#narcissists — Public Fediverse posts
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Are there escape from #narcissists #psychopaths #darktriad help groups?
There must be somewhere to go where there is help from former victims who get it.
#Disabled &/or severely ill people too on a limited income. If I was healthy with money I wouldn’t be trapped here.
They’re all counseling after escaping.
I need to get out first! -
Are there escape from #narcissists #psychopaths #darktriad help groups?
There must be somewhere to go where there is help from former victims who get it.
Disabled &/or severely ill people too on a limited income. If I was healthy with money I wouldn’t be trapped here.
It’s all recovery groups. I need to escape first! -
Best use of #AI is replace managers. At least the AI won't be worse, than all the #narcissists on different levels of management.
No, I didn't say, all #managers are narcissists. But there are a lot of narcissists among them.
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27 words and phrases that people agree are overused and need to be retired in 2026
https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/words-that-should-be-retired-2026
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The last sentence is 💯 why we normal humans continue to be dominated by #narcissists. We did not learn from history, but they did.
"You would think,President of the United States would be enough....but no...he needs to be "served", adored, praised, worshiped like a pharaoh, king, Sultan, Emperor..really? Thought humankind,for the most part, had moved past this...."
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The last sentence is 💯 why we normal humans continue to be dominated by #narcissists. We did not learn from history, but they did.
"You would think,President of the United States would be enough....but no...he needs to be "served", adored, praised, worshiped like a pharaoh, king, Sultan, Emperor..really? Thought humankind,for the most part, had moved past this...."
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The last sentence is 💯 why we normal humans continue to be dominated by #narcissists. We did not learn from history, but they did.
"You would think,President of the United States would be enough....but no...he needs to be "served", adored, praised, worshiped like a pharaoh, king, Sultan, Emperor..really? Thought humankind,for the most part, had moved past this...."
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The last sentence is 💯 why we normal humans continue to be dominated by #narcissists. We did not learn from history, but they did.
"You would think,President of the United States would be enough....but no...he needs to be "served", adored, praised, worshiped like a pharaoh, king, Sultan, Emperor..really? Thought humankind,for the most part, had moved past this...."
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The last sentence is 💯 why we normal humans continue to be dominated by #narcissists. We did not learn from history, but they did.
"You would think,President of the United States would be enough....but no...he needs to be "served", adored, praised, worshiped like a pharaoh, king, Sultan, Emperor..really? Thought humankind,for the most part, had moved past this...."
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In the words of psychologist Adam Grant, "Believing conspiracy theories isn't always a sign of stupidity. It may be a mark of narcissism.
Grandiose narcissists want to feel special. "I know something you don't."
Vulnerable narcissists have self-centered paranoia. "Of all the people, powerful groups are out to get ME."
#narcissism #narcissists #NPD #narcissisticabuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #psychology #LetsTalkNarcissism #paranoia #paranoidpersonalitydisorder #paranoid
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In the words of psychologist Adam Grant, "Believing conspiracy theories isn't always a sign of stupidity. It may be a mark of narcissism.
Grandiose narcissists want to feel special. "I know something you don't."
Vulnerable narcissists have self-centered paranoia. "Of all the people, powerful groups are out to get ME."
#narcissism #narcissists #NPD #narcissisticabuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #psychology #LetsTalkNarcissism #paranoia #paranoidpersonalitydisorder #paranoid
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In the words of psychologist Adam Grant, "Believing conspiracy theories isn't always a sign of stupidity. It may be a mark of narcissism.
Grandiose narcissists want to feel special. "I know something you don't."
Vulnerable narcissists have self-centered paranoia. "Of all the people, powerful groups are out to get ME."
#narcissism #narcissists #NPD #narcissisticabuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #psychology #LetsTalkNarcissism #paranoia #paranoidpersonalitydisorder #paranoid
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In the words of psychologist Adam Grant, "Believing conspiracy theories isn't always a sign of stupidity. It may be a mark of narcissism.
Grandiose narcissists want to feel special. "I know something you don't."
Vulnerable narcissists have self-centered paranoia. "Of all the people, powerful groups are out to get ME."
#narcissism #narcissists #NPD #narcissisticabuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #psychology #LetsTalkNarcissism #paranoia #paranoidpersonalitydisorder #paranoid
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In the words of psychologist Adam Grant, "Believing conspiracy theories isn't always a sign of stupidity. It may be a mark of narcissism.
Grandiose narcissists want to feel special. "I know something you don't."
Vulnerable narcissists have self-centered paranoia. "Of all the people, powerful groups are out to get ME."
#narcissism #narcissists #NPD #narcissisticabuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #psychology #LetsTalkNarcissism #paranoia #paranoidpersonalitydisorder #paranoid
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I once had a Mgr.. long ago... She would send little cards with notes of gratitude or kudos.. and she would say something to the effect of 'keep this for later....when you might need to look at it again..."
She knew..
I did keep them. All of them... Still look at them from time to time.
In 40+ years of working in tech - she was the only one that did that.
So many BS, loudmouth, #narcissists #managers since.
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This is not much how a psychopath would do things. So she is acting the part. Which is a very #pickme vibe, and weird too.
Like who pretends to be a psychopath?
I guess #narcissists do?
Someone who is more after the conversation being about them, than the kind of careful impression management work that psychopaths do. -
Man makes a perfect case for why you'll find so many narcissists at church
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Inside lives of diagnosed #narcissists
Self-aggrandisement generally followed by crash when emotional & embarrassed by their behaviour, particularly vulnerable to criticism
Suspected they may have #narcissistic personality #disorder after researching symptoms online; finally diagnosed by a professional
If you tell somebody they have the disorder, they’ll deny it, especially if they experience feelings of superiority. I’m the greatest, nobody can question me
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In our quest to end #bullying of the weak, we might have forgotten something.
It's absolute crucial that there's as little bullying as possible. But #ridicule and #shame is also the one thing that works against batshit crazy dominator #narcissists, and even on some variations #psychopathic people.
I think in the old times people did see this aspect of bullying as well. We might have forgotten it.
How do we square these two aspects without hurting those that won't grow up to be nazis? 🤔
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Have you experienced #narcissistic #kindness?
#Narcissists can do the #nice thing—fix the car, buy the gift, plan the perfect dinner—but still leave you feeling #dehumanized. This video unpacks the confusion of when the narcissistic person is helpful, but cold, #dismissive, or even #cruel in the process.
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This article talks about how #narcissists use #DARVO to avoid #accountability
https://www.verywellmind.com/protecting-yourself-from-darvo-abusive-behavior-7562730
#abuseawareness #narcissism #LetsTalkNarcissism #MalignantNarcissist #NarcissistPsychopath #narcissist #SurvivingNarcissistAbuse #SurvivingNarcissistsAndPsychopaths
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Pay attention. These #Republican #narcissists tell you what they are scared most of; #Progressives and the #YouthVote electing #Democrats. They know #CharlemagneTheGod does a popular #podcast young #men listen to. He used coded language to signal to #Evangelicals. apnews.com/article/trum...
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#NovaraMedia #analysis of #UKgov #DisabilityWelfareCuts. #PIP #UC at 22:47 min. into this video.
#GifsArtidote: it's pointless arguing with #narcissists as their fundamental intentions are aimed to benefit them. #eugenics suit them, to cut the benefit bill through murdering claimants.
#IamDifferabled through generational #SystemicTrauma & #StateNeglect #MentalHealth #psychology #capitalism #ClassWar
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#NovaraMedia #analysis of #UKgov #DisabilityWelfareCuts. #PIP #UC at 22:47 min. into this video.
#GifsArtidote: it's pointless arguing with #narcissists as their fundamental intentions are aimed to benefit them. #eugenics suit them, to cut the benefit bill through murdering claimants.
#IamDifferabled through generational #SystemicTrauma & #StateNeglect #MentalHealth #psychology #capitalism #ClassWar
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👉Compulsory psychologic testing for public officials👈
*Like Moths to the Flame--The Rise of the #Pathocracy*(4/n)
...when searching pertinent #psychology articles to corroborate my hypothesis, I've just learned that these authors have already done that work 🤭:
"As the #psychologists #NiklasSteffens and #AlexanderHaslam put it,👉 “like moths to a flame, #narcissists may be drawn naturally to positions of #power and influence”👈.
Or as...
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#Thy has been on the #radio for six months. Turns out she isn’t real. Neither was my ex. #narcissists wear masks and #pretend to be what you want them to be. Why should #AI behave any different than a human? #broadcasting #media https://www.smh.com.au/culture/tv-and-radio/thy-has-been-on-the-radio-for-six-months-turns-out-she-isn-t-real-20250424-p5ltxi.html
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In essence, if any of histories great enlightenment males, like your Hemingways, Descartes and Aristotles saw what was going on, they'd recommend burning the system down to the ground.
When decadent, vein & degenerate males go on to a #podcast and abuse language by calling themselves "#stoic" (when the #stoics would have branded them as #narcissists, who the stoics said were the ones who destroyed #ancient #Greek #society), that's when we know the delusions and degeneracy #capitalism imposes.
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@DrALJONES Anyone who still thinks that Elon #Musk (lonE skuM) and his coterie of #narcissists act only with altruistic interests for the good of the public - was not paying attention. #PayAttention #SeekTruth
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Ey. Take your demoralizing elsewhere. May I recommend #Twitter? No, I'm not calling it X.
"The #left" as a #pejorative must stop, because the talking points are basically so vein and ignorant of the problems that is clearly a result of psy-ops. #ThinkTanks got in your brain, boy.
As for me, I reject the #degeneracy and delusions of grandeur that the average #oligarch has. They're #narcissists and #hedonists. I'm about freeing people from their clutches, not fashion a iron glove.
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Ey. Take your demoralizing elsewhere. May I recommend #Twitter? No, I'm not calling it X.
"The #left" as a #pejorative must stop, because the talking points are basically so vein and ignorant of the problems that is clearly a result of psy-ops. #ThinkTanks got in your brain, boy.
As for me, I reject the #degeneracy and delusions of grandeur that the average #oligarch has. They're #narcissists and #hedonists. I'm about freeing people from their clutches, not fashion a iron glove.
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Ey. Take your demoralizing elsewhere. May I recommend #Twitter? No, I'm not calling it X.
"The #left" as a #pejorative must stop, because the talking points are basically so vein and ignorant of the problems that is clearly a result of psy-ops. #ThinkTanks got in your brain, boy.
As for me, I reject the #degeneracy and delusions of grandeur that the average #oligarch has. They're #narcissists and #hedonists. I'm about freeing people from their clutches, not fashion a iron glove.
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Ey. Take your demoralizing elsewhere. May I recommend #Twitter? No, I'm not calling it X.
"The #left" as a #pejorative must stop, because the talking points are basically so vein and ignorant of the problems that is clearly a result of psy-ops. #ThinkTanks got in your brain, boy.
As for me, I reject the #degeneracy and delusions of grandeur that the average #oligarch has. They're #narcissists and #hedonists. I'm about freeing people from their clutches, not fashion a iron glove.
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You don't Say!
Bad day for Ron DeathSantis?Or just a waste of the good ol Legislators' time because soon things will all be in order, top down?
=> In rare move, Florida Republicans defy DeSantis on immigration
> The GOP-led state legislature shut down a special session ordered by the governor and overrode one of his vetoes.
#GQP #DeathSantis #immigration #Florida #TrumpVirus #sycophants #narcissists & #malevolent & #psychopathology
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This is IMO a great angle on the #masculinity debate:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XdlrAUIiHUEThey replace all the positive traditional male stereotypes with their own toxic traits.
Seems pretty straightforward: #narcissists consider themselves perfect, therefore everyone should strive to emulate their kind of manliness: loud, cold and aggressive.Any critique against their actions is seen not against them, but "against men". No self reflection necessary.
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(11/N) A fourth category of adversaries:
Intruders
#Intruders want to ignore your #boundaries at will, and their related actions to be unrestricted and without repercussions, for as long as possible. Additionally, satisfaction might be derived from any ineffective responses to their actions.
Controlling your assets at will, and having unrestricted access to them is their goal. Some are fantasizing about a relationship with you that would somehow entitle them to it. Sometimes, their actions include damaging, or destruction of, your assets, to inflict suffering upon you, or for revenge, or to gain notoriety.
This is a wide category that includes attention-getters; #narcissists and #stalkers; abusive, vengeful and jealous people; starstruck individuals seeking #parasocial interaction; thrill seekers; script kiddies; "OSINT" wannabees; swatters; vandals; and sometimes even potential employers.
(to be continued)
Start of this thread:
https://mastodon.de/@tuxwise/113503228291818865 -
I always disliked #MarkTwain or at least thought I did.
I hate #narcissists and #manipulators and he always seemed very high on those two traits.
What I just found out is that in his later years he was very #cynical, to the point of #mocking all of the #Abrahamic #religions! This is after god creates earth:
"Yes," said Satan, "I heard Him, but did not understand. What is animals, Gabriel?"
"Ah, how should I know? How should any of us know? It is a new word.”
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@usluck she wasnt there for him before now, during the #stormydanielstrial, etc
Now its clear he may win because of his #stagedassasination, back on stage with him.#weirdpeople - people who are only with you if it benefits them
#stagedMarriages
#narcissists #melaniaTrump #DonaldTrump #LewdMen #MoneyDrivenWomen #money #power #fame -
@shanselman
I learnt about the same thing happened with the #white #crowdstrike ceo in 2010 in a different company.
Was that #DEI too?#elonmusk #elonfanboys #narcissists #narcisissm #mentaldisorders #psychopaths #bigotry #hate #oppression #racism #racists #destroyingTheWorld
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@shanselman
I learnt about the same thing happened with the #white #crowdstrike ceo in 2010 in a different company.
Was that #DEI too?#elonmusk #elonfanboys #narcissists #narcisissm #mentaldisorders #psychopaths #bigotry #hate #oppression #racism #racists #destroyingTheWorld
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#ReactiveAbuse
#Narcissists don’t have empathy or self-introspect. It’s all about them. They gaslight, manipulate, isolate, turn others against you.
Research. The life you save may be yours“It’s often misunderstood because a victim’s reaction can make them look like the aggressor, but that’s the point. Abusers use reactive abuse to project blame onto the victim. Sadly, they are often believed and it can have severe consequences for the victim.”
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Strange Traits of People #Mentally #Abused By #Narcissists
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hi_C5zZE-Oo
Unravel the #traits that often emerge in individuals who have endured the complex web of #narcissistic #manipulation.
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@GottaLaff @Atticus1956 less so when they're #sociopathic #narcissists and potentially #Rabid
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Hm this looks like an interesting article—I’ve not found much good material on Jungian interpretations of Narcissist–Empath dynamics, but hoping this will lead to more
#Psychology #JungianPsychology #JungianArchetypes #Narcissists #Empaths
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Hm this looks like an interesting article—I’ve not found much good material on Jungian interpretations of Narcissist–Empath dynamics, but hoping this will lead to more
#Psychology #JungianPsychology #JungianArchetypes #Narcissists #Empaths
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Hm this looks like an interesting article—I’ve not found much good material on Jungian interpretations of Narcissist–Empath dynamics, but hoping this will lead to more
#Psychology #JungianPsychology #JungianArchetypes #Narcissists #Empaths
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CW: The Difference Between Narcissism and Neurodivergence, and Why Conflating Them Does Harm to the Neurodivergent (Part 1 of 2).
No response yet from the Eldritch.Cafe mod team, so I'm going to assume they're looking into the matter, in which case I'm certain they'll see things my way.
Still, there's no point in stopping advocating for #survivors of #narcissistic #abuse, because I'm not going to stop speaking out about these insidious attempts by #narcissists and their enablers to reclassify their antagonistic #behavior as #neurodivergent.
So, today, let's talk about a specific case of where the two might actually mix. One young woman posted to #Reddit's "Am I the Asshole" subreddit to ask whether she was an asshole for making her boyfriend a "childish score sheet." The link to the #AITA post is below:
Her boyfriend, as far as she knows, is diagnosed with #ADHD, and he struggles to keep up with chores around the house. That makes sense; neurodivergent people with ADHD do struggle to keep their tasks in order and to get them done on a routine. Routines aren't habits we (I'm #AuDHD) can just internalize. They're things we have to actively think about and do, and this can be exhausting.
If you have ADHD, you get this. But you also know that you have strategies for getting things done anyway. You have sufficient empathy to realize that your inability to track tasks mentally can put an undue burden on others in your household, so you do whatever you can to mitigate your difficulties. You might ask for help by getting family members or housemates to remind you about things that need to get done. You might have lists that you keep on your person or in your room, or you might have apps that beep reminders at you when something needs doing.
My boyfriend and I both have ADHD (although my ADHD comes with autism and his doesn't), and we work together to help each other out both with chores in the house and for dealing with our other responsibilities. For example, I don't wait for him to notice something nice I did for him because I know that he won't. Instead, I'll show him what I did and allow him to respond appropriately to that thing. And he will kindly remind me of things that I need to get done and, as needed, help me plan out when that thing will happen and how.
But in this story from AITA, this young woman has tried all of these strategies and more, but none of them have worked. If you pay attention to the woman's story, you may notice that the strategies didn't fail because her boyfriend's ADHD is too severe. They failed because he invariably has an excuse not to do them. Apps would stress him out; OK. Apps stress me out too, so I don't do apps. Instead I do something else: email reminders, since I always check my email in the mornings, work very well for me. My boyfriend likes to have little get-togethers in the mornings to discuss what he needs to get done for the day; this is what works for him, and it doubles as nice partner hangout time.
So while my boyfriend and I have strategies to deal with the negative results of our ADHD, the woman's boyfriend in this story rejects any attempt to correct his behavior by any means. The woman also notes that he doesn't appear to struggle to accomplish tasks at work. To some extent, that makes sense, since work is a more structured environment. But most bosses won't give you reminders before reprimanding you, and they certainly won't make task lists for you, so one would imagine a girlfriend who does do that should be able to obtain some measure of positive result for her efforts. Also, #neurodivergence isn't context-dependent. If you're #kinetic (ADHD without the attached stigma of calling it a "disorder"), you're kinetic at work, at home, at the park, in the shower, playing video games, and while in bed. If, in fact, the young woman's boyfriend is more effective at keeping organized and task-oriented at work, one has to wonder whether his ADHD was misdiagnosed.
But let's assume that it was correctly diagnosed. Or that it was self-diagnosed, and we take the woman's boyfriend at his word that he is right to have done so (as we must to avoid gatekeeping behavior). Then the boyfriend's behavior would still indicate antagonistic, entitled behavior because he refuses to take any action in order to change anything about his current home situation. He is not motivated to change anything about the fact that his girlfriend must literally do everything for him because right now, he is being taken care of and does not consider this an issue.
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#personalityDisorders #pseudoScience #ableism #stigma #clusterB #psychology
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📯 📯 📯C📯 📯
W00 H00!!
📯 📯 📯 📯 📯We have not yet reached
100 #CarymaNgo targets!And by "woo hoo" I mean:
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK! because we ARE at ninety-seven.NINETY-FUCKING-SEVEN.
I'm sure that is totally normal in some circles 🤷🏾♀️ and I imagine that some people will cling to the "it's each and every one of them, not her," 🙃 but holy shit.
Okay, I need people to make sure to keep me apprised, because it's coming soon. Likely before the 2nd Chinatown Shit Showiversary.
What are we going to give the 100th Target? Should we crowdfund for a gift basket or something?
