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  1. Where to place the crowbar

    Revert to what Epictetus described as our “chief task in life”—getting real clear about what’s up to us and what isn’t. Our actions, our thoughts, our feelings—these are up to us. Other people, the weather, external events, these are not. But here’s the thing: our responses to other people, the weather, external events are in our control. To reset your life, the best place to start is with making this distinction and then choosing to focus on the things that are in your control. If only because it concentrates your resources in the places where they matter.

    ~ Ryan Holiday, from You Slipped Up […]

    Bryan Ward wrote a great article How The Hammer Fails You and reading his metaphor about the hammer versus the crowbar was a pivotal moment for me. Later, I realized that Epictetus’s counsel feels like the seed for Ward’s metaphor.

    Am I applying my mental or physical effort in the correct place?

    Until my answer was consistently coming up yes, that was the most useful question I kept asking.

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  2. Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.

    — Epictetus

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  3. Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  4. Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.

    — Epictetus

  5. Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  6. Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  7. The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…

    — Epictetus

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  8. The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  9. The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…

    — Epictetus

  10. The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  11. The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  12. Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

    — Epictetus

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  13. Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

    — Epictetus

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  14. Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

    — Epictetus

  15. Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

    — Epictetus

    #Stoic #Stoicism #Epictetus

  16. Don’t explain your philosophy. Embody it.

    — Epictetus

  17. Challenges reveal who you are. The tougher the storm, the stronger you prove yourself. Epictetus knew what's up. 💯⛈️
    #Quotes #Epictetus #Motivation #OvercomeChallenges

  18. Challenges reveal who you are. The tougher the storm, the stronger you prove yourself. Epictetus knew what's up. 💯⛈️
    #Quotes #Epictetus #Motivation #OvercomeChallenges

  19. Challenges reveal who you are. The tougher the storm, the stronger you prove yourself. Epictetus knew what's up. 💯⛈️
    #Quotes #Epictetus #Motivation #OvercomeChallenges

  20. He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.

    — Epictetus

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  21. He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.

    — Epictetus

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