#quoiromantic — Public Fediverse posts

HE’S JUST LIKE ME FOR REAL 🤣🤣🤣

One of my crushes sent me this and it basically hit me in the damn soul and I started crying laughing and had to share it here.

If I don’t know you or trust you, I would rather do ANYTHING ELSE than acknowledge that you’ve just flirted with me, but believe me, I know, and believe me, I’m Fucking Panicking. Often for YEARS. OOOPS 🤣

I do really like this guy, though…

-Lazarus

#ActuallyAutistic #alexithymia #MadMastodon #MadStudies #mentalhealth #neurodivergence #quoiromantic #quoisexual #strokeSurvivor #whatAreFeelings

After nearly two decades of questioning my orientation(s) without really reaching any conclusions, I'm tempted to screw labels all together and just say I'm ISO my own spaceship crew.

#queer #aromantic #aro #lgbtq #lgbt #agender #nonmonogamous #enm #polyamory #relationshipanarchy #scifi #serenity #firefly #TheExpanse #quoiromantic #foundfamily #bi #bisexual #questioning #neurodivergent #actuallyautistic #AuDHD

introduction post

i guess this is going to be an elaboration of my bio.

my name is Delta, i'm 24 and i'm a german who lives in the uk.

my pronouns in english are ve/ver/vis. xe/xem/xyr, ne/nem/nir, ze/hir, fae/faer or ae/aer are also ok, but ve/ver/vis is preferred.

(auf deutsch bitte xier/xies/xiem/xien, nin/nims/nim/nin oder ser/ses/sem/sen, ohne präferenz.)

i'm #maverique and #xenogender. maverique means that my gender is disconnected from manhood and womanhood without being agender or neutral; i still have a distinct gendered feeling. in my case, it also means being disconnected from masculinity and femininity. xenogender means that i have many genders based on things that society would not usually associate with gender, in my case those genders relate to space, certain aesthetics, music, fictional characters or media. i experience my xenogenders only partially and they fluctuate in intensity. i'm #trans and i don't use a suffix but if i had to use one i'd be transmaverine. i also sometimes call myself ftx or ftmv (no, this is not referring to my sex or my agab).

i'm a #quoiromantic #asexual, meaning i'm ace without a romantic orientation.

i call myself #omni, #pan and #bi pretty much interchangeably, specifically without a suffix because i refuse to define my attraction any further than not romantic and not sexual. i'm also grey for an undefinable kind of attraction.

i call myself #gay because my attraction to all genders feels gay (in the diamoric sense, not in the same/similar gender sense). i use some other diamoric labels too, such as trixic, toric and cypric.

i'm #otherkin, specifically a soong-type android.

i'm #fat. that's all i can say to that.

i'm #autikinetic (or #audhd but i prefer autikinetic), #borderline, traumatised from my childhood as a whole and a specific event, phobic of social interaction, fire and crossing streets and i have dermatillomania; read: i am very #neurodivergent.

i am hard of sight. my vision in my better eye is 30% and in my worse eye it's 10%.

i love listening to podcasts and audiobooks, #StarTrek, language, gaming and learning about people's identities.

i have my own #podcast called misfit media in which i talk about queerness, #disability and more.

#queer #disabled #elsegender #HardOfSight #LowVision

I’m #ActuallyAutistic and #ActuallyADHD, and I’m a #NonBinary #AceSpec #quoiromantic #lesbian (as far as I can tell)

I have had lots of #MentalHealth issues over the years, and have some chronic physical issues as well, among them #IBS and #AnkylosingSpondylitis

I am an occasional activist, with interests in #trans rights, #disability and #neurodiversity, as well as concerns of other marginalised groups, and the #ClimateCrisis

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