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I had police contact again Friday.

My counter parent and guest laughed in my face and taunted the entire time for the third time this week.

Imagine one parent working hard, trying to make ends meet. And the other parent constantly calling the cops and attempting to provoke negative police interactions THREE times a week in front of a child.

Just two more months of this before court.

#ParentsNotPolice #ParentingWhileBlack #PNW #Seattle #ACAB #SPD #FamilyLaw #FamilyCourt

Police contact again today due to my counter part refusing the exchange until they had berated me to their satisfaction.

We haven't seen an legal fund donations in about 20 days, could you help us turn that around?

My lawyer has been amazingly lenient on billing but I do try and pay a bit each month, sadly that's not actually possible without outside help so please consider donating towards legal fund 👇🏿

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack #LegalFund #MutualAidRequest

Fuck. It's 2hrs post police contact, anxiety was high af as usual heading into exchange and feel uncomfortable high still now.

Love this as the start to my work week. Need to do a self care routine to chill out and be able to focus.

I try not to post this shit but fuck I'm getting VERY tired of this.

#ParentingWhileBlack

No no, the cops who have FAKE TOMBSTONES & MAGA flags are great with kids, I'm told.

Literally the EXACT same station is the one my cops are based out of.

They are literally the KKK, just ICE for Black folks. They literally celebrate the deaths of Black men in particular.

https://publicola.com/2023/07/20/spd-chief-says-he-doesnt-know-how-fake-tombstone-for-police-shooting-victim-ended-up-on-display-in-precinct-break-room/

#SPD #Seattle #ParentingWhileBlack

Police contact again today during child exchange.

We have a hearing date of June 22nd to address this issue and more. But I need to make a payment to my family law lawyer this month to keep him fully engaged.

He's been doing great work, it's just wild how long the courts will allow this shit to go on before acting.

Thanks again for the support you've shown my child and I so far. I can see the light at end coming up.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack #FamilyLaw #BlackDadsMatter

Hey ummm, so we're more housing insecure than the start of April and our storage unit is an important lifeline.

We're several months behind on rent and it's going into auction rn.

Update - Need met on the storage bill

̶$̶1̶5̶4̶ ̶/̶ ̶$̶8̶5̶0̶

Ways to support
One-time Direct Donation
Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://www.paypal.me/nullagent

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#ParentingWhileBlack #HelpFolksLive2026 #MutualAidRequest #Homeless #Housing #TheRentIsTooDamnedHigh

Ok so we're ending the month about ̶$̶5̶0̶0̶ (edit its closer to $1000) behind on bills and more housing insecure than we started the month.

Goal $1001 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support
One-time Direct Donation
Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#ParentingWhileBlack #BlackMastodon #MutualAidRequest

Most of my life I see possibility, hope and change.

But damn, nothing can get you down more than having to go to court to be able to see your child.

I take ZERO joy in having to go to court to recitifiy this kidnapping situation which is STILL on going.

I couldn't have done any of this without help and sadly I need significantly more help to keep up the fight.

Can we double the legal fund before the end of may?

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#BlackDadsMatter #LegalFund #ParentingWhileBlack

Police contact again today while handing off my child.

I've been contacted by the cops so much the officers and I are starting to recognize each other.

Today I asked the cop: "how many of these types of standby's have you done in your career"

The cop replied "only a few"

I asked how many of those were the false calls I've been harassed by, he said "most of them".

#ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #FamilyCourt #ParentsNotPolice #BlackMastodon

Hoping to be able to buy a transit pass this week. They're about $100 a month which is a great deal but you basically have to pay your fares for the month up front.

Would be nice to make it to $500 so I can get a monthly fare pass and save money.

Goal $890 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack #Transit

An hour after the aggressive tug of war with our child which my ex started I get a text from my ex's boyfriend.

You know, the one who shows up to parenting exchanges to argue with me about the court record.

For some reason that guy has started sending aggressive text to me right after my ex getting served bc he's embarassed by his conduct at parenting exchanges and doesn't want to be in the court record.

Simple solution, don't harass a black dads

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/116324621752151331

#ParentingWhileBlack

While the legal victories are stacking up rapidly, its important not to loose sight of the tiny human stuck in the middle of this horrific mistreatment.

We really need to hit our fundraising goals so I can provide the world to this beautiful young soul

Goal $295 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack

#FamilyLaw #CourtWatch Over the past week I submitted and served the paperwork for a restraining order against my 3x false accuser, which landed on Wednesday.

We have a tentative court date set for June 22nd, I'd appreciate court watch support.

Thanks again for reporting harassing content, statements and actions from my ex this has been CRITICAL to this process.

Keep flagging these sorts of posts to me so I can inform the courts about this pattern of misconduct.

#ParentingWhileBlack

Nice white folks always seem shocked to findout how absurd CPS contact is for people.

The statistics don't like. Black parents, especially Black men are systemically over policed by CPS nation wide.

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/116200589349306376

#CPS #FamilyLaw #ParentingWhileBlack

Just had unexpected police(CPS) contact related to NEW false claims by my counter parent.

Looks like ANOTHER false claim has hit and ANOTHER totally parallel legal process just started 🫠

Lawyer is tapping in. Which means time to post the legal fund link.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack

April mutual aid request

Help a Black family get back on their feet.

Goal $265 / $2000

💸 Bills $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation(see chuffed above or)

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

Recurring:

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2026 #ParentingWhileBlack

Thanks so much for the legal aid donations last month!

Just about to file some updates with the courts that will hopefully address the current issues fully.

This support has really helped my lawyer get over the finish line!

For the month of April we're going to be trying to focus on survival cost and hope to raise an additional $1k - $2k to stay on top of bills and living expenses.

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#ParentingWhileBlack #MutualAidRequest #LegalAid

This tiktoker has made it their PRIMARY content to attempt to dox me, my friends and specifically witnesses to my illegal eviction.

In the video they made about me they attempt to paint me as "not an activist", "not a hacker" and "just a grifter".

ALL because my ex decided that splitting bills while navigating a break constituted domestic violence.

They then call their constant online lynch mob chasing me around "activism" and fund raise off MY pain and court process.

#ParentingWhileBlack

Fact of the matter is I'm going to need a fair bit more legal funds to hold my abuser accountable.

These anti-racist measures are so new it costs more to develop a case using them.

I need to ACTIVELY build a case to defend myself and reduce this pattern of in court and out of court abuse of literally racist institutions to harass me.

2020 literally gave Black folks -some- new tools we need to defend ourselves.

HOWERVER those tools cost money!

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack

My ex: "its legal for me to make proven false allegations with no consequences or apology"

Also my ex: "its legal to call the cops on you weekly for no reason at all"

Me: "slavery was legal too"

#ParentingWhileBlack

Remember how my child was being kidnapped/withheld for 3 months last year into this year?

AND I won a whole ruling about THAT "withholding".

Well guess what?

My ex was able to place me on child support DURING the time period they were literally kidnapping my child by any reasonable person's definition.

I have to pay child support to my child's kidnapper.

EVEN after winning 50/50 parenting time.

Make it make sense lmao.

#ParentingWhileBlack #PNW #FamilyCourt #FamilyLaw #BlackDadsMatter

Police contact again today.

Three cops responded to the call. One cop on the call, another passing by stopped to be back up and a third Sergeant got called because the first two pigs can't read.

Nothing like being surrounded by THREE white guys with guns 2-3 times a week when I exchange my child.

The Sergeant HATED when I pointed out the absurd call volume caused by my ex.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack #PWN #ACAB

Terror, fear, anxiety.

That's what I feel 2-3x a week when I gather up all of my court papers to hopefully ensure I can safely explain to cops why they are not needed at my child exchanges.

Most of the time cops tell me they don't care about my papers and will not read them. They don't care they are personally enacting systemic racism.

Reminds me a lot of ICE, but where's the outcry when it's a black man being harassed by karens, kops and kourt?

#PapersPlease #ParentingWhileBlack #PNW #ACAB

"Fuck the whole economy"

"White supremacy is still around"

"Children dying but since mine asleep it don't reside to me"

"Funding genocides attrocities "

"And then I see my wife's new husband he's arrived"

"But he is not a man he's just the papers that she signs"

"He'll take care of my kids and make 'em think I can't provide"

"Child neglect, CPS in due time AmeriCON"

https://open.spotify.com/track/2cHurG1ISCCJmxtrr992X8

#AmeriCON #KirkoBangz #ParentingWhileBlack #CPS #SystemicRacism #Genocide #Gaza #HipHop

"Fuck the whole economy"

"White supremacy is still around"

"Children dying but since mine asleep it don't reside to me"

"Funding genocides attrocities "

"And then I see my wife's new husband he's arrived"

"But he is not a man he's just the papers that she signs"

"He'll take care of my kids and make 'em think I can't provide"

"Child neglect, CPS in due time AmeriCON"

https://open.spotify.com/track/2cHurG1ISCCJmxtrr992X8

#AmeriCON #KirkoBangz #ParentingWhileBlack #CPS #SystemicRacism #Genocide #Gaza #HipHop

"Fuck the whole economy"

"White supremacy is still around"

"Children dying but since mine asleep it don't reside to me"

"Funding genocides attrocities "

"And then I see my wife's new husband he's arrived"

"But he is not a man he's just the papers that she signs"

"He'll take care of my kids and make 'em think I can't provide"

"Child neglect, CPS in due time AmeriCON"

https://open.spotify.com/track/2cHurG1ISCCJmxtrr992X8

#AmeriCON #KirkoBangz #ParentingWhileBlack #CPS #SystemicRacism #Genocide #Gaza #HipHop

"Fuck the whole economy"

"White supremacy is still around"

"Children dying but since mine asleep it don't reside to me"

"Funding genocides attrocities "

"And then I see my wife's new husband he's arrived"

"But he is not a man he's just the papers that she signs"

"He'll take care of my kids and make 'em think I can't provide"

"Child neglect, CPS in due time AmeriCON"

https://open.spotify.com/track/2cHurG1ISCCJmxtrr992X8

#AmeriCON #KirkoBangz #ParentingWhileBlack #CPS #SystemicRacism #Genocide #Gaza #HipHop

"Fuck the whole economy"

"White supremacy is still around"

"Children dying but since mine asleep it don't reside to me"

"Funding genocides attrocities "

"And then I see my wife's new husband he's arrived"

"But he is not a man he's just the papers that she signs"

"He'll take care of my kids and make 'em think I can't provide"

"Child neglect, CPS in due time AmeriCON"

https://open.spotify.com/track/2cHurG1ISCCJmxtrr992X8

#AmeriCON #KirkoBangz #ParentingWhileBlack #CPS #SystemicRacism #Genocide #Gaza #HipHop

Thankfully Seattle is an open data city, this means I can document the impacts of systemic racism in real time.

For the last month my ex's calls to the police for our child exchanges now account for 50% of ALL no-theft dv related civil standby requests for the entire Capitol Hill neighborhood.

There have been ADDITIONAL police contact not shown in this query.

https://data.seattle.gov/Public-Safety/Call-Data/33kz-ixgy/about_data

#Seattle #PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #SystemicRacism #DataViz #OpenData

Thankfully Seattle is an open data city, this means I can document the impacts of systemic racism in real time.

For the last month my ex's calls to the police for our child exchanges now account for 50% of ALL no-theft dv related civil standby requests for the entire Capitol Hill neighborhood.

There have been ADDITIONAL police contact not shown in this query.

https://data.seattle.gov/Public-Safety/Call-Data/33kz-ixgy/about_data

#Seattle #PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #SystemicRacism #DataViz #OpenData

Thankfully Seattle is an open data city, this means I can document the impacts of systemic racism in real time.

For the last month my ex's calls to the police for our child exchanges now account for 50% of ALL no-theft dv related civil standby requests for the entire Capitol Hill neighborhood.

There have been ADDITIONAL police contact not shown in this query.

https://data.seattle.gov/Public-Safety/Call-Data/33kz-ixgy/about_data

#Seattle #PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #SystemicRacism #DataViz #OpenData

Thankfully Seattle is an open data city, this means I can document the impacts of systemic racism in real time.

For the last month my ex's calls to the police for our child exchanges now account for 50% of ALL no-theft dv related civil standby requests for the entire Capitol Hill neighborhood.

There have been ADDITIONAL police contact not shown in this query.

https://data.seattle.gov/Public-Safety/Call-Data/33kz-ixgy/about_data

#Seattle #PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #SystemicRacism #DataViz #OpenData

Thankfully Seattle is an open data city, this means I can document the impacts of systemic racism in real time.

For the last month my ex's calls to the police for our child exchanges now account for 50% of ALL no-theft dv related civil standby requests for the entire Capitol Hill neighborhood.

There have been ADDITIONAL police contact not shown in this query.

https://data.seattle.gov/Public-Safety/Call-Data/33kz-ixgy/about_data

#Seattle #PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #SystemicRacism #DataViz #OpenData

I had police contact again today for no good reason.

This cop practically wanted a sticker because he personally has yet to shoot a black father.

SPDs handbook says civil standbys are for people with protective orders, so I brought the cop the rulings showing there are NO protective orders in place infact my ex failed THREE times to get one due to them being based on obvious lies.

How can I win 3 times and still have cops called on me 3x a week?

#Seattle #SPD #ACAB #ParentingWhileBlack

In today's filing my counter parent argues they don't have to do discovery because I posted this very court watch thread.

Below I've re-produced the entirety of the offending posts they cited in this filing today.

Literally just the public case number and zoom link to the hearings.

WHICH the judges at the hearings agreed, I was allowed to request #CourtWatch to those hearings.

Yet my ex claims "the city attoreny is preparing charges against" me now

🤣

OK.

#ParentingWhileBlack

Philandro Castile was stopped by cops every 3 months for 10 years straight.

I'm being stopped by cops at least once a week.

That's a rate of police contact 1400% higher than Philandro.

Philando's death has become a symbol of the systematic statistics of eventually meeting a trigger happy bad apple.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH9ygqyX6yQ

#BlackFriday #BlackMastodon #ACAB #PhilandroCastile #ParentingWhileBlack #PNW

I had police contact again today during parenting exchange 😬

My ex has vowed to call the police during every exchange which means the cops are being called on me two or three times per week for the last month.

🚨This has resulted in a rate of police contact for I and my family 1400% higher than Philando Catile's at the time of his death.🚨

This morning I asked officer D. Perez how he'd feel about that level of police harassment...

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#PNW #ParentingWhileBlack #spd

Not a lot of progress on our February goal needed to secure long term housing next month.

Can you help keep us moving?

$520 / $2000

venmo/cashapp/paypal - $nullagent

#MutualAidRequest #Housing #ParentingWhileBlack #BlackDadsMatter

#MutualAidRequest #LegalFees

Help urgently needed.

I'm still over $1500 short of my lawyer bill which is due on only four days!

$3000 - June Lawyer bill remaining
$700 - Bills, food, clothes
PAID - July storage bill (thanks, I was able to knock this one out with your help!)

$1856 / $4000

Cashapp/venmo $nullagent

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#PNW #FamilyCourt #ParentingWhileBlack #BlackMastodon