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  1. DATE: July 8, 2026
    SOURCE: AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION

    TITLE: No one knows how to deal with anyone else’s kids anymore

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

    Interacting with children has gotten a lot less intuitive, even if you’re a parent yourself.

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

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  2. DATE: July 8, 2026
    SOURCE: AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION

    TITLE: No one knows how to deal with anyone else’s kids anymore

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

    Interacting with children has gotten a lot less intuitive, even if you’re a parent yourself.

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

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  3. DATE: July 8, 2026
    SOURCE: AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION

    TITLE: No one knows how to deal with anyone else’s kids anymore

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

    Interacting with children has gotten a lot less intuitive, even if you’re a parent yourself.

    URL: vox.com/advice/494503/interact

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    Unofficial Psychology Today Xitter to toot feed at Psych Today Unofficial Bot @PTUnofficialBot

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    #psychology #counseling #socialwork #psychotherapy @psychotherapist @psychotherapists @psychology @socialpsych @socialwork @psychiatry #mentalhealth #psychiatry #healthcare #depression #psychotherapist #NoOneKnows #DealingWithKids #ParentingStruggles #ChildInteraction #ParentingTips #KidsBehavior #ModernParenting #FamilyDynamics #InteractingWithChildren #ParentAdvice

  4. Ah, the joys of modern parenting, where your newborn is just another node in your personal cloud infrastructure! 😅 Forget lullabies—it's all about versioned snapshots and sync methods now. Because, of course, every exhausted parent knows the key to raising a child is to treat them like an #overengineered database in a swamp. 💻🌿
    thepotato.tech/posts/i-put-my- #modernparenting #techhumor #cloudinfrastructure #parentingstruggles #HackerNews #ngated

  5. Ah, the joys of modern parenting, where your newborn is just another node in your personal cloud infrastructure! 😅 Forget lullabies—it's all about versioned snapshots and sync methods now. Because, of course, every exhausted parent knows the key to raising a child is to treat them like an #overengineered database in a swamp. 💻🌿
    thepotato.tech/posts/i-put-my- #modernparenting #techhumor #cloudinfrastructure #parentingstruggles #HackerNews #ngated

  6. Ah, the joys of modern parenting, where your newborn is just another node in your personal cloud infrastructure! 😅 Forget lullabies—it's all about versioned snapshots and sync methods now. Because, of course, every exhausted parent knows the key to raising a child is to treat them like an #overengineered database in a swamp. 💻🌿
    thepotato.tech/posts/i-put-my- #modernparenting #techhumor #cloudinfrastructure #parentingstruggles #HackerNews #ngated

  7. Ah, the joys of modern parenting, where your newborn is just another node in your personal cloud infrastructure! 😅 Forget lullabies—it's all about versioned snapshots and sync methods now. Because, of course, every exhausted parent knows the key to raising a child is to treat them like an #overengineered database in a swamp. 💻🌿
    thepotato.tech/posts/i-put-my- #modernparenting #techhumor #cloudinfrastructure #parentingstruggles #HackerNews #ngated

  8. Ah, the joys of modern parenting, where your newborn is just another node in your personal cloud infrastructure! 😅 Forget lullabies—it's all about versioned snapshots and sync methods now. Because, of course, every exhausted parent knows the key to raising a child is to treat them like an #overengineered database in a swamp. 💻🌿
    thepotato.tech/posts/i-put-my- #modernparenting #techhumor #cloudinfrastructure #parentingstruggles #HackerNews #ngated

  9. Parenting Is Not as Selfless as We Like to Believe

    Few ideas are as deeply embedded in our culture as the notion of parental sacrifice.

    We hear it from childhood. Parents sacrifice sleep, money, time, opportunities, hobbies, careers, and sometimes entire dreams for the sake of their children. Popular culture celebrates it. Religion glorifies it. Family conversations reinforce it. Gratitude toward parents is often framed through the lens of what they gave up so their children could have a better life.

    Most of us accept this narrative without question because, on the surface, it appears undeniably true.

    Parents do sacrifice.

    They wake up in the middle of the night to crying babies. They worry about illnesses, school admissions, friendships, careers, relationships, and futures that are not their own. They spend decades investing emotional, physical, and financial resources into another human being with no guarantee of any return.

    But the older I get, the more I wonder whether our understanding of parental sacrifice is incomplete.

    Not wrong. Incomplete.

    Because while we spend enormous amounts of time discussing what parenting costs, we spend remarkably little time discussing what parenting provides.

    And what it provides may be among the most valuable things a human being can experience.

    The Story We Tell About Parental Sacrifice

    The conversation usually begins with what parents give up.

    A promotion was declined because it required relocation. A business opportunity was abandoned because it demanded too much travel. The hobbies that disappeared. The uninterrupted weekends that vanished. The vacations are designed around children’s interests rather than their own.

    All of these are real sacrifices.

    But sacrifice alone does not explain human behavior. People do not endure hardship simply because they enjoy suffering. They endure hardship because they believe something on the other side of that hardship is worth having.

    A young entrepreneur may work eighteen-hour days for years.

    An athlete may spend decades training relentlessly.

    A researcher may dedicate an entire career to solving a problem that most people do not even understand.

    From the outside, these lives look filled with sacrifice.

    Yet nobody describes them purely in those terms because we recognize that the struggle itself is connected to something deeply meaningful.

    The entrepreneur gains purpose.

    The athlete gains achievement.

    The researcher gains intellectual fulfillment.

    The sacrifice is real.

    So is the reward.

    Parenting is often treated differently.

    We focus intensely on the sacrifice and almost never on the reward.

    That omission creates a distorted picture.

    Consider what happens when a child enters a person’s life.

    For many people, their priorities reorganize almost overnight. Things that once seemed important begin to feel trivial. Things they never considered suddenly become central. Their sense of identity expands. Their future becomes connected to something larger than their own ambitions.

    This transformation is often described as responsibility. But responsibility is only part of the story. What many parents are actually experiencing is meaning.

    Modern life has created unprecedented levels of comfort, convenience, and personal freedom. Yet despite all these advances, many people continue to struggle with a fundamental question.

    What is all this for? A career can provide purpose for a while. Financial success can provide satisfaction. Travel can provide experiences. Achievement can provide pride. But many people eventually discover that accomplishment and meaning are not always the same thing.

    Meaning usually comes from responsibility. It comes from feeling needed. It comes from belonging to something larger than yourself. It comes from investing in people rather than simply accumulating experiences.

    For countless parents, children become the answer to a question they may not even have known they were asking.

    Why am I here? What matters? What is worth sacrificing for?

    Parenthood provides an answer that few other experiences can match. This does not mean every parent consciously thinks in these terms. Most do not.

    But observe how parents talk about their children. Listen carefully and certain themes appear repeatedly.

    Pride. Hope. Purpose. Legacy. Continuity. Identity.

    A child is not simply another person in their lives. A child often becomes one of the primary lenses through which parents understand their own existence.

    The Empty Nest Reveals the Truth

    That reality becomes particularly visible when children grow up and leave home. The phenomenon of empty nest syndrome is fascinating because it reveals something important about parenting.

    If parenting were purely an act of giving, parents would feel only relief when their responsibilities ended. Instead, many experience grief.

    Not because they miss changing diapers or attending parent-teacher meetings. They miss being needed. They miss the role itself. They miss the structure and meaning that role provided.

    For decades, their lives were organized around raising another human being. Then suddenly that chapter begins to close. The sadness many parents experience is not evidence that parenting was a burden.

    It is evidence that parenting was deeply fulfilling. That fulfillment is precisely what we often ignore when discussing sacrifice.

    When Sacrifice Becomes Emotional Debt

    The cultural tendency to frame parenting as entirely selfless creates another problem. It subtly suggests that children owe their parents something in return. Not gratitude.

    Gratitude is natural and healthy. Something larger.

    A debt.

    Most people have heard some version of the phrase: “I sacrificed everything for you.”

    Sometimes it is spoken lovingly. Sometimes it is spoken during moments of conflict.

    But regardless of context, it carries an underlying implication. You owe me. And, the logic seems straightforward.

    If someone sacrifices for your benefit, surely some obligation follows. Yet this is where things become more complicated.

    Children did not choose to be born. Parents chose to become parents. Parents voluntarily accepted the responsibilities that accompanied the role. This does not diminish the magnitude of their sacrifices. It simply recognizes agency.

    The decision belonged to the parent. Not the child.

    This distinction matters because voluntary sacrifices are different from imposed sacrifices.

    When people choose a path because it provides meaning, fulfillment, identity, or purpose, the sacrifices associated with that path become part of the bargain.

    A physician sacrifices years to medical training. An artist sacrifices financial certainty. An entrepreneur sacrifices stability. A parent sacrifices freedom and convenience.

    But none of these sacrifices occur in a vacuum.

    Each one is exchanged for something the individual values more highly.

    The physician gains purpose. The artist gains expression. The entrepreneur gains autonomy.

    The parent gains something equally significant. A relationship that provides love, meaning, continuity, and connection.

    Love Is Rarely Purely Selfless

    Perhaps the real issue is that our culture struggles with the idea that love can be both selfless and self-interested at the same time.

    We tend to treat these concepts as opposites.

    Either parents sacrificed entirely for their children, or they benefited personally from parenthood. Perhaps the real issue is that our culture struggles with the idea that love can be both selfless and self-interested at the same time.

    But reality is rarely that simple.

    A mother can genuinely place her child’s needs above her own while simultaneously finding profound meaning in motherhood.

    A father can work tirelessly to support his family while also deriving pride and identity from being a provider.

    The existence of personal fulfillment does not invalidate the sacrifice. Nor does the sacrifice erase the fulfillment. Both can coexist.

    In fact, they usually do.

    This is true not only of parenting but of most meaningful relationships. Friendships enrich both people involved. Romantic relationships provide mutual benefits. Communities create belonging for those who contribute to them.

    Human beings rarely engage in long-term relationships that offer absolutely nothing in return.

    That is not selfishness. That is human behaviour.

    A More Honest View of Parenthood

    The more honest way to think about parenting may be this:

    Parents do not sacrifice for their children instead of themselves. They sacrifice for their children and themselves simultaneously. They sacrifice because loving another human being becomes one of the most meaningful experiences available to them. They sacrifice because the relationship itself enriches their lives. They sacrifice because what they receive often feels worth far more than what they give up.

    Seen this way, parental sacrifice becomes neither less admirable nor less beautiful.

    If anything, it becomes more understandable. The parent who wakes up at 3 a.m. for a sick child is not acting out of pure self-denial. They are acting out of love. And love itself is one of the deepest sources of meaning available to human beings.

    Perhaps the real myth is not that parents sacrifice. They unquestionably do.

    The real myth is that they receive nothing in return. The truth is far more interesting.

    Parenting is one of the few experiences in life where giving and receiving become almost impossible to separate. Parents give their time, energy, resources, and attention.

    In return, many receive purpose, identity, belonging, pride, connection, and meaning. Neither side of that equation diminishes the other.

    Both are true.

    And perhaps that is why parenting remains one of the most enduring human experiences. Not because it is selfless.

    But because the rewards are so profound that millions of people willingly accept the sacrifices.

    Generation after generation.

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  10. 💛 Not every dad feels instantly connected when their baby arrives.
    Some dads feel left out, unsure or disconnected in those early days and it’s more common than we think.
    When we acknowledge their experience, it can change everything.

    👉 Read more here:zurl.co/6Kcd7

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #DadLife #ParentingSupport #ModernParenting #NewDads #Fatherhood #ParentingJourney #FamilyLifeSA

  11. Catch BabyYumYum CEO & founder Amanda Rogaly live on stage at the Kids & Baby Expo 💛.

    The businesswoman and mother will be sharing candid insights and experiences that resonate deeply with parents.

    📅 1–3 May
    ⏰ 11:00 AM
    📍 Centre Court, Emperors Palace.

    👉 Don’t forget to get your tickets here:zurl.co/kJ115

    #BabyYumYum #KidsAndBabyExpo #AmandaRogaly #ParentingSA #MomLifeSA #ModernParenting #RealParenting

  12. Parenting is a journey filled with precious firsts💛. From your baby’s first smile to their first steps 👣.
    At BabyYumYum, we’re here to support you every step of the way with expert parenting advice, practical tips and trusted resources to help you raise happy and healthy little ones.

    For more tips, resources and parenting support, visit here: zurl.co/1ZGRh

    #BabyYumYum #Parenting #ParentingTips #ModernParenting #RaisingKids #Parenthood #MomLife

  13. Children are naturally inclusive — until the world starts giving them weird rules.
    Kids ask a lot of questions.
    About bodies. Feelings. Where babies come from. And things you definitely didn’t expect to explain before coffee.
    The Children’s Books — For Those Who Ask Why is a book series made for curious kids and the adults who suddenly have to answer their big questions.
    #parenting #parentlife #raisingkids #curiouskids #kidsaskquestions #childrensbooks #kidsbooks #parentinghumor #modernparenting

  14. Kids ask a lot of questions.
    About bodies. Feelings. Where babies come from. And things you definitely didn’t expect to explain before coffee.
    The Children’s Books — For Those Who Ask Why is a book series made for curious kids and the adults who suddenly have to answer their big questions.
    Because children will ask anyway.
    #parenting #parentlife #raisingkids #curiouskids #kidsaskquestions #childrensbooks #kidsbooks #parentinghumor #modernparenting

  15. Teenagers rarely pick up the phone anymore 📱!
    What might feel like rudeness is really just their way of communicating through texts and voice notes.
    The Conversation shares why understanding this shift can help adults connect with teens instead of clashing with them.

    👉 Read the full article here: zurl.co/wYu78

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #ParentingTeens #TeenCommunication #ModernParenting #StayConnected #FamilyTips

  16. Parenting is beautiful, but it’s also expensive and exhausting.
    BabyYumYum Premium brings you expert advice, exclusive perks and real savings to make the journey more rewarding.

    Read more to find out what’s inside BabyYumYum Premium this March: zurl.co/zPIh7

    #BabyYumYum #BabyYumYumPremium #ParentingSupport #ModernParenting
    #SAParents #ParentingCommunity

  17. Screens are part of everyday life, but balance is key. 📱💛
    When it comes to toddlers, it’s not just about how much screen time they get, but how and why it’s used. Small, intentional choices make a big difference.

    Read more here: zurl.co/CZrta

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #ScreenTime #ToddlerLife #MindfulParenting #ModernParenting

  18. Not all separated parents parent the same way 💛
    Understanding the difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting helps protect children and their boundaries.
    Read more here:zurl.co/xlTR9

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #ModernParenting #SeparatedParents #HealthyFamilies #BabyYumYum

  19. When kids don’t respond the first time you call or give them instructions, it’s not always stubbornness 🧠💭
    Amanda Rogaly, parenting expert and founder of BabyYumYum Parenting Portal, explains the real reasons children ignore instructions and how to respond calmly.

    💻 Read more here: zurl.co/Fg7xs

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #ParentingTips #KidsBehaviour #PositiveParenting #ModernParenting 🌈

  20. Parenting is not a personality trait you unlock and keep forever. It is a state you move through🤗. One minute you’re calm and collected, the next you’re negotiating over one shoe🧠👟.
    Take this quiz to get a playful peek into the type of parent you are today.

    Click the link to take the quiz: zurl.co/rLHvX

    #BabyYumYum #BYY #ParentingLife #RealParenting #MomLife #DadLife #ParentingHumour
    #ModernParenting #RaisingKids #ToddlerLife

  21. Fatherhood is evolving. 👨👧💗
    Across South Africa, more men are embracing the role of being stay-at-home dads, redefining what family balance really looks like.
    It’s a shift that’s breaking stereotypes, celebrating care, and reshaping modern parenting.
    Read the full article here 👉 zurl.co/BQqig

    #BabyYumYum #Fatherhood #StayAtHomeDad #ParentingJourney #ParentingInSA #SouthAfricanParents #ModernParenting #GenderEquality #FamilyWellbeing #ParentingAwareness

  22. Fatherhood is evolving. 👨👧💗
    Across South Africa, more men are embracing the role of being stay-at-home dads, redefining what family balance really looks like.
    It’s a shift that’s breaking stereotypes, celebrating care, and reshaping modern parenting.
    Read the full article here 👉 zurl.co/BQqig

    #BabyYumYum #Fatherhood #StayAtHomeDad #ParentingJourney #ParentingInSA #SouthAfricanParents #ModernParenting #GenderEquality #FamilyWellbeing #ParentingAwareness

  23. Fatherhood is evolving. 👨👧💗
    Across South Africa, more men are embracing the role of being stay-at-home dads, redefining what family balance really looks like.
    It’s a shift that’s breaking stereotypes, celebrating care, and reshaping modern parenting.
    Read the full article here 👉 zurl.co/BQqig

    #BabyYumYum #Fatherhood #StayAtHomeDad #ParentingJourney #ParentingInSA #SouthAfricanParents #ModernParenting #GenderEquality #FamilyWellbeing #ParentingAwareness

  24. Father Denied His Daughter A New iPhone But Bought One For Her Younger Brother, So She Questioned The Unfair Double Standard » TwistedSifter

    Unsplash/Reddit Modern parenting means deciding which requests are needs and which are just wants. So when one father’s…
    #NewsBeep #News #Mobile #aita #entitlement #entity #familydrama #favoritism #gifts #iPhone #modernparenting #modernproblems #phones #picture #Reddit #siblingrivalry #Technology #top #UK #UnitedKingdom
    newsbeep.com/uk/57402/

  25. Father Denied His Daughter A New iPhone But Bought One For Her Younger Brother, So She Questioned The Unfair Double Standard » TwistedSifter

    Unsplash/Reddit Modern parenting means deciding which requests are needs and which are just wa…
    #NewsBeep #News #US #USA #UnitedStates #UnitedStatesOfAmerica #Mobile #aita #entitlement #entity #familydrama #favoritism #gifts #iPhone #modernparenting #modernproblems #Phones #picture #Reddit #siblingrivalry #Technology #top
    newsbeep.com/us/72278/

  26. Father Denied His Daughter A New iPhone But Bought One For Her Younger Brother, So She Questioned The Unfair Double Standard » TwistedSifter

    Unsplash/Reddit Modern parenting means deciding which requests are needs and which are just wa…
    #NewsBeep #News #US #USA #UnitedStates #UnitedStatesOfAmerica #Mobile #aita #entitlement #entity #familydrama #favoritism #gifts #iPhone #modernparenting #modernproblems #Phones #picture #Reddit #siblingrivalry #Technology #top
    newsbeep.com/us/72278/

  27. My brother resides in the United Kingdom with his wife and children. Today, he completed installing FaceAge on his bedroom door, as a precautionary measure in case his kids unexpectedly enter the bedroom at an inopportune time.

    #FaceAge #SmartHome #HomeAutomation #ParentLife #Privacy #TechSolutions #UKFamily #BedroomSecurity #FacialRecognition #ModernParenting #HomeTech #PrivacyMatters #TechDad #SmartDoor #FamilyTech