#scwotz — Public Fediverse posts

I suppose I'm back now that FediLab is behaving again.

Been shoulder-deep in NiteFlirt and my job satisfaction is through the roof.

We've also been in the process of moving LP2 into my home and my former NP out.

I got LP2's cats (I call them the Bang Bros) fixed on Friday, so I'm lounging around his old place supervising them so they stay in their cones.

#SCWOTZ #PolyFats

As a tireless scholar of filth, I was honored when SheVibe kindly asked me to give advice on dirty talk!

My advice, of course, was: COMMUNICATE.

Here's 10 questions to ask that could improve your dirty talk:

https://shevibe.com/blog/10-questions-to-improve-your-dirty-talk/

#SCWOTZ #SCWBlog #sex #AdultsOnly #NSFW #SexEd #Kink #SexEducation #SexEducator #DirtyTalk

Sometimes I think defining #BPD highs and lows with #FavoritePeople as "idealization" and "devaluation"

misrepresents the nuance of intensity, situation, and our feels/responses.

This might be a little jumbled, I'm parsing these thoughts for the first time.

As BPD people aren't a monolith and there are a few "subtypes" of presentation,

there's an inherent explosiveness assumed by most people & docs W/O BPD

and if you have #QuietBPD like me, you may lack.

#SCWOTZ #SCWNT 🧵

Something I think the #SexWork community should discuss more is how sometimes in sex work, you're actually one of a select few, if any, people that someone might come out to (1st, iF ever)

Specifically, I think we should use that knowledge to support #trans people better

Not every customer that wants to be #feminized is Trans or vice-versa, but if you'll put heels on a client & say nice things to them, you damn well better be just as accepting of trans people you meet for free.

#SCWOTZ #SCWQT

#PolyFats:

After a week of busting my ass, I'm ready to sleep over W LP1 tomorrow night, and have LP2 for his normal visit on Saturday.

I mentioned being excited about LP2 bringing me cookies - he informed me he's also bringing me new pillows "because the old ones are cursed and Princess deserves better than that."

...dude.🫠

I find it charming and beneficial he's making my bedroom more comfortable for himself too. 🥰

Still debating finally dropping the L-word to him this weekend. #SCWOTZ

So I watched #LuckiestGirlAlive yesterday -

It's the most relatable and realistic depiction of my experience with my quiet #BPD and my brand of #plurality I've ever seen, though it pathologizes nothing.

Apparently it's a book, which I plan on reading.

The movie telegraphed more than enough info I could tell the protag was plural pretty early.

I've never seen this side of me represented in media before.

TW for it: some lengthy/graphic intox rape + school shooting scenes.

#SCWOTZ #SCWNT

Somebody clap for everything I did yesterday.

Like typing a 1k-word SW content script and wiping out another 1.5k words in my gender anthology essay.

Only 500 more and an editing pass to go on the latter!

Plus I cleaned my desk and set up my desktop and cleaned my room a bit more, & set up 2 months of medical transport rides.

This is a lot, for me.

But also, I haven't felt tired yet, so perhaps let's cross our fingers that this isn't the onset of a bout of #hypomania.

#amWriting #SCWOTZ

Any other #witches starting your day with Inkubus Sukkubus? 🧙🏻‍♀️

🎵 #NowPlaying: Inkubus Sukkubus - #Pagan Born

https://youtu.be/5DtMZBF1mMw

The guitar solo always gets an air guitar from me. Can't help it.

#occultism #neopagan
#SCWOTZ #SCWMusic

Here's one of those #90s songs I can never scroll past on a playlist without hitting play~💜

White Town - Your Woman

https://youtu.be/HIX2RAHPTsI

#90sMusic #MusicRecommendation #SCWOTZ #SCWMusic

What's the weirdest-looking #SexToy you own?

While there are a few candidates in my collection, I think the SnailVibe is the most confusing toy for a newbie to pick up and try to comprehend.

It's a dual-stimulator! It's impressive; the first that ever reached my clit.

#SexToyReview here: https://sugarcuntwrites.com/snail-vibe-vibrator-review/

#SexToyPhotos #SexBlog #SCWOTZ #SCWBlog

Last year I wrote some #journalingprompts to help other #plural people #coping with #grief and loss.

https://link.medium.com/ieZv8iuz2vb

If you're kept out by a paywall because you don't/can't subscribe to Medium, I encourage you to access the contents freely using 12ft.io !

#pluralGang #SCWOTZ #SCWNT #SCWBlog

How do other #ActuallyAutistic people

(especially those of you with other factors influencing your emotional dysregulation, my #ADHD and #BPD both do!)

cope with disappointment from changing plans?

Even if the reschedule is flawless, my inner child absolutely cannot handle these situations well.
#SCWOTZ #SCWNT

Getting some work done jamming out to #Placebo tonight.

This was my first song by them - Nancy Boy. Nobody should be surprised I was hooked on first listen.

https://youtu.be/PBxuq_eWW94

#SCWOTZ #SCWMusic #NowPlaying

I wrote about some of it at the time:

https://medium.com/@SugarCunt/linengate-6fb01daf2f1a

https://medium.com/@SugarCunt/trust-theft-97e748c45323

If you're kept out by a paywall because you don't/can't subscribe to Medium, I encourage you to access the contents freely using 12ft.io

#SCWOTZ #SCWBlog #homelessness #unhoused

I'm so excited that I've almost finished my second part of #LampSeeker.

It's been slow-going because my life is financially-unstable chaos, but it IS going.

Even after the extinction of humans, Janus' purpose is to find things, although their clientele is much different now.

Here's part 1:

https://sugarcuntwrites.com/lamp-seeker-pt-1/

#amWriting #WritingCommunity #erotica #fiction @smutlandia.com @romancelandia.club #SCWOTZ