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Jalan got me some bondage time today. Dragonlet needed her circulating, so she tucked me in then came back and checked in occasionally.

It was lovely. Basically, nylon straps to pin my biceps back, and more to hold my hands together in front of my chest. The tails from the straps around my wrists went around to a buckle in the back and were pulled tight, so no chance of making slack in the wrist loops.

So upshot was my arms and torso were strapped into a very cozy position kind of like a side-sleeper might be blissful in, but trapped exactly that way with almost no mobility.

And blindfold.

I love my wife. I love my life.

(She would have been able to hear me if I'd called out.)

#bondage #BDSM #kink #FemDom #FLR

I've been having a good run! In addition to the straitjacket time on Friday (above), she put me in bondage for movies both Saturday and Sunday. Nothing elaborate or terribly restrictive, but absolutely inescapable, which is key (no pun; also my cock out of reach, which is also important to me when I'm not caged, even though I probably didn't have enough freedom of movement to get myself off if I'd tried).

And Sunday I was still in restraints when she ended the denial stretch (cf. https://toot.cat/@naga/115669340385121148 ) with a wonderful handjob, not even ruining it a little! Volume...

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#Kink #bondage #BDSM #MaleChastity #OrgasmDenial #OrgasmControl #FLR #FemDom #BDSM

Two updates are yesterday's time together.

It was intentional, and it ended at day 54 (I'd had the start date wrong when I posted before).

Good all around!

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#Kink #MaleChastity #OrgasmDenial #OrgasmControl #FLR #FemDom #BDSM

Jalan gave me the better part of an hour today in my spandex #straitjacket, just being calm. Straps at knees and ankles holding my legs together, blindfold and earplugs. No options available to me except to bliss out.

My #ActuallyAutistic self needs this, and it's the first significant restraint she's felt safe for me since abdominal surgery, so I've really been craving it.

She takes care of me.

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#bondage #kink #BDSM #SensoryDeprivation #FLR #FemDom

I realized several days ago that Jalan has just been quietly not letting me come for some time without remarking on it--just saying no each time I ask.

This is day 56.

The denial through the Spring and Summer has sure recalibrated things for me. Before five full months without orgasm, 56 days would have been a very long time by our standards, and I'd have been feeling desperate from the denial much earlier than this.

Five months without an orgasm. I was allowed to edge myself exactly once in that span, and that only after using a numbing cream on my cock and giving it plenty of time to take effect. There was plenty of edging and testing from Jalan, and even PIV sex, during that time, but no orgasms for me.

That was twice as long as the previous longest duration she's imposed.

So now, we're closing on two months. We have a date Sunday, but she's also visiting her boyfriend Saturday. One of the implications is she can deny me if she chooses without particularly depriving herself.

Thing is, she hasn't even indicated whether or not this was intentional or planned. I'm completely in the dark.

And horny as hell.

She loves me.

#Kink #MaleChastity #OrgasmDenial #OrgasmControl #FLR #FemDom #BDSM