#notestoself — Public Fediverse posts

Regular and required reminder that just because it's a norm for you, doesn't necessarily mean it's actually a norm or a standard that anyone else should be measured by. Those things you take for granted aren't givens. There are entire worlds beyond the contexts you're at home within. Your vision of the world is biased and likely flawed (by virtue of how our brains work on default settings). Adjust accordingly.

#notestoself

Planning to record some thoughts into audio notes for Airchat this Fall/Winter. Here are my notes to self on who best to date!

Someone who:
1. enjoys harmonious relationships (business and personal) and connections with others
2. likes to plan events, things, trips that are enriching professionally and personally (i.e. individually for himself, as a couple coz I am into these things)
3. is on the same page RE: values of family life, work as a contribution to service to humankind
4. is respectful of others' opinions even if s/he doesn't agree with them (this is a sign of great intelligence to me)
5. is loving, lovable, compassionate, generous, affectionate, loyal, well-groomed, well-dressed, sweet, sexy (psychologically, not just physically)

#notestoself #relationshipadvice #romantic #partnerships #couplegoals #Crissyairchatideas

@alecui vim user here, I use vimwiki with #zettelkasten for my notes.

You could probably check @chrisaldrich accoxnt, and his website.

@ellane toots a lot about plain text notes, #ObsidanMD and other things around it.

Follow some hashtags like :

#pkm
#secondbrain
#zettelkasten
#NotesToSelf
#notesart

It's extremely hard to keep on #writing with a consistent cadence for long. If you want to be a writer, please develop that habit, above all.

Whatever cadence you choose. Once a week? Great. Once a month? Sure. But don't miss that. And that includes not just writing but actually putting it out on your blog, at least.

Is it sufficient? Hell no.
Is it necessary? Again, not really -- but then you're already so gifted it doesn't matter.

So make that pledge. Track it. #NotesToSelf too.

#notestoself Don't ever rely on functions introduced by other add-on plugins (and use `function_exists()` if you do—wouldn't have been enough, tho, but whatevs).

Current music buy list once spare cash is found:

1. #Batushka - Panihida
2. #Adaestuo - Krew Za Krew
3. #CultOfFire - मृत्यु का तापसी अनुध्यान
4. #Unreqvited - Stars Wept to the Sea
5. #Muka - Sveta Stoka

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