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  1. Have you ever realized you were defending a life you didn’t even want anymore?

    Sometimes we protect what we’ve already outgrown.

    #TheReset #PsychozoicEra #SelfAwareness #LifeChange

  2. Have you ever realized you were defending a life you didn’t even want anymore?

    Sometimes we protect what we’ve already outgrown.

    #TheReset #PsychozoicEra #SelfAwareness #LifeChange

  3. Have you ever realized you were defending a life you didn’t even want anymore?

    Sometimes we protect what we’ve already outgrown.

    #TheReset #PsychozoicEra #SelfAwareness #LifeChange

  4. When a Hard Season Arrives

    The practice doesn't protect you from hard seasons. It doesn't insulate you from loss or difficulty. What it gives you is a more accurate address for the pain. Being in difficulty with more clarity is different from being in difficulty in confusion. It doesn't make it less. But it changes what you can do with it.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  5. When a Hard Season Arrives

    The practice doesn't protect you from hard seasons. It doesn't insulate you from loss or difficulty. What it gives you is a more accurate address for the pain. Being in difficulty with more clarity is different from being in difficulty in confusion. It doesn't make it less. But it changes what you can do with it.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  6. When a Hard Season Arrives

    The practice doesn't protect you from hard seasons. It doesn't insulate you from loss or difficulty. What it gives you is a more accurate address for the pain. Being in difficulty with more clarity is different from being in difficulty in confusion. It doesn't make it less. But it changes what you can do with it.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  7. When a Hard Season Arrives

    The practice doesn't protect you from hard seasons. It doesn't insulate you from loss or difficulty. What it gives you is a more accurate address for the pain. Being in difficulty with more clarity is different from being in difficulty in confusion. It doesn't make it less. But it changes what you can do with it.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  8. When a Hard Season Arrives

    The practice doesn't protect you from hard seasons. It doesn't insulate you from loss or difficulty. What it gives you is a more accurate address for the pain. Being in difficulty with more clarity is different from being in difficulty in confusion. It doesn't make it less. But it changes what you can do with it.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  9. Nothing to Hide 2
    To believe you have nothing to hide is to admit that you do not know what you are hiding.

    #privacy #surveillancecapitalism #selfawareness #philosophy

  10. Nothing to Hide 2
    To believe you have nothing to hide is to admit that you do not know what you are hiding.

    #privacy #surveillancecapitalism #selfawareness #philosophy

  11. Nothing to Hide 2
    To believe you have nothing to hide is to admit that you do not know what you are hiding.

    #privacy #surveillancecapitalism #selfawareness #philosophy

  12. Nothing to Hide 2
    To believe you have nothing to hide is to admit that you do not know what you are hiding.

    #privacy #surveillancecapitalism #selfawareness #philosophy

  13. Nothing to Hide
    To believe one has nothing to hide or keep private is to reveal one's own ignorance.

    #surveillancecapitalism #privacy #selfawareness #philosophy

  14. The Practice Doesn’t End

    There is no graduation from this practice. Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the practice is not the path to something else. It is the thing itself. The ongoing, never-quite-complete project of knowing yourself honestly and responding to what you find. The work and the living are not sequential. They are the same thing.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  15. The Practice Doesn’t End

    There is no graduation from this practice. Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the practice is not the path to something else. It is the thing itself. The ongoing, never-quite-complete project of knowing yourself honestly and responding to what you find. The work and the living are not sequential. They are the same thing.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  16. The Practice Doesn’t End

    There is no graduation from this practice. Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the practice is not the path to something else. It is the thing itself. The ongoing, never-quite-complete project of knowing yourself honestly and responding to what you find. The work and the living are not sequential. They are the same thing.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  17. The Practice Doesn’t End

    There is no graduation from this practice. Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the practice is not the path to something else. It is the thing itself. The ongoing, never-quite-complete project of knowing yourself honestly and responding to what you find. The work and the living are not sequential. They are the same thing.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  18. The Practice Doesn’t End

    There is no graduation from this practice. Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the practice is not the path to something else. It is the thing itself. The ongoing, never-quite-complete project of knowing yourself honestly and responding to what you find. The work and the living are not sequential. They are the same thing.

    journalingwrite.wordpress.com/

  19. I am Me, It Would Be Nice if You Could be You

    I am a bit different than average. Okay, maybe that is to mild of a way of looking at it. In reality my focus is never on the metrics I observe others using. For instance, I do not care what your political views are or your pronouns, biases or what your other identifiers may be. What I focus on is how you behave despite how you would like the world to perceive you. I tend to always believe a person is of the best intentions until they give evidence otherwise. In short I am evidence driven rather than being dragged around by my emotions. Does that mean I do not have emotions? Of course not, it means that how I feel about what you said is far less likely to have an effect on my view of you than my evaluation of your intent.

    It is all to easy for us to say 'I do not like labels.' and this may be true. It does not change the fact that labels is how the human brain tracks. We label everything. That is how we developed language in the first place. When I think about my own identity I am not focused on accidents of birth like my hair color, eye color, race, gender, nationality. I am more concerned about the attributes I play a role in. Such as humanity, apprecitation, awareness of my surroundings, awareness of now.

    It is easy to define yourself by common labels such as Christian, Atheist, Muslim, CIS, Trans, etc. How important are these to your identity and why? When a person thinks of me I would far rather their first thought be 'He really cares' than 'He is a great Software Developer'. I really do not even care what pronouns they use as long as they are comfortable with them. To me if you confuse my identity I do not find that as a flaw in you. I find it a a flaw in me. How am I not representing my ideals? How can I more clearly reflect my ideals. If I have failed in this, it certainly is not your fault. Identity is a real issue these days. Though, the next time someone tries to set boundries ask yourself this. Are they building a privacy fence around their yard or are they building a fence around my yard? Respect the fence around their yard, do not accept their trying to control the way you think or express yourself. If a person offends you at the moment then do not dwell on that. Just move past that moment to now. If they tend to always be offensive toward you then move on in a way that seems most productive. These are ideals I live by not just talk about. Were most people tend to be very critical of others. I am most critical of myself. The reason is quite simple. I control my behavior not other people's. So I am only responsible for my behavior not theirs. It is about accountability. I am me, it would be very nice if you could be you. No one else has a right to impose on who you are. The good news is that they only can if you allow them to.

    Unus Nemo


    Tips & Donations


    #Identity #Self Awareness #Philosophy

  20. I am Me, It Would Be Nice if You Could be You

    I am a bit different than average. Okay, maybe that is to mild of a way of looking at it. In reality my focus is never on the metrics I observe others using. For instance, I do not care what your political views are or your pronouns, biases or what your other identifiers may be. What I focus on is how you behave despite how you would like the world to perceive you. I tend to always believe a person is of the best intentions until they give evidence otherwise. In short I am evidence driven rather than being dragged around by my emotions. Does that mean I do not have emotions? Of course not, it means that how I feel about what you said is far less likely to have an effect on my view of you than my evaluation of your intent.

    It is all to easy for us to say 'I do not like labels.' and this may be true. It does not change the fact that labels is how the human brain tracks. We label everything. That is how we developed language in the first place. When I think about my own identity I am not focused on accidents of birth like my hair color, eye color, race, gender, nationality. I am more concerned about the attributes I play a role in. Such as humanity, apprecitation, awareness of my surroundings, awareness of now.

    It is easy to define yourself by common labels such as Christian, Atheist, Muslim, CIS, Trans, etc. How important are these to your identity and why? When a person thinks of me I would far rather their first thought be 'He really cares' than 'He is a great Software Developer'. I really do not even care what pronouns they use as long as they are comfortable with them. To me if you confuse my identity I do not find that as a flaw in you. I find it a a flaw in me. How am I not representing my ideals? How can I more clearly reflect my ideals. If I have failed in this, it certainly is not your fault. Identity is a real issue these days. Though, the next time someone tries to set boundries ask yourself this. Are they building a privacy fence around their yard or are they building a fence around my yard? Respect the fence around their yard, do not accept their trying to control the way you think or express yourself. If a person offends you at the moment then do not dwell on that. Just move past that moment to now. If they tend to always be offensive toward you then move on in a way that seems most productive. These are ideals I live by not just talk about. Were most people tend to be very critical of others. I am most critical of myself. The reason is quite simple. I control my behavior not other people's. So I am only responsible for my behavior not theirs. It is about accountability. I am me, it would be very nice if you could be you. No one else has a right to impose on who you are. The good news is that they only can if you allow them to.

    Unus Nemo


    Tips & Donations


    #Identity #Self Awareness #Philosophy

  21. I am Me, It Would Be Nice if You Could be You

    I am a bit different than average. Okay, maybe that is to mild of a way of looking at it.
    In reality my focus is never on the metrics I observe others using. For instance, I do not care what your political views are or your pronouns, biases or what your other identifiers may be. What I focus on is how you behave despite how you would like the world to perceive you. I tend to always believe a person is of the best intentions until they give evidence otherwise. In short I am evidence driven rather than being dragged around by my emotions. Does that mean I do not have emotions? Of course not, it means that how I feel about what you said is far less likely to have an effect on my view of you than my evaluation of your intent.

    It is all to easy for use to say 'I do not like labels.' and this may be true. It does not change the fact that labels is how the human brain tracks. We label everything. That is how we developed language in the first place. When I think about my own identity I am not focused on accidents of birth like my hair color, eye color, race, gender, nationality. I am more concerned about the attributes I play a role in. Such as humanity, apprecitation, awareness of my surroundings, awareness of now.

    It is easy to define yourself by common labels such as Christian, Atheist, Muslim, CIS, Trans, etc. How important are these to your identity and why? When a person thinks of me I would far rather their first thought be 'He really cares' than 'He is a great Software Developer'. I really do not even care what pronouns they use as long as they are comfortable with them. To me if you confuse my identity I do not find that as a flaw in you. I find it a a flaw in me. How am I not representing my ideals? How can I more clearly reflect my ideals. If I have failed in this, it certainly is not your fault. Identity is a real issue these days. Though, the next time someone tries to set boundries ask yourself this. Are they building a privacy fence around their yard or are they building a fence around my yard? Respect the fence around their yard, do not accept their trying to control the way you think or express yourself. If a person offends you at the moment then do not dwell on that. Just move past that moment to now. If they tend to always be offensive toward you then move on in a way that seems most productive. These are ideals I live by not just talk about. Where most people tend to be very critical of others. I am most critical of myself. The reason is quite simple. I control my behavior not other people's. So I am only responsible for my behavior not theirs. It is about accountablity. I am me, it would be very nice if you could be you. No one else has a right to impose on who you are. The good news is that they only can if you allow them to.

    Unus Nemo


    Tips & Donations


    #Identity #Self Awareness #Philosophy

  22. I am Me, It Would Be Nice if You Could be You

    I am a bit different than average. Okay, maybe that is to mild of a way of looking at it. In reality my focus is never on the metrics I observe others using. For instance, I do not care what your political views are or your pronouns, biases or what your other identifiers may be. What I focus on is how you behave despite how you would like the world to perceive you. I tend to always believe a person is of the best intentions until they give evidence otherwise. In short I am evidence driven rather than being dragged around by my emotions. Does that mean I do not have emotions? Of course not, it means that how I feel about what you said is far less likely to have an effect on my view of you than my evaluation of your intent.

    It is all to easy for us to say 'I do not like labels.' and this may be true. It does not change the fact that labels is how the human brain tracks. We label everything. That is how we developed language in the first place. When I think about my own identity I am not focused on accidents of birth like my hair color, eye color, race, gender, nationality. I am more concerned about the attributes I play a role in. Such as humanity, apprecitation, awareness of my surroundings, awareness of now.

    It is easy to define yourself by common labels such as Christian, Atheist, Muslim, CIS, Trans, etc. How important are these to your identity and why? When a person thinks of me I would far rather their first thought be 'He really cares' than 'He is a great Software Developer'. I really do not even care what pronouns they use as long as they are comfortable with them. To me if you confuse my identity I do not find that as a flaw in you. I find it a a flaw in me. How am I not representing my ideals? How can I more clearly reflect my ideals. If I have failed in this, it certainly is not your fault. Identity is a real issue these days. Though, the next time someone tries to set boundries ask yourself this. Are they building a privacy fence around their yard or are they building a fence around my yard? Respect the fence around their yard, do not accept their trying to control the way you think or express yourself. If a person offends you at the moment then do not dwell on that. Just move past that moment to now. If they tend to always be offensive toward you then move on in a way that seems most productive. These are ideals I live by not just talk about. Were most people tend to be very critical of others. I am most critical of myself. The reason is quite simple. I control my behavior not other people's. So I am only responsible for my behavior not theirs. It is about accountability. I am me, it would be very nice if you could be you. No one else has a right to impose on who you are. The good news is that they only can if you allow them to.

    Unus Nemo


    Tips & Donations


    #Identity #Self Awareness #Philosophy

  23. I am Me, It Would Be Nice if You Could be You

    I am a bit different than average. Okay, maybe that is to mild of a way of looking at it. In reality my focus is never on the metrics I observe others using. For instance, I do not care what your political views are or your pronouns, biases or what your other identifiers may be. What I focus on is how you behave despite how you would like the world to perceive you. I tend to always believe a person is of the best intentions until they give evidence otherwise. In short I am evidence driven rather than being dragged around by my emotions. Does that mean I do not have emotions? Of course not, it means that how I feel about what you said is far less likely to have an effect on my view of you than my evaluation of your intent.

    It is all to easy for us to say 'I do not like labels.' and this may be true. It does not change the fact that labels is how the human brain tracks. We label everything. That is how we developed language in the first place. When I think about my own identity I am not focused on accidents of birth like my hair color, eye color, race, gender, nationality. I am more concerned about the attributes I play a role in. Such as humanity, apprecitation, awareness of my surroundings, awareness of now.

    It is easy to define yourself by common labels such as Christian, Atheist, Muslim, CIS, Trans, etc. How important are these to your identity and why? When a person thinks of me I would far rather their first thought be 'He really cares' than 'He is a great Software Developer'. I really do not even care what pronouns they use as long as they are comfortable with them. To me if you confuse my identity I do not find that as a flaw in you. I find it a a flaw in me. How am I not representing my ideals? How can I more clearly reflect my ideals. If I have failed in this, it certainly is not your fault. Identity is a real issue these days. Though, the next time someone tries to set boundries ask yourself this. Are they building a privacy fence around their yard or are they building a fence around my yard? Respect the fence around their yard, do not accept their trying to control the way you think or express yourself. If a person offends you at the moment then do not dwell on that. Just move past that moment to now. If they tend to always be offensive toward you then move on in a way that seems most productive. These are ideals I live by not just talk about. Were most people tend to be very critical of others. I am most critical of myself. The reason is quite simple. I control my behavior not other people's. So I am only responsible for my behavior not theirs. It is about accountability. I am me, it would be very nice if you could be you. No one else has a right to impose on who you are. The good news is that they only can if you allow them to.

    Unus Nemo


    Tips & Donations


    #Identity #Self Awareness #Philosophy

  24. A quotation from Sue Grafton

    We all need to look into the dark side of our nature — that’s where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we’re busy denying.

    Sue Grafton (1940–2017) American novelist, screenwriter
    Interview (1997-02-07) by Jeffrey Zaslow, “Straight Talk,” USA Weekend magazine

    More about this quote: wist.info/grafton-sue/85859/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #suegrafton #character #darkside #darkness #denial #humannature #passion #selfawareness #selfdeception #selfdenial #selfdiscovery #selfexamination #selfimage #selfknowledge #selfunderstanding

  25. A quotation from Sue Grafton

    We all need to look into the dark side of our nature — that’s where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we’re busy denying.

    Sue Grafton (1940–2017) American novelist, screenwriter
    Interview (1997-02-07) by Jeffrey Zaslow, “Straight Talk,” USA Weekend magazine

    More about this quote: wist.info/grafton-sue/85859/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #suegrafton #character #darkside #darkness #denial #humannature #passion #selfawareness #selfdeception #selfdenial #selfdiscovery #selfexamination #selfimage #selfknowledge #selfunderstanding

  26. A quotation from Sue Grafton

    We all need to look into the dark side of our nature — that’s where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we’re busy denying.

    Sue Grafton (1940–2017) American novelist, screenwriter
    Interview (1997-02-07) by Jeffrey Zaslow, “Straight Talk,” USA Weekend magazine

    More about this quote: wist.info/grafton-sue/85859/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #suegrafton #character #darkside #darkness #denial #humannature #passion #selfawareness #selfdeception #selfdenial #selfdiscovery #selfexamination #selfimage #selfknowledge #selfunderstanding

  27. A quotation from Sue Grafton

    We all need to look into the dark side of our nature — that’s where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we’re busy denying.

    Sue Grafton (1940–2017) American novelist, screenwriter
    Interview (1997-02-07) by Jeffrey Zaslow, “Straight Talk,” USA Weekend magazine

    More about this quote: wist.info/grafton-sue/85859/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #suegrafton #character #darkside #darkness #denial #humannature #passion #selfawareness #selfdeception #selfdenial #selfdiscovery #selfexamination #selfimage #selfknowledge #selfunderstanding

  28. Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/QS6wpTOl4CQR6tvWD

  29. Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/QS6wpTOl4CQR6tvWD

  30. Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/QS6wpTOl4CQR6tvWD

  31. Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/QS6wpTOl4CQR6tvWD

  32. What if you’re not trapped by what happened to you…

    but by the hidden benefits of staying the victim?

    Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/LzFsSrzbmrl10hGkE

  33. What if you’re not trapped by what happened to you…

    but by the hidden benefits of staying the victim?

    Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/LzFsSrzbmrl10hGkE

  34. What if you’re not trapped by what happened to you…

    but by the hidden benefits of staying the victim?

    Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/LzFsSrzbmrl10hGkE

  35. What if you’re not trapped by what happened to you…

    but by the hidden benefits of staying the victim?

    Sometimes, the hardest cage to escape is the one that gives us a reason not to change.

    What are you gaining by staying stuck?

    #Psychology #SelfAwareness #VictimMindset #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #Podcast

    مين المستفيد من إنك تفضل ضحية؟ - بداية أخرى 🌷 - Apple Podcasts share.google/LzFsSrzbmrl10hGkE