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RE: https://mastodon.nl/@nrc_nl/116597117150814547
Okay, even een post zodat ik er vanaf nu naar kan verwijzen.
het is een fout van epische proporties om te rekenen op een consumentennetwerk in tijden van oorlog, aardbevingen, overstromingen etc. Als achtervang of extra? Prima. Als basis? Nooit.
Dezelfde fout die ooit bij NCV¹ is gemaakt (tldr: laten we het lekker modern doen met KPN IP netwerken, das hip en goedkoop!), maken ze nu met ons nationale waarschuwingssysteem.
Koperen draden in de grond voor fysieke alarmsystemen en nood-netwerken mensen. Dat is saai. En saai is goed.
¹ Zie https://berthub.eu/articles/posts/cyber-security-pre-war-reality-check/ voor details.
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Here's what I think are some really useful tools for community building.
#communes
#communitycreation
#consensus
#clearnesses
#nvc
#authenticrelating
#permaculturehttps://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2025/03/10/five-tools-for-community-building/
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Here's what I think are some really useful tools for community building.
#communes
#communitycreation
#consensus
#clearnesses
#nvc
#authenticrelating
#permaculturehttps://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2025/03/10/five-tools-for-community-building/
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Here's what I think are some really useful tools for community building.
#communes
#communitycreation
#consensus
#clearnesses
#nvc
#authenticrelating
#permaculturehttps://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2025/03/10/five-tools-for-community-building/
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Here's what I think are some really useful tools for community building.
#communes
#communitycreation
#consensus
#clearnesses
#nvc
#authenticrelating
#permaculturehttps://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2025/03/10/five-tools-for-community-building/
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Slova kvetoucí v odlišnostech
Příručka pro nepříručkový život. 26 mikropříběhů, které mění teorii nenásilné komunikace v hravou fantazii plnou metafor.
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Slova kvetoucí v odlišnostech
Příručka pro nepříručkový život. 26 mikropříběhů, které mění teorii nenásilné komunikace v hravou fantazii plnou metafor.
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Slova kvetoucí v odlišnostech
Příručka pro nepříručkový život. 26 mikropříběhů, které mění teorii nenásilné komunikace v hravou fantazii plnou metafor.
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Slova kvetoucí v odlišnostech
Příručka pro nepříručkový život. 26 mikropříběhů, které mění teorii nenásilné komunikace v hravou fantazii plnou metafor.
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Enjoy more enduring relationships and more personal fulfillment through effective, empathic communication.
In this interactive webinar on Saturday May 2nd, 11am to 1:00pm ET (UTC -5), licensed psychotherapist David B. Alexander will present and discuss Nonviolent Communication and how it improves daily life.
Read more and sign up: http://smpl.ro/nvc-intro-ms
There will be time for questions and answers, and a welcoming environment.
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I've read Many Voices, One Song. A comprehensive overview of the organizational method called sociocracy. Interesting, very actionable and integrates well with other traditions I relate to: systems theory, organizations where all voices matter, non-violent communication, cooperative movements, iterative/agile methods. I recommend it and wish more organizations would adopt this framework.
https://bookwyrm.social/book/299684/s/many-voices-one-song-shared-power-with-sociocracy
#Sociocracy #Organizations #NVC #SystemsTheory #Coop -
I've read Many Voices, One Song. A comprehensive overview of the organizational method called sociocracy. Interesting, very actionable and integrates well with other traditions I relate to: systems theory, organizations where all voices matter, non-violent communication, cooperative movements, iterative/agile methods. I recommend it and wish more organizations would adopt this framework.
https://bookwyrm.social/book/299684/s/many-voices-one-song-shared-power-with-sociocracy
#Sociocracy #Organizations #NVC #SystemsTheory #Coop -
I've read Many Voices, One Song. A comprehensive overview of the organizational method called sociocracy. Interesting, very actionable and integrates well with other traditions I relate to: systems theory, organizations where all voices matter, non-violent communication, cooperative movements, iterative/agile methods. I recommend it and wish more organizations would adopt this framework.
https://bookwyrm.social/book/299684/s/many-voices-one-song-shared-power-with-sociocracy
#Sociocracy #Organizations #NVC #SystemsTheory #Coop -
I've read Many Voices, One Song. A comprehensive overview of the organizational method called sociocracy. Interesting, very actionable and integrates well with other traditions I relate to: systems theory, organizations where all voices matter, non-violent communication, cooperative movements, iterative/agile methods. I recommend it and wish more organizations would adopt this framework.
https://bookwyrm.social/book/299684/s/many-voices-one-song-shared-power-with-sociocracy
#Sociocracy #Organizations #NVC #SystemsTheory #Coop -
I've read Many Voices, One Song. A comprehensive overview of the organizational method called sociocracy. Interesting, very actionable and integrates well with other traditions I relate to: systems theory, organizations where all voices matter, non-violent communication, cooperative movements, iterative/agile methods. I recommend it and wish more organizations would adopt this framework.
https://bookwyrm.social/book/299684/s/many-voices-one-song-shared-power-with-sociocracy
#Sociocracy #Organizations #NVC #SystemsTheory #Coop -
Sarah Peyton: Intro: How to heal Trauma with Self-Resonance (6min)
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Sarah Peyton: Intro: How to heal Trauma with Self-Resonance (6min)
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One of my favorite references, the feelings wheel, based on Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg #nvc http://www.ccnederland.org/wp-content/uploads/Feelings-Wheel-Combined-2.17.12.pdf
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One of my favorite references, the feelings wheel, based on Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg #nvc http://www.ccnederland.org/wp-content/uploads/Feelings-Wheel-Combined-2.17.12.pdf
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One of my favorite references, the feelings wheel, based on Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg #nvc http://www.ccnederland.org/wp-content/uploads/Feelings-Wheel-Combined-2.17.12.pdf
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@Noortjevee
Rewards are just as detrimental to growth as punishments are.Justine Mol wrote a nice booklet about that, all based on Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication -- https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/opgroeien-in-vertrouwen/1001004002487340/
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@Noortjevee
Rewards are just as detrimental to growth as punishments are.Justine Mol wrote a nice booklet about that, all based on Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication -- https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/opgroeien-in-vertrouwen/1001004002487340/
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@Noortjevee
Rewards are just as detrimental to growth as punishments are.Justine Mol wrote a nice booklet about that, all based on Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication -- https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/opgroeien-in-vertrouwen/1001004002487340/
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@Noortjevee
Rewards are just as detrimental to growth as punishments are.Justine Mol wrote a nice booklet about that, all based on Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication -- https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/opgroeien-in-vertrouwen/1001004002487340/
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@Noortjevee
Rewards are just as detrimental to growth as punishments are.Justine Mol wrote a nice booklet about that, all based on Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication -- https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/opgroeien-in-vertrouwen/1001004002487340/
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From Guilt and Shame
to Self-CompassionBy Myra Walden
"Are feelings of guilt and shame necessary to learn from mistakes? I believe they are not. We have been conditioned to think that these emotions are valuable to help people grow. In reality, they contribute to low self-esteem and can result in depression, anxiety, addictions, and troubled relationships. Sometimes, we become mired in a cycle of self-condemnation followed by self-justification. Or we get stuck in self-judgment indefinitely. At times, we defend against guilt and shame by denying responsibility for our actions in an attempt to preserve self-respect.
I propose that the natural mechanism for learning from mistakes is regret, which leads to mourning and growth. Nonviolent Communication provides us with an elegant process to learn from actions we lament."
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From Guilt and Shame
to Self-CompassionBy Myra Walden
"Are feelings of guilt and shame necessary to learn from mistakes? I believe they are not. We have been conditioned to think that these emotions are valuable to help people grow. In reality, they contribute to low self-esteem and can result in depression, anxiety, addictions, and troubled relationships. Sometimes, we become mired in a cycle of self-condemnation followed by self-justification. Or we get stuck in self-judgment indefinitely. At times, we defend against guilt and shame by denying responsibility for our actions in an attempt to preserve self-respect.
I propose that the natural mechanism for learning from mistakes is regret, which leads to mourning and growth. Nonviolent Communication provides us with an elegant process to learn from actions we lament."
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So:
*If you don't assume competence, you don't have to assume malice.*
It may sound naive, and no one wants to be thought naive. But it's a better way to relate to people and to do politics more sincerely. And a more diplomatic way to hold others and oneself to an aspirational standard; and more likely to be accurate.
On the other hand, institutions are self-serving and often don't act according to their stated purpose, so don't assume they react to humans in a human way. Both humans and institutions do what they need to survive. The mistakes of humans may strengthen concentrated institutional power.
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So:
*If you don't assume competence, you don't have to assume malice.*
It may sound naive, and no one wants to be thought naive. But it's a better way to relate to people and to do politics more sincerely. And a more diplomatic way to hold others and oneself to an aspirational standard; and more likely to be accurate.
On the other hand, institutions are self-serving and often don't act according to their stated purpose, so don't assume they react to humans in a human way. Both humans and institutions do what they need to survive. The mistakes of humans may strengthen concentrated institutional power.
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So:
*If you don't assume competence, you don't have to assume malice.*
It may sound naive, and no one wants to be thought naive. But it's a better way to relate to people and to do politics more sincerely. And a more diplomatic way to hold others and oneself to an aspirational standard; and more likely to be accurate.
On the other hand, institutions are self-serving and often don't act according to their stated purpose, so don't assume they react to humans in a human way. Both humans and institutions do what they need to survive. The mistakes of humans may strengthen concentrated institutional power.
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So:
*If you don't assume competence, you don't have to assume malice.*
It may sound naive, and no one wants to be thought naive. But it's a better way to relate to people and to do politics more sincerely. And a more diplomatic way to hold others and oneself to an aspirational standard; and more likely to be accurate.
On the other hand, institutions are self-serving and often don't act according to their stated purpose, so don't assume they react to humans in a human way. Both humans and institutions do what they need to survive. The mistakes of humans may strengthen concentrated institutional power.
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So:
*If you don't assume competence, you don't have to assume malice.*
It may sound naive, and no one wants to be thought naive. But it's a better way to relate to people and to do politics more sincerely. And a more diplomatic way to hold others and oneself to an aspirational standard; and more likely to be accurate.
On the other hand, institutions are self-serving and often don't act according to their stated purpose, so don't assume they react to humans in a human way. Both humans and institutions do what they need to survive. The mistakes of humans may strengthen concentrated institutional power.
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It's usually a cock-up, not a conspiracy.
Human beings are generally very stupid, and only achieve anything through trial and error and an ever-growing degree of specialisation.
If we don't have a standard of expecting errors to have been made in good faith, firstly the detail of the errors goes uncorrected, and secondly conflicts are assumed to be Machiavellian manipulations for private interests. #NVC #PleaseExplain
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It's usually a cock-up, not a conspiracy.
Human beings are generally very stupid, and only achieve anything through trial and error and an ever-growing degree of specialisation.
If we don't have a standard of expecting errors to have been made in good faith, firstly the detail of the errors goes uncorrected, and secondly conflicts are assumed to be Machiavellian manipulations for private interests. #NVC #PleaseExplain
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It's usually a cock-up, not a conspiracy.
Human beings are generally very stupid, and only achieve anything through trial and error and an ever-growing degree of specialisation.
If we don't have a standard of expecting errors to have been made in good faith, firstly the detail of the errors goes uncorrected, and secondly conflicts are assumed to be Machiavellian manipulations for private interests. #NVC #PleaseExplain
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It's usually a cock-up, not a conspiracy.
Human beings are generally very stupid, and only achieve anything through trial and error and an ever-growing degree of specialisation.
If we don't have a standard of expecting errors to have been made in good faith, firstly the detail of the errors goes uncorrected, and secondly conflicts are assumed to be Machiavellian manipulations for private interests. #NVC #PleaseExplain
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It's usually a cock-up, not a conspiracy.
Human beings are generally very stupid, and only achieve anything through trial and error and an ever-growing degree of specialisation.
If we don't have a standard of expecting errors to have been made in good faith, firstly the detail of the errors goes uncorrected, and secondly conflicts are assumed to be Machiavellian manipulations for private interests. #NVC #PleaseExplain
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Listas de sentimientos y necesidades para comunicación no Violenta puedes descargarlas en PDF para imprimir en narrativaconsciente.com
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Steady in the Storm - Conflict resilient Communication
Jan 17 & 18 2026, online
"Conflict is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it.
This session will enable you to:
feel more confident to communicate in conflict situations without blame, shame or judgement.
take inner steps to transform conflict
transform enemy images and humanise the other
intervene safely in situations of conflict
be more resourced in tense situations
stay grounded in empathic expression and empathic listening in tense situationsThe session will involve reflection, discussion, practice and role play."
https://app.workshop-angel.com/form.php?h=1&t=0&e=ee3613e8890517ba
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Steady in the Storm - Conflict resilient Communication
Jan 17 & 18 2026, online
"Conflict is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it.
This session will enable you to:
feel more confident to communicate in conflict situations without blame, shame or judgement.
take inner steps to transform conflict
transform enemy images and humanise the other
intervene safely in situations of conflict
be more resourced in tense situations
stay grounded in empathic expression and empathic listening in tense situationsThe session will involve reflection, discussion, practice and role play."
https://app.workshop-angel.com/form.php?h=1&t=0&e=ee3613e8890517ba
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Steady in the Storm - Conflict resilient Communication
Jan 17 & 18 2026, online
"Conflict is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it.
This session will enable you to:
feel more confident to communicate in conflict situations without blame, shame or judgement.
take inner steps to transform conflict
transform enemy images and humanise the other
intervene safely in situations of conflict
be more resourced in tense situations
stay grounded in empathic expression and empathic listening in tense situationsThe session will involve reflection, discussion, practice and role play."
https://app.workshop-angel.com/form.php?h=1&t=0&e=ee3613e8890517ba
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Steady in the Storm - Conflict resilient Communication
Jan 17 & 18 2026, online
"Conflict is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it.
This session will enable you to:
feel more confident to communicate in conflict situations without blame, shame or judgement.
take inner steps to transform conflict
transform enemy images and humanise the other
intervene safely in situations of conflict
be more resourced in tense situations
stay grounded in empathic expression and empathic listening in tense situationsThe session will involve reflection, discussion, practice and role play."
https://app.workshop-angel.com/form.php?h=1&t=0&e=ee3613e8890517ba
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Steady in the Storm - Conflict resilient Communication
Jan 17 & 18 2026, online
"Conflict is inevitable. What matters is how we respond to it.
This session will enable you to:
feel more confident to communicate in conflict situations without blame, shame or judgement.
take inner steps to transform conflict
transform enemy images and humanise the other
intervene safely in situations of conflict
be more resourced in tense situations
stay grounded in empathic expression and empathic listening in tense situationsThe session will involve reflection, discussion, practice and role play."
https://app.workshop-angel.com/form.php?h=1&t=0&e=ee3613e8890517ba
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"The Reimagine Communication #Podcast is a living conversation for those who sense that something deeper is possible – beyond autopilot, beyond the norms, beyond the noise.
We explore conscious communication as a practice for inner freedom and outer transformation. Not as fixed answers, but as lived questions.
In a world where old systems are cracking and relationships are being tested, we ask: How do we live truthfully in the midst of complexity? How can we be present, vulnerable, and powerful – all at once?
This is for you who are done playing roles you no longer believe in. Who long to help shape a new way of being human – in connection with yourself, with others, and with a world in transition."
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"The Reimagine Communication #Podcast is a living conversation for those who sense that something deeper is possible – beyond autopilot, beyond the norms, beyond the noise.
We explore conscious communication as a practice for inner freedom and outer transformation. Not as fixed answers, but as lived questions.
In a world where old systems are cracking and relationships are being tested, we ask: How do we live truthfully in the midst of complexity? How can we be present, vulnerable, and powerful – all at once?
This is for you who are done playing roles you no longer believe in. Who long to help shape a new way of being human – in connection with yourself, with others, and with a world in transition."