#swinging — Public Fediverse posts

People are removing 1 plant from gardens in April as it ‘implies they’re swingers’ https://www.allforgardening.com/1701577/people-are-removing-1-plant-from-gardens-in-april-as-it-implies-theyre-swingers/ #garden #gardening #swinging

wouldn't have thought that my bedside lamp would sound like that.

#swinging #soundwave #recordfurniture #foley #sounddesign #raw #audioproducing #soundeffect #gong #homerecording

https://www.fogolf.com/1034589/takapuna-golf-course-v-auckland-council-misinformation-is-causing-a-lot-of-stress/ Takapuna Golf Course v Auckland Council: ‘Misinformation is causing a lot of stress’ #Against #Angry #Auckland #CAUSING #clubs #come #Council #councillors #course #each #Failed #floodwater #Golf #GolfNews #half #have #heavy #HOLD #into #is #lastminute #lot #Mayor #Misinformation #of #Other #Process #rain #siding #Stop #Stress #swinging #takapuna #that #Them #TURNING #Wetland #with #Words

#TheNational #swinging for the #fences.

Yvonne Rorrer Declares Herself Ethically Non-Monogamous

Good for her, and for those of us who are also into ethical non-monogamy.

I have never heard of Yvonne Rorrer until Stephen Colbert talked about her on The Late Show last night. I know she is a Democrat, but I don’t know more about her political positions. At any rate, it is a good thing that she declared herself ethically non-monogamous in a statement. I’m not saying that she came out because I got from a Huffington Post article that she was already out.

Colbert talked about her as a swinger. Mainstream media often does such a piss-poor job at reporting about things they do not understand that I was wondering whether swinger was her expression, or whether the journalists jumped the gun, and assumed. The Huffington Post article I link to above confirms it is her expression.

Ethical non-monogamy is a large umbrella term. Swinging falls under this umbrella, and so does polyamory. (I am polyamorous.) In all cases, of ethical non-monogamy, the assumption is that everyone involved knows what is going on. Ethically non-monogamous people do not hide one relationship from another.

One thing irritated me in Colbert’s talk about Rorrer. It came across to me as mononormative. Colbert said,

She might be one of those people who thinks everybody wants to hear about their thing.

😩 Why did he need to go there? Why?

Colbert, like the majority of our population, monogamous, and straight. People will assume, correctly, those two characteristics about him. When people run into someone like me, or like Rorrer, they make the same assumptions, and they are wrong. We are both ethically non-monogamous. I am because I’m polyamorous. Rorrer is because she is a swinger. I’m moreover not straight, because I’m pansexual. I don’t know about Rorrer’s sexual orientation.

We do not talk about our ethical non-monogamy because we think that everybody wants to hear about it. We talk about it to normalize it, and because some people will benefit from it. In a world where monogamous people are in the majority, we who are ethically non-monogamous are assumed to be monogamous too. That is, until we tell people otherwise.

I’m open, too, about all kinds of things. I cannot count the number of times when, after being open about being pansexual, polyamorous, or autistic, I had a nice chat with someone else who was in a similar situation. This discussion would not have happened if I had not been open about my identity.

Please do not assume that when someone is in a minority group that, when they are being open about their identity, their intent is to shove their business into your face.

#AutisticWriters #EthicalNonMonogamy #polyamory #SexualMinorities #StephenColbert #swinging #TheLateShow #YourAutisticLife #YvonneRorrer

#swinging #berlin #blackandwhite #urbanphotography #photography

@Nama Phantastic! :mastolove:
#turnverein #swinging

#Schaukeln was our excercise in August 2023 but no plush did it this unique way.

Honestly, as far as kinksters go.. Swingers have to be some of the most whingey little babies I've ever met.

I'm constantly getting messages from swingers complaining that there are no events for them to attend, and when I point out that there are monthly munches they are welcome to attend they complain that it's a kink munch.

Dude, it's Bathurst - the selection pool is small.

Firstly, swinging is a kink. Secondly, if you're not interested in going to the event and you're not bothered to start your own, don't message a complete stranger and about something not being tailor made for you and your dick.

This is exactly why I stopped organising.

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife #dating #swinging

You demanded more Chloe content — so here she is, in all her fluffy glory…

And here it is: her latest Hebrew lesson 🐾🇮🇱

If you also treat your dog like a full-blown toddler with fur, give me a 🐾 so I know we’re in the same (very well-groomed) pack 😉

#doglover #doglife #swinging #hebrew #languagefun

If you support @girlonthenet on Patreon, go and have a listen to her latest interview: me! We chat about shame, sex clubs, and why one night stands are actually really great 🙌

And if you don't support her, then get over there and throw a little bit of money towards a lot of excellent audio porn ❤️

https://mastodon.social/@girlonthenet/112642993347819530

#AudioPorn #Porn #Erotica #Swinging #Smut

10 years ago I was writing my sex blog, Secret Diary of a Seaside Slut (I lived in Brighton, UK at the time), and recently I've been re-reading some of the posts and marvelling at how I'm still experiencing all the same shit. Here's an excerpt. Rock on, 35 Year Old Me.

#slut #swinging #slutshaming #feminism #misogyny

Poly-Curious? How To Talk To Your Partner About Open Relationships, According To Experts

Monogamy isn't for everybody, and the rise of polyamory and other forms of ethical non-monogamy as subcultures has given modern lovers better tools to express their sexual and romantic love. Getting there can be a challenge though.

https://digg.com/relationships/link/how-discuss-open-relationship-partner-spouse-polyamory?utm_source=mastodon #digg #enm #polyamory #swinging #relationships #love

I went to my very first sex club experience last night, and I jumped in with both feet. I made two men cum through a gloryhole, and I got gangbanged by around 9 men in a darkroom. It was fucking amazing. There's a quick clip attached here but if you want the full length, you can hear it for FREE at https://soundgasm.net/u/jillyhorrorshow/My-first-sex-club-experience-gloryhole-and-gangbang

#sex #sexy #erotic #nsfw #audio #voice #swinging #gangbang #gloryhole

‘He likes things short!’

London, UK hairdressers (1967)
Source: ‘Siti Libero Digiland’

#swinging #1960s #London #haircut #pinup #pose #magazine #mini #short #SitiLiberoDigiland

#RollerDisco and #Swinging is about all you need to know.🤣

Musical Interlude One thing that took me a bit by surprise was how much Halloween-themed big band music there is. I guess they played a lot of Halloween masquerade dances, eh?

Anyway, here's a fun track from one of the all-time great bands...

"Swingin' at the Seance," performed by Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, unidentified vocalist.

#MusicalInterlude #BigBand #GlennMiller #Swinging #HalloweenMusic

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGdHjHEaeVU

Spouse swap, 1940s style
#vintageAd #swinging #beer

Clarify your vision, choose your players, share desires and boundaries, then go forth and gangbang!
https://www.vice.com/en/article/pkabe8/how-to-plan-a-gangbang
#BestYou'veEverHad #howto #safesex #gangbangs #groupsex #Swinging