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  1. CW: Not just the bad people - but what the 'good' are not doing - so let's talk (me and you, add more people as we go?)...

    @ScottLucas I'm not sure how to say this, but if you're willing to talk to me then we could set a small example to others and figure some of this out.

    I appreciate this is long...
    But just skimming at first lines of arrowed posts ( ➡️ ) should be enough. The numbered arrowed posts are main points directly numbered below (thanks for trying):

    1➡️ The fact that I've tried with people says a lot about my experience (my whole life trying).

    Way before any type of famous personality on TV or internet (as the new TV internet watching everyone on youtube) I was trying literally like that was my job as a human along side anything I was doing .but also ended up ditching seeing it's falseness or misaligned foundations.

    2➡️ And it means that I feel I can say something based on that #experience as a I had time to re-look each point AND after watching 1000's (my computer can count what I've saved) I think I can give you the specific material to match whatever I'm saying so it's not just "what I am saying" as emotionally encrypted stuff... even though #trust is obviously what we need in life anyway and to allow for imperfect reply.
    But importantly the #sense or #belief (in anything) doesn't seem to be there - which is my main point of all this. No believe, no trust, nothing will make us all bad, imperfect, terrorists that can't learn (and we don't want to teach them or be better in ourselves). And that leaves what we have now as name calling / letting media brand others like poking others with their footage... burning everyone.

    3➡️ Another main point is ANYONE wherever I've been, parents, friends, years on #fediverse (as my account shows trying) proves talking to people is IMPOSSIBLE - like near-0 apart from :oh that's nice". Beyond the first one or two DM's - then nothing.
    Even those that say "oh but I prefer in person" don't actually do it on asking / seeing / watching. NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
    Actually just not 'good' as a definition and could be "labelled" (without looking down on everyone) as #IRRESPONSIBLE.

    Now it's easy to 'blame' online for people being worried to communicate but even about what they love to do it's only aesthetics / less challenging stuff.
    Almost STILL in the playing online games / fiddling with #Tech phase of adolescent life... (not writing off all #Techies but #communication and #human #focus is tough with these types which I think many are as #Playstation #generation 🎮 :playstation: :linux: ).

    Just endless playing eventually leads into the mess too left by those companies while adult people are playing #Army #FPS games #Counterstrike and thir kids too...

    Better the tech world was about the ability help people communicate but that's not enough to get them to actually communicate about important things in a better non-combative way.

    Can we help the world communicate intentions and manage their time 'a bit' better by playing a newer game of "relativity" and "reationships" to real world?

    We've already achieved now in tech - not much more needed with all sorts of media and chat possible... now need to actually do human improvement work online and practice humanism, even with the Tech / Techies / Adult kids!

    In my whole life I've been trying with a long list or 'everyone' and IT'S EXACTLY THE SAME EXCUSES OR SILENCE.

    ➡️ And it's not something that will magically change as it needs to 'build' or 'grow' AS PEOPLE! (literally grow sense).

    Developing people, not just #technology!

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    PLEASE REPLY.

    Otherwise it's the same CONSISTENT PROBLEM JUST PEOPLE ARE SO FULL OF EXCUSES (not planning time to talk, shying away) to the extent they leave it all to get to shit, almost like driving a car every day and see the repairs needed and even obviously half-broken wheel, only to say "hmm not now, later" constantly AND never planning to talk or think about repair.

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    OK AGAIN NO NEED READ MORE IF YOU CAN'T -

    Appreciate it's long and cups of tea... but try quick reply and then adding as you. Don't mind if you delete and re-draft later... I'm forgiving.
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    No reply means it will not get better like this AND ALMOST SHOULDN'T !
    Shirkers (not you but those that almost professionally doing it or blaming their #workaholism) and #silent people also build the nothing (or less than nothing while others dig into us.)

    #Workaholic work is not work when their is no balance in their life (or participating in others like my life claiming people to be #independent when they rely on State Banks Supermarkets mainly and even that is going to shit)

    ❓ ➡️I saw somewhere SILENCE IS VIOLENCE and not I believe it - not just in the emotional context of #war or to force people to think like me - it just is when it gets to that level turning away from truth to that extent and leaving the door open / seeing bad people and do near-0 about it. That's almost as bad as those that know they do bad AND announce it (whether they do it or not but at least say their intentions). #SILENCEISVIOLENCE

    ➡️ So that is the problem and what we can do... by accepting I and others have said to our parents, professors, laid it out, explained the underlying evil / work of banks and state funding #war etc etc and not getting anything back - so we have to accept #DIY (again with proof of work not just racist claims or fear only) and help each other OUT OF IT NOTHINGNESS or #EVIL / bad intentions currently under-pinning life and even as our platform for living as part of their pyramid (you and me included ad why people often won't talk - so more anonymous talk is important for that to collect all the points / balance better / prepare answers).

    Even when my parents or others agreed about banks etc - they have not wanted to continue to do anything or slowly integrate telling themselves more or tell their children how the whole 'system' is to #cheat them, #devalue them / #inflate costs and make their future more expensive which drives everyone crazy (ier)... not just the crazy I could see happening / underpinning what parents thought was ok to grow people up on (intensive us of energy / gas from #Russia or whichever Super-Power you can't trust, not accepting bad loops at home or at work etc etc). If you look at the chickens and living conditions - it's much the same - even without pushing anyone to be vegetarian bit more. But #animalcruelty is not much different now to our model of packed places treading on top of each other.

    ➡️ I think the public you might point to has realised that accepting to talk to ANYONE that can actually talk and present facts is "better" (in some way better than nothing) because getting 0 or even -100% from #State and #Banks are not making the minimums for life AT ALL.

    So some speakers at least JUST START PEOPLE OFF on the ladder of some understanding and decent media and THIS was my main point of writing - at least they reply, can point to real things, see the towns becoming all the same monotony / dominated blandness lacking our individuality (and even take overs of various kind from cultures also they don't understand and worship different things on top of that).

    Not that people know their own bibles or bloody trails of conquest - but still the blandness regardless would be reason enough for all of us to be so depressed and hating each other instead of possibly another bible.

    The logical and debate where a person can decide for themselves - that is the best bet we have and can achieve it - almost like the time they spend already but better. I can help with this - and think this post and others will improve that.

    In order to #unite anything they need to unit themselves as individuals. And right now I see a bunch of kids in adult bodies almost which I can't label anything other than very unfinished.

    #Humanity and #Humanism is broke down because you (personal / plural) didn't want to do ANYTHING or even accept and continue with people like me that have PLENTY OF TIME to do the work for you and get you going in whatever you want, knowing I still I won't hate you at the end. I mean what else as safe?

    We must integrate life into our daily life AND work (eventually don't go without a plan) to change the current "I'm too busy" excuses (covering the other excuses of will-power / lack of how) towards "I / we're working on it or going to do that / are just waiting for a few more"

    and then "slowly but surely" all balances any existing extreme out. All of it,

    ➡️ Thinking state is going to give you time, give you chance to solve things it's creating badly, thinking it will show people hope is by-design wrong and shooting for the moon wasting time,

    ➡️ Instead digging and trying to grow something is a chance and practice worth doing (new generations are forgetting this) so talking to people grows them despite the "old world" style of mentality / ego /authority that exist in almost everyone / everywhere which I hope to bring out naturally and iron out nicely with them seeing it once laid out #nicely....

    So the numbered points are what I wanted to make say in existing people who are by default non-existent / nearly non-humans in terms of daily tweaking / repair of life / practising / making it better in just themselves... and then those further away I've been looking at all my life (all of youtube, documentaries etc) can show that those how to #speak SO THEN we have *some* logic will 'win' together *even if* they don't want to solve the world

    Right now the rest can't even sort it out on a individual level or together coherently. MANY times with even the best, if I talk to them long enough they can't admit (despite agreeing) or get to the Hitler sounding responses, get too personal as competition, or can't resolve things as "it was deliberate and I just hav eto clear it up" - they can't accept.

    They can say as answer "oh but I have to eat, banks are ok, it's not my job.... etc..." without reducing their spend or spending on the bad things supermakets - they want it all - even the bad - unless you bring the child that made the garment right there in front of them instead of sewing and keeping old things... "Na throw it" (throw life away basically).

    I have all the excuses written down lol.... so I'm not surprised.

    I appreciate this is long...
    But even skimming or looking at first lines of arrowed posts ( ➡️ ) should be enough.

    ➡️ Bad people win by default of people not doing good. And even some do nothing and slam EVERY SINGLE PERSON for trying. I can attest to that.

    It's not what the bad people do only, it's what the good don't do.

    And by "good" I mean the level of good we are not at currently in thinking talking more though some have it online as more of a complete / improved person as much as they can.

    ❓ SO WHAT AM I ASKING ❓

    ➡️ The forever work is probably me and you talking... forever about it.

    Until others can come out of their self-restrictions and adjust / forgive / get up to speed with EVERYTHING. We do it and then snowball... we see all these #famous people do it but we without big #political agendas.

    Calling people names is not enough not to beleive parts of what the saying clearly happening to all of our towns and streets (just the blandness / poor investments / tyranny).

    Now with people relying on #State and #Banks as the default we can say NO THAT IS 100% ROAD TO HELL. pROVEN.

    Mainstream media / youtube are also skewing things (getting better and sometimes worse) BUT I, you and others have enough examples to pick and chose and fall into #shitshow piss-takes of it all. Not evolve into hating it all and then it's rug pulls (usually #financially / from #taxes #paying themselves for the 'help' or any solution back paying just the admin to do little more than nothing).

    ➡️ We simply have to do the homework and trust people like you and me IF they can do proof of work (like the video timepoints referring to what was really said and exact #racist words... not daily mail / sun #newspaper #tabloids which then pay these individuals in court after false rape charges and a whole shit of alleged / label calling shenanigans). It's a #shitshow all round - if you're willing to do the life-long-work slowly then you're reply anything. All people are being jailed for nothing as tweets or standing up for themselves (not only the usual suspects or groups) so we know something is up trying to hide what we know now. STATE AND BANKS DON'T CARE!!! Sorry we just have to eat that betrayal and see most of work was diverted in $HIT.

    ➡️ But believing in a fellow human being is actually all but gone so I see that as first things to 'grow' and build - as all the hating (evident from the other hashtags) are NOT the way to build.

    If people put all that hating energy and time into building themselves and others (even writing crap to me) they would get a lot further but they don't want the challenge or to be challenged. So hating it is and playing into the worse of all these the #State and #Bank part of the #cruelest people underpinning all this and #cruelty as a #system.

    I believe I can literally fix 'it' because I have made time and can do it - and everyone can do something (once they find it in themselves or let others push them to do 'something' and let all our goodness come to surface knowing from this point it takes a while to reach positives / clear out every single negative point together and make it easier for others.)

    Enough said. Please reply.
    Anything for now. but continue...

  2. CW: Answer = #Greed and constant #Dissatisfaction / never #satisifed people in almost every culture - i.e. #ModernPeople

    @poemproducer Short answer is:
    Every #culture (the #ModernPeople I'm starting to tag it now as rather than by race) has this #Greed and constant #Dissatisfaction / never know when it's enough, are not #satisifed people in psychological way. Doesn't have to have tunnel vision 'work' (#workaholism / workaholics) that grows this....

    Longer answer:

    Like a syndrome / pattern of dis-ease, it's never enough personally or a system [pattern of techniques like money deflated over time].

    So yes even though they (#Russia / it's people / #ModernPeople / any people) have a lot, many cultures (with installed leaders or not) are hell-bent to spend perhaps with insecurity so much that they mess it all up [too much chocolate] instead of coasting and enjoying it all as a healthier thing... which to be fair is weakness inside their system of #cruelty as they need it for #manipulation.

    But I hope this answer most of it even by just looking at the hashtags.

    regards
    #FreeSchool

    Write even more did you say?....

    OK... It's quite a natural human thing having all this luxury but we don't have much answer for it to keep a lid on it, even in ourselves. I collect ALL the apples for example and sometimes feel bad for nature! (this is solved by me not always being there when they fall but good example of leaving NOTHING to nobody... which is ok when there are almost too many apple trees or less people.

    The other answer is 'installing' more apple trees...

    but #Capitalism / #ModernPeople are not in for installing trees for others to #forage freely and keep busy with low impact stuff so it's bombs away and concreting everything for profit! :)

  3. Who is running the show here? The to-do list, or the person working it? It’s hard to tell sometimes. For all the joy and beauty word nerds find in the written word, words can also become burdensome. Unyielding task masters.
    I'm the graphic designer and bit monkey for #wordsbyterryl, terryl is the author and we are back from hiatus.

    How do you use lists in your life and to what effect?

    blog.moonlitpress.org/word-ner

    #CreativeNonfiction #writing #newMoon
    #Word #Nerds
    #Workaholism
    #Humor

  4. Who is running the show here? The to-do list, or the person working it? It’s hard to tell sometimes. For all the joy and beauty word nerds find in the written word, words can also become burdensome. Unyielding task masters.
    I'm the graphic designer and bit monkey for #wordsbyterryl, terryl is the author and we are back from hiatus.

    How do you use lists in your life and to what effect?

    blog.moonlitpress.org/word-ner

    #CreativeNonfiction #writing #newMoon
    #Word #Nerds
    #Workaholism
    #Humor

  5. Our new cross-cultural psychometric study on work addiction is now live and can be freely downloaded from this link: doi.org/10.1556/2006.2025.0000

    Thanks to all colleagues and in particular to Dr. Edyta Charzyńska and Dr. Pawel Atroszko.

    #workaddiction #psychometrics #workaholism

  6. Our new cross-cultural psychometric study on work addiction is now live and can be freely downloaded from this link: doi.org/10.1556/2006.2025.0000

    Thanks to all colleagues and in particular to Dr. Edyta Charzyńska and Dr. Pawel Atroszko.

    #workaddiction #psychometrics #workaholism

  7. @[email protected] friendown

    Quick reply, depends on who we consider fascist.

    But the lower levels of fascism which I think is everywhere (and overlooked by those asking) consider these examples and let me know what you think os my take on it as it's not always people in black boots or militia as we know today:

    EXAMPLE
    As example below and more prevalent at lower level + back by #state and other subsidiary #companies:

    ➡️ I think my mum was fascist of various sorts:
    - over-cleaning and too sterile
    + didn't know what to do otherwise with herself
    - a bit of a #Hitler reaction when challenged (like "measurably you did this 5 hours ago and almost not been here much ever since) but #no room for #choice
    + and even aggressive or more provokable
    + #psychological #questions were there (didn't know what else to do but take this position of #cleaning etc / #monowork / #workaholism / non #diversity
    + she was using spray guns (like real #guns on people) but even the friendly is prossibele #bacteria)
    + #chemicals were bought by the trolley load and fund pollution and even #climatechange with #sprays etc
    + toxic stuff created by SmithKleinBeecham etc which are #polluting things and #toxic to #earth / nature and #habitat as #planet
    + few other things that touches on similar #fascism which is more strictly #state backed / #government #authoritarian #hierarchy

    Imagine now all the mums, dads paying for shit and doing shit like this over cleaning while paying for it / helping state profit... sounds much closer now with these list of points with keywords (hashtags)... A sloopy

  8. "#Tech runs on myth-making. From the outside, the #startup world seems like a meritocratic utopia churning out innovations that "change the world." But beneath the surface, there's a far more troubling reality.
    Tech is powered by #bullshit. It's the only sustainable energy source #SiliconValley successfully harnessed. It’s a world rife with exaggerated claims, wealth inequality, and #workaholism wearing a mask of passion…"

    joanwestenberg.com/blog/how-st

  9. "#Tech runs on myth-making. From the outside, the #startup world seems like a meritocratic utopia churning out innovations that "change the world." But beneath the surface, there's a far more troubling reality.
    Tech is powered by #bullshit. It's the only sustainable energy source #SiliconValley successfully harnessed. It’s a world rife with exaggerated claims, wealth inequality, and #workaholism wearing a mask of passion…"

    joanwestenberg.com/blog/how-st