oh good I was having a bit of a quandary with myself because I am feeling lazy and did not want to do anything productive tonight, but I felt like I *needed* to, and I hate this part about being on my own, where the only person I have to be responsible to is myself, because I tend to let myself off the hook too much but then also feel guilty about it...
and then I realized wait, I can compromise... I have to wait until the dryer finishes running anyway so I can fold & put away those clothes (I hate leaving them in the dryer to be wrinkled), so I only need to be productive until then and then I'm off the hook