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  1. With my hand tremor, I can't possibly paint my nails myself.

    So a church friend of Jalan's comes by now and then to re-do them for me! I or Jalan can to touch-ups here and there, and I can apply a fresh top clear-coat in between.

    So they're always this color. I'm loving it. It fells like me.

    I saved the photo of the thumb in particular for its length and shape (yes, it's a thumbnail image, I know) to show her next time as the "Lindan ideal" of my nails.

    The color with professional photography is at ulta.com/p/expressie-quick-dry

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransJoy

  2. With my hand tremor, I can't possibly paint my nails myself.

    So a church friend of Jalan's comes by now and then to re-do them for me! I or Jalan can to touch-ups here and there, and I can apply a fresh top clear-coat in between.

    So they're always this color. I'm loving it. It fells like me.

    I saved the photo of the thumb in particular for its length and shape (yes, it's a thumbnail image, I know) to show her next time as the "Lindan ideal" of my nails.

    The color with professional photography is at ulta.com/p/expressie-quick-dry

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransJoy

  3. With my hand tremor, I can't possibly paint my nails myself.

    So a church friend of Jalan's comes by now and then to re-do them for me! I or Jalan can to touch-ups here and there, and I can apply a fresh top clear-coat in between.

    So they're always this color. I'm loving it. It fells like me.

    I saved the photo of the thumb in particular for its length and shape (yes, it's a thumbnail image, I know) to show her next time as the "Lindan ideal" of my nails.

    The color with professional photography is at ulta.com/p/expressie-quick-dry

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransJoy

  4. With my hand tremor, I can't possibly paint my nails myself.

    So a church friend of Jalan's comes by now and then to re-do them for me! I or Jalan can to touch-ups here and there, and I can apply a fresh top clear-coat in between.

    So they're always this color. I'm loving it. It fells like me.

    I saved the photo of the thumb in particular for its length and shape (yes, it's a thumbnail image, I know) to show her next time as the "Lindan ideal" of my nails.

    The color with professional photography is at ulta.com/p/expressie-quick-dry

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransJoy

  5. CW: GenderQuest, affirming medical experience

    I went out for the first time since starting my transition in June. It was for medical labs (one of the few things that is important enough to leave the house for). The labs included an EKG.

    I was wearing my zip-front sports bra with breast forms -- the other choice being a camisole which seemed it would be more in the way.

    The tech addressed me as "Linda" without stumbling.

    When placing the chest electrodes, she said she needed "to unzip [my] brassiere." But she only did enough to relieve the tension, and did not unzio it all the way to where it come open and the cups and my breasts would fall off to the sides.

    As she was placing more, she also said the needed to "place some under [my] left breast," lifting it for easy access.

    It was far better than I'd feared, and better even hoped. These things made a difference and made for a very affirming experience.

    I thanked her for respecting my gender so well as we left.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransWoman #TransGender

  6. CW: GenderQuest, affirming medical experience

    I went out for the first time since starting my transition in June. It was for medical labs (one of the few things that is important enough to leave the house for). The labs included an EKG.

    I was wearing my zip-front sports bra with breast forms -- the other choice being a camisole which seemed it would be more in the way.

    The tech addressed me as "Linda" without stumbling.

    When placing the chest electrodes, she said she needed "to unzip [my] brassiere." But she only did enough to relieve the tension, and did not unzio it all the way to where it come open and the cups and my breasts would fall off to the sides.

    As she was placing more, she also said the needed to "place some under [my] left breast," lifting it for easy access.

    It was far better than I'd feared, and better even hoped. These things made a difference and made for a very affirming experience.

    I thanked her for respecting my gender so well as we left.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransWoman #TransGender

  7. CW: GenderQuest, affirming medical experience

    I went out for the first time since starting my transition in June. It was for medical labs (one of the few things that is important enough to leave the house for). The labs included an EKG.

    I was wearing my zip-front sports bra with breast forms -- the other choice being a camisole which seemed it would be more in the way.

    The tech addressed me as "Linda" without stumbling.

    When placing the chest electrodes, she said she needed "to unzip [my] brassiere." But she only did enough to relieve the tension, and did not unzio it all the way to where it come open and the cups and my breasts would fall off to the sides.

    As she was placing more, she also said the needed to "place some under [my] left breast," lifting it for easy access.

    It was far better than I'd feared, and better even hoped. These things made a difference and made for a very affirming experience.

    I thanked her for respecting my gender so well as we left.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransWoman #TransGender

  8. CW: GenderQuest, affirming medical experience

    I went out for the first time since starting my transition in June. It was for medical labs (one of the few things that is important enough to leave the house for). The labs included an EKG.

    I was wearing my zip-front sports bra with breast forms -- the other choice being a camisole which seemed it would be more in the way.

    The tech addressed me as "Linda" without stumbling.

    When placing the chest electrodes, she said she needed "to unzip [my] brassiere." But she only did enough to relieve the tension, and did not unzio it all the way to where it come open and the cups and my breasts would fall off to the sides.

    As she was placing more, she also said the needed to "place some under [my] left breast," lifting it for easy access.

    It was far better than I'd feared, and better even hoped. These things made a difference and made for a very affirming experience.

    I thanked her for respecting my gender so well as we left.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransWoman #TransGender

  9. CW: GenderQuest, affirming medical experience

    I went out for the first time since starting my transition in June. It was for medical labs (one of the few things that is important enough to leave the house for). The labs included an EKG.

    I was wearing my zip-front sports bra with breast forms -- the other choice being a camisole which seemed it would be more in the way.

    The tech addressed me as "Linda" without stumbling.

    When placing the chest electrodes, she said she needed "to unzip [my] brassiere." But she only did enough to relieve the tension, and did not unzio it all the way to where it come open and the cups and my breasts would fall off to the sides.

    As she was placing more, she also said the needed to "place some under [my] left breast," lifting it for easy access.

    It was far better than I'd feared, and better even hoped. These things made a difference and made for a very affirming experience.

    I thanked her for respecting my gender so well as we left.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransFemme #TransWoman #TransGender

  10. Yesterday evening I had my biggest ewwphoria moment so far since coming out.
    I waited on the train platform for my train and another train came and in there was a drunk man trying to flirt with me through the window with gestures and beckoning me to come board the train. I tried to ignore him as best as I could. But I can’t lie that it didn’t gave me a big confidence boost and the confirmation that I was definitely perceived as a woman.

    #ewwphoria #transgender #LGBTQ #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #trans #LGBT #LGBTQIA

  11. Yesterday evening I had my biggest ewwphoria moment so far since coming out.
    I waited on the train platform for my train and another train came and in there was a drunk man trying to flirt with me through the window with gestures and beckoning me to come board the train. I tried to ignore him as best as I could. But I can’t lie that it didn’t gave me a big confidence boost and the confirmation that I was definitely perceived as a woman.

    #ewwphoria #transgender #LGBTQ #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #trans #LGBT #LGBTQIA

  12. Yesterday evening I had my biggest ewwphoria moment so far since coming out.
    I waited on the train platform for my train and another train came and in there was a drunk man trying to flirt with me through the window with gestures and beckoning me to come board the train. I tried to ignore him as best as I could. But I can’t lie that it didn’t gave me a big confidence boost and the confirmation that I was definitely perceived as a woman.

    #ewwphoria #transgender #LGBTQ #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #trans #LGBT #LGBTQIA

  13. Yesterday evening I had my biggest ewwphoria moment so far since coming out.
    I waited on the train platform for my train and another train came and in there was a drunk man trying to flirt with me through the window with gestures and beckoning me to come board the train. I tried to ignore him as best as I could. But I can’t lie that it didn’t gave me a big confidence boost and the confirmation that I was definitely perceived as a woman.

    #ewwphoria #transgender #LGBTQ #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #trans #LGBT #LGBTQIA

  14. Yesterday evening I had my biggest ewwphoria moment so far since coming out.
    I waited on the train platform for my train and another train came and in there was a drunk man trying to flirt with me through the window with gestures and beckoning me to come board the train. I tried to ignore him as best as I could. But I can’t lie that it didn’t gave me a big confidence boost and the confirmation that I was definitely perceived as a woman.

    #ewwphoria #transgender #LGBTQ #transjoy #transfem #transfemme #trans #LGBT #LGBTQIA

  15. Photo! This is the dress that made me feel sexy for the first time in my life under any gender identity. The stars finally aligned to get the picture with cosmetics, boobs, etc.

    Not visible are the light brown ("cocoa") thigh-high stockings.

    Picture has eye contact.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransJoy #GenderEuphoria #Femme #TransFemme #Transition

  16. Photo! This is the dress that made me feel sexy for the first time in my life under any gender identity. The stars finally aligned to get the picture with cosmetics, boobs, etc.

    Not visible are the light brown ("cocoa") thigh-high stockings.

    Picture has eye contact.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransJoy #GenderEuphoria #Femme #TransFemme #Transition

  17. Photo! This is the dress that made me feel sexy for the first time in my life under any gender identity. The stars finally aligned to get the picture with cosmetics, boobs, etc.

    Not visible are the light brown ("cocoa") thigh-high stockings.

    Picture has eye contact.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransJoy #GenderEuphoria #Femme #TransFemme #Transition

  18. Photo! This is the dress that made me feel sexy for the first time in my life under any gender identity. The stars finally aligned to get the picture with cosmetics, boobs, etc.

    Not visible are the light brown ("cocoa") thigh-high stockings.

    Picture has eye contact.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransJoy #GenderEuphoria #Femme #TransFemme #Transition

  19. Photo! This is the dress that made me feel sexy for the first time in my life under any gender identity. The stars finally aligned to get the picture with cosmetics, boobs, etc.

    Not visible are the light brown ("cocoa") thigh-high stockings.

    Picture has eye contact.

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransJoy #GenderEuphoria #Femme #TransFemme #Transition

  20. #askFedi Looking for #transfemme experiences regarding legally starting #HRT first in Germany, then continuing it in Austria:
    - Do austrian health insurances accept the psychological and/or medical indication from Germany?
    - Should I stay with my German endocrinologist as long as possible, or is an already existing legal hormonal therapy sufficient to continue HRT in Austria?
    - Any other advice?

  21. #askFedi Looking for #transfemme experiences regarding legally starting #HRT first in Germany, then continuing it in Austria:
    - Do austrian health insurances accept the psychological and/or medical indication from Germany?
    - Should I stay with my German endocrinologist as long as possible, or is an already existing legal hormonal therapy sufficient to continue HRT in Austria?
    - Any other advice?

  22. #askFedi Looking for #transfemme experiences regarding legally starting #HRT first in Germany, then continuing it in Austria:
    - Do austrian health insurances accept the psychological and/or medical indication from Germany?
    - Should I stay with my German endocrinologist as long as possible, or is an already existing legal hormonal therapy sufficient to continue HRT in Austria?
    - Any other advice?

  23. #askFedi Looking for #transfemme experiences regarding legally starting #HRT first in Germany, then continuing it in Austria:
    - Do austrian health insurances accept the psychological and/or medical indication from Germany?
    - Should I stay with my German endocrinologist as long as possible, or is an already existing legal hormonal therapy sufficient to continue HRT in Austria?
    - Any other advice?

  24. #askFedi Looking for #transfemme experiences regarding legally starting #HRT first in Germany, then continuing it in Austria:
    - Do austrian health insurances accept the psychological and/or medical indication from Germany?
    - Should I stay with my German endocrinologist as long as possible, or is an already existing legal hormonal therapy sufficient to continue HRT in Austria?
    - Any other advice?

  25. Been working with this fine young artist helping to make her artwork pop! Sorry she's not taking commissions at the moment

    🖊<^-^7🖱

    #art #artist #sketch #trending #illustrator #illustrated #illustration #mastoart #mastoartist #trans #transgender #transfem #transfemme #transfemale #transfem

    <Edited/original>

  26. Been working with this fine young artist helping to make her artwork pop! Sorry she's not taking commissions at the moment

    🖊<^-^7🖱

    #art #artist #sketch #trending #illustrator #illustrated #illustration #mastoart #mastoartist #trans #transgender #transfem #transfemme #transfemale #transfem

    <Edited/original>

  27. Been working with this fine young artist helping to make her artwork pop! Sorry she's not taking commissions at the moment

    🖊<^-^7🖱

    #art #artist #sketch #trending #illustrator #illustrated #illustration #mastoart #mastoartist #trans #transgender #transfem #transfemme #transfemale #transfem

    <Edited/original>

  28. Been working with this fine young artist helping to make her artwork pop! Sorry she's not taking commissions at the moment

    🖊<^-^7🖱

    #art #artist #sketch #trending #illustrator #illustrated #illustration #mastoart #mastoartist #trans #transgender #transfem #transfemme #transfemale #transfem

    <Edited/original>

  29. I’m starting to see the the woman I am more regularly even with unwashed hair and without makeup. (The cat is a bonus)

    Edit: better description of myself

    #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #transjoy #transfemme #transfem #trans #transgender #blackcat #cats #catsofmastodon

  30. I’m starting to see the the woman I am more regularly even with unwashed hair and without makeup. (The cat is a bonus)

    Edit: better description of myself

    #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #transjoy #transfemme #transfem #trans #transgender #blackcat #cats #catsofmastodon

  31. I’m starting to see the the woman I am more regularly even with unwashed hair and without makeup. (The cat is a bonus)

    Edit: better description of myself

    #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #transjoy #transfemme #transfem #trans #transgender #blackcat #cats #catsofmastodon

  32. I’m starting to see the the woman I am more regularly even with unwashed hair and without makeup. (The cat is a bonus)

    Edit: better description of myself

    #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #transjoy #transfemme #transfem #trans #transgender #blackcat #cats #catsofmastodon

  33. I’m starting to see the the woman I am more regularly even with unwashed hair and without makeup. (The cat is a bonus)

    Edit: better description of myself

    #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #transjoy #transfemme #transfem #trans #transgender #blackcat #cats #catsofmastodon

  34. My most femme presentation so far. I'm cute!

    5-second video, eye contact.

    Hashtags follow.

    #GenderQuest #TransWoman #TransJoy #TransFemme

  35. My most femme presentation so far. I'm cute!

    5-second video, eye contact.

    Hashtags follow.

    #GenderQuest #TransWoman #TransJoy #TransFemme

  36. My most femme presentation so far. I'm cute!

    5-second video, eye contact.

    Hashtags follow.

    #GenderQuest #TransWoman #TransJoy #TransFemme

  37. CW: trans autistic mh, rant about cis ppl staring

    Just did my weekly groceries and drug store shopping and got a full week's count of stares. I'm not wearing anything particularly fancy, I'm just out there in my daily decent #transfemme fit. Not those brief glances but … incessant #cis-staring.

    You get spotted, tracked, their eyes attached to your every movement. It happens in the streets, shopping in the supermarket. Men, women. It's so unpolite, unsettling, annoying. TF mind your own businesses.

    At some point I began wearing my varifocals even when my vision of my surroundings was becoming blurred. Their blurriness allowed me to glide through everyday life in a relaxed manner, sucking on a cigarette to calm me down. But it’s summer, too hot for smoking, and my sunglasses aren’t prescription.

    I discussed this daily experience many times with allies, gays,
    #trans siblings. Many tell me to ignore it as much as possible. I can't seem to get used to this. Is it because of my autistic social #hypersensibility?

    I often think what PoC's experiences are, how degenerated eurocentric societies and their behaviour is; towards them, towards us queers. About the inevitability of just
    being and not asking for anyone's attention but nonetheless getting it in any aspect you think of. And I can only guess that height and posture have protected me from physical encounters, so far.

    No, this isn't another
    German Stare rant. I got that while staying in Japan, too. The stares in India were the most intense in duration and relentlessness. I wasn't even visibly queer nor trans back then.

    This is about being
    othered by just being looked at and tracked like you're a fucking freak sensation.

  38. CW: trans autistic mh, rant about cis ppl staring

    Just did my weekly groceries and drug store shopping and got a full week's count of stares. I'm not wearing anything particularly fancy, I'm just out there in my daily decent #transfemme fit. Not those brief glances but … incessant #cis-staring.

    You get spotted, tracked, their eyes attached to your every movement. It happens in the streets, shopping in the supermarket. Men, women. It's so unpolite, unsettling, annoying. TF mind your own businesses.

    At some point I began wearing my varifocals even when my vision of my surroundings was becoming blurred. Their blurriness allowed me to glide through everyday life in a relaxed manner, sucking on a cigarette to calm me down. But it’s summer, too hot for smoking, and my sunglasses aren’t prescription.

    I discussed this daily experience many times with allies, gays,
    #trans siblings. Many tell me to ignore it as much as possible. I can't seem to get used to this. Is it because of my autistic social #hypersensibility?

    I often think what PoC's experiences are, how degenerated eurocentric societies and their behaviour is; towards them, towards us queers. About the inevitability of just
    being and not asking for anyone's attention but nonetheless getting it in any aspect you think of. And I can only guess that height and posture have protected me from physical encounters, so far.

    No, this isn't another
    German Stare rant. I got that while staying in Japan, too. The stares in India were the most intense in duration and relentlessness. I wasn't even visibly queer nor trans back then.

    This is about being
    othered by just being looked at and tracked like you're a fucking freak sensation.

  39. CW: GenderQuest, dysphoria/euphoria, facial/body hair

    TL;DR: I've had to let my facial hair grow in (bad), but we've started addressing body hair (great)..

    Almost two weeks ago, I was in a fit about a low-cut top and my thick chest hair and people coming over (helpers from our church -- they come once a week, bless'em).

    Ultimately, I ruined the head on my rotary shaver.

    That wasn't the big problem--I asked one of the helpers to bring me a t-shirt.

    But now I have a (short) beard again. I've been avoiding looking at it, but also avoiding doing anything to feel femme and pretty because of dissonance.

    I'm not hugely distraught about it, but my femininity projects (not my transition) have been on hold.

    The new shaver head arrived yesterday. We haven't had a chance to use it yet, because Jalan needs to take the trimmer to my face first.

    But

    Yesterday when getting ready for my shower, she took the trimmer to my chest hair, then when showering me, used a razor to give a close shave my chest and my pits.

    My chest hair has been shaved off once or twice for medical procedures, but my underarms have been full of hair for 40-some years.

    It feels amazing. I'm downright giddy!

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransWoman #TransFemme #GenderDysphoria #GenderEuphoria #TransJoy

  40. CW: GenderQuest, dysphoria/euphoria, facial/body hair

    TL;DR: I've had to let my facial hair grow in (bad), but we've started addressing body hair (great)..

    Almost two weeks ago, I was in a fit about a low-cut top and my thick chest hair and people coming over (helpers from our church -- they come once a week, bless'em).

    Ultimately, I ruined the head on my rotary shaver.

    That wasn't the big problem--I asked one of the helpers to bring me a t-shirt.

    But now I have a (short) beard again. I've been avoiding looking at it, but also avoiding doing anything to feel femme and pretty because of dissonance.

    I'm not hugely distraught about it, but my femininity projects (not my transition) have been on hold.

    The new shaver head arrived yesterday. We haven't had a chance to use it yet, because Jalan needs to take the trimmer to my face first.

    But

    Yesterday when getting ready for my shower, she took the trimmer to my chest hair, then when showering me, used a razor to give a close shave my chest and my pits.

    My chest hair has been shaved off once or twice for medical procedures, but my underarms have been full of hair for 40-some years.

    It feels amazing. I'm downright giddy!

    Hashtags follow:

    #GenderQuest #TransWoman #TransFemme #GenderDysphoria #GenderEuphoria #TransJoy

  41. Schedule for the week of 7/6/2026
    Stuff happened to Sunday and had to love things around! Schedule in your time zone can be found on my discord. Times here are in Pacific time.
    #streamschedule #smallstreamer #transstreamer #eldenwood #furry #lgbt #lgbtsafespace #vsky #transrights #LGBTQIA #youtube #twitch #tigergirl #transfemme #twitchen #transgirl #transrights #transartmatters