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#communitystandards — Public Fediverse posts

Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #communitystandards, aggregated by home.social.

  1. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  2. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  3. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  4. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  5. Just checking if a Reply acknowledging the non-consenting-sex side of a joke is #SeaLioning in your view.

    #Consent #CommunityStandards

  6. Illegal dumping hurts Calgary neighbourhoods

    Illegal dumping involves leaving furniture, appliances, garbage, renovation materials or other waste on public or private property without…
    #NewsBeep #News #Calgary #banner #CA #Canada #citynews #cityofcalgary #Cityrelease #communitystandards
    newsbeep.com/ca/618948/

  7. A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle

    I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the librarians who are rising up to protest this, because they are putting their very jobs on the line.

    Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
    Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC

    More about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/831…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #bookbanning #books #censorship #communitystandards #control #freedomofthought #intellectualfreedom #librarian #library #moralcode #power #suppression

  8. A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle

    I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the librarians who are rising up to protest this, because they are putting their very jobs on the line.

    Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
    Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC

    More about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/831…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #bookbanning #books #censorship #communitystandards #control #freedomofthought #intellectualfreedom #librarian #library #moralcode #power #suppression

  9. A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle

    I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the librarians who are rising up to protest this, because they are putting their very jobs on the line.

    Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
    Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC

    More about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/831…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #bookbanning #books #censorship #communitystandards #control #freedomofthought #intellectualfreedom #librarian #library #moralcode #power #suppression

  10. A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle

    I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the librarians who are rising up to protest this, because they are putting their very jobs on the line.

    Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
    Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC

    More about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/831…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #bookbanning #books #censorship #communitystandards #control #freedomofthought #intellectualfreedom #librarian #library #moralcode #power #suppression

  11. Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

    I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

    I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

    My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

    Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

    Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

    Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

    #DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

  12. Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

    I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

    I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

    My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

    Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

    Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

    Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

    #DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

  13. Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

    I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

    I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

    My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

    Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

    Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

    Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

    #DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

  14. Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

    I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

    I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

    My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

    Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

    Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

    Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

    #DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

  15. Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

    I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

    I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

    My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

    Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

    Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

    Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

    #DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

  16. Mastodon is only a decent community because we actively maintain it. If you see harassment, especially men targeting women, don't just scroll past. Call it out and report it. Let's keep the space clean. Take out the trash.

    #Mastodon #Fediverse #FediTips #CommunityStandards #Safety #StopHarassment #WomenInTech #HumanRights

  17. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing


  18. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing


  19. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing


  20. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing

  21. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing

  22. 📢 Public Accountability Post

    I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

    A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

    This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

    Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

    I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

    #Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing

  23. I haven’t posted on #facebook since last year when I shared a few updates of my time volunteering for the #Harris campaign, YET I recently received a notice that my account has been suspended for potential violations of #communitystandards. Hard not to lean into confirmation bias about the #Trump administration’s violation of #freespeech & #tech collusion.
    #technology #SocialMedia #government

  24. So, "fact checking" has been replaced with "community standards" on Facebook?

    I guess whoever has the most power, influence and popularity determines what the "standard" is, regardless of whether it's backed up by logic, reason and evidence?

    #communitystandards #facts #factchecking #hypocrisy #facebook

  25. Wer möchte, kann hier die aktuellsten #Änderungen an den Richtliniendetails der #CommunityStandards von #Meta für "Hasserfülltes Verhalten" einsehen:
    transparency.meta.com/de-de/po
    Man erkennt darin sehr klare Richtungen, in welchen Bereichen Dinge explizit erlaubt sind. Gender-Themen trifft es in diesen Änderungen z.B. am deutlichsten.

    (Die Formulierungen scheinen mir direkt aus dem Englischen übersetzt und nicht landesspezifisch zu sein, aber gerne selber gegenchecken.) #Transparenz

  26. My wife just posted a picture on Facebook of the carnage she made out of our kiwi tree, because there was a big spider in it.
    When I tried to comment on it with a meme showing disaster girl saying "There was a spider, it is gone now", Facebook warned me that this content has been removed as violating community standards - and that I could delete it now to avoid potential account restrictions.

    #communitystandards #meta #facebook #spider

  27. Looks like #Zuckerberg's #GenocideEnablingSocialMedia will not be available for me to use to engage in #ReUseRepair.

    To my knowledge nothing in their so called #CommunityStandards applies to my account.

    And if something there may apply Facebook ain't telling me what.
    So I can't even try to set them straight.

    I'm not expecting #NaturalJustice from a #GenocideEnabling scumbag.
    And still I think it's worth noting it's absence in their account suspension process.

  28. Looks like #Zuckerberg's #GenocideEnablingSocialMedia will not be available for me to use to engage in #ReUseRepair.

    To my knowledge nothing in their so called #CommunityStandards applies to my account.

    And if something there may apply Facebook ain't telling me what.
    So I can't even try to set them straight.

    I'm not expecting #NaturalJustice from a #GenocideEnabling scumbag.
    And still I think it's worth noting it's absence in their account suspension process.

  29. Looks like #Zuckerberg's #GenocideEnablingSocialMedia will not be available for me to use to engage in #ReUseRepair.

    To my knowledge nothing in their so called #CommunityStandards applies to my account.

    And if something there may apply Facebook ain't telling me what.
    So I can't even try to set them straight.

    I'm not expecting #NaturalJustice from a #GenocideEnabling scumbag.
    And still I think it's worth noting it's absence in their account suspension process.

  30. Looks like #Zuckerberg's #GenocideEnablingSocialMedia will not be available for me to use to engage in #ReUseRepair.

    To my knowledge nothing in their so called #CommunityStandards applies to my account.

    And if something there may apply Facebook ain't telling me what.
    So I can't even try to set them straight.

    I'm not expecting #NaturalJustice from a #GenocideEnabling scumbag.
    And still I think it's worth noting it's absence in their account suspension process.

  31. Looks like #Zuckerberg's #GenocideEnablingSocialMedia will not be available for me to use to engage in #ReUseRepair.

    To my knowledge nothing in their so called #CommunityStandards applies to my account.

    And if something there may apply Facebook ain't telling me what.
    So I can't even try to set them straight.

    I'm not expecting #NaturalJustice from a #GenocideEnabling scumbag.
    And still I think it's worth noting it's absence in their account suspension process.

  32. A woman who is a friend from my college days posted a "funny" meme on Facebook about the work of two men only being a part time job. I tried to share with her the link to Paris Paloma's "Labor" song on YouTube and Facebook refused to let me, citing its "community standards". That's... telling.

    youtube.com/watch?v=jvU4xWsN7-

    #Feminism #ParisPaloma #Labor #Facebook #CommunityStandards #Patriarchy

  33. Reddit admits more moderator protests could hurt its business arstechnica.com/tech-policy/20

    Reddit acknowledges in its recent filing that potential backlash from moderators could have a negative impact on its business operations. The platform's failure to adequately support third-party apps may pose a threat, especially as it gears up for its IPO.

    #Reddit #Moderators #ThirdPartyApps #IPO #CommunityStandards #UserExperience #Engagement #BusinessStrategy #OnlinePlatform #DigitalCommunity

  34. @JeremyNewberger It's as ridiculous as #Facebook #AI #CommunityStandards completely disregarding the existence of #sarcasm and #satire . Even if you put a big flashing sign saying ATTN! THIS IS SATIRE! They will still put you in time out. 🙄

  35. CW: Follow Request

    @robertwgehl In all honesty, despite being (overly) sensitive to #CommunityStandards, elsewhere, I never realized that FRs were considered anything else than a mark of interest in what the tooter has to share.