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  1. ✮ Blinker ✮

    We spend so much time blinking and looking away,
    we blink so much that we don’t realize our fuse is alight.
    A turn of the dial,
    into another scene,
    never rooted in the moment,
    as transient as everything mortal.
    We blink, to erase the unpleasant,
    we blink, to jump forward,
    coil our bodies around rest,
    wrap paychecks inside our hands,
    so, we can blink a little more.
    We skip and jump out of the day,
    when tomorrow is worse than today,
    we blink it away,
    as if we have unlimited blinks,
    and soon enough we’ll hit a wall
    and wish we could have kept our eyes open
    more frequently.

    Here today; gone tomorrow, never take anything for granted.

    When complaining about long walks, someone is dreaming of having such luxury. Walks that people take for granted mean everything to someone else who is bound by a condition that prevents them from doing so. They could be bedridden; they could be hiding in fear in a war zone; they could be impeded by physical conditions that limit them.

    You complain about tidying up. It’s because you have a home. You stress out over traffic. It’s because you have a car. You can’t deal with the noise. You have a family. Someone out there wants what you have but can only dream of it.

    When frowning in dissatisfaction over a prepared meal, think about that person who took time and poured every ounce of their heart, hoping to bring you happiness. Think.

    Be grateful that you are in school; not everyone is afforded such an opportunity. Not as a promise to secure a job, but to learn. Bitterness often comes from discounting what people already have. Contentment, as they say, is the key to happiness. Dream, but be forgiving. If it’s yours, it will come to fruition. If not, steady your heart and live with what you have.

    Never neglect people or things that add, give, and bring value to your life. Blessed are those who can’t count how many people they love with their fingers. If you do, you’re already rich. Hurray! You will have someone to turn to.

    At the end of the day, when all that you take for granted is gone, what will be left of you?

    Copyright © Erwinism. All rights reserved. No part of this work may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the author, except in the case of brief quotations used in critical reviews or scholarly work. This work is protected under international copyright laws. Unauthorized use or reproduction of this material is strictly prohibited and may result in legal action.

    Live it Up!

    #ActsOfKindness #AppreciatingLife #AppreciatingLovedOnes #Appreciation #BeautyInOrdinaryLife #BlinkMore #Blinking #CherishEveryMoment #Compassion #Condition #ConsciousLiving #Contentment #CountYourBlessings #CreativeNonfiction #Dial #EducationMatters #EmotionalResilience #EmotionalWellbeing #Empathy #Erase #Erwinism #EverydayBlessings #EverydayPhilosophy #EyesOpen #FamilyLove #FindingJoy #FindingMeaning #Fuse #FYP #GoneTomorrow #Grateful #Gratitude #GratitudeJournal #GratitudeMindset #Happiness #HereToday #HitAWall #HomeAndBelonging #HumanCondition #HumanExperience #Inspiration #InspirationalLiterature #InspirationalWriting #IntentionalLiving #Jump #Learning #Life #LifeIsShort #LifeLessons #LifeReflection #LiteraryEssay #LiteraryProse #LiveFully #LivingInThePresent #LookingAway #Love #MeaningOfLife #MentalHealth #MentalWellness #Mindfulness #ModernPhilosophy #moment #Mortal #Mortality #Motivation #OrdinaryMiracles #PassageOfTime #Paychecks #PersonalGrowth #PerspectiveOnLife #PhilosophicalWriting #Poem #PoeticProse #Poetry #PositiveMindset #PresentMoment #Progress #ReflectiveEssay #RelationshipsMatter #Rest #Scene #SchoolAndLearning #SelfReflection #Simplicity #Skip #SlowLiving #Thankfulness #TheGiftOfToday #ThoughtProvoking #Tomorrow #Transient #UnlimitedBlinks #Unpleasant #Value #ValueOfFamily #WakeUpAndLive #Walks #Writing
  2. ✮ Blinker ✮

    We spend so much time blinking and looking away,
    we blink so much that we don’t realize our fuse is alight.
    A turn of the dial,
    into another scene,
    never rooted in the moment,
    as transient as everything mortal.
    We blink, to erase the unpleasant,
    we blink, to jump forward,
    coil our bodies around rest,
    wrap paychecks inside our hands,
    so, we can blink a little more.
    We skip and jump out of the day,
    when tomorrow is worse than today,
    we blink it away,
    as if we have unlimited blinks,
    and soon enough we’ll hit a wall
    and wish we could have kept our eyes open
    more frequently.

    Here today; gone tomorrow, never take anything for granted.

    When complaining about long walks, someone is dreaming of having such luxury. Walks that people take for granted mean everything to someone else who is bound by a condition that prevents them from doing so. They could be bedridden; they could be hiding in fear in a war zone; they could be impeded by physical conditions that limit them.

    You complain about tidying up. It’s because you have a home. You stress out over traffic. It’s because you have a car. You can’t deal with the noise. You have a family. Someone out there wants what you have but can only dream of it.

    When frowning in dissatisfaction over a prepared meal, think about that person who took time and poured every ounce of their heart, hoping to bring you happiness. Think.

    Be grateful that you are in school; not everyone is afforded such an opportunity. Not as a promise to secure a job, but to learn. Bitterness often comes from discounting what people already have. Contentment, as they say, is the key to happiness. Dream, but be forgiving. If it’s yours, it will come to fruition. If not, steady your heart and live with what you have.

    Never neglect people or things that add, give, and bring value to your life. Blessed are those who can’t count how many people they love with their fingers. If you do, you’re already rich. Hurray! You will have someone to turn to.

    At the end of the day, when all that you take for granted is gone, what will be left of you?

    Copyright © Erwinism. All rights reserved. No part of this work may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the author, except in the case of brief quotations used in critical reviews or scholarly work. This work is protected under international copyright laws. Unauthorized use or reproduction of this material is strictly prohibited and may result in legal action.

    Live it Up!

    #ActsOfKindness #AppreciatingLife #AppreciatingLovedOnes #Appreciation #BeautyInOrdinaryLife #BlinkMore #Blinking #CherishEveryMoment #Compassion #Condition #ConsciousLiving #Contentment #CountYourBlessings #CreativeNonfiction #Dial #EducationMatters #EmotionalResilience #EmotionalWellbeing #Empathy #Erase #Erwinism #EverydayBlessings #EverydayPhilosophy #EyesOpen #FamilyLove #FindingJoy #FindingMeaning #Fuse #FYP #GoneTomorrow #Grateful #Gratitude #GratitudeJournal #GratitudeMindset #Happiness #HereToday #HitAWall #HomeAndBelonging #HumanCondition #HumanExperience #Inspiration #InspirationalLiterature #InspirationalWriting #IntentionalLiving #Jump #Learning #Life #LifeIsShort #LifeLessons #LifeReflection #LiteraryEssay #LiteraryProse #LiveFully #LivingInThePresent #LookingAway #Love #MeaningOfLife #MentalHealth #MentalWellness #Mindfulness #ModernPhilosophy #moment #Mortal #Mortality #Motivation #OrdinaryMiracles #PassageOfTime #Paychecks #PersonalGrowth #PerspectiveOnLife #PhilosophicalWriting #Poem #PoeticProse #Poetry #PositiveMindset #PresentMoment #Progress #ReflectiveEssay #RelationshipsMatter #Rest #Scene #SchoolAndLearning #SelfReflection #Simplicity #Skip #SlowLiving #Thankfulness #TheGiftOfToday #ThoughtProvoking #Tomorrow #Transient #UnlimitedBlinks #Unpleasant #Value #ValueOfFamily #WakeUpAndLive #Walks #Writing
  3. ✮ Blinker ✮

    We spend so much time blinking and looking away,
    we blink so much that we don’t realize our fuse is alight.
    A turn of the dial,
    into another scene,
    never rooted in the moment,
    as transient as everything mortal.
    We blink, to erase the unpleasant,
    we blink, to jump forward,
    coil our bodies around rest,
    wrap paychecks inside our hands,
    so, we can blink a little more.
    We skip and jump out of the day,
    when tomorrow is worse than today,
    we blink it away,
    as if we have unlimited blinks,
    and soon enough we’ll hit a wall
    and wish we could have kept our eyes open
    more frequently.

    Here today; gone tomorrow, never take anything for granted.

    When complaining about long walks, someone is dreaming of having such luxury. Walks that people take for granted mean everything to someone else who is bound by a condition that prevents them from doing so. They could be bedridden; they could be hiding in fear in a war zone; they could be impeded by physical conditions that limit them.

    You complain about tidying up. It’s because you have a home. You stress out over traffic. It’s because you have a car. You can’t deal with the noise. You have a family. Someone out there wants what you have but can only dream of it.

    When frowning in dissatisfaction over a prepared meal, think about that person who took time and poured every ounce of their heart, hoping to bring you happiness. Think.

    Be grateful that you are in school; not everyone is afforded such an opportunity. Not as a promise to secure a job, but to learn. Bitterness often comes from discounting what people already have. Contentment, as they say, is the key to happiness. Dream, but be forgiving. If it’s yours, it will come to fruition. If not, steady your heart and live with what you have.

    Never neglect people or things that add, give, and bring value to your life. Blessed are those who can’t count how many people they love with their fingers. If you do, you’re already rich. Hurray! You will have someone to turn to.

    At the end of the day, when all that you take for granted is gone, what will be left of you?

    Copyright © Erwinism. All rights reserved. No part of this work may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the author, except in the case of brief quotations used in critical reviews or scholarly work. This work is protected under international copyright laws. Unauthorized use or reproduction of this material is strictly prohibited and may result in legal action.

    Live it Up!

    #ActsOfKindness #AppreciatingLife #AppreciatingLovedOnes #Appreciation #BeautyInOrdinaryLife #BlinkMore #Blinking #CherishEveryMoment #Compassion #Condition #ConsciousLiving #Contentment #CountYourBlessings #CreativeNonfiction #Dial #EducationMatters #EmotionalResilience #EmotionalWellbeing #Empathy #Erase #Erwinism #EverydayBlessings #EverydayPhilosophy #EyesOpen #FamilyLove #FindingJoy #FindingMeaning #Fuse #FYP #GoneTomorrow #Grateful #Gratitude #GratitudeJournal #GratitudeMindset #Happiness #HereToday #HitAWall #HomeAndBelonging #HumanCondition #HumanExperience #Inspiration #InspirationalLiterature #InspirationalWriting #IntentionalLiving #Jump #Learning #Life #LifeIsShort #LifeLessons #LifeReflection #LiteraryEssay #LiteraryProse #LiveFully #LivingInThePresent #LookingAway #Love #MeaningOfLife #MentalHealth #MentalWellness #Mindfulness #ModernPhilosophy #moment #Mortal #Mortality #Motivation #OrdinaryMiracles #PassageOfTime #Paychecks #PersonalGrowth #PerspectiveOnLife #PhilosophicalWriting #Poem #PoeticProse #Poetry #PositiveMindset #PresentMoment #Progress #ReflectiveEssay #RelationshipsMatter #Rest #Scene #SchoolAndLearning #SelfReflection #Simplicity #Skip #SlowLiving #Thankfulness #TheGiftOfToday #ThoughtProvoking #Tomorrow #Transient #UnlimitedBlinks #Unpleasant #Value #ValueOfFamily #WakeUpAndLive #Walks #Writing
  4. Squeals of horror over #PriceCaps – but how are we going to fix our broken #food system?

    The news that the Treasury was asking #UK #supermarkets to cap price rises on #essential foods was greeted with predictable squeals of horror this week. Supermarkets were reportedly “furious”

    This caterwauling is a distraction from two #unpleasant facts ...

    #PeopleNotProfits #groceries #HumanRights #UnitedKingdom #global

    [1/2]

  5. Squeals of horror over #PriceCaps – but how are we going to fix our broken #food system?

    The news that the Treasury was asking #UK #supermarkets to cap price rises on #essential foods was greeted with predictable squeals of horror this week. Supermarkets were reportedly “furious”

    This caterwauling is a distraction from two #unpleasant facts ...

    #PeopleNotProfits #groceries #HumanRights #UnitedKingdom #global

    [1/2]

  6. Squeals of horror over #PriceCaps – but how are we going to fix our broken #food system?

    The news that the Treasury was asking #UK #supermarkets to cap price rises on #essential foods was greeted with predictable squeals of horror this week. Supermarkets were reportedly “furious”

    This caterwauling is a distraction from two #unpleasant facts ...

    #PeopleNotProfits #groceries #HumanRights #UnitedKingdom #global

    [1/2]

  7. Squeals of horror over #PriceCaps – but how are we going to fix our broken #food system?

    The news that the Treasury was asking #UK #supermarkets to cap price rises on #essential foods was greeted with predictable squeals of horror this week. Supermarkets were reportedly “furious”

    This caterwauling is a distraction from two #unpleasant facts ...

    #PeopleNotProfits #groceries #HumanRights #UnitedKingdom #global

    [1/2]

  8. Squeals of horror over #PriceCaps – but how are we going to fix our broken #food system?

    The news that the Treasury was asking #UK #supermarkets to cap price rises on #essential foods was greeted with predictable squeals of horror this week. Supermarkets were reportedly “furious”

    This caterwauling is a distraction from two #unpleasant facts ...

    #PeopleNotProfits #groceries #HumanRights #UnitedKingdom #global

    [1/2]

  9. New elastosome technology boosts EGF penetration for superior anti-ageing results

    The research team, representing Inha University Hospital, Humantest Co, and B&B Korea, showed how a novel “elastosome” formulation…
    #NewsBeep #News #Technology #aesthetic #AU #Australia #cosmetic #mature #unpleasant
    newsbeep.com/au/467666/

  10. There's something about having a lot of #money that just makes #people #unpleasant at best and just fucking #evil at worst idk why it's like that

  11. There's something about having a lot of #money that just makes #people #unpleasant at best and just fucking #evil at worst idk why it's like that

  12. There's something about having a lot of #money that just makes #people #unpleasant at best and just fucking #evil at worst idk why it's like that

  13. There's something about having a lot of #money that just makes #people #unpleasant at best and just fucking #evil at worst idk why it's like that

  14. There's something about having a lot of #money that just makes #people #unpleasant at best and just fucking #evil at worst idk why it's like that

  15. A quick visit to #NT Dyffryn Gardens this afternoon.

    We found this peculiar #orchid called Bulbophyllym rothschildianum
    With #fimbriated petals and the most #horrid and #unpleasant smell.

    Elsewhere, were an amazing selction of #pumpkins and #squash.

    Strings of dried chillies made for a #festive touch.
    😊

  16. A quick visit to #NT Dyffryn Gardens this afternoon.

    We found this peculiar #orchid called Bulbophyllym rothschildianum
    With #fimbriated petals and the most #horrid and #unpleasant smell.

    Elsewhere, were an amazing selction of #pumpkins and #squash.

    Strings of dried chillies made for a #festive touch.
    😊

  17. A quick visit to #NT Dyffryn Gardens this afternoon.

    We found this peculiar #orchid called Bulbophyllym rothschildianum
    With #fimbriated petals and the most #horrid and #unpleasant smell.

    Elsewhere, were an amazing selction of #pumpkins and #squash.

    Strings of dried chillies made for a #festive touch.
    😊

  18. A quick visit to #NT Dyffryn Gardens this afternoon.

    We found this peculiar #orchid called Bulbophyllym rothschildianum
    With #fimbriated petals and the most #horrid and #unpleasant smell.

    Elsewhere, were an amazing selction of #pumpkins and #squash.

    Strings of dried chillies made for a #festive touch.
    😊

  19. A quick visit to #NT Dyffryn Gardens this afternoon.

    We found this peculiar #orchid called Bulbophyllym rothschildianum
    With #fimbriated petals and the most #horrid and #unpleasant smell.

    Elsewhere, were an amazing selction of #pumpkins and #squash.

    Strings of dried chillies made for a #festive touch.
    😊

  20. #Unpleasant #Truths #quote

    "People who refuse to accept unpleasant truths have no right to complain about politicians that lie to them" - Thomas Sowell*

    *I would say "less right" but it was his #truth #quote.

  21. #Unpleasant #Truths #quote

    "People who refuse to accept unpleasant truths have no right to complain about politicians that lie to them" - Thomas Sowell*

    *I would say "less right" but it was his #truth #quote.

  22. CW: Disturbing nightmare, like my usual sleep

    you ever just try to mercy-kill someone else in your own nightmare?
    You know, the usual apocalyptic scenario: you're being chased by a monster, rabid animals, robot, people who hate you for something you never chose, and/or a giant fuck-off abomination, in last night's delightful medley.

    Except it's a time loop or something, so you keep shouting "Leave her. She dies in about 2 minutes!" as you run through one conference room into a hallway and a shop floor in a mall where the escalators up to the ground floor are gone.

    No one follows you who wasn't already. Some princess or other "VIP" you need to be able to escape lags -- except it turns out later you needed nearly everyone, including the infuriatingly slow to react. The chick can't run anymore, so you half-carry, half-drag her.

    You ask the shop staff for help, and she can't. You ask the shop staff for help, and she wavers. You are directed to a different elevater around the corner.

    You get in and panic, then hit the obvious basement button, or the highest numbered button. You get in and move the ex-follower's head toward the panel, hoping it unlocks something.

    You realise what's about to happen and try to put her out of the misery to follow. She's still alive, and so are you.
    You panic. The doors open as the entrance bobs up and down, in the wake of a loud visceral rumble.

    You enter the elevator alone and try to put yourself out of misery you "know" can't be avoided. You remember running out of the doors as they open, kicking off walls in a desperate attempt to slalom into hiding. The monster gets

    You can't tell them or it dooms them. Where did the princess go? You can't escape. You were never going to be able to. The sirens start again, for the first time. Good luck.

    #horror #unpleasant

  23. CW: Disturbing nightmare, like my usual sleep

    you ever just try to mercy-kill someone else in your own nightmare?
    You know, the usual apocalyptic scenario: you're being chased by a monster, rabid animals, robot, people who hate you for something you never chose, and/or a giant fuck-off abomination, in last night's delightful medley.

    Except it's a time loop or something, so you keep shouting "Leave her. She dies in about 2 minutes!" as you run through one conference room into a hallway and a shop floor in a mall where the escalators up to the ground floor are gone.

    No one follows you who wasn't already. Some princess or other "VIP" you need to be able to escape lags -- except it turns out later you needed nearly everyone, including the infuriatingly slow to react. The chick can't run anymore, so you half-carry, half-drag her.

    You ask the shop staff for help, and she can't. You ask the shop staff for help, and she wavers. You are directed to a different elevater around the corner.

    You get in and panic, then hit the obvious basement button, or the highest numbered button. You get in and move the ex-follower's head toward the panel, hoping it unlocks something.

    You realise what's about to happen and try to put her out of the misery to follow. She's still alive, and so are you.
    You panic. The doors open as the entrance bobs up and down, in the wake of a loud visceral rumble.

    You enter the elevator alone and try to put yourself out of misery you "know" can't be avoided. You remember running out of the doors as they open, kicking off walls in a desperate attempt to slalom into hiding. The monster gets

    You can't tell them or it dooms them. Where did the princess go? You can't escape. You were never going to be able to. The sirens start again, for the first time. Good luck.

    #horror #unpleasant

  24. CW: Disturbing nightmare, like my usual sleep

    you ever just try to mercy-kill someone else in your own nightmare?
    You know, the usual apocalyptic scenario: you're being chased by a monster, rabid animals, robot, people who hate you for something you never chose, and/or a giant fuck-off abomination, in last night's delightful medley.

    Except it's a time loop or something, so you keep shouting "Leave her. She dies in about 2 minutes!" as you run through one conference room into a hallway and a shop floor in a mall where the escalators up to the ground floor are gone.

    No one follows you who wasn't already. Some princess or other "VIP" you need to be able to escape lags -- except it turns out later you needed nearly everyone, including the infuriatingly slow to react. The chick can't run anymore, so you half-carry, half-drag her.

    You ask the shop staff for help, and she can't. You ask the shop staff for help, and she wavers. You are directed to a different elevater around the corner.

    You get in and panic, then hit the obvious basement button, or the highest numbered button. You get in and move the ex-follower's head toward the panel, hoping it unlocks something.

    You realise what's about to happen and try to put her out of the misery to follow. She's still alive, and so are you.
    You panic. The doors open as the entrance bobs up and down, in the wake of a loud visceral rumble.

    You enter the elevator alone and try to put yourself out of misery you "know" can't be avoided. You remember running out of the doors as they open, kicking off walls in a desperate attempt to slalom into hiding. The monster gets

    You can't tell them or it dooms them. Where did the princess go? You can't escape. You were never going to be able to. The sirens start again, for the first time. Good luck.

    #horror #unpleasant

  25. CW: Disturbing nightmare, like my usual sleep

    you ever just try to mercy-kill someone else in your own nightmare?
    You know, the usual apocalyptic scenario: you're being chased by a monster, rabid animals, robot, people who hate you for something you never chose, and/or a giant fuck-off abomination, in last night's delightful medley.

    Except it's a time loop or something, so you keep shouting "Leave her. She dies in about 2 minutes!" as you run through one conference room into a hallway and a shop floor in a mall where the escalators up to the ground floor are gone.

    No one follows you who wasn't already. Some princess or other "VIP" you need to be able to escape lags -- except it turns out later you needed nearly everyone, including the infuriatingly slow to react. The chick can't run anymore, so you half-carry, half-drag her.

    You ask the shop staff for help, and she can't. You ask the shop staff for help, and she wavers. You are directed to a different elevater around the corner.

    You get in and panic, then hit the obvious basement button, or the highest numbered button. You get in and move the ex-follower's head toward the panel, hoping it unlocks something.

    You realise what's about to happen and try to put her out of the misery to follow. She's still alive, and so are you.
    You panic. The doors open as the entrance bobs up and down, in the wake of a loud visceral rumble.

    You enter the elevator alone and try to put yourself out of misery you "know" can't be avoided. You remember running out of the doors as they open, kicking off walls in a desperate attempt to slalom into hiding. The monster gets

    You can't tell them or it dooms them. Where did the princess go? You can't escape. You were never going to be able to. The sirens start again, for the first time. Good luck.

    #horror #unpleasant

  26. CW: Disturbing nightmare, like my usual sleep

    you ever just try to mercy-kill someone else in your own nightmare?
    You know, the usual apocalyptic scenario: you're being chased by a monster, rabid animals, robot, people who hate you for something you never chose, and/or a giant fuck-off abomination, in last night's delightful medley.

    Except it's a time loop or something, so you keep shouting "Leave her. She dies in about 2 minutes!" as you run through one conference room into a hallway and a shop floor in a mall where the escalators up to the ground floor are gone.

    No one follows you who wasn't already. Some princess or other "VIP" you need to be able to escape lags -- except it turns out later you needed nearly everyone, including the infuriatingly slow to react. The chick can't run anymore, so you half-carry, half-drag her.

    You ask the shop staff for help, and she can't. You ask the shop staff for help, and she wavers. You are directed to a different elevater around the corner.

    You get in and panic, then hit the obvious basement button, or the highest numbered button. You get in and move the ex-follower's head toward the panel, hoping it unlocks something.

    You realise what's about to happen and try to put her out of the misery to follow. She's still alive, and so are you.
    You panic. The doors open as the entrance bobs up and down, in the wake of a loud visceral rumble.

    You enter the elevator alone and try to put yourself out of misery you "know" can't be avoided. You remember running out of the doors as they open, kicking off walls in a desperate attempt to slalom into hiding. The monster gets

    You can't tell them or it dooms them. Where did the princess go? You can't escape. You were never going to be able to. The sirens start again, for the first time. Good luck.

    #horror #unpleasant

  27. A Bluesky Flame and the Case for Anonymity

    Reading Time: 2 minutes

    In the golden age of social media I went from tweeting with a pseudonym to tweeting with my own name. This was as true on Twitter as on Facebook. There was a sense of community that meant that we were safe to use our own names, rather than nicknames.

    That age ended in 2020 when normal people, isolated by lockdowns, became familiar with Twitter and other social networks. In 2020 I was flamed more than once on Twitter, and eventually became private, after using a pseudonym. I was also flamed more than once on Mastodon instances and dumped them too.

    Yesterday I was flamed on Bluesky and I looked to see if I could delete the troll but couldn't so I blocked one account, and a second, and a third, and then I pressed the big red button metaphorically and deactivated my account.

    Someone had posted that they were crying regularly so I suggested CBT, not as a troll but because it's a technique I use on myself. I also clarified that as I don't know the person I can't offer personal advice. I did nothing wrong.

    Although I don't like Threads because of who it is owned by when people ask for help with something, and I offer advice and help they actually thank me. They are not so complexed that they start a flame war against me.

    By now flame wars are part and parcel of social media so I don't worry about being flamed. I worry about being flamed under my actual name. My fear, yesterday, was related to the reputation damage that these trolls could do.If they misread what I wrote, and what I meant, and defame me in their comments, then there is little to nothing I can do, except deactivate the account for a few days, or even a few weeks.

    I have two main accounts on the Fediverse, one as myself, and one as a nickname. I try to post via the nickname so that if I am flamed, it only affects that account, not my identity.

    And Finally

    Social media is no longer fun. It stopped being fun years ago.

    #bluesky #community #flame #media #social #troll #unpleasant

  28. A Bluesky Flame and the Case for Anonymity

    Reading Time: 2 minutes

    In the golden age of social media I went from tweeting with a pseudonym to tweeting with my own name. This was as true on Twitter as on Facebook. There was a sense of community that meant that we were safe to use our own names, rather than nicknames.

    That age ended in 2020 when normal people, isolated by lockdowns, became familiar with Twitter and other social networks. In 2020 I was flamed more than once on Twitter, and eventually became private, after using a pseudonym. I was also flamed more than once on Mastodon instances and dumped them too.

    Yesterday I was flamed on Bluesky and I looked to see if I could delete the troll but couldn't so I blocked one account, and a second, and a third, and then I pressed the big red button metaphorically and deactivated my account.

    Someone had posted that they were crying regularly so I suggested CBT, not as a troll but because it's a technique I use on myself. I also clarified that as I don't know the person I can't offer personal advice. I did nothing wrong.

    Although I don't like Threads because of who it is owned by when people ask for help with something, and I offer advice and help they actually thank me. They are not so complexed that they start a flame war against me.

    By now flame wars are part and parcel of social media so I don't worry about being flamed. I worry about being flamed under my actual name. My fear, yesterday, was related to the reputation damage that these trolls could do.If they misread what I wrote, and what I meant, and defame me in their comments, then there is little to nothing I can do, except deactivate the account for a few days, or even a few weeks.

    I have two main accounts on the Fediverse, one as myself, and one as a nickname. I try to post via the nickname so that if I am flamed, it only affects that account, not my identity.

    And Finally

    Social media is no longer fun. It stopped being fun years ago.

    #bluesky #community #flame #media #social #troll #unpleasant

  29. #Pleasant, e.g., spending time with a loved one translates into moving towards that experience and person. #Unpleasant, e.g., fear from a passing car, translates into us moving away from the car and experience.
    In that sense, human beings are like amoeba, single-celled organisms that optimize their existence by moving towards pleasant and away from unpleasant states. The joy of being #human is that we have more #complexity layered onto this basic process. 🧠🔄

  30. "Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them." — Oliver Wendell Holmes — — — #OliverWendellHolmes #quote #quotes #quip #friends #unpleasant #enemies #enemy #telling

  31. Reading Time: 2 minutes

    A Cold Walk

    Yesterday I went out for my daily walk but within minutes I noticed that my legs felt cold and that I really did need the scarf that I wore. It’s exceptional for me to wear a scarf. My fleece and my inner coat both have neck protection built in so I usually feel fine. Yesterday was unusually cold so I was happy to add the scarf to really keep my neck warmer. I removed it for a few minutes because it felt itchy but I soon put it back on.

    PhotoPrism is Still Indexing

    In the meantime PhotoPrism has been chugging away, indexing tens of thousands of files and adding location information as well as other metadata. It has indexed 60,000 files of which 20,000 are videos. Most of the video files are junk though, stuff I saved that has no personal value. I’m marking the video files as private and I will probably delete them as they take teraybtes of space without having much value.

    Migrating to a Linux Machine

    I also experimented with migrating my blog writing from this mac to a Linux machine. I managed to gh clone the blog files from github to my local linux machine but struggled a little with uploading the test file from the linux machine to the web server. While writing this blog post I was reminded of the solution that should work.

    My mac is old and I suspect that at some point the battery will fail and I will lose access to it. I already had to swap the battery once and soon it will die again, and that’s when I will stop using it.
    I considered swapping the battery a second time but I saw that Apple is about to stop support for it. If I can use a Linux machine instead, then I save money.

    And Finally

    Walking in challenging weather is good. It requires us to equip ourselves better, to remain comfortable, whether it’s cold, rainy, windy, or a heatwave. By migrating from Google Photos to PhotoPrism I can keep photos and videos locally rather than in the cloud, and access them with ease, as well as slide from the cheapest service to the cheapest service without investing days or weeks in the effort.

    Sliding from Mac to Linux is about learning, and cutting costs, but mainly about experimentation and learing about a different OS. It’s good to be comfortable on Windows, Linux and Mac. At least now if, and when, the mac fails I will be ready to slide from one device to the other.

    https://www.main-vision.com/richard/blog/photoprism-walks-in-cold-weather-and-migrating-to-linux/

    #cold #freezing #indexing #laborious #photoprism #unpleasant #weather #wind

  32. Reading Time: 2 minutes

    A Cold Walk

    Yesterday I went out for my daily walk but within minutes I noticed that my legs felt cold and that I really did need the scarf that I wore. It’s exceptional for me to wear a scarf. My fleece and my inner coat both have neck protection built in so I usually feel fine. Yesterday was unusually cold so I was happy to add the scarf to really keep my neck warmer. I removed it for a few minutes because it felt itchy but I soon put it back on.

    PhotoPrism is Still Indexing

    In the meantime PhotoPrism has been chugging away, indexing tens of thousands of files and adding location information as well as other metadata. It has indexed 60,000 files of which 20,000 are videos. Most of the video files are junk though, stuff I saved that has no personal value. I’m marking the video files as private and I will probably delete them as they take teraybtes of space without having much value.

    Migrating to a Linux Machine

    I also experimented with migrating my blog writing from this mac to a Linux machine. I managed to gh clone the blog files from github to my local linux machine but struggled a little with uploading the test file from the linux machine to the web server. While writing this blog post I was reminded of the solution that should work.

    My mac is old and I suspect that at some point the battery will fail and I will lose access to it. I already had to swap the battery once and soon it will die again, and that’s when I will stop using it.
    I considered swapping the battery a second time but I saw that Apple is about to stop support for it. If I can use a Linux machine instead, then I save money.

    And Finally

    Walking in challenging weather is good. It requires us to equip ourselves better, to remain comfortable, whether it’s cold, rainy, windy, or a heatwave. By migrating from Google Photos to PhotoPrism I can keep photos and videos locally rather than in the cloud, and access them with ease, as well as slide from the cheapest service to the cheapest service without investing days or weeks in the effort.

    Sliding from Mac to Linux is about learning, and cutting costs, but mainly about experimentation and learing about a different OS. It’s good to be comfortable on Windows, Linux and Mac. At least now if, and when, the mac fails I will be ready to slide from one device to the other.

    https://www.main-vision.com/richard/blog/photoprism-walks-in-cold-weather-and-migrating-to-linux/

    #cold #freezing #indexing #laborious #photoprism #unpleasant #weather #wind

  33. Reading Time: 2 minutes

    A Cold Walk

    Yesterday I went out for my daily walk but within minutes I noticed that my legs felt cold and that I really did need the scarf that I wore. It’s exceptional for me to wear a scarf. My fleece and my inner coat both have neck protection built in so I usually feel fine. Yesterday was unusually cold so I was happy to add the scarf to really keep my neck warmer. I removed it for a few minutes because it felt itchy but I soon put it back on.

    PhotoPrism is Still Indexing

    In the meantime PhotoPrism has been chugging away, indexing tens of thousands of files and adding location information as well as other metadata. It has indexed 60,000 files of which 20,000 are videos. Most of the video files are junk though, stuff I saved that has no personal value. I’m marking the video files as private and I will probably delete them as they take teraybtes of space without having much value.

    Migrating to a Linux Machine

    I also experimented with migrating my blog writing from this mac to a Linux machine. I managed to gh clone the blog files from github to my local linux machine but struggled a little with uploading the test file from the linux machine to the web server. While writing this blog post I was reminded of the solution that should work.

    My mac is old and I suspect that at some point the battery will fail and I will lose access to it. I already had to swap the battery once and soon it will die again, and that’s when I will stop using it.
    I considered swapping the battery a second time but I saw that Apple is about to stop support for it. If I can use a Linux machine instead, then I save money.

    And Finally

    Walking in challenging weather is good. It requires us to equip ourselves better, to remain comfortable, whether it’s cold, rainy, windy, or a heatwave. By migrating from Google Photos to PhotoPrism I can keep photos and videos locally rather than in the cloud, and access them with ease, as well as slide from the cheapest service to the cheapest service without investing days or weeks in the effort.

    Sliding from Mac to Linux is about learning, and cutting costs, but mainly about experimentation and learing about a different OS. It’s good to be comfortable on Windows, Linux and Mac. At least now if, and when, the mac fails I will be ready to slide from one device to the other.

    https://www.main-vision.com/richard/blog/photoprism-walks-in-cold-weather-and-migrating-to-linux/

    #cold #freezing #indexing #laborious #photoprism #unpleasant #weather #wind

  34. Did some more backyard work with the self-propelled battery mower. I’m not able to cope with a plain push mower now. Even then, I overdid it. Now dealing with sciatica.
    #Unpleasant

  35. Did some more backyard work with the self-propelled battery mower. I’m not able to cope with a plain push mower now. Even then, I overdid it. Now dealing with sciatica.
    #Unpleasant

  36. Did some more backyard work with the self-propelled battery mower. I’m not able to cope with a plain push mower now. Even then, I overdid it. Now dealing with sciatica.
    #Unpleasant

  37. ICYMI: #dogladysden #mobilephoto
    The geese have returned to Coronation Park and with them, a proliferation of poop! 😧 They had disappeared over the spring and summer and it was so nice, not having to walk through a minefield.
    🦆🦤🦆🦤🦆
    They don't fly south for the winter as much anymore, either.
    🦆🦤🦆🦤🦆
    #geese #goosepoop #goosepoopeverywhere #yuck #minefield #dogwalking #unpleasant #mobilephotography #SamsungA10 #canadianproblems #raw_canada #SouthernOntario instagram.com/p/CxcTww6OW31/?u #DogladysDen

  38. #dogladysden #mobilephoto
    The geese have returned to Coronation Park and with them, a proliferation of poop! 😧 They had disappeared over the spring and summer and it was so nice, not having to walk through a minefield.
    🦆🦤🦆🦤🦆
    They don't fly south for the winter as much anymore, either.
    🦆🦤🦆🦤🦆
    #geese #goosepoop #goosepoopeverywhere #yuck #minefield #dogwalking #unpleasant #mobilephotography #SamsungA10 #canadianproblems #raw_canada #SouthernOntario instagram.com/p/CxcTww6OW31/?u #DogladysDen

  39. The term “#new #normal" has become a #cliche used to #normalize #unpleasant #situations that should not be accepted as permanent. It originated after 9/11 but is now commonly used to refer to #climate #disasters. Merely #adapting to these disasters without addressing their #root #cause in #fossil #fuel #consumption will only make the #problems worse.

  40. The term “#new #normal" has become a #cliche used to #normalize #unpleasant #situations that should not be accepted as permanent. It originated after 9/11 but is now commonly used to refer to #climate #disasters. Merely #adapting to these disasters without addressing their #root #cause in #fossil #fuel #consumption will only make the #problems worse.

  41. The term “#new #normal" has become a #cliche used to #normalize #unpleasant #situations that should not be accepted as permanent. It originated after 9/11 but is now commonly used to refer to #climate #disasters. Merely #adapting to these disasters without addressing their #root #cause in #fossil #fuel #consumption will only make the #problems worse.

  42. The term “#new #normal" has become a #cliche used to #normalize #unpleasant #situations that should not be accepted as permanent. It originated after 9/11 but is now commonly used to refer to #climate #disasters. Merely #adapting to these disasters without addressing their #root #cause in #fossil #fuel #consumption will only make the #problems worse.

  43. The term “#new #normal" has become a #cliche used to #normalize #unpleasant #situations that should not be accepted as permanent. It originated after 9/11 but is now commonly used to refer to #climate #disasters. Merely #adapting to these disasters without addressing their #root #cause in #fossil #fuel #consumption will only make the #problems worse.

  44. "My unpleasant past has given me wisdom to build a pleasant future." — Sheldon Pereira — — — #SheldonPereira #quote #quotes #past #future #wisdom #pleasant #unpleasant