#misgendered — Public Fediverse posts

When you witness someone saying anything openly, and #harmful or #offending just kindly remind them it's the #freespeech with #consequences and to exercise responsible speech.

Do I need to define 'responsible speech' for some people? I can; but it will be partially vague because I don't want to dictate it.

responsible speech would ideally,

a. be avoiding the spreading of anything that either disrespects ones personal #identity, or their personal #attractions including their sexual and not sexual attractions.

b. this use to be said more often on social media and discord, but using #genderedlanguage as an example, Usually you'l find calling anyone they/them if you don't know up front is a safe start. Usually the issue stems when you make a direct assumption of their gender, or when you start to conflict against a persons acclaimed identity after they officially told you (this is probably the worse because if you did #misgendered you could atleast have that accidental excuse, but arguing about someones identity is rude and harmful to #minorities .)

c. Not talking in support of things that are known for harming the planet. This could just start somewhere as simple as don't advocate for #littering. and then branching up to avoiding supporting #oilfactories. Maybe even deny #ai #datacenters

Last point.
c2.This c part actually isn't just about the planet but also humanity. so you'll want to avoid supporting ideologies that are harmful to people as well, such as #whitenationalism #nazism #fascism

Responsible speech is something I came up with a couple years ago, but idk if this is something that was already created. but it means as it sounds, just spread speech that is responsible. and not arguing about 'your right to just say whatever you want in a free country' (u.s) just to hate on marginalized people, that is not responsible.

#pridemonth #lgbt #lgbtq

"hot take #enby & #intersex people dont deserve to be #misgendered in the process of looking for #hrt resources because you guys wanna make e and t the "girl" and "boy" #hormones and only think about #perisex #peoples transitions"

https://www.tumblr.com/nando161mando/792614794967531520

@npr I think you meant “Watch her DAUGHTER compete,” right?
Because otherwise it doesn’t make sense. #misgendered

#ElonMusk’s #Trans #Daughter #VivianJennaWilson Calls Him a “#GrubbyLittleControlFreak”

Musk, who reportedly spent over 40 Billion dollars to #aid #Trump’s #election, #misgendered his #daughter on #Twitter and blamed the “#wokemindvirus” for her #transition.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Texas #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #Religion #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate #EmptyThePews

https://www.them.us/story/vivian-jenna-wilson-elon-musk-grubby-little-control-freak-2024-election

#ConvictedFelon #DonaldTrump #misgendered a #Latin #singer who then #dropped his #endorsement of Trump.

#Fans criticized #NickyJam for #sellingout to Trump, who opposes the #legalized #immigration measures that Jam once supported.

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2024/09/donald-trump-misgendered-a-latin-singer-who-then-dropped-his-endorsement-of-trump/

#DylanGurley, a 20-year-old #trans #woman, #stabbedtodeath in #Texas.

She was #misgendered in #media coverage, and a #medical report, according to the #HumanRightsCampaign.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #Hategroups #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate #Media #MoralPanic #HateSpeech #Hatecrimes #SayHerName

https://www.advocate.com/crime/dylan-gurley-transgender-woman-death

Yeah, I get upset about being misgendered every time I enter the public.

Trans people are played as a joke for that. But why am I the only unreasonable part in that situation? I'm trying desperately to communicate a masculine identity, and they're not even trying to understand me. Society is unreasonable for upholding the binary at every given chance, and never considering that not everyone is like them.

It's like constantly wearing sandpaper.

#trans #queer #misgendered #transmasc

#JKRowling says #lovedones ‘begged’ her to keep #antitrans #views to herself.

The sad little #author has #courted #controversy in recent years with her #polarising #views on #trans #rights. She has #mocked #genderneutral #language, #misgendered #trans people and #criticised #trans #individuals in front of a large #socialmedia #audience.

https://www.thepinknews.com/2024/05/29/jk-rowling-trans-lgbtq-the-women-who-wouldnt-say-wheesht-extract/

#LGBTQ+ #Employees Can’t Be #Misgendered or #Denied #Bathrooms at #Work, New #Federal #Rules state.

New #guidance from the #EEOC strengthens #protections for #transgender and #nonbinary #employees in #American #workplaces for the first time in 25 years.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Business #Workplaces #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate

https://www.them.us/story/lgbtq-employees-cant-be-misgendered-denied-bathrooms-federal-rules

#ÁfricaParrillaGarcía, a 25-Year-Old #Trans #Woman, Was #murdered in #PuertoRico in #February.

Few details about García’s #life are publicly available, as initial #Spanish-#language reports #misgendered her as a man, and used her #deadname. She is the first known #trans #woman to #die by #violence in #PuertoRico in 2024.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Transphobia #SayHerName

https://www.them.us/story/puerto-rican-trans-woman-killed-san-juan

#JKRowling #hatecrime #law #posts not criminal, #police say.

#PoliceScotland said JK Rowling’s #remarks in which she #criticised new #hatecrime #legislation and #misgendered several #trans #women were not “#criminal”

#NoPoliceAtPride

https://www.thepinknews.com/2024/04/03/jk-rowling-police-scotland-trans-social-media-posts-hate-crime-law/

#DanicaRoem #Misgendered by #Hateful #Virginia #LieutenantGovernor

#WinsomeEarleSears first #refused to #apologize for calling the #out #trans #lawmaker by a #male #pronoun, then #lied and #claimed she had "no #intent to #offend."

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #Religion #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate #EmptyThePews

https://www.metroweekly.com/2024/02/danica-roem-misgendered-by-virginias-republican-lt-governor/

#TheWhoolers, a #NewYork #Pizzeria Pays $25,000 to Settle #Trans #Worker’s #Lawsuit

#Transgender #cook claimed #managers and #coworkers #misgendered him, asked #invasive #questions, and compared him to a #pedophile.

#TransMen #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Business #Workplace #Hate #Bigotry #Discrimination #Transphobia

https://www.metroweekly.com/2024/02/new-york-pizzeria-pays-25000-to-settle-trans-workers-lawsuit/

#DragRace #star #MorphineLoveDion affirms they’re #nonbinary after being #misgendered online.

The drag star later told #Out: “I’m #nonbinary, more to the #femme side. It’s just something I’ve personally been more comfortable identifying as for years now.”

#Nonbinary #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #SocialMedia #Misgendering

https://www.gaytimes.co.uk/culture/drag-race-star-morphine-love-dion-affirms-theyre-non-binary/

#Students #protest #Virginia #schools #antitrans #policies.

“We will be #bullied and #deadnamed, and #misgendered”

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Virginia #Education #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/09/25/student-protest-virginia-anti-trans-policies/

#CharlieKirk calls #trans people a “throbbing middle finger to #God”

He also #deadnamed and #misgendered #trans #swimmer #LiaThomas while calling her an "#abomination."

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2023/09/charlie-kirk-calls-trans-people-a-throbbing-middle-finger-to-god/

#CNN #apologises after #journalists #misgender #DylanMulvaney in ‘unbelievably #bad’ #BudLight #report.

One of its reporters #misgendered Dylan Mulvaney multiple times during a segment on Bud Light.

— I seriously doubt they mean it, #CNN is not much better than #FoxNews any more.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Entertainment #Media #MoralPanic #HateSpeech #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #Transphobia #Misgendering

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/07/15/dylan-mulvaney-cnn-bud-light/

#Trans #lawyer and #activist #AlejandraCaraballo reported on Thursday that #moderators had hit her with a #TOS #violation for telling #antiLGBTQ+ #activist #IanMilesCheong his #face was “#nightmare #material,” but took no action against Cheong or other users who #harassed and #misgendered her that day.

#Trans #mother #singledout and #Misgendered by #Labour's #RosieDuffield after #ITV #News #interview ‘#subjected to #Horriffic #abuse on the #Toxic #SocialMedia #Hellsite #Twitter.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #UK #TERFS #Labour #SocialMedia #Hate #Bigotry #Transphobia #TERFIsland

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/06/30/rosie-duffield-trans-woman-itv-news/

#Starbucks #store #sacks #trans #worker who #accused #customer of #transphobia after reportedly being repeatedly #misgendered in #viral #footage, because she knocked the phone out of the hands of a self-admitted accomplice.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #UK #Business #TERFS #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Discrimination #Transphobia #TERFIsland

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/05/10/starbucks-sack-trans-worker-who-accused-customer-of-transphobia/

#Woman calls out #transphobes who shamefully #Misgendered and #trolled #cisgender #sister with stage-4 #breastcancer.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQIA #TERFS #Hate #Bigotry #Transphobia #TERFFails

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/04/27/tiktok-loren-schaffer-rosko-sister-cancer-transphobia/

#Montana's House speaker on Thursday refused to allow a #transgender lawmaker to speak about bills on the House floor until she apologizes for saying lawmakers would have "blood on their hands" if they supported a bill to ban #GenderAffirmingCare for transgender youth, the lawmaker said.

Rep. #ZooeyZephyr, who was deliberately #misgendered by a conservative group of lawmakers demanding her censure after Tuesday's comments, said she would not apologize.

#LGBTQIA
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/montana-zooey-zephyr-transgender-rep-silenced-by-republican-speaker/

I will not let being #misgendered by the clerk at #REI, even though a coworker gendered me correctly in front of him not five minutes earlier destroy me.

Damn, that shit just stings!

@grammargirl if the English language doesn't want to stagnate then it must move forward with the times.

"Their" has always been considered an option when referring to a singular person for whom you do not know their #gender

Having become a more popular #pronoun of late just makes it easier to avoid mis-gendering someone.

We've ALL been #misgendered at one time or another for longer or shorter hair. Not a good feel. I choose to be #considerate. 💜