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JAYLEEBENJAMIN artist, songwriter, activist and singer @[email protected] · 2026-08-30 · 17:25 UTC

What “non‑binary” would mean in the 1980s

What “non‑binary” would mean in the 1980s (literal, scientific English)Core meaning: Not involving two categories; not based on a binary system.In 1980s science education, “binary” was a familiar term in:math (binary numbers)logic (binary states, true/false)biology (binary fission, binary classification)So non‑binary would simply mean:Something that does not have only two options or two states.How your 1980s science-trained brain would interpret itYou would think of:a […]

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#compassion #dance #disability #diversity #divine #edm

JAYLEEBENJAMIN artist, songwriter, activist and singer @[email protected] · 2026-08-29 · 17:34 UTC

Welcome to the full catalogue of bandcamp JAYLEEBENJAMIN “

Every release. Every version. Every chapter of the work.This is the complete archive: full‑quality audio, full artwork, and the project exactly as it was made. picture for landing page. “Welcome to the full catalogue of bandcamp JAYLEEBENJAMIN " full‑quality audio, full artwork, full identity.No compression. No Bandcamp isn’t just where you buy my music.It’s where you get everything you can’t get anywhere else.The demos.The early versions.The unreleased mixes.The […]

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#compassion #dance #disability #diversity #divine #edm

JAYLEEBENJAMIN artist, songwriter, activist and singer @[email protected] · 2026-08-29 · 17:22 UTC

What “gender‑fluid” would mean in the 1980s (literal English)

Core meaning: Gender that flows or changes.But in the 1980s, “gender” meant:grammatical category (masculine/feminine/neuter in languages)social role associated with biological sexSo “gender-fluid” would be interpreted as:Someone whose gender expression or behaviour shifts between masculine and feminine.How your 1980s brain would interpret itYou would think of:androgynous fashionBoy George, Annie Lennox, David Bowie“gender-benders” (a real 1980s term) [^1]people who mix masculine […]

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#compassion #dance #disability #diversity #divine #edm

Michaelsfishbowl @[email protected] · 2026-06-05 · 14:17 UTC

Have soul, will share. (Or a deep dive into the philosophy of nothing)

Daily writing prompt Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? View all responses

I don’t know if I believe in soulmates or not. I’d like to believe soulmates are real, but I’ve never met one. Although, in fairness, I’ve never really put myself out there to meet a soulmate. I’d like to think that’s the reason because the only other reason would be that maybe I don’t have a soul. Yikes!

A lot of marriages end in divorce. Most, I believe, within the first 10 years, with still a significant number after 25 years of marriage. So if soulmates are really a thing, why do a lot of marriages end in divorce? And why after such a long time? Boredom? I don’t think a soulmate would ever be someone a person would get bored with. Trust? Wouldn’t trust be a given in a soulmate? Infidelity? Why would a soulmate cheat? A soulmate is destiny, and I don’t believe the pain of divorce, the curse of boredom, the violation of distrust, the trauma of infidelity is our destiny as humans. Maybe, if soulmates do exist, people are just plain bad at recognizing them. But even with that, wouldn’t a soulmate be someone you’d recognize on a level that transcends visual recognition?

A bunch of questions and I have no idea about any of them.

I guess the existence of soulmates isn’t important to me because a soulmate doesn’t interest me as much as true friendship does.

“Now we went walking in the rain talking about the pain from the world we hid. Now there ain’t nobody, nowhere nohow gonna ever understand me the way you did” – Bruce Springsteen, Bobby Jean

I think if soulmates exist they exist within a friendship, a platonic connection, and not as a romantic concept.

The only way to deal with unanswerable questions is through loud music and whatever it is you call dance.

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