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Trusting people to help more than the Trumps of the world?

==================================
LIST TO CONSIDER WRITING
for yourself and others to help:
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NEEDS ➡️ Any personal problems / challenges / 'I could never know how to get to this point?'
(as a need)

People can send offers (things they might do daily anyway!)

OFFERS ➡️ what you like doing daily already and maybe separately what you want to do more of (even if it's a bit far off now - as a dream / low chance of it happening but as "need" you need to keep working on it in doing "something"
(as an offer)

Thanks - this helps see more your side and offer you a checklist as yes / no / maybe on your side after...

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SHORT INTRO TO THAT...

AND LONGER IF NOT HAPPY WITH THAT...

("things to do for you" in both meanings of that to do yourself and for others to help with that list which becomes part of the #ecosystem of helping itself for "US" as over more-human people, not just alone in a cold system.

So talking and doing more together IS FEEDING our own "system" and #mutuality grows as part of sending that to the world / #fediverse (even if that's just helping good people one-way and not wanting anything back).

Could be like "ok done" !

CONSIDER WRITING A LIST

(optionally more writing below if you don't see why saying and doing things is a better #ecosystem of trust rather than not trusting the Trump(s) out there surely not going to do it! )

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LONGER / EXPLAINED MORE:

People often don't get that when I ask what their problems / things-to-do are, because they think it's only their problem and not common relativity / systematic cause / humanistic things systems ignore) AND so whichever way you go or do things you MUST listen to people's things (or do the humanistic things) because the system or #Trump or whoever leader IS NOT GOING TO DO IT or listen! (shock horror :blobshock: at ALL the people on these #Zuckerberg / #Musk / #Bezos etc hashtags #begging / #hoping for top leaders to stop extracting / plundering from planet / people).

⛔ Stop that waiting. ⛔
️ ➡️ ✉ Send needs / offers ✉ ⬅️

So either way it's up to us to clean our laundry and even me to clean your boxer shorts! (I mean at least AIM to do something about everything and help ourselves/you/me do it alone after initial spark given at the start or just plain #handholding and saying 'done' at the end. It's not for everyone but I'm here for you.

#Tech people often don't get this unless it's like installing Linux for people... but it's similar in all parts of life...
So handholding in other ways means "I'm shit at this so feel free to do it for me and I'll see what I can do for others in same way"

#Payitforward style (and developing people not just tech)

I tend only to think in the now and 'me and you' and once I / we find similar I think that is the way. (just two more people honestly is enough... there's plenty <of our own work> to do (not the work of others / bad people).

The whole design of 'giving' anything to people as it is to take more from them in the end and so that's why everything you do away from people will cancel out the benefits or usage (even food) as the level / growth of people stagnate and systems become more killer efficient. It's Mind over Material Matter (we did enough Material and now people 'matter' more).

So lay our you lifetime's worth of 'things to do' and 'shit to fix' and hope someone will come along to fix it :)

And I'm available to fix your stuff or get it done seriously if you think you'll never do it (seriously seriously I can sorting text / files / editing / rearranging / donkey work if it helps get you to step 2 or 10 like a good garage clean out helps sort all other projects after that's done. Put your shame aside, Trump is winning meantime #friendships are not made (or even our shit is not done as fast as their #ENshitification actually spelt with two T's in the middle / 3 in total #ENshittification ).

DO IT NOW / ADD THIS TO YOUR LIST OF #FreeSchool #THINGSTODO

Boost / bookmark BUT don't forget (which is why anything now is better than nothing and I'll have a look)

Trusting people to help more than the Trumps of the world?

==================================
LIST TO CONSIDER WRITING
for yourself and others to help:
==================================

NEEDS ➡️ Any personal problems / challenges / 'I could never know how to get to this point?'
(as a need)

People can send offers (things they might do daily anyway!)

OFFERS ➡️ what you like doing daily already and maybe separately what you want to do more of (even if it's a bit far off now - as a dream / low chance of it happening but as "need" you need to keep working on it in doing "something"
(as an offer)

Thanks - this helps see more your side and offer you a checklist as yes / no / maybe on your side after...

================================

SHORT INTRO TO THAT...

AND LONGER IF NOT HAPPY WITH THAT...

("things to do for you" in both meanings of that to do yourself and for others to help with that list which becomes part of the #ecosystem of helping itself for "US" as over more-human people, not just alone in a cold system.

So talking and doing more together IS FEEDING our own "system" and #mutuality grows as part of sending that to the world / #fediverse (even if that's just helping good people one-way and not wanting anything back).

Could be like "ok done" !

CONSIDER WRITING A LIST

(optionally more writing below if you don't see why saying and doing things is a better #ecosystem of trust rather than not trusting the Trump(s) out there surely not going to do it! )

================================

LONGER / EXPLAINED MORE:

People often don't get that when I ask what their problems / things-to-do are, because they think it's only their problem and not common relativity / systematic cause / humanistic things systems ignore) AND so whichever way you go or do things you MUST listen to people's things (or do the humanistic things) because the system or #Trump or whoever leader IS NOT GOING TO DO IT or listen! (shock horror :blobshock: at ALL the people on these #Zuckerberg / #Musk / #Bezos etc hashtags #begging / #hoping for top leaders to stop extracting / plundering from planet / people).

⛔ Stop that waiting. ⛔
️ ➡️ ✉ Send needs / offers ✉ ⬅️

So either way it's up to us to clean our laundry and even me to clean your boxer shorts! (I mean at least AIM to do something about everything and help ourselves/you/me do it alone after initial spark given at the start or just plain #handholding and saying 'done' at the end. It's not for everyone but I'm here for you.

#Tech people often don't get this unless it's like installing Linux for people... but it's similar in all parts of life...
So handholding in other ways means "I'm shit at this so feel free to do it for me and I'll see what I can do for others in same way"

#Payitforward style (and developing people not just tech)

I tend only to think in the now and 'me and you' and once I / we find similar I think that is the way. (just two more people honestly is enough... there's plenty <of our own work> to do (not the work of others / bad people).

The whole design of 'giving' anything to people as it is to take more from them in the end and so that's why everything you do away from people will cancel out the benefits or usage (even food) as the level / growth of people stagnate and systems become more killer efficient. It's Mind over Material Matter (we did enough Material and now people 'matter' more).

So lay our you lifetime's worth of 'things to do' and 'shit to fix' and hope someone will come along to fix it :)

And I'm available to fix your stuff or get it done seriously if you think you'll never do it (seriously seriously I can sorting text / files / editing / rearranging / donkey work if it helps get you to step 2 or 10 like a good garage clean out helps sort all other projects after that's done. Put your shame aside, Trump is winning meantime #friendships are not made (or even our shit is not done as fast as their #ENshitification actually spelt with two T's in the middle / 3 in total #ENshittification ).

DO IT NOW / ADD THIS TO YOUR LIST OF #FreeSchool #THINGSTODO

Boost / bookmark BUT don't forget (which is why anything now is better than nothing and I'll have a look)