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#多元爱 #AskMeAboutPolyamory #随便翻译
Most people think that if a relationship ends, it was a FAILURE. Like the point of the relationship isn't what you learn, or what's happenning in the moment... Like the point of the relaionship is just to DIE TOGETHER. But I don't want FOREVER to be my goal. I want to appreciate you here, now... for however long you're beside me.机翻+润色：大多数人认为，如果一段感情结束了，那这段感情就是失败了。就好像这段感情的意义并不在于你学到了什么，也并不在于此刻发生了什么……就像感情的意义在于一起死去。但我不想把“永远”作为目标。我想在此时此地欣赏你，无论你在我身边多久。
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#多元爱 #AskMeAboutPolyamory
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True love and connection balance on that razor's edge of CARING about each other without feeling RESPONSIBLE for each other's feelings.图2
I'm sorry if I forget this a million times, but me loving you doesn't mean you OWN me something. Love with expectations is just a promise to hate you later.图3
Ironically, relationships that are't goal-oriented tend to be more fulfilling and last longer.图4
Society teaches us that women are prizes that are hard to attain, but men will sleep with anything, anywhere, any time
- I'm totally into you!
- Of course you are. Doesn't mean I'm special. -
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Some poly people judge monogamous people and think they're all like:
Ah, nice + safe! Now I don't have to think for myself or do any inner-work about my insecurities!图2魔改
Some monogamous people they're like:
Ah, nice + safe! Now I don't have to think for myself or do any inner-work about my insecurities! -
- You can't be in love with more than ONE person at a time. It does't make SENSE!
- Sure it does! But here are some things that DON'T...Loving only ONE of your children
- We already have a kid. We'll need to get rid of that NEW one!
- Yes. Loving them BOTH would be wrong!Loving only ONE of your grandparents
- I only have room in my heart for NANA! Hit the road, Gramps!There's no WRONG way to love. Love only has the limitations you put on it. Do what feels right to you!
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机翻+润色
- 你不可能同时爱上超过一个人。这不合理！
- 当然合理啊！但有些事情是不合理的......只爱孩子中的一个
- 我们已经有一个孩子了。我们得把新生儿摆脱掉！
- 是的。同时爱两个是不对的！只爱祖父母中的一个
- 我心里只装得下奶奶一个！起开，爷爷外公外婆！爱没有错的方式。爱只有你设下的限制。做你自己觉得对的事情就好了！