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  1. A little update about the law situation I posted about a few weeks ago.

    It turns out my name is on the deed. I'm hopefully going to hear from an attorney this week! I'm so nervous and excited about this. I AM entitled to half of what my parents sell this property for. I will fight for this. I have a good attorney on my side who will fight for me.

    I'll update y'all more after I get a call back from my attorney.

    #USlaw #law #nocontact #anxious #realestatelaw

  2. I received a phone call from a law office yesterday. Apparently when my mother passed away she left me property that she owned with my dad. The law office contacted me to ask me to take my name off the deed. I've been #nocontact with my parents for over 5 years now. I honestly don't remember if I've been told about this property at all.

    Would it be worth fighting them on this? Is it worth going to court to get my dad's name off the deed? It would be amazing to get some extra cash from the sale of this property. The property in question has been for sale since December, but my parents didn't contact me until now and even that contact was through a secretary...

    #askfedi #askmastodon #lawadvice #USlaw #usa #familydrama

  3. 🧵I am an adult child who has issues with both of my parents but is no contact with only one, and I'll tell you what the difference is.
    #abuse #nocontact #cptsd #ptsd #trauma #family #relationships

  4. CW: naughty words

    Shout out to everyone who's alone on #Christmas day for good reasons instead of depressing ones. May you enjoy many more without the toxic cunts you finally cut out of your life. Cheers!

    #JoinIn #NoContact #HappyHolidays

  5. New #PsyberSpace episode: Going No Contact - Why Adult Children Are Choosing Their Mental Health Over Family

    Research findings:
    -27% of adults are estranged from family
    -68% feel significant stigma about it
    -Adult children cite abuse and lack of acceptance
    -Parents blame third parties 80% of the time

    bit.ly/4arBwux

    #FamilyEstrangement #MentalHealth #Psychology #NoContact

  6. New #PsyberSpace episode: Going No Contact - Why Adult Children Are Choosing Their Mental Health Over Family

    Research findings:
    -27% of adults are estranged from family
    -68% feel significant stigma about it
    -Adult children cite abuse and lack of acceptance
    -Parents blame third parties 80% of the time

    bit.ly/4arBwux

    #FamilyEstrangement #MentalHealth #Psychology #NoContact

  7. New #PsyberSpace episode: Going No Contact - Why Adult Children Are Choosing Their Mental Health Over Family

    Research findings:
    -27% of adults are estranged from family
    -68% feel significant stigma about it
    -Adult children cite abuse and lack of acceptance
    -Parents blame third parties 80% of the time

    bit.ly/4arBwux

    #FamilyEstrangement #MentalHealth #Psychology #NoContact

  8. New #PsyberSpace episode: Going No Contact - Why Adult Children Are Choosing Their Mental Health Over Family

    Research findings:
    -27% of adults are estranged from family
    -68% feel significant stigma about it
    -Adult children cite abuse and lack of acceptance
    -Parents blame third parties 80% of the time

    bit.ly/4arBwux

    #FamilyEstrangement #MentalHealth #Psychology #NoContact

  9. New #PsyberSpace episode: Going No Contact - Why Adult Children Are Choosing Their Mental Health Over Family

    Research findings:
    -27% of adults are estranged from family
    -68% feel significant stigma about it
    -Adult children cite abuse and lack of acceptance
    -Parents blame third parties 80% of the time

    bit.ly/4arBwux

    #FamilyEstrangement #MentalHealth #Psychology #NoContact

  10. Today is my #freedomday. 4 years ago I finally realised that my toxic parents were a major factor in my #CPTSD and I had no chance of healing while they were a part of my life. 4 years ago today I went #nocontact and it turned out to be the catalyst for all kinds of #mentalhealth discoveries and progress.

  11. It’s the first year in a long time where I wish I was teaching overseas again. Not because I miss teaching (I don’t) or any of the other things that drew me to overseas work… but it’s a lot easier to deal with a solo Christmas when your “family” are an ocean away and your friends are all in the same boat.

    It’s going to be my first Christmas going #NoContact with my family, and it sucks. The main reason is because I didn’t even say “don’t talk to me again” but instead I said that they need to apologize for the awful things they said to me the last time we spoke. That was 5 weeks ago. My parents have decided they’d rather say nothing. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  12. "If saying the truth ends a relationship, I think it's probably a relationship that needed to end."

    – Jeanette McCurdy

    #abuse #survivor #childabuse #abusive #survivingabuse #nocontact

  13. With #MatthewMcconaughey talking about it on #HowardStern, and apparently #JennetteMcCurdy (#iCarly) weighing in again having written the book "I'm Glad My Mom Died", I see people once again talking about going #NoContact, #LowContact, or #GreyRock with #parents, as in, shutting them out of your life and avoiding ever speaking to them again.

    If that doesn't sound like a thing you'd ever want to do, you probably had an actual relationship with both your parents beyond #abuse.

    I'm glad you did, but we didn't.

    For some, it's a long and painful process, which becomes liberating at the end, as we cut a source of lasting pain and ongoing harm out of our lives. For others, it's as easy as just not calling on the phone, because understand this: a lot of #AbusiveParents don't care.

    And that's something to remember here too: if you think this is hurtful to the parent, maybe it is, and that returned-hurt can even be part of healing. But for the majority? It doesn't hurt them, because they don't actually care.

  14. CW: USpol; liberals going low- or no-contact w/MAGA family

    This article makes a great jumping-off point for a few things I hope will help someone out there...

    salon.com/2024/12/18/going-no-

    🧵👇🏻 1/9

    #MAGA #family #LowContact #NoContact #abusers #LGBTQ #USpol

  15. Why So Many People Are Going “No Contact” with Their Parents:

    "A growing movement wants to destigmatize severing ties. Is it a much-needed corrective, or a worrisome change in family relations?" - The New Yorker
    archive.ph/aQVsm

    #nocontact #newyorker

  16. The #magistrate also ruled that as a special #condition of the #bond, #Trump should have #NoContact w/ #witnesses about the facts of the case except through their counsel. The govt will generate a list of such witnesses at a later date.

    Doubt TFG will adhere to either conditions.
    #ClassifiedDocuments #Obstruction #Espionage #NationalSecurity #DOJ #Legal #Justice
    nytimes.com/live/2023/06/13/us

  17. CW: Venting

    I don't feel safe.
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    I, as a 37 y/o white trans woman, who is employed, relatively stable, US citizen who lives in NY, in a loving and committed relationship, in good health, with support in every aspect of my life does not feel safe.
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    How must #Trans kids, #BIPOC trans people, the disabled, #Jewish people, etc. feel?
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    I can't even imagine. I need to keep pushing, keep fighting, keep pushing for truth and growth...but when is it going to be safe for me to stop running?
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    My girlfriend and I want to buy a house, but there is this voice in the back of my head that says, "Bitch, you are going to need to run someday soon, who TF do you think you are fooling? You ain't safe."
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    I am #NoContact with my mom and all of my siblings...she visits hers almost every weekend and texts with them daily...how can I ask her to up and disappear?
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    There are parts of me that tell me that I should just walk away when the time comes, because, I make her unsafe, and I am better off alone.
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    But I love her so much.