#nonviolentcommunication — Public Fediverse posts
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Did Richard Carrier Accidentally Prove Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication?
Why an objective morality from atheism may be connected to nonviolent communication
#nonviolentcommunication
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https://medium.com/scientists-free-from-religious/did-richard-carrier-accidentally-prove-marshall-rosenbergs-nonviolent-communication-7aeab1d11a89 -
Still on non pun solutions and hacks for heatwave or any temperature havock..
We all need to cultivate consent culture, non violent communication and collective decision making.
Not only for bigger fish objectives in politics and society, but for termal management of spaces to have windiws closed or open when how long in shared spaces. Trains, offices, shops, schools etc.
Bickering, passive agressivsnsss or moral arguments about obvious things about windows and termal management. could well stay in the past.
Ecological and political awareness will not go far if people keep being shit at dealing and discussing with fellow humans.
And this is already if not bombastic as a change, it probably shapes more future than any technology or gadget.
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I had a most productive face to face conversation with someone today. I started with "When did you decide to become an abuser?"
This was inspired by something I read in a recent @pluralistic essay, where he described a lecture where the lecturer walked students through "what is an abusive relationship?" (basically love without trust).
I've been trying to lay the groundwork for this for probably years at this stage, but that insight was key for me to be able to navigate all the bullshit and cut through to the heart of the matter.
I won't go through the full conversation, but let's just say it was calm.
I will just quote a bit of our follow-on conversation. That person had had some time to absorb what I was saying and came back to me. The last things we said to each other...
me: so why can't I trust you?
abuser: I don't know why you don't trust me.
me: you have abused my trust (I probably repeated that for effect)Obviously, I could say more on this but I think the most important thing I can say right now is that first and foremost, abusers abuse our trust. Everything else, every opening for continued abuse relies on this. We can withdraw our trust.
Also, props to Cory. You've unexpectedly crystallised a potential therapeutic route for dealing with abuse. It starts with naming things.
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We can navigate our relationships at work authentically & compassionately with mindsets & practices from Creative Empathy for Leadership.
This is the basis for the Beyond Design round table session that just wrapped up at Hike One, hosted by Sanne and facilitated by yours truly 😃
We discussed how the most crucial of our work relationships are with ourself, our team, and our stakeholders.
We talked about how regulating the nervous system is the quickest & simplest way to navigate the relationship with ourselves. And we practiced some conscious breathing techniques to stimulate our parasympathetic nervous system via the vagus nerve.
We shared thoughts about how creating psychological space allows us to bring #empathy into the relationship with our team. And we swapped stories of how nonviolent communication shifts our relationships with stakeholders from heavy to human.
As preparation for the session, I wrote a blog post outlining the specific mindsets and practical techniques involved. So here it is.
Enjoy!
Thanks for your hospitality, Sanne! And thanks to everyone in the session for your engagement, vulnerability, and courage.
May all your relationships be happy, peaceful, free, and unconditionally loving 🙏🏼
#CreativeEmpathy #Leadership #PsychologicalSafety #NonViolentCommunication #Teamwork #BeyondDesign
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A: Hey kid, how was your first day of school? What subjects will you have?
B: Oh, it was so cool. Our main subjects will be #SocialPedagogy, #GroupDynamics, #PsychoEducation, #TraumaPedagogy and #NonViolentCommunication besides #Inclusion and #Diversity, which we started with today.
Other than that we'll have #ClimateJustice, #BlackHistory, #QueerFeminism, #anarchism, #RiotTraining, #solidarity, #degrowth, #PermaCulture, #ReduceRefuseRepair and a few others.
Didn't you always tell me school didn't teach you anything for real life? Well it's not like that anymore. -
🏡 Would you like to live in a community project? Do the principles of permaculture, Nonviolent Communication, and sociocracy resonate with you? Would you like to join us on the south side of Gorbea Natural Park? We have 8 ha of idyllic land with easy access to the city. We are looking for housemates to explore compatibility with and agree upon the founding statutes.
#permaculture #nonviolentcommunication #sociocracy #sintropicagriculture
#regenerativeagriculture #ecovillage #ecovillages #cohousing #community #solarpunk -
The Purpose of Nonviolent Communication: This is moving, beautiful, informative, and shared with love. <3
#NonviolentCommunication #Compassion #Empathy #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulLiving #PeaceBuilding #HumanConnection #ConsciousCommunication #SelfAwareness #OneCommunityGlobal
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I believe strongly in Non-Violent Communication as a framework for life.
One aspect of that is telling someone that their actions aren't meeting your needs in a way that is non-violent, such as "When you show up thirty minutes later than we said we'd meet, I feel frustrated because my need for respect, and safety aren't met. Can you give me your word that you'll show up on time from now on?"
The other person doesn't have to respond positively to your strategy, but if they don't, or get angry or respond in some other way that doesn't meet your need, then the onus is on you to decide what to do.
It moves control for getting your needs me from the other person back to you, and while that can be difficult at first, it's ultimately very empowering.
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I'm so grateful that years ago, I learned Non-Violent Communication.
While I'm not always able to do it, or always able to do it well, being able to put on my "giraffe ears" is a crucial skill not only in personal relationships, but it can be in business as well.
Understanding the needs of others, whether they're collaborative partners, potential customers, suppliers, or staff, can make a huge difference. It shifts problematic actions away from "Ugg they're so annoying" or "Why won't they just do what we want?" to "I wonder what need of theirs isn't being met that's leading to this communication from them?"
By understanding the needs behind the words, we can bring empathy and care where there was only annoyance and frustration.
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Dear _ ,
🕊️ How do we create your future, where 🌆 people have public conversations that glow with romance, joy, & respect? Nonviolent communication 💬 will be taught in schools, recovery, & everyday life. Maybe I wrote a letter to the school board 📩? 😄 What can I do to share this vision with local organizations & normalize kindness, curiosity, & connection? 💖 Does it happen after someone like me dares to ask for it... #NonViolentCommunication #ClimateRecovery #2SLGBTQIA #UBI #LoveIsRadical 🫶📚🗣️🌍
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Talk about who's being targeted and the ways bad policies affect real people. "I feel bad for the refugees here legally who've been threatened by their neighbors and by politicians, like the Haitians in Springfield." Or "I feel terrible for the 26,000 women assaulted in Texas since abortions were effectively outlawed there who had to carry their attacker's child to term." Or "It seems wrong that trans kids and parents who have worked out treatments with their doctors are being told by more places that they can't get medical care anymore."
The more local you can make your statement, the better. Something in your own state, your own experience, or best of all, in your listeners' direct experience, the more powerful it will be. The farther away in time, distance, or familiarity, the harder it will be as an entry point to a real conversation.
https://degenerateart.beehiiv.com/p/fighting-words
#NonviolentCommunication #NVC #ChangingMinds #Health #Psychology #MAGA #Trump #Democrats #Democracy #Resistance
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Last night in our Nonviolent Communication study group we explored sincere gratitude - both giving and receiving.
It was a lovely module and I'm encouraged to more openly share with others when they have added beauty, care, understanding, compassion, joy to my life.
Speaking it out loud and connecting with those who create good in our worlds is critically important - now more than ever!
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Avoid defining reality
https://infighting.org/tools-and-practices/avoid-defining-realityThis is a common pitfall in dysfunctional relationships and volunteer groups with low relational competencies.
«We define someone’s reality when we communicate to them that we know what they think or feel better than they do. When we define someone’s reality, we believe and act as though we’re mind readers, as though we’re the expert on their experience.»
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When we don’t know how to directly and clearly express what we need, but can only make analyses of others that sound like criticism to them, wars are never far away - whether verbal, psychological, or physical. #nonviolentcommunication
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@CursedSilicon @rubenerd I’m worn out by the dreary and inevitable round of OS advocacy, with both ‘us’ and ‘them’ baying like wounded members of persecuted religious minorities, arguing about which OS is most worthy of our love and devotion. Any love we harbour for our gadgets is unrequited and generally tragic – not least because we are not destined to have a long-term love-affair with your gizmos, as they will be semi-obsolete in a year or two.
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Still no understanding of the role that violence plays in frustrating e.g. managers' and change agents' plans. Or even what constitutes "violence" - and its counterpoint "nonviolence".
https://flowchainsensei.wordpress.com/2012/12/18/what-is-violence/
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My friends tell me they feel comfortable talking about their feelings, needs and boundaries with me.
Now THAT is a compliment!!
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@radkolumne ich finde reden jetzt nicht grundsätzlich schlecht.
es kommt auf das wie an.
welche andere Methode kann so Verstehen bewirken wie der Austausch von Worten?Können wir bitte auch wenn es schwer fällt, auch bei Menschen, die rasen, andere hassen oder verletzen/töten, nicht vergessen, dass es Menschen sind? Man vergisst das leicht, wenn man Label verwendet.
#nonviolentcommunicationNonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg's NVC Training
