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  1. Story of Kunning Palace review

    Started watching: Nov 20, 2023
    Final update Dec 5, 2023

    There was a lot of buzz about the show so I decided to see what the fuss was all about. However, I eventually grew annoyed with the increasing overcomplexity of the plot. One needs to be in the mood for such things and I suspect I wasn’t. So, I bailed around episode 12 and escaped to Wonderland of Love.

    I returned after I completed Wonderland, feeling completely satisfied by the good watch. I have to admit that I felt a lot of dread returning to Story of Kunning Palace. In fact, a lot of people advice me to drop it already because I don’t seem to like it. However, I am driven by the mystery that is Xie Wei.

    And like Back from the Brink, the other drama I abandoned and later resumed, I found myself drawn back in. But what’s my final verdict? Stay tuned.

    You can also listen to my podcast review of Story of Kunning Palace.

    Note: If you have not watched the show yet, be sure to avoid the spoilerific Watch Log. Head on to the spoiler-free final review instead.

    1. The story
    2. Characters
    3. Watchlog (beware of spoilers)
      1. Episode 1-6
      2. Episode 7
      3. Episode 8
      4. Episode 9
      5. Episode 10
      6. Episode 11
      7. Episode 12
      8. Episode 13-20
      9. Episode 17
      10. Episode 21
      11. Episode 22
      12. Episode 23
      13. Episode 24
      14. Episode 25
      15. Episode 27
      16. Episode 28
      17. Episode 29
      18. Episode 30
      19. Episode 32
      20. Episode 33
      21. Episode 34
      22. Episode 36
      23. Episode 40
    4. What I like about the show
    5. What I didn’t like
    6. Thoughts about the ending
    7. Final review
    8. Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

    The story

    Xuening was an empress in her former life, but she did many, many bad things to get there. It all ended badly with rebels invading the palace.

    When she finds herself “reborn” into her 18-year-old self, she decides to lead “a good life” and do right by the people she had harmed in her past life.

    Characters

    The Xue family – A scheming, bloodthirsty lot whose sole purpose in life, apparently, is to bring disaster on everyone as they scrabble for power. Unfortunately, the empress dowager is from this family. Duke Xue is the main villain of the story. If there’s proof for “bad genes”, this is it.

    The Yan family – An honourable military family and blood enemies of the Xues. A long time ago, they were connected by marriage, but not anymore. They are still grieving the loss of Xue Dingfeng, a young boy who died during a rebellion 20 years ago, andwas the son of the current Marquis Yan’s late sister and the Duke of Xue.

    Xie Wei – a court official with mysterious motivations and plans

    Jiang Xuening – an empress in her first life, she’s now an 18-year-old determined to avoid palace life

    Zhang Zhe – honourable court official for the justice department.

    Yan Lin – Xuening’s best friend and long-time admirer and scion of the Yan family.

    Watchlog (beware of spoilers)

    Read this part only after you’ve watched or while watching the Show. You’ve been warned!

    Episode 1-6

    So, I watched Only for Love first, and I have to say that Bai Lu is so much better here, it’s crazy. Bai Lu is very believable as an empress. The way she speaks, looks, and carries herself as an empress was very impressive.

    Zhang Ling He is not bad. Here he is playing another cold, shady character. I would say that this is his best role to date, though I cannot say that he’s amazing like some fans say. I’m sorry, my friends, but he’s nowhere even near Hu Ge level. He has potential, but just slightly above average for now. For now, I feel that he has trouble emoting intense scenes and can overact during those scenes.

    And they didn’t edit out that actor who had that scandal and caused Kunning Palace to be on hold? Good for him.

    Wait what, there’s a modern scene in the middle of it all? Eh. What’s going on?? That was so weirdly jarring!

    Joy of Life had the same thing and it threw me off completely because it makes it hard for me to buy the story.

    Incidentally, we see a moth flying around the sleeping writer. Fun fact, in Chinese mythology moths are said to be the manifestation of the spirits of the dead. If we see a moth in the house after someone passes away, we are not to kill it because it is said to be the spirit of the person who just passed away, and they were visiting.

    So, my theory is that the actual spirit of the empress, sparked by the writer (or maybe she influenced the writer) returns to the past. Without the writer as a catalyst, she couldn’t do that.

    Liking it a lot so far. I find the cinematography interesting especially at the start, even if I found the premise (or how she reborns) hard to buy.

    PS: Xuening is such a b***h. Even she admits that she was one. “I used to be so arrogant and difficult,” she says at one point.

    My experience with the first six episodes of this drama can be summed up with this gif:

    Episode 7

    Initially, I thought Zhang Ling He did quite well with his dubbing. While he is not bad at playing a morally grey character, now I really think he needs to be dubbed because he sounds like he’s reciting a dictionary and has as much emotion doing it. I die a little each time I listen to him talk.

    Bai Lu is slightly better but I hate to say it, but she’s also not good at emotional delivery.

    Episode 8

    I am at episode 8 of Story of Kunning Palace and I am starting to lose interest.

    At first, it was novel to not know what the heck is going on and just experience this world of political intrigue but now I am annoyed. Probably because I am watching it at the end of the day when my brain cells at no longer powered up, but I can’t follow the story at all.

    Unpopular opinion: The drama has a poor narrative structure.

    I will continue to watch it as I do want to know what the hell is happening but this is tinged with a dash of resentment and annoyance 😂

    I think people who like this drama likes the novelty of being in the dark and just being thrown around by the various plot twists. But I have no patience for this at the end of a tiring work day 😑

    Episode 9

    Am I the only one who feels that the sudden interest Xie Wei has for Ning’er very odd, especially since she found out about that jade scepter thing and his involvement in it?

    Also, finally glad there’s an explanation of why Xie Wei was so cold to her despite their meeting four years ago. Can’t help but think it could be made clearer from the start.

    Why is Yan suddenly cold and standoffish from Ning’er? Is it because he wants to protect her from his family’s shaky standing?

    Episode 10

    I realised what kind of drama Story of Kunning Palace is – a puzzle story! The kind of story where viewers try to solve the mystery as the story plays out.

    I really do not like the empress dowager. So, Ning’er had to deal with her as a mother-in-law in her first life, I assume? Not fun!

    Yes, I have more questions than opinions right now. I’m still at the “what the heck is goin’ on” stage.

    I’m also not feeling the supposed vibe/attraction between Ning’er and Xie Wei yet. And I wish they could move away from the school setting lol.

    Hmm … I think part of the reason why I do not seem to like this drama as much as I don’t really like palace intrigue, and I especially do not like cattiness between women which is why I avoid palace harem dramas. Well, not at this time of my life when I just want to be happy after work.

    Episode 11

    Why do I feel that the young child Marquis (who was tragically killed) is actually Xie Wei? Is that why he’s helping the Yan family? Because they’re literally his family?

    I really shuddered at the story of the 300 souls who died in the rebellion. Honestly, I get really upset at the thought of kids being harmed in any way, and when I saw the poor boy’s mother crawling toward that fire pit, my heart about gave out.

    Children harmed in shows can make me avoid it like a plague. I didn’t watch Game of Thrones because I accidentally watched a video on Youtube of a certain character being burnt at stake. That scene traumatised me.

    Still, I have a feeling some of them are still alive and are somehow connected to Xie Wei – judging from his reaction.

    Episode 12

    At this point, I’m watching only because I want to know what the heck is going on with Xie Wei. I’m over the mean girls nonsense at the School for Spoiled Noblewomen, I’m tired of the palace politics, I’m tired of the scheming Xue family and I just want some meaty reveals to land, damn it. I’ve been told it gets better, and more reveals will be coming my way.

    But to be very honest, I feel no emotion at all to most of the characters. Maybe a smidgen of curiosity about Xie Wei. But it’s like watching pieces moving in a game of Go, every character a featureless piece on the board.

    To quote a person on mydramalist, where I sometimes hang out: “I’m emotionlessly watching right now.”

    Episode 13-20

    These episodes were a blur for me as all I can think of is: “Xie Wei be plotting.”

    Episode 17

    Perked up in this episode because blood was shed.

    Goes to show I need mayhem and murder to stay interested.

    Episode 21

    Xie Wei probably thinking, “OMG why am I always rescuing Ning’er, damnit.”

    Episode 22

    Waitaminute so Ning’er’s cover story is that she and Zhang Zhe are siblings in love and are eloping? Uhm, yeah, I guess that’s a good cover story, I guess! (Zhang Zhe seems equally horrified by the cover story. Poor lad, his tender sensibilities have been terribly violated.)

    I should re-listen to this bit because I think something is lost in translation here.

    Meanwhile, me on the side of the rebels, wishing Duke Xue, his son and his army could be buried under the landslide.

    Episode 23

    Yes, Xie Wei, that’s the way to a woman’s heart: By threatening to kill her. * slow claps *

    Episode 24

    Ah,poor Zhang Zhe, you have second male lead syndrome so hard.

    And the romance between the girl and that businessman is so sweet.

    Episode 25

    The fake Xue Dingfei plot is so delicious. To think that Duke Xue was actually wanted to kill his own son like he’s an inconvenient thing OMG 💀

    Episode 27

    I understand Xuening’s mum, truly. She loves her but just doesn’t know how to express it beyond yelling at her to improve.

    Zhang Zhe to Xie Wei: “You’re very suspicious.”
    Me: No shit, Sherlock!

    Episode 28

    Aww come on, Emperor. So you’re okay with one night of sex with that hellion in exchange for many nights of misery with the Xue family? Talk about priorities. And it’s kinda eeew because they’re close relations.

    Also, the number of times women were slapped in this drama was … 💀

    Episode 29

    I cannot wait to see the Xue family’s bad end because I am 100% sure it’ll be terrible and I’ll be so happy.

    Episode 30

    LOL that eff up when Xie Wei’s men saw him giving Xuening a tender kiss. Yeah, boys, you guys better stay low for a few days.

    Xuening is clearly afraid of Xie Wei due to her past life experiences with him. Can you fall for the person terrified you in your past life? I suppose that’s the deliciousness of this romance. (It’s not my thing, but I can see how it’s a thing for many people.)

    Also. Is there some kind of cdrama law where it says that you cannot wipe off blood trails from your lips? It drives me bonkers when they don’t wipe it off. Is it like some kinda badge of honour??

    Episode 32

    OK I feel a smidgen of chemistry between Ning’er and Xie Wei. I suppose there’s hope for my icy heart after all 😂

    Gosh my heart bleeds for Dingfei’s mum. No wonder she never recovered and no wonder he is so angry with the Xues. 😭

    OK those CGI wild cats was rough 😆

    So, yeah the kiss. Errr yeah I don’t know what to think about it. 😅 Not my thing I guess, forced kisses.

    I guess he’s trying to scare her into leaving him. I think?

    Yea I really do not understand why people are saying, oooh this is hot. Uhm noooo. Not for me, darlings.

    Episode 33

    Oooh the reunion between uncle and nephew. This was what I was waiting for. I don’t care about the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er (sorry guys), but this? Yes this is what I was waiting for. 🥰

    The princess is so brave. Now that’s a heroine I love.

    Uh. Do people actually find this hot? 😅 (Shudders)

    Episode 34

    Okay, apparently I spoke too soon. My heart is indeed icy and utterly irredeemable, at least in the ways of Xie Wei + Ning’er fans (I kid, I kid, please unseathe your claws).

    Xie Wei demanding to know why Ning er is afraid him while roughly pulling her around and hand-grabbing her by the neck? I don’t know dude, take a wiiiild guess??

    Then he forces her to stab him and says, “Now, can you not be afraid of me?”

    Girl, run. And oh yeah, if a dude makes you stab him and declares that’s enough to help you get over your fear over him. Tis not romantic, my girlfriends.

    Okay, really, I am legit confused why anyone would think these two are couple goals 🤪🥴 Are we even watching the same show? 😶

    I guess red flag guys are not my thing. At all 😬

    Episode 36

    Half of me is hate watching Show. The other half is loving it.

    People are complicated beings.

    LOLOLOL.

    Fans of Xie Wei and Ning’er – squee they did it! It’s so hawt!

    Me:

    Episode 40

    So I just finished Story of Kunning Palace. And my feelings can be summed up here:

    While I super liked how the Xue family got dispatched (I play those scenes on repeat, cackling to myself), a big part of me is glad that it was all over and I can now slam the door behind me.

    What I like about the show

    • The revenge plot was the one that kept me watching the show. It was engrossing and mysterious. I did not care for the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er at all and wish they’d left it out.
    • The plot really picked up after episode 13 or so, especially after they leave the palace study group. If you find yourself frustrated, try stick around for that long and re-evaluate. I had to take a break and then return.
    • Interesting side characters that do not feel useless.
    • Scary effective villains that you will absolutely loathe and wish dead.
    • The fight choreography, while making some of them look like supermen, is chef’s kiss at times.
    • A satisfying ending where everyone gets their just desserts. No quickie five second flashes here!

    What I didn’t like

    • I think the narrative structure isn’t great. More could be done to establish what Ning’er was like before her “rebirth” so that the viewers are invested in her efforts to change her past. The use of flashbacks can be very difficult to keep track of.
    • Zhang Ling He’s voice acting leaves a lot to be desired. I like his voice, but he sounds far too flat and emotionless. Bai Lu’s voice acting isn’t good either. I felt that they should’ve been better dubbed.
    • Although I understand why the modern-day snippets were included (to pacify China’s censorship), they were so jarring I choose not acknowledge their existence.
    • You know what I regret? Not wearing sunglasses while watching it cos the director’s love for intense lense flares and for shining the damn light strainght into the viewer’s eyes was giving me migraines. And that was not an exaggeration. I was getting actual headaches!
    • The drama’s final arc felt really rushed. The final confrontation with the bad guys didn’t look realistic at all. Zhang Zhe was just standing around looking confused. Why was he even there, really?
    • The long internal monologues that Xuening has – am not a fan. Again, it shows that the narrative structure needs work if you have to rely on info dump devices like these.
    • Some character arcs were left hanging – the romance between the crown prince and Ning’er’s sister for one. That’s it??
    • The limited OST. Hearing the same songs again and again and…
    • Xie Wei and Ning’er’s romance does not elicit warm, fuzzy feelings in me. It borders on toxic. (Look at the final review below for why I feel this way.)
    • I’m sorry but Zhang Ling He may have potential, but he’s not amazing here. Slightly above average perhaps, but he overacted a few scenes. I kept fantasizing having other actors play Xie Wei. Liu Xie Yi or Cheng Yi perhaps. Oh what it could’ve been.

    Thoughts about the ending

    Click to read spoilers

    I am utterly, completely shocked that this ended happily and mushily. But I feel that a show like this should end tragically or in an open-ended way to be tonally consistent. And I’m saying this as a softie for happy endings! I’m evil, I know.

    I would’ve probably liked it if I liked or rooted for the couple, but lordie this couple’s romance is so problematic the happy scenes just didn’t land.

    Final review

    I think there are perfectly understandable reasons why I was turned off by this show. Besides its technical and storytelling flaws, I disliked many of the tropes in this drama:

    • Scheming palace ladies
    • Reverse harem

    And most of all, this: A physically and verbally aggressive male lead.

    I’ll come out and say this: Xie Wei and Ning’er’s relationship is very unhealthy. It taps into the girlhood fantasy of “reforming your man”. Spoiler alert: You can’t reform men like that, girlfriends. Trust me. Leave that to a shrink.

    I understand how some people may look at it as an “opposites attract” thing, or that “he had such a hard life and is traumatised”, but to me, they are not good enough excuses to justify this behaviour.

    So, I found it hard to overlook Xie Wei’s aggressive expressions of “love”. I’ve never been a fan of this thing that seemed so popular in Kdramas and CDramas: the hand grabbing, the physical yanking, the forced kisses, yelling or rough handling.

    Call me old fashioned, but I prefer my leading men to be respectful of their ladies and treat them as equals worthy of respect. No treating them like immature kids that need schooling. No disrespecting their decisions. No physical aggresion. If this is a big thing for you like it is for me, you will have a hard time embracing Story of Kunning Palace’s central romance. And since it makes a large part of the story, a big part of it would be unpalatable for you.

    I don’t care if someone calls me “overly sensitive” for this, but we should never, ever glorify abuse between couples of any kind and call it romantic. This trope needs to die.

    Okay, but are other aspects of the drama watchable at least?

    So, let’s say you ignore the romantic aspects of this drama and focus on the puzzle that is Xie Wei and what happened 20 years ago. If you’re in the mood to solve a mystery without being spoonfed, this is the drama for you. If you want to park your brain one side and just experience something or be swept away by the story, this may not be for you.

    In one forum I was at, someone said they actually created a chart to keep track of the plot threads in the story. If that’s your jam, great, but if you are annoyed that you have to do all the work, this is definitely not for you.

    Another puzzle drama that I can think of that did a better job with flashbacks was Westworld, season 1. Viewers are not fed the story, we do not know what happened, we are plonked in the middle of the story. The forums went mad with theories. It turns out that the story was actually told out of order, and the flashbacks were actually a story told out of order.

    This drama does get better after we leave the petty court politics of the noble ladies’ study club around episode 15 or so, and when the revenge plot finally starts getting going and our characters literally move out of the confines of the palace into the world.

    So, yes, I have a complex love-hate relationship with this drama. And if you’re confused about where I stand, I don’t blame you.

    Should I have dropped this drama? Well, I thought the revenge plot was worth sticking around for, but it did get wobbly towards the end.

    As a revenge drama, it is good enough. As a romance, it is problematic. Veeery problematic. 😬 I will rate the revenge plot an 8. But the romance line would be an abysmal 5 for me.

    So, while I consider this drama slightly above average in a busy Cdrama season, its popularity was iverblown. Why it has become so popular with international fans will be filed under the folder “mysteries of the universe that I will never understand.”

    And despite how it managed to hold my attention, how intriguing the plot twists were and the emotional gravitas of the whole revenge … I cannot overlook its many technical flaws – the bad directing decisions, the choppy narrative, the bloated first half and the rush towards the end …

    This was a difficult drama to rate.

    Here’s my verdict:

    Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

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  2. Story of Kunning Palace review

    Started watching: Nov 20, 2023
    Final update Dec 5, 2023

    There was a lot of buzz about the show so I decided to see what the fuss was all about. However, I eventually grew annoyed with the increasing overcomplexity of the plot. One needs to be in the mood for such things and I suspect I wasn’t. So, I bailed around episode 12 and escaped to Wonderland of Love.

    I returned after I completed Wonderland, feeling completely satisfied by the good watch. I have to admit that I felt a lot of dread returning to Story of Kunning Palace. In fact, a lot of people advice me to drop it already because I don’t seem to like it. However, I am driven by the mystery that is Xie Wei.

    And like Back from the Brink, the other drama I abandoned and later resumed, I found myself drawn back in. But what’s my final verdict? Stay tuned.

    You can also listen to my podcast review of Story of Kunning Palace.

    Note: If you have not watched the show yet, be sure to avoid the spoilerific Watch Log. Head on to the spoiler-free final review instead.

    1. The story
    2. Characters
    3. Watchlog (beware of spoilers)
      1. Episode 1-6
      2. Episode 7
      3. Episode 8
      4. Episode 9
      5. Episode 10
      6. Episode 11
      7. Episode 12
      8. Episode 13-20
      9. Episode 17
      10. Episode 21
      11. Episode 22
      12. Episode 23
      13. Episode 24
      14. Episode 25
      15. Episode 27
      16. Episode 28
      17. Episode 29
      18. Episode 30
      19. Episode 32
      20. Episode 33
      21. Episode 34
      22. Episode 36
      23. Episode 40
    4. What I like about the show
    5. What I didn’t like
    6. Thoughts about the ending
    7. Final review
    8. Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

    The story

    Xuening was an empress in her former life, but she did many, many bad things to get there. It all ended badly with rebels invading the palace.

    When she finds herself “reborn” into her 18-year-old self, she decides to lead “a good life” and do right by the people she had harmed in her past life.

    Characters

    The Xue family – A scheming, bloodthirsty lot whose sole purpose in life, apparently, is to bring disaster on everyone as they scrabble for power. Unfortunately, the empress dowager is from this family. Duke Xue is the main villain of the story. If there’s proof for “bad genes”, this is it.

    The Yan family – An honourable military family and blood enemies of the Xues. A long time ago, they were connected by marriage, but not anymore. They are still grieving the loss of Xue Dingfeng, a young boy who died during a rebellion 20 years ago, andwas the son of the current Marquis Yan’s late sister and the Duke of Xue.

    Xie Wei – a court official with mysterious motivations and plans

    Jiang Xuening – an empress in her first life, she’s now an 18-year-old determined to avoid palace life

    Zhang Zhe – honourable court official for the justice department.

    Yan Lin – Xuening’s best friend and long-time admirer and scion of the Yan family.

    Watchlog (beware of spoilers)

    Read this part only after you’ve watched or while watching the Show. You’ve been warned!

    Episode 1-6

    So, I watched Only for Love first, and I have to say that Bai Lu is so much better here, it’s crazy. Bai Lu is very believable as an empress. The way she speaks, looks, and carries herself as an empress was very impressive.

    Zhang Ling He is not bad. Here he is playing another cold, shady character. I would say that this is his best role to date, though I cannot say that he’s amazing like some fans say. I’m sorry, my friends, but he’s nowhere even near Hu Ge level. He has potential, but just slightly above average for now. For now, I feel that he has trouble emoting intense scenes and can overact during those scenes.

    And they didn’t edit out that actor who had that scandal and caused Kunning Palace to be on hold? Good for him.

    Wait what, there’s a modern scene in the middle of it all? Eh. What’s going on?? That was so weirdly jarring!

    Joy of Life had the same thing and it threw me off completely because it makes it hard for me to buy the story.

    Incidentally, we see a moth flying around the sleeping writer. Fun fact, in Chinese mythology moths are said to be the manifestation of the spirits of the dead. If we see a moth in the house after someone passes away, we are not to kill it because it is said to be the spirit of the person who just passed away, and they were visiting.

    So, my theory is that the actual spirit of the empress, sparked by the writer (or maybe she influenced the writer) returns to the past. Without the writer as a catalyst, she couldn’t do that.

    Liking it a lot so far. I find the cinematography interesting especially at the start, even if I found the premise (or how she reborns) hard to buy.

    PS: Xuening is such a b***h. Even she admits that she was one. “I used to be so arrogant and difficult,” she says at one point.

    My experience with the first six episodes of this drama can be summed up with this gif:

    Episode 7

    Initially, I thought Zhang Ling He did quite well with his dubbing. While he is not bad at playing a morally grey character, now I really think he needs to be dubbed because he sounds like he’s reciting a dictionary and has as much emotion doing it. I die a little each time I listen to him talk.

    Bai Lu is slightly better but I hate to say it, but she’s also not good at emotional delivery.

    Episode 8

    I am at episode 8 of Story of Kunning Palace and I am starting to lose interest.

    At first, it was novel to not know what the heck is going on and just experience this world of political intrigue but now I am annoyed. Probably because I am watching it at the end of the day when my brain cells at no longer powered up, but I can’t follow the story at all.

    Unpopular opinion: The drama has a poor narrative structure.

    I will continue to watch it as I do want to know what the hell is happening but this is tinged with a dash of resentment and annoyance 😂

    I think people who like this drama likes the novelty of being in the dark and just being thrown around by the various plot twists. But I have no patience for this at the end of a tiring work day 😑

    Episode 9

    Am I the only one who feels that the sudden interest Xie Wei has for Ning’er very odd, especially since she found out about that jade scepter thing and his involvement in it?

    Also, finally glad there’s an explanation of why Xie Wei was so cold to her despite their meeting four years ago. Can’t help but think it could be made clearer from the start.

    Why is Yan suddenly cold and standoffish from Ning’er? Is it because he wants to protect her from his family’s shaky standing?

    Episode 10

    I realised what kind of drama Story of Kunning Palace is – a puzzle story! The kind of story where viewers try to solve the mystery as the story plays out.

    I really do not like the empress dowager. So, Ning’er had to deal with her as a mother-in-law in her first life, I assume? Not fun!

    Yes, I have more questions than opinions right now. I’m still at the “what the heck is goin’ on” stage.

    I’m also not feeling the supposed vibe/attraction between Ning’er and Xie Wei yet. And I wish they could move away from the school setting lol.

    Hmm … I think part of the reason why I do not seem to like this drama as much as I don’t really like palace intrigue, and I especially do not like cattiness between women which is why I avoid palace harem dramas. Well, not at this time of my life when I just want to be happy after work.

    Episode 11

    Why do I feel that the young child Marquis (who was tragically killed) is actually Xie Wei? Is that why he’s helping the Yan family? Because they’re literally his family?

    I really shuddered at the story of the 300 souls who died in the rebellion. Honestly, I get really upset at the thought of kids being harmed in any way, and when I saw the poor boy’s mother crawling toward that fire pit, my heart about gave out.

    Children harmed in shows can make me avoid it like a plague. I didn’t watch Game of Thrones because I accidentally watched a video on Youtube of a certain character being burnt at stake. That scene traumatised me.

    Still, I have a feeling some of them are still alive and are somehow connected to Xie Wei – judging from his reaction.

    Episode 12

    At this point, I’m watching only because I want to know what the heck is going on with Xie Wei. I’m over the mean girls nonsense at the School for Spoiled Noblewomen, I’m tired of the palace politics, I’m tired of the scheming Xue family and I just want some meaty reveals to land, damn it. I’ve been told it gets better, and more reveals will be coming my way.

    But to be very honest, I feel no emotion at all to most of the characters. Maybe a smidgen of curiosity about Xie Wei. But it’s like watching pieces moving in a game of Go, every character a featureless piece on the board.

    To quote a person on mydramalist, where I sometimes hang out: “I’m emotionlessly watching right now.”

    Episode 13-20

    These episodes were a blur for me as all I can think of is: “Xie Wei be plotting.”

    Episode 17

    Perked up in this episode because blood was shed.

    Goes to show I need mayhem and murder to stay interested.

    Episode 21

    Xie Wei probably thinking, “OMG why am I always rescuing Ning’er, damnit.”

    Episode 22

    Waitaminute so Ning’er’s cover story is that she and Zhang Zhe are siblings in love and are eloping? Uhm, yeah, I guess that’s a good cover story, I guess! (Zhang Zhe seems equally horrified by the cover story. Poor lad, his tender sensibilities have been terribly violated.)

    I should re-listen to this bit because I think something is lost in translation here.

    Meanwhile, me on the side of the rebels, wishing Duke Xue, his son and his army could be buried under the landslide.

    Episode 23

    Yes, Xie Wei, that’s the way to a woman’s heart: By threatening to kill her. * slow claps *

    Episode 24

    Ah,poor Zhang Zhe, you have second male lead syndrome so hard.

    And the romance between the girl and that businessman is so sweet.

    Episode 25

    The fake Xue Dingfei plot is so delicious. To think that Duke Xue was actually wanted to kill his own son like he’s an inconvenient thing OMG 💀

    Episode 27

    I understand Xuening’s mum, truly. She loves her but just doesn’t know how to express it beyond yelling at her to improve.

    Zhang Zhe to Xie Wei: “You’re very suspicious.”
    Me: No shit, Sherlock!

    Episode 28

    Aww come on, Emperor. So you’re okay with one night of sex with that hellion in exchange for many nights of misery with the Xue family? Talk about priorities. And it’s kinda eeew because they’re close relations.

    Also, the number of times women were slapped in this drama was … 💀

    Episode 29

    I cannot wait to see the Xue family’s bad end because I am 100% sure it’ll be terrible and I’ll be so happy.

    Episode 30

    LOL that eff up when Xie Wei’s men saw him giving Xuening a tender kiss. Yeah, boys, you guys better stay low for a few days.

    Xuening is clearly afraid of Xie Wei due to her past life experiences with him. Can you fall for the person terrified you in your past life? I suppose that’s the deliciousness of this romance. (It’s not my thing, but I can see how it’s a thing for many people.)

    Also. Is there some kind of cdrama law where it says that you cannot wipe off blood trails from your lips? It drives me bonkers when they don’t wipe it off. Is it like some kinda badge of honour??

    Episode 32

    OK I feel a smidgen of chemistry between Ning’er and Xie Wei. I suppose there’s hope for my icy heart after all 😂

    Gosh my heart bleeds for Dingfei’s mum. No wonder she never recovered and no wonder he is so angry with the Xues. 😭

    OK those CGI wild cats was rough 😆

    So, yeah the kiss. Errr yeah I don’t know what to think about it. 😅 Not my thing I guess, forced kisses.

    I guess he’s trying to scare her into leaving him. I think?

    Yea I really do not understand why people are saying, oooh this is hot. Uhm noooo. Not for me, darlings.

    Episode 33

    Oooh the reunion between uncle and nephew. This was what I was waiting for. I don’t care about the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er (sorry guys), but this? Yes this is what I was waiting for. 🥰

    The princess is so brave. Now that’s a heroine I love.

    Uh. Do people actually find this hot? 😅 (Shudders)

    Episode 34

    Okay, apparently I spoke too soon. My heart is indeed icy and utterly irredeemable, at least in the ways of Xie Wei + Ning’er fans (I kid, I kid, please unseathe your claws).

    Xie Wei demanding to know why Ning er is afraid him while roughly pulling her around and hand-grabbing her by the neck? I don’t know dude, take a wiiiild guess??

    Then he forces her to stab him and says, “Now, can you not be afraid of me?”

    Girl, run. And oh yeah, if a dude makes you stab him and declares that’s enough to help you get over your fear over him. Tis not romantic, my girlfriends.

    Okay, really, I am legit confused why anyone would think these two are couple goals 🤪🥴 Are we even watching the same show? 😶

    I guess red flag guys are not my thing. At all 😬

    Episode 36

    Half of me is hate watching Show. The other half is loving it.

    People are complicated beings.

    LOLOLOL.

    Fans of Xie Wei and Ning’er – squee they did it! It’s so hawt!

    Me:

    Episode 40

    So I just finished Story of Kunning Palace. And my feelings can be summed up here:

    While I super liked how the Xue family got dispatched (I play those scenes on repeat, cackling to myself), a big part of me is glad that it was all over and I can now slam the door behind me.

    What I like about the show

    • The revenge plot was the one that kept me watching the show. It was engrossing and mysterious. I did not care for the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er at all and wish they’d left it out.
    • The plot really picked up after episode 13 or so, especially after they leave the palace study group. If you find yourself frustrated, try stick around for that long and re-evaluate. I had to take a break and then return.
    • Interesting side characters that do not feel useless.
    • Scary effective villains that you will absolutely loathe and wish dead.
    • The fight choreography, while making some of them look like supermen, is chef’s kiss at times.
    • A satisfying ending where everyone gets their just desserts. No quickie five second flashes here!

    What I didn’t like

    • I think the narrative structure isn’t great. More could be done to establish what Ning’er was like before her “rebirth” so that the viewers are invested in her efforts to change her past. The use of flashbacks can be very difficult to keep track of.
    • Zhang Ling He’s voice acting leaves a lot to be desired. I like his voice, but he sounds far too flat and emotionless. Bai Lu’s voice acting isn’t good either. I felt that they should’ve been better dubbed.
    • Although I understand why the modern-day snippets were included (to pacify China’s censorship), they were so jarring I choose not acknowledge their existence.
    • You know what I regret? Not wearing sunglasses while watching it cos the director’s love for intense lense flares and for shining the damn light strainght into the viewer’s eyes was giving me migraines. And that was not an exaggeration. I was getting actual headaches!
    • The drama’s final arc felt really rushed. The final confrontation with the bad guys didn’t look realistic at all. Zhang Zhe was just standing around looking confused. Why was he even there, really?
    • The long internal monologues that Xuening has – am not a fan. Again, it shows that the narrative structure needs work if you have to rely on info dump devices like these.
    • Some character arcs were left hanging – the romance between the crown prince and Ning’er’s sister for one. That’s it??
    • The limited OST. Hearing the same songs again and again and…
    • Xie Wei and Ning’er’s romance does not elicit warm, fuzzy feelings in me. It borders on toxic. (Look at the final review below for why I feel this way.)
    • I’m sorry but Zhang Ling He may have potential, but he’s not amazing here. Slightly above average perhaps, but he overacted a few scenes. I kept fantasizing having other actors play Xie Wei. Liu Xie Yi or Cheng Yi perhaps. Oh what it could’ve been.

    Thoughts about the ending

    Click to read spoilers

    I am utterly, completely shocked that this ended happily and mushily. But I feel that a show like this should end tragically or in an open-ended way to be tonally consistent. And I’m saying this as a softie for happy endings! I’m evil, I know.

    I would’ve probably liked it if I liked or rooted for the couple, but lordie this couple’s romance is so problematic the happy scenes just didn’t land.

    Final review

    I think there are perfectly understandable reasons why I was turned off by this show. Besides its technical and storytelling flaws, I disliked many of the tropes in this drama:

    • Scheming palace ladies
    • Reverse harem

    And most of all, this: A physically and verbally aggressive male lead.

    I’ll come out and say this: Xie Wei and Ning’er’s relationship is very unhealthy. It taps into the girlhood fantasy of “reforming your man”. Spoiler alert: You can’t reform men like that, girlfriends. Trust me. Leave that to a shrink.

    I understand how some people may look at it as an “opposites attract” thing, or that “he had such a hard life and is traumatised”, but to me, they are not good enough excuses to justify this behaviour.

    So, I found it hard to overlook Xie Wei’s aggressive expressions of “love”. I’ve never been a fan of this thing that seemed so popular in Kdramas and CDramas: the hand grabbing, the physical yanking, the forced kisses, yelling or rough handling.

    Call me old fashioned, but I prefer my leading men to be respectful of their ladies and treat them as equals worthy of respect. No treating them like immature kids that need schooling. No disrespecting their decisions. No physical aggresion. If this is a big thing for you like it is for me, you will have a hard time embracing Story of Kunning Palace’s central romance. And since it makes a large part of the story, a big part of it would be unpalatable for you.

    I don’t care if someone calls me “overly sensitive” for this, but we should never, ever glorify abuse between couples of any kind and call it romantic. This trope needs to die.

    Okay, but are other aspects of the drama watchable at least?

    So, let’s say you ignore the romantic aspects of this drama and focus on the puzzle that is Xie Wei and what happened 20 years ago. If you’re in the mood to solve a mystery without being spoonfed, this is the drama for you. If you want to park your brain one side and just experience something or be swept away by the story, this may not be for you.

    In one forum I was at, someone said they actually created a chart to keep track of the plot threads in the story. If that’s your jam, great, but if you are annoyed that you have to do all the work, this is definitely not for you.

    Another puzzle drama that I can think of that did a better job with flashbacks was Westworld, season 1. Viewers are not fed the story, we do not know what happened, we are plonked in the middle of the story. The forums went mad with theories. It turns out that the story was actually told out of order, and the flashbacks were actually a story told out of order.

    This drama does get better after we leave the petty court politics of the noble ladies’ study club around episode 15 or so, and when the revenge plot finally starts getting going and our characters literally move out of the confines of the palace into the world.

    So, yes, I have a complex love-hate relationship with this drama. And if you’re confused about where I stand, I don’t blame you.

    Should I have dropped this drama? Well, I thought the revenge plot was worth sticking around for, but it did get wobbly towards the end.

    As a revenge drama, it is good enough. As a romance, it is problematic. Veeery problematic. 😬 I will rate the revenge plot an 8. But the romance line would be an abysmal 5 for me.

    So, while I consider this drama slightly above average in a busy Cdrama season, its popularity was iverblown. Why it has become so popular with international fans will be filed under the folder “mysteries of the universe that I will never understand.”

    And despite how it managed to hold my attention, how intriguing the plot twists were and the emotional gravitas of the whole revenge … I cannot overlook its many technical flaws – the bad directing decisions, the choppy narrative, the bloated first half and the rush towards the end …

    This was a difficult drama to rate.

    Here’s my verdict:

    Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

    #25Stars #CDrama #cdramaReview #CDramas #China #ChineseDrama #CostumedDrama #TV

  3. Story of Kunning Palace review

    Started watching: Nov 20, 2023
    Final update Dec 5, 2023

    There was a lot of buzz about the show so I decided to see what the fuss was all about. However, I eventually grew annoyed with the increasing overcomplexity of the plot. One needs to be in the mood for such things and I suspect I wasn’t. So, I bailed around episode 12 and escaped to Wonderland of Love.

    I returned after I completed Wonderland, feeling completely satisfied by the good watch. I have to admit that I felt a lot of dread returning to Story of Kunning Palace. In fact, a lot of people advice me to drop it already because I don’t seem to like it. However, I am driven by the mystery that is Xie Wei.

    And like Back from the Brink, the other drama I abandoned and later resumed, I found myself drawn back in. But what’s my final verdict? Stay tuned.

    You can also listen to my podcast review of Story of Kunning Palace.

    Note: If you have not watched the show yet, be sure to avoid the spoilerific Watch Log. Head on to the spoiler-free final review instead.

    1. The story
    2. Characters
    3. Watchlog (beware of spoilers)
      1. Episode 1-6
      2. Episode 7
      3. Episode 8
      4. Episode 9
      5. Episode 10
      6. Episode 11
      7. Episode 12
      8. Episode 13-20
      9. Episode 17
      10. Episode 21
      11. Episode 22
      12. Episode 23
      13. Episode 24
      14. Episode 25
      15. Episode 27
      16. Episode 28
      17. Episode 29
      18. Episode 30
      19. Episode 32
      20. Episode 33
      21. Episode 34
      22. Episode 36
      23. Episode 40
    4. What I like about the show
    5. What I didn’t like
    6. Thoughts about the ending
    7. Final review
    8. Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

    The story

    Xuening was an empress in her former life, but she did many, many bad things to get there. It all ended badly with rebels invading the palace.

    When she finds herself “reborn” into her 18-year-old self, she decides to lead “a good life” and do right by the people she had harmed in her past life.

    Characters

    The Xue family – A scheming, bloodthirsty lot whose sole purpose in life, apparently, is to bring disaster on everyone as they scrabble for power. Unfortunately, the empress dowager is from this family. Duke Xue is the main villain of the story. If there’s proof for “bad genes”, this is it.

    The Yan family – An honourable military family and blood enemies of the Xues. A long time ago, they were connected by marriage, but not anymore. They are still grieving the loss of Xue Dingfeng, a young boy who died during a rebellion 20 years ago, andwas the son of the current Marquis Yan’s late sister and the Duke of Xue.

    Xie Wei – a court official with mysterious motivations and plans

    Jiang Xuening – an empress in her first life, she’s now an 18-year-old determined to avoid palace life

    Zhang Zhe – honourable court official for the justice department.

    Yan Lin – Xuening’s best friend and long-time admirer and scion of the Yan family.

    Watchlog (beware of spoilers)

    Read this part only after you’ve watched or while watching the Show. You’ve been warned!

    Episode 1-6

    So, I watched Only for Love first, and I have to say that Bai Lu is so much better here, it’s crazy. Bai Lu is very believable as an empress. The way she speaks, looks, and carries herself as an empress was very impressive.

    Zhang Ling He is not bad. Here he is playing another cold, shady character. I would say that this is his best role to date, though I cannot say that he’s amazing like some fans say. I’m sorry, my friends, but he’s nowhere even near Hu Ge level. He has potential, but just slightly above average for now. For now, I feel that he has trouble emoting intense scenes and can overact during those scenes.

    And they didn’t edit out that actor who had that scandal and caused Kunning Palace to be on hold? Good for him.

    Wait what, there’s a modern scene in the middle of it all? Eh. What’s going on?? That was so weirdly jarring!

    Joy of Life had the same thing and it threw me off completely because it makes it hard for me to buy the story.

    Incidentally, we see a moth flying around the sleeping writer. Fun fact, in Chinese mythology moths are said to be the manifestation of the spirits of the dead. If we see a moth in the house after someone passes away, we are not to kill it because it is said to be the spirit of the person who just passed away, and they were visiting.

    So, my theory is that the actual spirit of the empress, sparked by the writer (or maybe she influenced the writer) returns to the past. Without the writer as a catalyst, she couldn’t do that.

    Liking it a lot so far. I find the cinematography interesting especially at the start, even if I found the premise (or how she reborns) hard to buy.

    PS: Xuening is such a b***h. Even she admits that she was one. “I used to be so arrogant and difficult,” she says at one point.

    My experience with the first six episodes of this drama can be summed up with this gif:

    Episode 7

    Initially, I thought Zhang Ling He did quite well with his dubbing. While he is not bad at playing a morally grey character, now I really think he needs to be dubbed because he sounds like he’s reciting a dictionary and has as much emotion doing it. I die a little each time I listen to him talk.

    Bai Lu is slightly better but I hate to say it, but she’s also not good at emotional delivery.

    Episode 8

    I am at episode 8 of Story of Kunning Palace and I am starting to lose interest.

    At first, it was novel to not know what the heck is going on and just experience this world of political intrigue but now I am annoyed. Probably because I am watching it at the end of the day when my brain cells at no longer powered up, but I can’t follow the story at all.

    Unpopular opinion: The drama has a poor narrative structure.

    I will continue to watch it as I do want to know what the hell is happening but this is tinged with a dash of resentment and annoyance 😂

    I think people who like this drama likes the novelty of being in the dark and just being thrown around by the various plot twists. But I have no patience for this at the end of a tiring work day 😑

    Episode 9

    Am I the only one who feels that the sudden interest Xie Wei has for Ning’er very odd, especially since she found out about that jade scepter thing and his involvement in it?

    Also, finally glad there’s an explanation of why Xie Wei was so cold to her despite their meeting four years ago. Can’t help but think it could be made clearer from the start.

    Why is Yan suddenly cold and standoffish from Ning’er? Is it because he wants to protect her from his family’s shaky standing?

    Episode 10

    I realised what kind of drama Story of Kunning Palace is – a puzzle story! The kind of story where viewers try to solve the mystery as the story plays out.

    I really do not like the empress dowager. So, Ning’er had to deal with her as a mother-in-law in her first life, I assume? Not fun!

    Yes, I have more questions than opinions right now. I’m still at the “what the heck is goin’ on” stage.

    I’m also not feeling the supposed vibe/attraction between Ning’er and Xie Wei yet. And I wish they could move away from the school setting lol.

    Hmm … I think part of the reason why I do not seem to like this drama as much as I don’t really like palace intrigue, and I especially do not like cattiness between women which is why I avoid palace harem dramas. Well, not at this time of my life when I just want to be happy after work.

    Episode 11

    Why do I feel that the young child Marquis (who was tragically killed) is actually Xie Wei? Is that why he’s helping the Yan family? Because they’re literally his family?

    I really shuddered at the story of the 300 souls who died in the rebellion. Honestly, I get really upset at the thought of kids being harmed in any way, and when I saw the poor boy’s mother crawling toward that fire pit, my heart about gave out.

    Children harmed in shows can make me avoid it like a plague. I didn’t watch Game of Thrones because I accidentally watched a video on Youtube of a certain character being burnt at stake. That scene traumatised me.

    Still, I have a feeling some of them are still alive and are somehow connected to Xie Wei – judging from his reaction.

    Episode 12

    At this point, I’m watching only because I want to know what the heck is going on with Xie Wei. I’m over the mean girls nonsense at the School for Spoiled Noblewomen, I’m tired of the palace politics, I’m tired of the scheming Xue family and I just want some meaty reveals to land, damn it. I’ve been told it gets better, and more reveals will be coming my way.

    But to be very honest, I feel no emotion at all to most of the characters. Maybe a smidgen of curiosity about Xie Wei. But it’s like watching pieces moving in a game of Go, every character a featureless piece on the board.

    To quote a person on mydramalist, where I sometimes hang out: “I’m emotionlessly watching right now.”

    Episode 13-20

    These episodes were a blur for me as all I can think of is: “Xie Wei be plotting.”

    Episode 17

    Perked up in this episode because blood was shed.

    Goes to show I need mayhem and murder to stay interested.

    Episode 21

    Xie Wei probably thinking, “OMG why am I always rescuing Ning’er, damnit.”

    Episode 22

    Waitaminute so Ning’er’s cover story is that she and Zhang Zhe are siblings in love and are eloping? Uhm, yeah, I guess that’s a good cover story, I guess! (Zhang Zhe seems equally horrified by the cover story. Poor lad, his tender sensibilities have been terribly violated.)

    I should re-listen to this bit because I think something is lost in translation here.

    Meanwhile, me on the side of the rebels, wishing Duke Xue, his son and his army could be buried under the landslide.

    Episode 23

    Yes, Xie Wei, that’s the way to a woman’s heart: By threatening to kill her. * slow claps *

    Episode 24

    Ah,poor Zhang Zhe, you have second male lead syndrome so hard.

    And the romance between the girl and that businessman is so sweet.

    Episode 25

    The fake Xue Dingfei plot is so delicious. To think that Duke Xue was actually wanted to kill his own son like he’s an inconvenient thing OMG 💀

    Episode 27

    I understand Xuening’s mum, truly. She loves her but just doesn’t know how to express it beyond yelling at her to improve.

    Zhang Zhe to Xie Wei: “You’re very suspicious.”
    Me: No shit, Sherlock!

    Episode 28

    Aww come on, Emperor. So you’re okay with one night of sex with that hellion in exchange for many nights of misery with the Xue family? Talk about priorities. And it’s kinda eeew because they’re close relations.

    Also, the number of times women were slapped in this drama was … 💀

    Episode 29

    I cannot wait to see the Xue family’s bad end because I am 100% sure it’ll be terrible and I’ll be so happy.

    Episode 30

    LOL that eff up when Xie Wei’s men saw him giving Xuening a tender kiss. Yeah, boys, you guys better stay low for a few days.

    Xuening is clearly afraid of Xie Wei due to her past life experiences with him. Can you fall for the person terrified you in your past life? I suppose that’s the deliciousness of this romance. (It’s not my thing, but I can see how it’s a thing for many people.)

    Also. Is there some kind of cdrama law where it says that you cannot wipe off blood trails from your lips? It drives me bonkers when they don’t wipe it off. Is it like some kinda badge of honour??

    Episode 32

    OK I feel a smidgen of chemistry between Ning’er and Xie Wei. I suppose there’s hope for my icy heart after all 😂

    Gosh my heart bleeds for Dingfei’s mum. No wonder she never recovered and no wonder he is so angry with the Xues. 😭

    OK those CGI wild cats was rough 😆

    So, yeah the kiss. Errr yeah I don’t know what to think about it. 😅 Not my thing I guess, forced kisses.

    I guess he’s trying to scare her into leaving him. I think?

    Yea I really do not understand why people are saying, oooh this is hot. Uhm noooo. Not for me, darlings.

    Episode 33

    Oooh the reunion between uncle and nephew. This was what I was waiting for. I don’t care about the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er (sorry guys), but this? Yes this is what I was waiting for. 🥰

    The princess is so brave. Now that’s a heroine I love.

    Uh. Do people actually find this hot? 😅 (Shudders)

    Episode 34

    Okay, apparently I spoke too soon. My heart is indeed icy and utterly irredeemable, at least in the ways of Xie Wei + Ning’er fans (I kid, I kid, please unseathe your claws).

    Xie Wei demanding to know why Ning er is afraid him while roughly pulling her around and hand-grabbing her by the neck? I don’t know dude, take a wiiiild guess??

    Then he forces her to stab him and says, “Now, can you not be afraid of me?”

    Girl, run. And oh yeah, if a dude makes you stab him and declares that’s enough to help you get over your fear over him. Tis not romantic, my girlfriends.

    Okay, really, I am legit confused why anyone would think these two are couple goals 🤪🥴 Are we even watching the same show? 😶

    I guess red flag guys are not my thing. At all 😬

    Episode 36

    Half of me is hate watching Show. The other half is loving it.

    People are complicated beings.

    LOLOLOL.

    Fans of Xie Wei and Ning’er – squee they did it! It’s so hawt!

    Me:

    Episode 40

    So I just finished Story of Kunning Palace. And my feelings can be summed up here:

    While I super liked how the Xue family got dispatched (I play those scenes on repeat, cackling to myself), a big part of me is glad that it was all over and I can now slam the door behind me.

    What I like about the show

    • The revenge plot was the one that kept me watching the show. It was engrossing and mysterious. I did not care for the romance between Xie Wei and Ning’er at all and wish they’d left it out.
    • The plot really picked up after episode 13 or so, especially after they leave the palace study group. If you find yourself frustrated, try stick around for that long and re-evaluate. I had to take a break and then return.
    • Interesting side characters that do not feel useless.
    • Scary effective villains that you will absolutely loathe and wish dead.
    • The fight choreography, while making some of them look like supermen, is chef’s kiss at times.
    • A satisfying ending where everyone gets their just desserts. No quickie five second flashes here!

    What I didn’t like

    • I think the narrative structure isn’t great. More could be done to establish what Ning’er was like before her “rebirth” so that the viewers are invested in her efforts to change her past. The use of flashbacks can be very difficult to keep track of.
    • Zhang Ling He’s voice acting leaves a lot to be desired. I like his voice, but he sounds far too flat and emotionless. Bai Lu’s voice acting isn’t good either. I felt that they should’ve been better dubbed.
    • Although I understand why the modern-day snippets were included (to pacify China’s censorship), they were so jarring I choose not acknowledge their existence.
    • You know what I regret? Not wearing sunglasses while watching it cos the director’s love for intense lense flares and for shining the damn light strainght into the viewer’s eyes was giving me migraines. And that was not an exaggeration. I was getting actual headaches!
    • The drama’s final arc felt really rushed. The final confrontation with the bad guys didn’t look realistic at all. Zhang Zhe was just standing around looking confused. Why was he even there, really?
    • The long internal monologues that Xuening has – am not a fan. Again, it shows that the narrative structure needs work if you have to rely on info dump devices like these.
    • Some character arcs were left hanging – the romance between the crown prince and Ning’er’s sister for one. That’s it??
    • The limited OST. Hearing the same songs again and again and…
    • Xie Wei and Ning’er’s romance does not elicit warm, fuzzy feelings in me. It borders on toxic. (Look at the final review below for why I feel this way.)
    • I’m sorry but Zhang Ling He may have potential, but he’s not amazing here. Slightly above average perhaps, but he overacted a few scenes. I kept fantasizing having other actors play Xie Wei. Liu Xie Yi or Cheng Yi perhaps. Oh what it could’ve been.

    Thoughts about the ending

    Click to read spoilers

    I am utterly, completely shocked that this ended happily and mushily. But I feel that a show like this should end tragically or in an open-ended way to be tonally consistent. And I’m saying this as a softie for happy endings! I’m evil, I know.

    I would’ve probably liked it if I liked or rooted for the couple, but lordie this couple’s romance is so problematic the happy scenes just didn’t land.

    Final review

    I think there are perfectly understandable reasons why I was turned off by this show. Besides its technical and storytelling flaws, I disliked many of the tropes in this drama:

    • Scheming palace ladies
    • Reverse harem

    And most of all, this: A physically and verbally aggressive male lead.

    I’ll come out and say this: Xie Wei and Ning’er’s relationship is very unhealthy. It taps into the girlhood fantasy of “reforming your man”. Spoiler alert: You can’t reform men like that, girlfriends. Trust me. Leave that to a shrink.

    I understand how some people may look at it as an “opposites attract” thing, or that “he had such a hard life and is traumatised”, but to me, they are not good enough excuses to justify this behaviour.

    So, I found it hard to overlook Xie Wei’s aggressive expressions of “love”. I’ve never been a fan of this thing that seemed so popular in Kdramas and CDramas: the hand grabbing, the physical yanking, the forced kisses, yelling or rough handling.

    Call me old fashioned, but I prefer my leading men to be respectful of their ladies and treat them as equals worthy of respect. No treating them like immature kids that need schooling. No disrespecting their decisions. No physical aggresion. If this is a big thing for you like it is for me, you will have a hard time embracing Story of Kunning Palace’s central romance. And since it makes a large part of the story, a big part of it would be unpalatable for you.

    I don’t care if someone calls me “overly sensitive” for this, but we should never, ever glorify abuse between couples of any kind and call it romantic. This trope needs to die.

    Okay, but are other aspects of the drama watchable at least?

    So, let’s say you ignore the romantic aspects of this drama and focus on the puzzle that is Xie Wei and what happened 20 years ago. If you’re in the mood to solve a mystery without being spoonfed, this is the drama for you. If you want to park your brain one side and just experience something or be swept away by the story, this may not be for you.

    In one forum I was at, someone said they actually created a chart to keep track of the plot threads in the story. If that’s your jam, great, but if you are annoyed that you have to do all the work, this is definitely not for you.

    Another puzzle drama that I can think of that did a better job with flashbacks was Westworld, season 1. Viewers are not fed the story, we do not know what happened, we are plonked in the middle of the story. The forums went mad with theories. It turns out that the story was actually told out of order, and the flashbacks were actually a story told out of order.

    This drama does get better after we leave the petty court politics of the noble ladies’ study club around episode 15 or so, and when the revenge plot finally starts getting going and our characters literally move out of the confines of the palace into the world.

    So, yes, I have a complex love-hate relationship with this drama. And if you’re confused about where I stand, I don’t blame you.

    Should I have dropped this drama? Well, I thought the revenge plot was worth sticking around for, but it did get wobbly towards the end.

    As a revenge drama, it is good enough. As a romance, it is problematic. Veeery problematic. 😬 I will rate the revenge plot an 8. But the romance line would be an abysmal 5 for me.

    So, while I consider this drama slightly above average in a busy Cdrama season, its popularity was iverblown. Why it has become so popular with international fans will be filed under the folder “mysteries of the universe that I will never understand.”

    And despite how it managed to hold my attention, how intriguing the plot twists were and the emotional gravitas of the whole revenge … I cannot overlook its many technical flaws – the bad directing decisions, the choppy narrative, the bloated first half and the rush towards the end …

    This was a difficult drama to rate.

    Here’s my verdict:

    Final Rating: 2.5 stars out of 5

    #25Stars #CDrama #cdramaReview #CDramas #China #ChineseDrama #CostumedDrama #TV

  4. Lockdown diaries, June 2020

    🌱 If you’re following my website via RSS or subscription, please note that this is just a “seedling” or a post where it is a work in progress.

    Jun 1, 2020
    “For decades, Minneapolis has embraced its image as a progressive bastion. This week ripped that away, and left something behind much grimmer.” – @AdamMinter

    Jun 1, 2020
    At this stage we just need zombies and aliens https://t.co/3OBqKpD0Ec

    Jun 2, 2020
    “Have you ever thought about how short life is?

    We only get 85 years if we’re lucky. Yet we spend the majority of our time acting like someone we’re not.”

    https://t.co/Cb6tX2AEEo

    Jun 2, 2020
    You have to make a choice. Do you want to be number one, or do you want to be happy? You may become a victim of your success, but you can never become a victim of your happiness.

    Jun 2, 2020
    Mum’s usual unit of measurement: “A little bit of this, a lot of that.” https://t.co/KlvsOjsdwU
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    Jun 5, 2020
    I’m one of those annoyingly morning people. My bro needs 3 alarms to wake up. I just need a mental reminder the night before and poof, I’m awake at that time. A superpower I inherited from my dad. I 💕starting work at 7am when the sun’s just peeking out. No coffee needed.

    Jun 5, 2020
    In Asia, where the elderly are respected and even revered, this would have been incomprehensible and these actions the lowest of the low. Our cops are not perfect, we have brutality here too. But I can’t help but think our abang police would approach this much differently. https://t.co/HL8NgmKcrb

    Jun 6, 2020
    I’ve been trying to finish the food I bought to get through the MCO/lockdown since May.
    I am still trying.

    Jun 6, 2020
    Ye Hua, you are still the one. #cdrama #tenmilesofpeachblossoms https://t.co/tSOvtLzBwe
    GIF

    Jun 6, 2020
    Yes I am a super morning person. That also means I am a super non-night person. I am practically brain dead after 9pm and look half drunk if I had to stay up after 10pm.

    Jun 8, 2020
    Dear @AskScribd I can’t pause my membership. The option is no longer available for me. Why? Can u only pause your membership at certain times? Once a year? What? https://t.co/X7hYrOcg7T

    Jun 8, 2020
    I use coconut oil or ghee most of the time. Sometimes, I use animal fat – such as the fat from chicken skin & bacon grease. https://t.co/v5SCWFITn4

    Jun 8, 2020
    Yesterday, filled my Axia’s 🚘 tank. Have not topped up since March thanks to the lockdown.

    I paid RM35 (US$9) for a full tank. 😶 https://t.co/HrmnnBwY8F
    GIF

    Jun 8, 2020
    You know the saying, “if you don’t have anything good to say, don’t say anything?” https://t.co/V1nkjW9bJe

    Jun 8, 2020
    Here’s an investment that many personal finance bloggers hardly talk about:
    A vegetable garden. https://t.co/SW8enFROhO

    Jun 8, 2020
    When you’re #debtfree you have less stress & can take bigger risks. Here’s how to start your journey: https://t.co/YgXBiIwz1U

    Jun 9, 2020
    The dilemma of house owners in Malaysia in this age. I feel for them. And to think I used to fret over my RM120k house loan!! https://t.co/hTTf8S6Rqe

    Jun 9, 2020
    Saying goodbye to journalism was so hard. I’m still grieving for that loss of identity as I move on without this career, which had defined me for almost two decades: https://t.co/ek4VjJTyoh

    Jun 9, 2020
    📺 If you are a newbie to investing, do watch this great Explained episode on how the stock market works. Get educated before you invest! Via @netflix https://t.co/q1YX2eiQzj

    Jun 9, 2020
    Sam Neil cuddling with a duck is LIFE https://t.co/toNv7r4ghk

    Jun 10, 2020
    Financial burnout is real. I was so dogged & determined in pursuing early retirement that I made a lot of sacrifices. Sometimes to the detriment of my health. https://t.co/QqMleet8Y5

    Jun 10, 2020
    Why do we name our pets after food? 🤔

    Jun 11, 2020
    To date, this remains one of my most popular posts on the blog. I suppose not many people willingly give up a PR to make the journey back home to Malaysia. https://t.co/HqP3HAAddO

    Jun 12, 2020
    Because of my dogged pursuit of FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) I lost the courage to live life the way I want. Don’t be me. https://t.co/QqMleet8Y5

    Jun 12, 2020
    Spending time in the garden has improved my well-being massively. In fact, I consider my vege patch a great investment for my mental health. I go there at least twice a week and I am rewarded with fat spinach 😄 https://t.co/T2AIKZMFxl
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    Jun 12, 2020
    Tell me about it. I went into nursing terrified. Wrote my first ebook terrified. Left journalism scared shitless. Getting used to failing on repeat is something I am learning to embrace. https://t.co/NNeNPtwYBM

    Jun 13, 2020
    If you find yourself feeling sad because you pulled the plug on an old career in exchange for a new one, don’t be surprised. It’s a natural part of the process.
    https://t.co/ek4VjKb9MR

    Jun 13, 2020
    I completely redesigned my website today. And only slept an hour. Guys, don’t be me 🤣 Here’s my new web home 👇 https://t.co/FtCx5Lb1aI

    Jun 13, 2020
    Found out that there have been no briefings about the #COVID19 situation in the US for weeks. 😶 In Malaysia, we have DAILY briefings. Our poor Health DG @DGHisham has been working non-stop since the crisis began. So grateful. Thank you, sir!

    Jun 14, 2020
    The nasi lemak makcik is back at the lrt station after months of MCO. Thank goodness!

    Jun 14, 2020
    Just to torture myself I feel like taking up a wordpress developer course. Because, wtf not

    Jun 14, 2020
    I decided to take a nap at 2pm yesterday and woke up at 6am today. Wow that’s some nap!

    Jun 14, 2020
    Ah so Singapore has come up with a list of non-essential workers. My my, salty! https://t.co/iB1DjiGLt0

    Jun 15, 2020
    I’m just gonna post dog+cat photos today. https://t.co/B5ukEAUoPj

    Jun 15, 2020
    TNB is trending – apparently many are experiencing a huge spike in their electricity bills gulp Here’s a possible explanation by @twt_kerja https://t.co/Jcu681mYri

    Jun 15, 2020
    Malaysia is no.10 in producing solid waste. 😮 https://t.co/n7h1c5uKSn

    Jun 15, 2020
    “… our society will soon realise that academic qualifications will become increasingly irrelevant. The future of work globally will not be one with a clear blue- and white-collar job divide.”

    https://t.co/9Vce9hkX8u

    Jun 15, 2020
    Did you lose income/job because of #COVID19?

    Jun 15, 2020
    The children are back in the condo playground. Social distancing? Nawwww who needs them https://t.co/zrhfueI4nz
    GIF

    Jun 15, 2020
    Stock market these days👇 https://t.co/fnj7jw62Tp
    GIF

    Jun 15, 2020
    Man, I didn’t know poodle pigs existed! https://t.co/5hdcUkTKWS

    Jun 15, 2020
    EPIC 🤣 https://t.co/D2Qx3cnaqD

    Jun 15, 2020
    Living #debtfree is amazing. You’re less stressed & you can weather crisis better. Here’s how you can do it: https://t.co/YgXBiIwz1U

    Jun 16, 2020
    Anxious, stressed or depressed due to the massive changes caused by #COVID19? Please do yourself a favour and take this free online course by @Yale. You don’t just learn theory – you learn to implement in your life through “rewiring” projects. https://t.co/wW45Yqec6x

    Jun 16, 2020
    Rick Warren: God has a timetable for everything.
    Me: Can I have a peek at the timetable? Just a quick one? 😇

    Jun 16, 2020
    I finally listed all the books I’ve written on one page. It feels really good to see that I’ve produced these. Now … to market them!
    https://t.co/4YMqfO3JVP

    Jun 16, 2020
    When you walk around the mall wondering why the world is in a blur and wondering if your eyesight has worsened… Only to realise you’ve been walking around with your reading glasses. https://t.co/yDp5QL35aI
    GIF

    Jun 16, 2020
    “Tomorrow isn’t promised. Live in the moment. You think you have time, but you don’t.” We all need to remember this. Via @DebtAscent https://t.co/chdtMtGDIe https://t.co/chdtMtGDIe

    Jun 16, 2020
    5 things I learned from Korean dramas:

    1. Men brood in showers
    2. Kisses happen in slow motion
    3. Stare and freeze when someone kisses you
    4. People die at zebra crossings a lot
    5. Chaebols are always cold MOFO. But hawt. Always hawt.
      Right, @kfangurl ?? https://t.co/RKsHoZXapb
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    Jun 18, 2020
    Just had a wonderful chat with @FinancialGory today at 11am. He has done more in his life than I did at his age! With a good financial foundation, you can really pursue your dreams. Thanks for your time @azraeimuhamad 😃

    Jun 18, 2020
    Woohoo I think I got it! Making boba pearls – it’s white cos I didn’t bother getting dark brown sugar. https://t.co/Ez0hKKVpda

    Jun 18, 2020
    Wow never thought I would be able to make boba pearls from scratch. It’s not terribly hard but it’s tedious https://t.co/2Mn5RYpQqB

    Jun 18, 2020
    I ❤️ their friendship. Much prayers for James who must feel the loss keenly. https://t.co/HrlCSkQbeq

    Jun 19, 2020
    RM2 can’t even buy you a packet of nasi lemak these days. https://t.co/Qrg9W70uHv

    Jun 20, 2020
    My bro just bought RM200 worth of durian. It’s not like, berlambak lambak k? It’s four tiny boxes. Maybe I should consider becoming a durian seller?🤔

    Jun 20, 2020
    So apparently, when you finally get an SSL certificate you’d be rewarded with a precipitous drop in traffic. Lovely. Here’s what I should’v done after getting a https address: https://t.co/Tu8GhLQHW9

    Jun 20, 2020
    I have Denmark bike envy 😑 oh Malaysia, wil we ever have this? https://t.co/gUZv28rfVm

    Jun 20, 2020
    When a company or department is run by folks in fear, the results are less than optimal. Goals end up being sabotaged by self preservation and insecurity. https://t.co/YP8MWFiB7D

    Jun 20, 2020
    I so agree with this. When I worked with the newspaper, my editors were brutal with my copy. But I sure learned a lot about writing great articles. https://t.co/1EjScbTNfV

    Jun 21, 2020
    This week’s boba pearls. It costs only RM1 but lots of labour involved. Phew. https://t.co/FgohfeXlTO
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    Jun 21, 2020
    I still can’t get over how obvious & plentiful the product placements in #TheEternalKingMonarch was. https://t.co/B5t897e4Kg

    Jun 22, 2020
    The boba pearls I made are blue because I boiled some butterfly pea flowers (Bunga telang) in the mix. A nice, safe form of colouring 😊 https://t.co/latOMZq5oT
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    Jun 22, 2020
    It’s so sad that such a well-known brand has such a toxic workplace. Why does this keep happening and is there a way to prevent it? https://t.co/qYrhhHLzg0

    Jun 22, 2020
    Just post it! https://t.co/vH6zr7Ni0d

    Jun 22, 2020
    20 yo Robinhood trader commits suicide after seeing -$US730k balance 😩 https://t.co/nfI97zHFXe

    Jun 22, 2020
    A few days ago, a 20yo investor committed suicide after he discovered a -$750k balance. He thought he was nearly a mil in debt 😟 His cousin Bill Brewster talks about this incident in his own words 👇 https://t.co/8V5Gt787WR

    Jun 22, 2020
    Yup, I was thinking this was a UX problem https://t.co/DUAsRkdKNb

    Jun 23, 2020
    Guys, don’t invest unless you know what you’re investing in, what risks are related to the investment vehicles and how it works.

    Jun 23, 2020
    I only buy new things when the old one completely disintegrates, falls apart and collapses into a pitiful wreck. I guess it’s time for a new case. https://t.co/mGtBlx5IJb
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    Jun 23, 2020
    The coronavirus also doesn’t care if you think it no longer exists. https://t.co/5qAjEb6g2S

    Jun 23, 2020
    A Melbournian got upset when I asked for Vienna coffee in Melbourne. “We take our coffee seriously, so of course we won’t have coffee of the Viennese variety here!”
    But I just want whipped cream on my coffee, is that too much to ask? https://t.co/a5zcTANTPK
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    Jun 23, 2020
    This is @RobinhoodApp’s response to Alex Kearns’ suicide. I think education is really, really important right now. And safeguards. Lots of it. https://t.co/02Gi1BkOYd

    Jun 23, 2020
    Is this a case of bad UX? Or irresponsible UX? https://t.co/VqGk5oCWlW

    Jun 23, 2020
    I had to lol at my apartment management’s exhortation that kids need to maintain 1m distance from each other at the play area. I can most assuredly tell you they are happily ignoring that rule.

    And that their parents couldn’t care less.

    Jun 24, 2020
    Even pros struggle with personal finance https://t.co/iKPKnuBKA4

    Jun 24, 2020
    I am actually the same, but only in Malaysia. In Australia I bought my second hand Toyota for $6k. Damn I miss that car. https://t.co/WNlkulEZyq

    Jun 24, 2020
    Oh good then. I am tots a generalist when it comes to writing https://t.co/3LvsUv6MXs

    Jun 24, 2020
    This is totally me. https://t.co/ywdOuvatxz

    Jun 26, 2020
    I feel this. I once was asked to talk to a group of B40 folks about personal finance and I knew it would be insulting of me to tell them to “save better”. The PF community in Malaysia needs to do better to serve folks who are struggling financially, B40, M40 or whatever group https://t.co/Wr9VArQTfP

    Jun 26, 2020
    Are you stressed by debts? I know how it’s like. Years ago, I had owed RM20k+ (credit card debts & car loan). Here’s how I managed the stress as I paid off my debts. Much thanks to AIA Malaysia for letting me to share my experience with Malaysians! Read: 👇t.co/ho6a20hQes

    Jun 26, 2020
    As I grew up, my frugalistas maximus parents lectured me about saving $, buying property & not being an idiot with credit cards. You think I’d be set for life. But noooo, I rebelled by being the opposite. By 25, I racked up enough credit card debt to make them weep 1/3

    Jun 26, 2020
    Advice from mum and dad! haha https://t.co/k6FPJTZhg8

    Jun 26, 2020
    If you have debts in your life, it can get really stressful. You constantly wonder if you have enough money. Here an article I wrote for AIA on the ways to manage the stress when you’re trying to pay down your debt. Read: 👉 https://t.co/wPRe7Cs33K https://t.co/K4J3BRBbfk
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    Jun 27, 2020
    If these are Malaysians, we are huge savers! https://t.co/hsfEg2qHca

    Jun 27, 2020
    Last week, I read about the tragic story of an investor who killed himself because he thought he lost nearly -US$750k. Robinhood investor Alex Kearns’ tragic story highlights our need for financial education and a healthy relationship to money.

    https://t.co/cXTfWZswkh

    Jun 29, 2020
    This is still important to say: Suicide isn’t the answer to your money or debt problems. If you are struggling right now, please seek help. https://t.co/cXTfWZswkh

    Jun 29, 2020
    I’m in a co-working space now and it’s uncomfortably packed. Oof.

    Jun 29, 2020
    You know what’s more annoying? There’s a person with a full-blown cold in the coworking space. There were no screenings for temperature, or check-ins. Nopes. This is not good.

    Jun 29, 2020
    “No matter how bad the economy gets, you will pull through financially and come out on the other side OK” – @JessGarbarino https://t.co/NgVdTwzVU9

    Jun 29, 2020
    I want my own booty pillow https://t.co/NYsoqihLHK

    #COVID #COVID19 #seedling