced I'd be alone and was hella straight. Turns out I am hella bi, am now engaged to a person with almost the same gender as myself. I was also convinced of my jealousy, turns out I am polyam.

    I worked in a few kitchens to get by on bills when I was younger. I was convinced I could never be like the chefs I watched. I struggled with dishes for chrissakes. Now I have been a head chef and a sous chef INCLUDING in another country in another language with a different culinary style.

    I was convinced I should get on disability for my OCD. I did years of therapy and now it's mostly under control.

    I'm not saying you can do anything you can set your mind to. I certainly can't. I'm more saying that a lot of the limits we place on ourselves are self or society imposed and are just made up. Just peer pressure we impose on ourselves like how human jaws could easily bite off a finger but our brains will not let us or a mother could lift a car to save a child. We impose limits on ourselves as a way of saying we are safe here when often we are not. We are stuck in the same rut we always were and convinced we could never change.

    Don't be afraid to be that crazy hippie commie gay aunt. Be that gay metal butterfly you were meant to be! I am the cool gay aunt now and you can be too.

    #immigrantlife #lgbt #iconoclast