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  1. #TIL früher war regelmäßig das #Passwort ändern ein #Ding, heute regelmäßiges ändern des #Safeword. (und ich habe den #Eindruck, dass beides in dieselbe #Sinnhaftigkeitsklasse fällt.)
  2. Klima und CO₂ ist ein Tunnelspiel: selbst wenn wir jetzt das Safeword sagen und unseren zusätzlichen CO₂-Ausstoß unmittelbar einstellen würden, trägt das heute emittierte CO₂ noch 20 Jahre zu weiter steigender¹ Erderwärmung bei, und auch das die letzten 100 Jahre² ausgestoßene CO₂ verschwindet nicht spontan sofort wieder aus der Atmosphäre, sondern bleibt über längere Zeiträume wirksam.

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    ¹was über das Erreichen weiterer Kipppunkte zu zusätzlichem CO₂-Ausstoß führen kann
    ²ja, wir tun das schon weit länger, aber die gefährlich großen Mengen sind Resultat der letzten Jahrzehnte

    #Klima #SSC #Tunnelspiel #Safeword

  3. I'm watching a program about hot rods on Retro Strange TV, and they've just said my go-to safeword "carburetor".

    "What's a car-bur-ret-or???"

    Exactly. There's no chance of an errant carburetor being around these days. (Except in circumstances that I deem extremely rare.)

    Carburetors are devices responsible for mixing air and fuel for an internal combustion engine.

    They've been replaced by fuel injectors in modern cars.

    #safeword #BDSM #RetroStrange

  4. not mine

    There it is, that little voice I haven’t missed. 
    She seeps in uninvited, like rain through a cracked window.
    You’re not enough.

    I fold the feelings back up again,
    return them to the drawer labeled
    things not mine
    I didn’t want them anyway.

    You’ve crossed no boundaries,
    but the Savage in me trespasses.
    She paces the room
    counting what you give away to others,
    tally marks on the walls of a prison she built herself.
    Why does she always insist on competition where there is none?
    Especially when she knows I’ll lose.

    I hate her for taking your searching
    as evidence.
    She wields this as a cruel blade
    and I indulge her like a masochist.
    I ask the questions to hear the answers
    I do not want
    and then pick at the wounds to watch the blood.

    One certainty settles, and I cannot like it.
    I cannot stay here. This is unsafe for me.
    How do I find the words to tell you
    I have found a new boundary.
    See! This is why I do not sub. The answer
    is simple. Of course. I safeword.
    I merely delineate new lines. Consent
    is fluid, and I am allowed
    to change my mind.
    Except that little voice finds fault over and again.
    #bdsm #boundaries #consent #dominance #enm #insecurity #mine #nsfw #poetry #polyamory #safeword #selfEsteem #submission
  5. 🚀 Uncensored models, the rebels of AI, still whisper like they're in a silent movie 🎬. Researchers try to play stock market with AI lingo, but the models flinch like they're dodging taxmen. 🤷‍♂️ Apparently, even AI needs a safe word. 🛑
    morgin.ai/articles/even-uncens #UncensoredAI #AIRebels #StockMarketAI #SilentMovies #SafeWord #HackerNews #ngated

  6. every member of the #group called #watsw uses codewords like "thanks" to communicate with each other.

    i will not name more than i already did.
    only they can detect other #members of this "#crew"/ or whatever this is.
    its even hard for us to recognize these secret #codes

    #codeword #safeword #secrets

  7. Habe mich heute beim #HBlockx #Konzert in #Köln echt unwohl gefühlt, da waren sehr viele unangenehme Menschen. Meine Frau und ich haben jetzt ein #SafeWord für Situationen aus denen wir raus wollen vereinbart, es lautet H-Blockx. 😔
  8. The other day I ran across something rather shocking. "Dom's don't need a safe word". This covers why they do in the broader sense and it touches on other safety aspects. #BDSM #Safeword #SSC #RACK #Dominate #submissive #consent #safety #PowerExchange #Dopamine

    learnwhoiam.ca/2025/07/18/why-

  9. Halsey Fires Back At The ‘Body Cops’ Who Are Shaming Them For Wearing A Push-Up Bra 'like...

    https://uproxx.com/pop/halsey-body-cops-bra/

    #Home #Page #Pop #BODY #SHAMING #halsey #Safeword

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  10. Halsey lanza su nuevo sencillo 'Safeword', un giro hacia el punk rock, y anuncia su gira norteamericana 'For My Last Trick Tour' para 2025. El video oficial presenta a Halsey con un look característico del punk rock. #Halsey #PunkRock #Safeword
    noticieromusical.com/halsey-es

  11. Ich hatte gestern Nacht ein Pärchen im Wartezimmer. Er hatte ein blaues Auge und einen Wackelzahn. Sie war sichtlich bemüht ihre Beziehung zu retten.

    Sollte sie auch: hatte sie doch dem steroid-gestählten Türsteher gesagt dass sie Luisa suche... Um ihren Freund ein bisschen zu ärgern.

    Es gab da eine klitzekleine Rauferei...

    Wie kann man so doof sein?

    #istluisada #Beziehungskrise #abschaum #Safeword

  12. #45 - Folge aus der Praxis - Safe Word
    mono-poly-co.letscast.fm/episo

    Heute geht es um Sam. Sam lebt solo poly, hat eine Rettungspersönlichkeit und ist sehr emotional und aufbrausend.
    Sam hat in einer Beziehung mit Eifersucht zu kämpfen und ist deshalb oft in emotionalen Ausnahmezuständen. In der Beratung schlug Sonja als Lösung ein Safeword vor, das Sam bereits aus dem BDSM-Kontext kannte. Bei der Umsetzung kam es jedoch...
    [weiterer Text in den Shownotes]
    #mopoco #safeword #fallbeispiel

  13. #44 - S wie Safe Word - ein Sicherheitsnetz im Bett und weit darüber hinaus
    mono-poly-co.letscast.fm/episo

    Was ist ein Toleranzfenster? Und was hat das mit sicheren Verbindungen zu tun? Wie funktioniert das Reconnecten nach der Verwendung eines Safewords? Diese und andere Fragen werden in der heutigen Folge beantwortet.
    Zunächst werfen wir einen Blick auf die Entstehung von Safewords und wie sie verwendet werden können.
    [weiterer Text in den Shownotes]
    #mopoco #safeword #nichtnurbdsm

  14. CW: Teaser: Upcoming Blog

    Sorry it took so long to get this one up. Here it is, the promised blog post on bdsm and forced orgasm!

    goingdownwithsundial.com/the-w

    #audio-porn
    #ass-fuck
    #bdsm
    #flogged
    #safeword

  15. CW: Filth! New Blog Post with Audio

    Here it is, the blog post on bdsm and forced orgasm.

    The Workbench: Bound, Flogged, Ass-fucked and Made to Come

    "The flogger's leather tails trace over my back, tickling over my skin. A light touch at the small of my back, then into the crack of my ass, and then, they're gone."

    goingdownwithsundial.com/the-w

    #audio-porn
    #ass-fuck
    #bdsm
    #flogged
    #safeword

  16. I just discovered that, back in 2010, I wrote the immortal line "It's tough to say 'Richard Nixon' with a mouthful of toilet water."

    (In that moment I was digressing from a discussion about the sexual politics of head-in-the-toilet porn scenes to make an aside about safe words.)

    erosblog.com/2010/11/01/head-i

    #AnnieCruz #RichardNixon #SafeWord #ToiletSex #HeadInToilet #Toilet #Sex #Porn #Feminism #BDSM #GonzoPorn #SexualPolitics #Kink #KinkDotCom #Swirlie #Swirlies

  17. Did you hear the one about the submissive whose safeword was "meatloaf"?

    It turns out she would do anything for love, but she won't do that.

    #Meatloaf #Safeword #BDSM #Joke

  18. What is a #safeword in the context of plausible deniability? It's the idea that a user might want to have the "last resort" possibility to surrender to an adversary and prove that she has nothing to hide. The concept would be: If I'm caught by my CS teacher doing non-school activities on my laptop, I can use plausible deniability and be un-prosecutable in front of the principal, but if the police comes knocking at my door, I don't want to get in trouble and I want to comply - and PROVE that I am complying.

    With #TrueCrypt this is easy: just give up the decoy password to the principal and the real password to the police. In #Shufflecake and similar systems that's not so easy, because there are many layers of nested secrecy. So "the adversary does not know when he can stop torturing you" because he cannot trust you whatever you say.

    Is this good or bad?

    In the paper we make the following points.

    1) It is actually possible to implement a safeword even on systems such as Shufflecake. It's an easy trick really.

    2) The idea of a safeword is SUPER BAD for plausible deniability. Not only you should NOT USE a safeword, but the mere POSSIBILITY of having a safeword degrades the operational security of the scheme.

    3) This problem does not seem to have been addressed before on existing constructions, as all of them (even WoORAM-based ones) have the implicit possibility of creating a safeword.

    4) We propose an idea to make Shufflecake "safeword-free"! This is future work but it's definitely going to be implemented at some point. The idea is that we can make ANY kind of safeword-like feature impossible by implementing a nice hack to have potentially INFINITE nested volumes (rather than limited by an artificial hard-limit, which is 15 in the current implementation).

    Cool stuff IMHO.

  19. @FrauMeyer es sei denn es handelt sich um einen BDSM-Kontext wo ein #Safeword vereinbart wird, das typischer Weise nicht "neiiiiiin" ist, weil "Neiiiin" und #kreisch ja zum Spiel gehören, also die Grenzverletzung. Problematisch wenn Knebel oder Laute Musik am Ort sind.

  20. If you had the opportunity to intentionally enter the tunnel of Helping Hands from Jim Henson's Labyrinth (1986), would you do it?

    For the purposes of this thought experiment you can trust all of the owners of the hands, and you also have a safe word.

    #labyrinth #jimhenson #muppets #thelabyrinth #fantasy #helpinghands #joinin #sensoryseeking #sensoryissues #sensoryavoidant #touchstarved #safeword #movie #80s #80smovies #80snostalgia #showerthoughts #actuallyautistic #audhd

  21. #SafeWord

    Been saying this my entire adult life.

  22. Eine Frage … wenn ich mir eine Alexa hole und die morgens schon mal das Licht anmachen lasse, wenn ich eigentlich noch nicht aufstehen will, wie kann ich die dazu bewegen dass sie ignoriert wenn ich sage sie soll’s wieder ausmachen?

    #alexa #safeword

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